Hi Any Other Black Guys Out There Feel Small Because Of The Sterotype?
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SMH...this stereotype is the reason i dont get pussy...im so scared to even have a girlfriend. cos i know all what these white girls think is ''he must have a big dick''...this same dick size issue plus masturbation when i was younger have caused me an even worse problem- premature ejaculation. now in addition to being scared of what she is 'actually' thinkin about my size, i also have to fear i will cum after a minute..and i do not want to embarrase myself so i just dont have a girlfriend...but then it creates more pressure..
i dunno what to do...btw im (6 X 4.5) + black man = dead
i dunno what to do...btw im (6 X 4.5) + black man = deadmayehunter..im in the same predicament. However, i believe i am in a worst position as i am about 6ft4. so being tall, black, big feet, chicks and guys in fact automatically expect nothing less than an 8 incher. Also, have the same problem with cummin too quickly.
midion;624756 said:
Yeah, I think black men have it so much harder than any other race due to the myths of the big black cock. The media has completely brainwashed every race into believing that every black man has a huge cock. It must be so hard to be black and not fit the profile.
I know right. I feel the same way.
rightb4yuRI's;443504 said:Sup Guys,
I'm pretty new here im a black guy 23 5'8" 185, I never really had any complaints about my size i've never been called big but never been called small(7.3x5.5 bp) either. I put it down on all women i've been with so it never really came up. Im here because of the stereotype, i wanna fulfill that also the women(black also) im with has had a child and is not really all that tight and i can feel the difference. She tells me my size is fine and she loves my dick then one day we get into it one day and she tells me im the smallest she's been with (shes only been with other black guys) then she changes her story and says she only said it cuz she was mad, which of course fucks with my head. So now im here lol. i just wanna get to 8+x6+ she says my length is good but i know i need some girth by the way things feel and just how i want to look. i've been gone visiting family since June(kc) and move back to SD in November where my girl lives and have been doing pe since the 5th of this month (4 months to go). my plan is to reach my short term goals of atleast a half inch in girth(6") and half inch in length(8ish) by then so i can suprise her with something extra when i get back lol. i do the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words] along with clamping 4x15min clamped horse squeezes clamped edging and when i jelq i use the constrictor condom rim to get my head nice and boa shaped, i do my routine 5 on 1 off cuz my dick gets really sore but that day off helps. i already see some change in my girth which is pretty nice but i wont measure for another month.
Brothers i say fuck the myth and make it a reality you got the tools now so use em.
Feel me??
Wow, that sounds brutal. There's nothing more important to me than to be able to believe the woman I'm with when she says something.
REDZULU2003
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Its been 4 years ....
There are many people that have left that have not come back but for about three months we spend time bumping old threads to get veterans back on the board. It did bring back many people so bumping old threads is a good thing to do. Because sometimes just getting that email that somebody replied to your thread may bring you right back to the brotherhood.
bulldaboss93
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Im 8.75 nobody has ever said I was disappointed. If u tell a woman the actual number it will always be smaller than what her perception calculated. NEVER tell her ur digits. If ur 9" she probably thought it was 11. I know small guys who post on fb in the private groups and will say something like"29 from Wisconsin packin 10 inches" when clearly its like 8 but all the girls go crazy.
I have a theory on this, when a woman is in love with us our penis is 2 inches longer than it really is. After you break up your penis is 2 inches smaller than it actually is. LOL
I am black. And i feel the same way. The one that made me feel small was my mother, though
I’m Italian but I went to in all black school in Washington DC. The school and went to had a huge shower room ware like 20 people could take a shower at the same time. I remember distinctly thinking to myself that my penis was just as big as all of their penises. There was really no one that stood out. So I have never taken to the idea That all black men have big penises because I know it’s not true. And this stigma puts so much pressure on black men thinking they have to live live up to an impossible stereotype. Take notice in big dick black adult entertainment it’s always the same 4 actors. This tells you alone, black man or no bigger than white men, It is all legend
REDZULU2003
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Plus its rumored Trump has a small penis, but good mushroom shape 
I would love him to be a guest in the chatroom sometime ..... is it possible?
I would love him to be a guest in the chatroom sometime ..... is it possible?
Plus its rumored Trump has a small penis, but good mushroom shape
I would love that! But I have a picture of him nude and has like a 14 inch cock
I’ll try to find a picture it’s fake but hilarious! But who knows let’s send him a letter to the White House and ask him if he’ll do a news conference on MOS! ???Lol A huge mushroom head LOL
REDZULU2003
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You never know .. send him a twitter message. Its that Stormy Daniels who suggested Trump has a very small penis, but quite the mushroom head to it.
