lol, wtf - Armpits? Is this fetish for real?
Anyway, back to the issue. Two things intrigued me as I read through the entirerity of this thread, which I will address seperately and hopefully invite opinions:
1. Dragonbirde, you insist that it is not a mental issue, and that your "head is clear", but it must be incredibly difficult to suffer such an issue and have a clear head about it is it not? Have you almost accepted your weak penis as a finallity so to speak. Just that I would have expected that this problem would concern you to some. I know you are saying that you want to be getting some female action again, so to say that your "head is clear" about this, seems very unlikely.
2. I appreciate that DLD probably has a better understanding of the penis than most doctors, but can we really rule out a physical issue. Perhaps there is a something going on that is only sometimes ok and most of the time damaged, e.g maybe not on the same scale as, but similar to, when you hear of people that are long term ill and people say "oh, they have their good days and their bad days," i.e there are times when things just click together albeit temporarily?
Just throwing my thoughts out there, see what comes back. Don't forget the armpits thing