Even if your partner hasn’t mentioned it yet, at this point she
is likely aware that something quite different from a vaginal/clitoral
orgasm is beginning to grow inside her. She may even feel some
apprehension because of not knowing what’s happening. So as
you continue to stroke the G-Spot, be sure to reassure her that
you are there, with her, in support of her, and remind her that you
love her. Tell her of how beautiful she is and how much you
enjoy taking this time to bring her pleasure. Not only will this
make her feel emotionally safe and secure and help her climax
sooner, it will also help her relax and lessen any guilt she may
feel because of all the unselfish time you’re spending. If she complains
about feeling guilty, tell her you’ll gladly let her return the
favor another time, but tonight belongs to her.
In most cases, aside from the initial, slight swelling of the G-Spot,
you won’t notice any changes inside the vagina. When dealing
with women who are new to the G-Spot orgasm, you’ll often find
the muscles in your forearm begin to burn before you feel the
first vaginal contraction squeezing against your finger. Most of
our survey respondents state “20 minutes” of G-Spot stimulation
was required the first time. So again, it’s time to utilize that
patience and self-control. You haven’t come this far to stop now.
And if you do stop now, you’ll likely disappoint your lover (who
is aware of this massive ecstasy burgeoning inside her).
As the G-Spot orgasm grows near—The Big-O—the first
thing you’ll notice is a constricting of the vagina that begins with
one of her “waves”. With the next wave the vagina will constrict
again, fade, then quickly return with the next wave, building and
building to a point where the vagina is so perpetually constricted
the muscles often spasm and quiver. Sometimes, the constricting
is so tight it will eject your finger! About the same time you
notice the first constriction, you’ll also likely notice a greater
sense of wetness. In fact, some women become very wet, to the
point the suction of the finger causes slurping noises and a clear
fluid actually begins to weep from the vagina. As we discussed
earlier, this is the wonder of female ejaculation.
If this occurs, you may notice the consistency of this fluid
differs from the normal milky lubricant produced by the vagina.
Your finger may loose it’s slickness, and since the area is so
sensitive, you may want to pause and quickly apply an approved
sexual lubricant. Have some lubricant available before things get
started. As a general rule, the slicker your finger stays, the better.
is likely aware that something quite different from a vaginal/clitoral
orgasm is beginning to grow inside her. She may even feel some
apprehension because of not knowing what’s happening. So as
you continue to stroke the G-Spot, be sure to reassure her that
you are there, with her, in support of her, and remind her that you
love her. Tell her of how beautiful she is and how much you
enjoy taking this time to bring her pleasure. Not only will this
make her feel emotionally safe and secure and help her climax
sooner, it will also help her relax and lessen any guilt she may
feel because of all the unselfish time you’re spending. If she complains
about feeling guilty, tell her you’ll gladly let her return the
favor another time, but tonight belongs to her.
In most cases, aside from the initial, slight swelling of the G-Spot,
you won’t notice any changes inside the vagina. When dealing
with women who are new to the G-Spot orgasm, you’ll often find
the muscles in your forearm begin to burn before you feel the
first vaginal contraction squeezing against your finger. Most of
our survey respondents state “20 minutes” of G-Spot stimulation
was required the first time. So again, it’s time to utilize that
patience and self-control. You haven’t come this far to stop now.
And if you do stop now, you’ll likely disappoint your lover (who
is aware of this massive ecstasy burgeoning inside her).
As the G-Spot orgasm grows near—The Big-O—the first
thing you’ll notice is a constricting of the vagina that begins with
one of her “waves”. With the next wave the vagina will constrict
again, fade, then quickly return with the next wave, building and
building to a point where the vagina is so perpetually constricted
the muscles often spasm and quiver. Sometimes, the constricting
is so tight it will eject your finger! About the same time you
notice the first constriction, you’ll also likely notice a greater
sense of wetness. In fact, some women become very wet, to the
point the suction of the finger causes slurping noises and a clear
fluid actually begins to weep from the vagina. As we discussed
earlier, this is the wonder of female ejaculation.
If this occurs, you may notice the consistency of this fluid
differs from the normal milky lubricant produced by the vagina.
Your finger may loose it’s slickness, and since the area is so
sensitive, you may want to pause and quickly apply an approved
sexual lubricant. Have some lubricant available before things get
started. As a general rule, the slicker your finger stays, the better.