He is a business man, says it as it is, and I dont think he would stick his nose skywards to the talk of penis enlargement imagine the rumors if he was caught with a lengthmaster in the white house
He is a business man, says it as it is, and I dont think he would stick his nose skywards to the talk of penis enlargement
imagine the rumors if he was caught with a lengthmaster in the white house
You never know .. send him a twitter message. Its that Stormy Daniels who suggested Trump has a very small penis, but quite the mushroom head to it.
He is a business man, says it as it is, and I dont think he would stick his nose skywards to the talk of penis enlargement
Laughing my ass off! I love Trump and that would probably be something he would do
. And if he did l bet we would sell a lot more of the Lengthmasters. We should send Trump the whole Matters of Size collection and see if we get a response.Update; I believe President Trump has already been a member of the MOS for many years. Here’s a recent picture of his huge cock
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REDZULU2003
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Look at those balls
I'm definitely aware of the whole "all black men are hung like Mandingo, Lex steele, etc etc" myth. Its destructive in terms of self esteem and real life expections.
On the flip side of that....most women may NOT be able to live up to the skills of female pornstars too!
That just makes adult entertainment a double edged sword in terms of fantasy and real life!
On the flip side of that....most women may NOT be able to live up to the skills of female pornstars too!
That just makes adult entertainment a double edged sword in terms of fantasy and real life!
You are completely correct! And if you’re not careful that double edge sword is in the cut pretty bad
Bad thing is its so damn entertaining!!
FARCE !! i have been around the world, in diff countries, military, played sports and around alot of men(showers, swimming naked) whom are not self conscious about being nude, naked around other men and we cant lie; we all take a peek to see how we measure up to the next guy, i have seen many races, and believe me, NOT ONLY BLACK men are hung !
The adult entertainment industry would go bankrupt if the stars were average or had small packages. ??
The adult entertainment industry would go bankrupt if the stars were average or had small packages. ??
My experience as well, GashKing! I always felt I was at "the bottom". Turns out I was always slightly above the median, and now I have the tools to be in the 5% top tier of dick size, relatively quickly.
Media body shaming is 1000% times worse for women, but I feel there is a hidden, unspoken tension regarding dick size, race, and expectations.
I am confident this political atmosphere will resolve this promptly
Media body shaming is 1000% times worse for women, but I feel there is a hidden, unspoken tension regarding dick size, race, and expectations.
I am confident this political atmosphere will resolve this promptly
bulldaboss93
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I have a theory on this, when a woman is in love with us our penis is 2 inches longer than it really is. After you break up your penis is 2 inches smaller than it actually is.
Lol I got chicks to back me up so they can't get away with it. They slander my character instead lmao even worse
REDZULU2003
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However we talk though, the stereotype doesn't seem to be falling.
Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
I am confident this political atmosphere will resolve this promptly
#metoo
Who ever thought up this hashtag did not think it through. To most youngsters they see the # sign as hashtag but us older folks see # as meaning pound. Now what was that hashtag again? ???
REDZULU2003
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Big Schwanz Acht
@Big Schwanz Acht
adult entertainment is not the same for men and women...
I've had candid chats with a few of my AA friends and several have admitted to putting a bit of 'extra' effort whenever they're with a white girl, (and I'm certain that there's additional pressure to try and 'live up' to whatever society has placed upon them).
Haursen
The Godly PE Journeyman
This myth is a blessing and a curse.
When I was engaged to my wife, her brother stated that since I was black, I would be large especially since he saw a black man's penis when he was in the Navy when he accidentally opened up a men's stall and saw one.
My wife was a virgin and I was hardly "packing"...I was most likely 14.50 cm × 12.00 cm.
Still, there is a pressure that is built up due to the movies "Mandingo" (not the adult entertainment actor but actual movie), "Blazing Saddles", etc.
When I was engaged to my wife, her brother stated that since I was black, I would be large especially since he saw a black man's penis when he was in the Navy when he accidentally opened up a men's stall and saw one.
My wife was a virgin and I was hardly "packing"...I was most likely 14.50 cm × 12.00 cm.
Still, there is a pressure that is built up due to the movies "Mandingo" (not the adult entertainment actor but actual movie), "Blazing Saddles", etc.
I don't know what people are complaining about.....
Size does not matter for good sex.....
It may matter for some women because some women like big dongs....
However when it comes to SEX, size does not matter. The only thing you need to know is how to control your mind and penis......
It is very difficult to master your penis and many pornstars haven't mastered this technique....
So focus on this rather than on women telling you that you are not huge enough. Remember, nobody's perfect. There might be some flaws in those women too....
With that being said, happy PE
P.S: I am an Indian and I am 6.5" in length. That's 1 inch longer than average indian men.
