My goal keeps reducing. It was 8.5x6.5. My wife and I have four children and our last was 10 lbs at birth. Yesturday I bought a dildo that is 8.5x6.5 and is pretty consistent throughout it's length. Last night after the kids were put to bed, my wife volunteered to give it a try (knowing that I bought it for that purpose). I warmed her up good with 3 or so quality orgasms. After the last, she said "gimmy that big thing". I'm glad I let her insert it herself after I lubed it up. To both of our surprise it was very tight, uncomfortably so. She was open-minded and kept trying for a bit but noticably lost her former state of arousal. I told her to take it out (she got about 2/3 to 3/4 of it in before this). When she tried to take it out it was a slow process after which she asked "am I bleeding". She was sore and described the feeling as a lighter version of giving birth. I am lowering my goal for girth to definitely less than 6.5. I know everyone is different but all these folks with 7 inch girth now or even goals of 9 inches in girth gave got to run into problems now and then when actually interacting with women, if not with great regularity. I'll have to admit, just to see, I tried to put my mouth on that dildo mentioned above. Not a chance, even the tip hits the teeth. To me it seems there is definitely a limit to what is practical and comfortable, all bragging rights aside.