Hi Any Other Black Guys Out There Feel Small Because Of The Sterotype?

alpinefruits;380439 said:
Might be a little late to this thread, but I'm giving my two cents, to open your eyes a bit.

I grew up in Europe, a country with a very homogenous population, all white, all tall, men and women. When my buddies were 6 ft tall, I was 5'3''. About 70% of girls were visibly much taller than me and the rest were only a little taller than me. I was nice, fun, good looking (still skinny then), and every girl I approached thought I was some kid, those that liked me said "if only you were a bit taller". I had no girlfriend untill I moved with my family to another country. ALL of them said "if you were a little taller..". Do you think I cared about my dick size? I had a serious size complex, but height complex. I cured it only after living a couple of years in this other nearby country where all guys were taller than me, but not much taller. And they still are, I am 5'6'' now. But most girls are around my height, that's what saved my ass.

Nowadays, when I travel around Italy (another country I moved to), or France etc, women are even shorter, many shorter than me! I saw many latinas that are as tall as my shoulder, it's freaking awesome, my life is changed.

My point is - I was being rejected ALL THE TIME, by both bitches and nice girls for the sole reason of being shorter than them. That, my friend, is a problem. A nice girl will never open your pants as soon as she meets you to check your inventory, and then reject you if your penis isn't 10 inches long. She wouldn't reject you for being 5 inches long, and here you are over 8 and worrying.

Being short or tall matters much more than penis size, it's a biological fact. You aren't aware of the painful fact unless you live it. Just try to put yourself in my shoes when I was younger and shorter (5'6'' is now tall enough for me!), based on what I said. Be fucking grateful. That's how I got rid of my short lasting penis size complex - realising there are many many smaller guys out there.
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Good point and well written. I'm 5.11 and in my country in the UK I'm average height for a male and mostly taller than the girls or at the same height if they are tall. When I went to Italy and Spain in the past the women are quite smaller indeed yet in Norway they are taller than me. I know what you mean with the height thing and its a natural biological thing we, us humans have developed over millions of years evolution to survive and like you say though, a nice girl wont reject you over penis size its only shallow girls, tarts or those who've had baggage or bad experience with a man like the singer Rihanna who get like that and hence become bitter.
 
You have been everywhere RED, that is so cool.
 
doublelongdaddy;374906 said:
I think black men, stereotype-wise, have it hardest. Black men are expected to live up to an impossible myth. A black man who is not wise to what average sizes are may have a 8" penis and think he is small....sad that the media has created this myth.
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I live as who I am regardless if the mainstream perceives me as "African American". I do not define my appearance other than human and being American.

However this stereotype has bothered me throughout my life and now. It's difficult to watch these so-called adult entertainment stars like Marcus, etc with someone I would love to date. I cannot identify with them; I wouldn't want to if I could. It's an internal battle, but if you find the right person that battle becomes lessen each day.

I have learned to continue improving upon my life because it's little I can do regarding this stereotype. I hope of acceptance and honesty from a woman. The acceptance that what I can provide sexually will be enough for her throughout.

I am what I am. I can complain but I have lost too much of my life feeling sad and depressed over this. I based my existence and my penis size together a very long time ago, now I am changing that belief, conditioning, whatever you wish to call it.

I hope one day after this battle with Penis Enlargement is won, I can then simply stop and finally feel whole. I know it's all psychological but it does hurt throughout.

To all my brothers (in it's true form without color, creed, or religious differences), continue to improve upon your lives and that of others. Do Penis Enlargement for you and not to one day sleep with as many chicks or guys. Do Penis Enlargement because you have realized a change is needed in your life and you are doing something healthy about it.
 
@Demix

next time a girl tells you your dick is small, kindly ask her if you can stick it in her ass then. When she goes "Hell no" you'll know you're not that small after all. HAH! :P

By the way, 8 inches isn't small not even for a black man. Remember women have a problem with measurements and think that 8 inches is the average rofl
 
goodguynyc;383462 said:
I live as who I am regardless if the mainstream perceives me as "African American". I do not define my appearance other than human and being American.

