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lightlyfried;684732 said:I don't think i'd tell me son, I mean if he grows up knowing about PE I think he could grow an insecurity just of out me mentioning it. And think it's something he'd have to do with his genetic size. If he asked or was insecure i'd tell him, but I wouldn't want to fix something that isn't broken.
If you have a good relationship with your Son, one like I have with Armand, my Son, they will trust you and come to you if there are problems he might be having. As a good Father it is important to listen to your Son's fears or issues and reassure him with what you feel he is ready to take on. My Son had penis concerns when he was young, maybe 9 years old. He came to me and asked what normal was and I sat him down and explained it to him. I showed him his measurement and let him know where most boys were at that age. He was in the 5" area and I told him he should be so happy with what God gave him. After this he never cared about size again. He knows everything I know as far as PE goes and he is a brilliant man with a great background in physics so at some point I hope him to come on board to help out.
In the end what matters most in a Father Son relationship is that you are best friends, that you treat him as your equal, that you set a good example, that you allow him to fall and help pick him up when he does, that you love him always and unconditionally. These are the most important parts to seek out.