Female Ejaculation

Even if your partner hasn’t mentioned it yet, at this point she
is likely aware that something quite different from a vaginal/clitoral
orgasm is beginning to grow inside her. She may even feel some
apprehension because of not knowing what’s happening. So as
you continue to stroke the G-Spot, be sure to reassure her that
you are there, with her, in support of her, and remind her that you
love her. Tell her of how beautiful she is and how much you
enjoy taking this time to bring her pleasure. Not only will this
make her feel emotionally safe and secure and help her climax
sooner, it will also help her relax and lessen any guilt she may
feel because of all the unselfish time you’re spending. If she complains
about feeling guilty, tell her you’ll gladly let her return the
favor another time, but tonight belongs to her.
In most cases, aside from the initial, slight swelling of the G-Spot,
you won’t notice any changes inside the vagina. When dealing
with women who are new to the G-Spot orgasm, you’ll often find
the muscles in your forearm begin to burn before you feel the
first vaginal contraction squeezing against your finger. Most of
our survey respondents state “20 minutes” of G-Spot stimulation
was required the first time. So again, it’s time to utilize that
patience and self-control. You haven’t come this far to stop now.
And if you do stop now, you’ll likely disappoint your lover (who
is aware of this massive ecstasy burgeoning inside her).
As the G-Spot orgasm grows near—The Big-O—the first
thing you’ll notice is a constricting of the vagina that begins with
one of her “waves”. With the next wave the vagina will constrict
again, fade, then quickly return with the next wave, building and
building to a point where the vagina is so perpetually constricted
the muscles often spasm and quiver. Sometimes, the constricting
is so tight it will eject your finger! About the same time you
notice the first constriction, you’ll also likely notice a greater
sense of wetness. In fact, some women become very wet, to the
point the suction of the finger causes slurping noises and a clear
fluid actually begins to weep from the vagina. As we discussed
earlier, this is the wonder of female ejaculation.
If this occurs, you may notice the consistency of this fluid
differs from the normal milky lubricant produced by the vagina.
Your finger may loose it’s slickness, and since the area is so
sensitive, you may want to pause and quickly apply an approved
sexual lubricant. Have some lubricant available before things get
started. As a general rule, the slicker your finger stays, the better.

You’re there! As the wetness increases, the vagina will begin
to convulse violently. As we mentioned, some women constrict so
hard it forces the finger out of the vagina! By this time your
lover will undoubtedly be thrashing wildly and screaming “Don’t
Stop! Don’t Stop! Oh, God don’t Stop!” or “Faster! Faster!
Faster!” But regardless of how frantic your lover becomes,
regardless of how excited you get by watching her ecstasy, try to
control your motions.
As she finally crests over the top, most women will scream. It
differs from the normal orgasm scream, being more of a guttural
“expelling” sound rather than the gasping breaths of standard
orgasms. If you can picture the grunting scream of a woman giving
birth, her head hunched forward, clenching her knees, you’re on
the right track. . . and at the same moment she cries out, if she
hasn’t already done so she may ejaculate. This is especially true
of G-Spot virgins. While it defies the findings of scientific
research, many of our respondents mention the first G-Spot
orgasm as the “wettest”—almost as if the fluid has been locked
up for years and you’re opening the dam, setting it free.
Our theory is that many of these couples simply don’t “work”
as hard on subsequent sessions as they did during the first G-Spot
experience. Emotional bonding or the duration of stimulation may
also play roles in determining the volume of fluid produced and
the intensity of the orgasm. While these subjects are worthy of
future exploration, they need not detain us here.
At this point, simply keep your finger moving until your lover
asks you to stop or the orgasm fades. Typically, she will ride that
wave for one or two full minutes, and the orgasm will lessen.
When you see this event, you will be completely rewarded for
all your “work”. Just watching her writhe and knowing the intense
pleasure you are helping to provide is a great reward in itself.
Most men will want to join her as they sense this wave fading.
The change from a finger to a swollen penis may delight her. . .
and by this point, having watched her thrash and scream, feeling
the warm wetness on your finger and hand, your self-control will
likely be gone. So as long as she’s willing, jump in and enjoy the
orgasm with her. Feeling a wet, contracting vagina sucking at the
penis can be an experience neither of you forget!