However this stereotype has bothered me throughout my life and now. It's difficult to watch these so-called adult entertainment stars like Marcus, etc with someone I would love to date. I cannot identify with them; I wouldn't want to if I could. It's an internal battle, but if you find the right person that battle becomes lessen each day.

I have learned to continue improving upon my life because it's little I can do regarding this stereotype. I hope of acceptance and honesty from a woman. The acceptance that what I can provide sexually will be enough for her throughout.

I am what I am. I can complain but I have lost too much of my life feeling sad and depressed over this. I based my existence and my penis size together a very long time ago, now I am changing that belief, conditioning, whatever you wish to call it.

I hope one day after this battle with Penis Enlargement is won, I can then simply stop and finally feel whole. I know it's all psychological but it does hurt throughout.

To all my brothers (in it's true form without color, creed, or religious differences), continue to improve upon your lives and that of others. Do Penis Enlargement for you and not to one day sleep with as many chicks or guys. Do Penis Enlargement because you have realized a change is needed in your life and you are doing something healthy about it.
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Excellent read! Thanks.
 
Whoever thinks that 8 inches is small are either: retarded when it comes to measurements, or just never seen or felt a fcking huge cock.
 
keepingitbig;386445 said:
Whoever thinks that 8 inches is small are either: retarded when it comes to measurements, or just never seen or felt a fcking huge cock.
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Word!
 
I'm just a hair under 8 inches and I feel small because of my 5 inch girth.. What's 8 inches if you have girth to back it up?
 
Whaaaaaat ?

8 inches is small??????????????????? Shit i better get my act together real fast cause that new fact you are giving me makes me feel inadequate... sheeesh

The day 8 inches is small i have lost all faith in humans...

The truth is...( and will always be...) 8 inches is HUGE period. Also, if girth is up there too then you are a walking weapon of ass destruction. Don't let a 'certain' politician know though or he might invade your ass

Anything over 7 IS BIG, over 8...it's huge and over 9.......almost unreal and statistically VERY VERY VERY rare. Take this lesson home bros, this much is truth.

Please STOP stressing so much unless you happen to have less than 4 inches length. You can always make it bigger ( Penis Enlargement ) or learn how to make them cum as there were no tomorrow.

Peeeeeace,

Mike
 
RED is from the UK as well? yay :)
REDZULU2003;380521 said:
Good point and well written. I'm 5.11 and in my country in the UK I'm average height for a male and mostly taller than the girls or at the same height if they are tall. When I went to Italy and Spain in the past the women are quite smaller indeed yet in Norway they are taller than me. I know what you mean with the height thing and its a natural biological thing we, us humans have developed over millions of years evolution to survive and like you say though, a nice girl wont reject you over penis size its only shallow girls, tarts or those who've had baggage or bad experience with a man like the singer Rihanna who get like that and hence become bitter.
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Before I knew anything about Penis Enlargement, this was a problem for me, and even afterwards I felt the same way up until not too long ago. It's some thing that sits in the back of your head. My buddies and I talk shit back and forth all the time and the "You black dudes are lucky, your all muscle bound with BIG DICKS." Then on top of that I'm a adult entertainment addict. So watch big girth long dick stars like Mandingo, and Shorty Mac, ect mess you up in the head. I can also relate to the guy with the short man complex because I stand at 5'4" and ALL BLACKS are suppose to be 6'+ right? I would get the "You can't handle me shorty", and all that BS. A topic on that should be brought up, because I think that alone has caused more problems then dick size growing up, because they feel it's like peas in a pod.
 