I still want to get bigger and I AM going to get bigger at my own pace and no women can tell me what I want.
Size does not matter for good sex.....
It may matter for some women because some women like big dongs....
However when it comes to SEX, size does not matter. The only thing you need to know is how to control your mind and penis......
It is very difficult to master your penis and many pornstars haven't mastered this technique....
So focus on this rather than on women telling you that you are not huge enough. Remember, nobody's perfect. There might be some flaws in those women too....
With that being said, happy PE
P.S: I am an Indian and I am 6.5" in length. That's 1 inch longer than average indian men.
I still want to get bigger and I AM going to get bigger at my own pace and no women can tell me what I want.
REDZULU2003
Well-known member
You tell them Avglen
I don't know what people are complaining about.....
Size does not matter for good sex.....
It may matter for some women because some women like big dongs....
However when it comes to SEX, size does not matter. The only thing you need to know is how to control your mind and penis......
It is very difficult to master your penis and many pornstars haven't mastered this technique....
So focus on this rather than on women telling you that you are not huge enough. Remember, nobody's perfect. There might be some flaws in those women too....
With that being said, happy PE
P.S: I am an Indian and I am 6.5" in length. That's 1 inch longer than average indian men.
I still want to get bigger and I AM going to get bigger at my own pace and no women can tell me what I want.
Words of life!
Old thread and this has been discussed already but I agree with the OP.
Of course the first reaction of many here is "WHAT?? WHAT ARE YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT??" But you gotta step on his shoes to understand. Of course he is not small at all. In fact, he is giant. However, unfortunately we have this nasty FAKE poplar belief that black guys are pretty much walking anacondas when un reality is not the case. So of course, many of our black brothers go to have intercourse with that in their minds, knowing that MANY girls they have go to have sex with them due to the myth. So of course in that situation you will be like "is she gonna find me big? am I big enough for the belief? Will she be disappointed by not seeing a foot of dick?" It is a perfect normal real scenario. Many guys of other races are 8+. So a women that see a black guy with an 8" she can pefectly say "thats it?? I thought black guys were way bigger than others" So all this together can easily create this feeling of insecurity in them.
Of course the first reaction of many here is "WHAT?? WHAT ARE YOU COMPLAINING ABOUT??" But you gotta step on his shoes to understand. Of course he is not small at all. In fact, he is giant. However, unfortunately we have this nasty FAKE poplar belief that black guys are pretty much walking anacondas when un reality is not the case. So of course, many of our black brothers go to have intercourse with that in their minds, knowing that MANY girls they have go to have sex with them due to the myth. So of course in that situation you will be like "is she gonna find me big? am I big enough for the belief? Will she be disappointed by not seeing a foot of dick?" It is a perfect normal real scenario. Many guys of other races are 8+. So a women that see a black guy with an 8" she can pefectly say "thats it?? I thought black guys were way bigger than others" So all this together can easily create this feeling of insecurity in them.
Well it is a fact that black guys are supposed to be huge ( atleast in adult entertainment), however one must understand that adult entertainment is just as real as any science fiction movie.....
What people do not understand is the fact that black people or any other race can have small penises.....
People see black guys in adult entertainment, which is only a tiny subset of the entire black community, and judge them solely on the basis of their dongs.....
It is also a myth that people with big dongs are better lovers.....
One must understand that sex is more than just penetration..... It is an art of showing love and affection towards your lover......
Everyone has insecurities in life (I've had it too), but the main purpose of life is too get better than your previous self. In this world, there will always be people better than you in some field (maybe cooking, dancing or even sex). So it is pointless to compare yourself with others. It is pointless to achieve something which is un-achievable. What you can achieve is greatness than your previous self.
So, I would advise every guy who is reading this post that SIZE DOES NOT MATTER. And if any women who judges you solely on the basis of your penis size, ask yourself this question: DO YOU REALLY WANT TO FUCK HER? DO YOU REALLY WANT A SEAL OF CONFIRMATION FROM HER?
Hope this helps.....
REDZULU2003
Well-known member
Another thread that relates to this one
I believe that black men have the hardest time with average size because of the myth that goes around. They fall victim to the same myth and think that they should have a much larger penis than I do when in actuality being black makes no difference.
keepingitbig
Active member
8.2x6 is small? Majority of women can't take that size man and refuse men with it. I'd like to see what 9.2x7 is? Lol. Guess that's,"medium." As Prince said," Use what you got." I've got women off with my mouth and the main course ( the dick! ). Anything over 8 is a damn monster especially with 6 inch girth. We're the smallest percentage of men with big cocks ( wither it be black, white, asian etc etc ), so don't sweat it.