Directly after the orgasm, a few women pass through a phase
called “the little death”. This phase is a 5 to 10 second period in
which the woman may appear to faint and/or seems to stop
breathing. If this occurs, don’t panic. Women who have passed
through “the little death” frequently state they were so overwhelmed
with pleasure they “floated in delirium” for a brief period.
Other women may have a tendency to “pant” briefly before or
during the orgasm, resulting in either hyperventilation or
hypoventilation. In either case, a combination of the tremendous
release of stress, sudden slowing of the heart, and a re-direction
of oxygen-rich (or suddenly depleted) blood cells can bring about
“the little death”.
After 5 or 10 seconds, your lover should dreamily open her
eyes. When you ask if she’s okay—and you should—she’ll likely
tell you everything is fine, that she was simply enjoying the
moment.
If your partner does actually faint and remains unresponsive
for more than 15 or 20 seconds, you may have a medical emergency
on your hands and should contact medical assistance immediately.
Again, as a responsible party, it is your duty to know your partner’s
health status before engaging in sexual activity.

There you have it, let me know how you get on

doubtful said:

Directly after the orgasm, a few women pass through a phase called “the little death”. This phase is a 5 to 10 second period in
which the woman may appear to faint and/or seems to stop
breathing.

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Damn, I guess so. Sometimes JEN would go through this like 8-9 times in one session. I never saw all these additions to this thread, great job guys.

I wonder why the femail ejaculation is not publicised in the media so much. Theres no way a guy in this day and age hasnt seen some magazine article or program on TV about stimulating the G spot and heard of G spot orgasms at the very least! ...This is the 21st century after all and guys even wash up!... But loads of people still dont really know what it is...unless of course youve had 1st hand experience, like some of you lucky buggers. Yet another thing to add to my 'to do' list

yo it fuckin pisses me off.

i know my girl can but shes always like "i feel like i have to pee" and she stops me n shit!

i think shes embarrassed or sumn

it REALLY pisses me off, i jus want her to be comfortable

This kinda sucks...first off, my girl cant have more than one orgasm. Ever since I have been reading "guides" about cunnilingus, 99% of them state, "...and after the 5th orgasm, you will be ready to..." and I dont understand why they think every woman can have multiple orgasms. After I go down on my girl, and she orgasms, about 5 seconds after the orgasm, she pushes my head away. If I keep trying to play with her, she will give me a slap in the head because she says it is too ticklish, and I cant even touch her down there. My ex before her could have multiple orgasms, but oh well...Im just whining.

Just like us men, all women are different man. I've dated girls who could not orgasm no matter what I tried. Then, again my last ex was very easy to get off from 'only' penetration. She didnt like getting oral, but she would cum very quickly and multiple times from vaginal sex.

AARES, my wife of 20 years is exactly the same. Only one orgasm and then she becomes overly sensitive. When I penetrate her, she can make herself come within 3 minutes, but then she's done and wants me to come at the same time or ASAP. However, when I continue on she loves the added length and girth I have been working on and she grabs me and pulls me in hard. I try to last longer though. Any input from experienced guys appreciated.

I think with time and practice every woman in capable of ejaculating and becoming multi-orgasmic. The largest limiting factor is the mental piece for the woman. I think woman who do not reach orgasm or only have a single orgasm have to really feel comfortable with their mate but also be able to completely and absolutely relax while having intercourse. I really had to encourage JEN to allow herself to experience this. She was scared that she would urinate and as this feeling approached she felt dizzy and on the verge of passing out. These things were enough for JEN to tense up and not allow for the next level of orgasm. We have a very open, honest relationship and when we discussed these things I was able to help her feel comfortable and secure enough to let loose and let the feeling happen. After this she was there, she had experienced her very first multi-orgasm that included ejaculation. Needless to say she was ecstatic (so was I) Getting over this mental hump gave her the confidence to allow this to happen each time with little effort.

A lot of it comes down to trust and feeling open enough to just..well...let it riiiiiiip!

I think a lot of womens sexuality comes down to their first few sexual experiences. I think if a women has had initially a few bad experiences, which could be anything from feelings of self-consciousness to pain to just simply nervousness, then this can effect how she deals with further sexual encounters even if it subconsciously. The best a guy can do is to spend as much (unselfish) time on her to make her feel cared for and relaxed in order to help her open up sexually.