Mr. Tripod;394984 said:
Before I knew anything about Penis Enlargement, this was a problem for me, and even afterwards I felt the same way up until not too long ago. It's some thing that sits in the back of your head. My buddies and I talk shit back and forth all the time and the "You black dudes are lucky, your all muscle bound with BIG DICKS." Then on top of that I'm a adult entertainment addict. So watch big girth long dick stars like Mandingo, and Shorty Mac, ect mess you up in the head. I can also relate to the guy with the short man complex because I stand at 5'4" and ALL BLACKS are suppose to be 6'+ right? I would get the "You can't handle me shorty", and all that BS. A topic on that should be brought up, because I think that alone has caused more problems then dick size growing up, because they feel it's like peas in a pod.
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Argh, don't get me started on height. Try fitting into the car you've always wanted and being,"too big," for it. Or having guys shorter than you call you,"tall and linky," tall for nothing--you know stuff like that. Let's not forget," Are you a basketball player, or something? " To get that everyday makes you want to take a basketball and hit it at their heads high-speed. I stand at 6'6''--a somewhat freakish height and black as well. It's not fun at all. Some stores don't carry your size and you're forced to buy online when you don't have enough money as it is.
 
I was in work the other day and one of the women who's aged 35 was saying her mate (Age not disclosed) had been with a black man and said never again because he was the size of an elephants trunk and split her in half. She couldn't walk for a week. The other girls were quiet while I laughed and said she's been Black mamba'd than. Guess stories like this doesn't help the average black guy and does piss off other races as well.
 
REDZULU2003;403725 said:
I was in work the other day and one of the women who's aged 35 was saying her mate (Age not disclosed) had been with a black man and said never again because he was the size of an elephants trunk and split her in half. She couldn't walk for a week. The other girls were quiet while I laughed and said she's been Black mamba'd than. Guess stories like this doesn't help the average black guy and does piss off other races as well.
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Translated: He had a 7" penis and she thought it to be a 12" one:)
 
Demyx;374777 said:
Hey I'm interested in talking to other black guys out there who feel somewhat inadequate because of the stereotype. Like ive mentioned in previous posts I'm about 8.2 BPenis EnlargementL x 6" Girth and girls sometimes seem a little dissapointed when they see thats all I have.....

and dnt get me started with Black women lol.....
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Yeah I'm 6.75x5 and i dont wont even have sex with other girls because of it when i was 6.75x5.3 girls would gossip to there friends that I was like 8.5 and said I was large and they seem to have ment it but until my girth is like 5.6 I will only be doing my girlfriend whose alot older than me at 29 an i don't like having sex with her even though she seems to like it and gets mad if i dont give it to her but most girls i would sleep wit would be like 18 to 22.
 
Demyx,
On the the real i do not and i am 7 3/4 X 5 1/2,But i had women say i was about 9" and i actually told them they do not know how to measure,
So i just take what they say with a grain of salt,It's best to have a thick skin with women because they talk to much shit,Besides there will always be someone who
is better looking has more money or a bigger dick,So just do not sweat the bullshit and keep growing,And this is:
"REAL TALK" From another black man here:)

Peace,
SD
 
REDZULU2003;403912 said:
Women do talk allot of shit that's for sure.
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When there not steeling your money the are talking shit
 
The myth wasn't made-up by blacks by the way. Everytime I start talking about sex with my buddies ( Majority are Caucasian ), they always mention the myth, but when I'm around with my boys, we don't talk about who has the biggest dick, or anything else.
 
The myth wasn't made-up by blacks by the way. Everytime I start talking about sex with my buddies ( Majority are Caucasian ), they always mention the myth, but when I'm around with my boys, we don't talk about who has the biggest dick, or anything else.
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Agreed:),
Super
 
I am African America and I remember a few years ago when DLD said something like, "Alot of women don't measure correctly or exaggerate about a guys size." Sorry If I spelled it wrong however I feel as if that is true most of the time lol. When size comes up I talk to women about girth and length and they are like, Huh? I guess that is normal because they are not men. I've been on and off with Penis Enlargement for 4 to 5 years now and what made me decide to give it a try was all of this talk about size size size and one of my Ex Girlfriends told me that I was under average size to her and it was okay until she kept on saying it over and over again! That made me feel like I couldn't do anything to satisfy her and it got to the point where I did not want to have sex. My confidence level was lower and either she didn't understand it or realize it. Then she started thinking that something was wrong with me and that I was cheating on her with someone else which was not the case. Now six years later my confidence is better and of course my size is improving and everything however someday I would like to become a moderator of some sort on this site and now it is not all about me. I want to help others out as well and communicate with men about Penis Enlargement and hopefully develop a few tricks of my own in exercising later on down the line.
 
Hey... I'm new but I've been doin Penis Enlargement for like 2 months, and isn't like the WHOLE point of Penis Enlargement to break these walls that have been built around every freakin man out there!! I mean why do we need to get SO hung up on this stuff!! Its counter-productive!! I mean your mindset determines your outlook and actions! If your worried all the time about the Size Queens and the Stereotypers then it will show in your walk, and talk, and yes I must say it... your Penis Enlargement!! Just a thot from a newbie!! :D
 
Jenius;410334 said:
I am African America and I remember a few years ago when DLD said something like, "Alot of women don't measure correctly or exaggerate about a guys size." Sorry If I spelled it wrong however I feel as if that is true most of the time lol. When size comes up I talk to women about girth and length and they are like, Huh? I guess that is normal because they are not men. I've been on and off with Penis Enlargement for 4 to 5 years now and what made me decide to give it a try was all of this talk about size size size and one of my Ex Girlfriends told me that I was under average size to her and it was okay until she kept on saying it over and over again! That made me feel like I couldn't do anything to satisfy her and it got to the point where I did not want to have sex. My confidence level was lower and either she didn't understand it or realize it. Then she started thinking that something was wrong with me and that I was cheating on her with someone else which was not the case. Now six years later my confidence is better and of course my size is improving and everything however someday I would like to become a moderator of some sort on this site and now it is not all about me. I want to help others out as well and communicate with men about Penis Enlargement and hopefully develop a few tricks of my own in exercising later on down the line.
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Great post! Thanks. Some women know just which buttons to push to really fuck with a guy....as long as you know how to use the eject button you will be fine:)
 
I thought there was a thread titled, "Are Blacks Bigger?" but I couldn't find it and I thought this information would be useful there. I was watching stand up comedian Chris Rock who said during the times of slavery slave owners would try breeding the biggest and strongest slaves in attempts to make "super slaves". This is why Black people dominate all sports in America. This got me thinking this is most likely where the stereotype came from at least in America. Besides hotter weather in Africa and longer flaccid hang majority of men are the same size with average penis size across the world. Maybe when focus on "breeding" Black people this would have driven the statistics of this kind of physical trait up. Fucking White people.
 
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Blacks are the biggest
Purple are Second
Plaid are third
Magenta are forth
 
Black men aren't bigger. Look at amatuer adult entertainment and tell me what you really see. I've seen black guys who have small ones when they're doing these chicks. I'd like to make another,"brotha," who has mouth on him feel misrable, because he's talking too much about his imaginary 10 incher.
 
keepingitbig;432186 said:
Black men aren't bigger. Look at amatuer adult entertainment and tell me what you really see. I've seen black guys who have small ones when they're doing these chicks. I'd like to make another,"brotha," who has mouth on him feel misrable, because he's talking too much about his imaginary 10 incher.
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The reason people believe blacks have a bigger penis than others is because of the handful of actors that work the BBC circuit. I agree that blacks are no bigger than whites but in adult entertainment they rule as the stereotype is fulfilled and the false beliefs are confirmed. Another thing I should mention is the fact that the media plays a huge roll in this from preposterous claims of 12,13 even 16", this really ramps up the false beliefs. I mean if anyone had any kind of sense they could easily see that Mandingo or Lex does not have a 12" penis but the media portrays is this way and people automatically believe it. The biggest cock I have ever seen has been Mandingo and he is Black.
 
I'm so fuckin sick of this sterotype. I'm a black man and I have to live with this bullshit. I never had any real compliants about my size at all. All except one chick who was a whore anyway. It pisses me off to no end to know that I'm not the biggest thing sometimes and I don't even want to be the biggest. For my height and weight, I think that having 10 inches will be a bit too much. I'm average height (5 feet, 9 inches tall) and average weight (145 pounds). So for me to have a 8 1/2 to 9' inch is good enough. I'm gonna reach that goal and do it really big. I'll gonna make that a reality for myself.
 