Anybody had any luck with this at all?
Jen, is there a point of no return

Thanks

I can't BELIEVE i just found this post!!
I love watching chicks squirt and have downloaded a couple vids of this. well one girl same (squirted - HUGE) several times and i started REALLY paying attention to what she was doing - you know . . .research.
Well it payed off, I met this girl online a few months ago and we hit it off - she's a only 18, a virgin, and due to her religeous beliefs will be till marriage. BUT she's INCREDIBLY horny, so like any sexually mature healthy woman, she takes matters into her own hands (sorry - to easy to pass up).
Being so inexperienced, she doesn't know anything about well anything she rubs her clit, and sometimes fingers herself until she orgasms, then drifts off to sleep. Well enter NymphoMan!! (uh- that's me, is nymphomaniac gender specific?). Originally we'd play together online, but now it's moved up from cyber sex to phone sex she lives halfway across the country, and we'll be getting together this summer, but even then, like the song goes - No huggin' No Kissin' till she gets a wedding ring!!. But recently she mentioned that sometimes she's SO horny that one O isn't enough, but her clit's so sore after mastubation that it hurts to much to go again. NympoMan to the rescue!!
Now, I usually like to keep my "tricks" to myself - you know - let her learn about my skills the hard way, with panting, sweating, screaming, mind blowing, earth shattering orgasms. but since I'm not going to be having real sex with her i decide to give her a special treat.
I introduce my darling to her G-spot. This was just last Friday night, I asked her to just try my ida and see if she liked it, told her how to find it, told her several different ways to stimulate it, told her NO CLIT unless she can't cum without it. Sure enough, within a few minutes she has her first G spot orgasm. THEN comes the best part she's telling me "Oh god it was SO good, I loved it, Thank you so much," etc. etc. then I give her the . . . "Did I tell you to stop?" She gasps, then giggles then starts up again, a few min later, just before her next O i told her to not stop, keep going through the O and afterwards, just don't stop, presto - multiples! Still with no clit work, the next night she calls me to play again. And I decide it's time to go for the gusto (I'm not really sure what gusto is - but it must be good the way everyone's always after it!) we do the same work, start with the G, but then after a minute or two add the clit, and jsut as the O starts coming on, I tell her what to do when it hits . . .
A reverse kegel! just like she's forcing pee out, take a breath (not too deep), hold it, bear down, and just as the orgasm hits PUSH! HARD!
And just like that my web sweetie, who's never had a cock, never been given an O from another person, never even HEARD of the G spot three days before, had the most intense orgasm of her life, and squirted all over herself. i believe her exact words were (when she could speak again) . . . "Oh my God I exploded!"
So for the record - it can be taught, this is the first girl I've met since coming up with the technique that i've actually tried it on, but I'd call that a VERY successful test run.
However, it should be noted, that I had her continue (once the paralysis wore off - YES she was incapable of moving - except for the trembling), and the next two times, just as she was approaching orgasm, she started to push and the O sort of "slipped away", it wasn't until the third time she was able to orgasm and ejaculate again so it may involve a bit of timing that takes a bit of practice.

Thanks to DLD and Supra for post #5. After I "discovered" that female ejaculation might be teachable, I started doing more indepth research and had previously come across that info somewhere, nevertheless it was tremendously valuable infomation. One brief note - after the heading TECHNIQUES, the first paragraph, the G spot will not neccesarily be enlarged at first, it doesn't seem to swell until after it's been directly stimulated, but can be found easily as the skin texture is a bit rougher and covers an area about the size of a nickle. TECHNIQUES paragraph 3, strokes - gentle circles are great for initial stimulation, and once it swells i like to use two fingers, strumming side to side increasing pressure and speed as she approaches O, finally . . . TECHNIQUES paragraph 4, it's very unusual for a woman to "bear down" during O. The instinct seem to be to squeeze like a kegel as the muscles are contracting on their own, so she needs to be told to deliberately push during O.

i'm going to meet my little geyser this summer, I respect her desire to be a virgin til marriage and would never press the issue. But I'm hoping she permit oral - I'm DYING to have her exlode all over me.
BTW . . . after Saturdays juicy adventure - she proposed.

Gimme9 said:

I'm DYING to have her exlode all over me.

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Hey yeah.. sick question and dumb but do girls really ejaculte? I've heard many times that they do, and many times that they don't. Also if they do, do they do it as much as men because I heard it takes a while longer for woman to cum than men.

Gotta teach me here, i dont have an older brother to tell me!

I do, if that counts as anything.
Mwahahaha.

ugh l0l

My girlfriend cums a lot. The bed is soaked after a sex session. Most the time she just cums from me fingering her hard and fast but she does now and again when I fuck her. She doesn't orgasm a lot though. She use to be really hard to please and I could never make her cum or orgasm but now it seems a lot easier. It's pretty easier to make her cum now but quite hard to make her orgasm.

Damn provider you just made me feel like i didnt know nothing about women there/s a difference between cumming and orgasm i thought they were the same.