Sup Guys,

I'm pretty new here im a black guy 23 5'8" 185, I never really had any complaints about my size i've never been called big but never been called small(7.3x5.5 bp) either. I put it down on all women i've been with so it never really came up. Im here because of the stereotype, i wanna fulfill that also the women(black also) im with has had a child and is not really all that tight and i can feel the difference. She tells me my size is fine and she loves my dick then one day we get into it one day and she tells me im the smallest she's been with (shes only been with other black guys) then she changes her story and says she only said it cuz she was mad, which of course fucks with my head. So now im here lol. i just wanna get to 8+x6+ she says my length is good but i know i need some girth by the way things feel and just how i want to look. i've been gone visiting family since June(kc) and move back to SD in November where my girl lives and have been doing pe since the 5th of this month (4 months to go). my plan is to reach my short term goals of atleast a half inch in girth(6") and half inch in length(8ish) by then so i can suprise her with something extra when i get back lol. i do the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] along with clamping 4x15min clamped horse squeezes clamped edging and when i jelq i use the constrictor condom rim to get my head nice and boa shaped, i do my routine 5 on 1 off cuz my dick gets really sore but that day off helps. i already see some change in my girth which is pretty nice but i wont measure for another month.

Brothers i say fuck the myth and make it a reality you got the tools now so use em.
Feel me?? :cool:
 
rightb4yuRI's;443504 said:
Sup Guys,

I'm pretty new here im a black guy 23 5'8" 185, I never really had any complaints about my size i've never been called big but never been called small(7.3x5.5 bp) either. I put it down on all women i've been with so it never really came up. Im here because of the stereotype, i wanna fulfill that also the women(black also) im with has had a child and is not really all that tight and i can feel the difference. She tells me my size is fine and she loves my dick then one day we get into it one day and she tells me im the smallest she's been with (shes only been with other black guys) then she changes her story and says she only said it cuz she was mad, which of course fucks with my head. So now im here lol. i just wanna get to 8+x6+ she says my length is good but i know i need some girth by the way things feel and just how i want to look. i've been gone visiting family since June(kc) and move back to SD in November where my girl lives and have been doing pe since the 5th of this month (4 months to go). my plan is to reach my short term goals of atleast a half inch in girth(6") and half inch in length(8ish) by then so i can suprise her with something extra when i get back lol. i do the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] along with clamping 4x15min clamped horse squeezes clamped edging and when i jelq i use the constrictor condom rim to get my head nice and boa shaped, i do my routine 5 on 1 off cuz my dick gets really sore but that day off helps. i already see some change in my girth which is pretty nice but i wont measure for another month.

Brothers i say fuck the myth and make it a reality you got the tools now so use em.
Feel me?? :cool:
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i meant 6 on 1 off my bad
 
Demyx;375149 said:
unless we can change the views on every female who believes in the stereotype it wnt matter how much I know wether its true or not..

but ive got to be competely honest with u guys i dnt blame a woman at all for wanting a big dick........
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That's right. You can't blame a woman for wanting to be pleasured as best as possible.. they are human beings, animals with independent minds, just like us. It is no different from us desiring skinny, busty, beautiful women with large asses. There is no such thing as a good woman and a bad woman... Blaming the woman is just circumventing the problem. It's not her fault she was born with a large vagina, or happens to really enjoy sex and gets a thrill from having sex with multiple partners. That being said, I really much hope these exercises work, haha.
 
Being black and having the legend of huge black cock loom over me to be difficult. I suppose black men, who are average, have it worst because most women will expect a massive cock due to the false legends that have been created. I guess if there is a legend [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] can help make it become true for the black men who become involved.
 
I think some black men love the sterotype as they get the attention from that type of women who craves a large wang. Thing is they dont realise they are just seen as pleasure objects, sex toys and okay yeah they may be playing the game with the ladies and usually they are white or am I wrong? but at sometime later in life they will have experiences in someway that will make them think back upon relfection at how pathetic they were to be so loose with the ladies. I regret all the nights I did, the group sessions all the threesomes and dogging in the park is all a disgrace looking back on it but what I can say is I saw what I was THEN and looking back now I'm GLAD I'm not just some piece of shit who just shags women for the hell of it, classing them as fuck buddies which now I see as so disrespectful but back in the day I did it. Guess as you mature and lifes experiences hit you, your head comes outta your arse.

I'm also celibate atm and have not had sex or a sexual encounter with anyone or anything :) since November 2010! I'm sticking to it, its self discipline and I know I can do it just like Alcohol addiction can be cured. Laying off sex made me see what I HAD not what I lost. I dont want to be just a sex machine that the women talk about having a huge knob, I want love.

Relating to this thread as I typed in the first line some black guys love all this and keep fueling this. Something cool though is the public dont expect Asians to sport a whopper so good on them when they slap one out and say look what the fuck I HAVE, its bigger then the brothers over their and often it actually is.
 
I hate this stereotype so much, I feel so much pressure on me, that just incase a girl feels some type of way about my dick My muscles and ability to eat pussy like scooby snacks will carry me just enough to get my dick sucked. I've had girls Tell me I'm big and I tell them Don't lie to me. I hate when Girls lie to me about my own dick Like I don't know what I have.
 
Lol the part that i find so funny is how this dumb stereotype came into play, it started during the reconstruction era or probably later, whites in the south were annoyed that African Americans had been set free and needed someway to keep other whites away from them and in fear of them. They came up with things such as if you are a white woman and you are touched by a black male you are ruined, but one of the dumbest stereotypes created through this was the black men are bigger theory, racist white men believed that if white women thought black men had these monster dongs they would stay away, wrong answer and that's how we have this stupid myth today. Through stupidity
 
Wow Red, I see what you mean. I would never want a chick who didn't view me as a whole not a object. Guys need to hold themself to a higher standard. I only will have sex with potential keepers.

Me personally, weither a girl lives with that silly mindset, It's pointless to beat yourself up about it. At the end of the day, all she knows as were you BETTER than her past experiences, not bigger! Size has a mental effect like the same way we become zombies when we see a nice round apple ass but as I said already, she can only compare if you were BETTER!!!

Don't live life trying to get others approval, do what makes YOU happy. I want to be longer & thicker for me, if a girl is blown away by my cock, that's just icing on the cake.
 
What I think is sad, is that Black men can be seen as 'objects' and items rather then people when it comes to sex! A black man is a person, why should he be judged for his size or it be mentioned? yet its etched into the stonework now because of the culture our ancestors helped create and the current world helps to stay alive. Some women will just see black men as a walking mamba on legs, which to some black men wont be a problem like Kingsnake who just want pussy all night every night but many will want to be judged and viewed on more deeper levels then dick size alone. Its not a good category to be boxed in with at all.
 
H0cus_p0kus;466478 said:
I hate this stereotype so much, I feel so much pressure on me, that just incase a girl feels some type of way about my dick My muscles and ability to eat pussy like scooby snacks will carry me just enough to get my dick sucked. I've had girls Tell me I'm big and I tell them Don't lie to me. I hate when Girls lie to me about my own dick Like I don't know what I have.
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What size are you?

I can certainly see how there will be pressure on you, the majority of women are very shallow.
 
REDZULU2003;466794 said:
What I think is sad, is that Black men can be seen as 'objects' and items rather then people when it comes to sex! A black man is a person, why should he be judged for his size or it be mentioned? yet its etched into the stonework now because of the culture our ancestors helped create and the current world helps to stay alive. Some women will just see black men as a walking mamba on legs, which to some black men wont be a problem like Kingsnake who just want pussy all night every night but many will want to be judged and viewed on more deeper levels then dick size alone. Its not a good category to be boxed in with at all.
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You speak the truth
 
I thought that with the arrival of clever black men like Obama that people would start to have more respect and not assume black people are not as intelligent which I think some people still believe, not helped by all the daft talk in some of the rap songs today and how they act. These girls who use the black man for wang are dangerous so stay well away. Her motives in all things with life will be questionable, a fuckup waiting to happen.
 
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