doublelongdaddy;665615 said:
For me, if I were not me:), I would not even mention PE unless my child came to me first with an issue. Pushing a child into PE may cause many sexual psychological issues and insecurities. Have a open, honest and understanding relationship with your Son and he will come toy very time he needs help. Keep you babies close to your heart!

Indeed. It's all in the relationship.
 
doublelongdaddy;668395 said:
Something you are learning now:)
Absolutely! The relationship is so important and must be nurtured with time, love, and attention!
 
higherone;672517 said:
Absolutely! The relationship is so important and must be nurtured with time, love, and attention!

And just make sure that kid becomes your best friend, that is the best fathering I can offer!
 
doublelongdaddy;672639 said:
And just make sure that kid becomes your best friend, that is the best fathering I can offer!

Great advice! I think that would make the sex talk and PE if you choose to let him in on it that much easier.
 
higherone;676871 said:
Great advice! I think that would make the sex talk and PE if you choose to let him in on it that much easier.

It starts out in the beginning, just love him like a Brother! He will become your best friend and that connection is incredible! My Son, who is 21 now, is my best friend and now that he has two boys of his own he will do the same. Having a boy is such a special thing!
 
had a conversation recently my step son said something about how one of his buddys gets two girls at once because he has a big dick, my wife told him that women dont care about penis size. I said that was a lie, and if you want it bigger you can stretch it a lot and it will grow. Well the point was completely missed and he now thinks I have a tiny dick hahaha. every kid is different but yeah it can definitely be hard to explain the subject gently.
 
"Women don't care about penis size" ?:(. Ask her what do they care about then cause its a mystery
 
templnite;677046 said:
"Women don't care about penis size" ?:(. Ask her what do they care about then cause its a mystery

They care in different ways. Some women want a smaller penis, some enjoy average size, some like it a bit bigger and then theres the SizeQueens. What matters most is what you, yourself, cares about.
 
I've dodged this topic for a year but I think the answer is pretty obvious...

When you have the first chat explaining the urges that come with puberty, it would make sense to me if the concept were introduced at this point. The body is ready for it, with hormones and growth happening already, so optimization of the process seems like a no brainer to me. The only caveat is they're liable to take it too far if you fail to explain the female anatomy with enough detail. It wouldn't seem like a huge deal to them at that point though, since they're still relatively unfamiliar with sex and it will help them avoid a complex in the future.

I definitely think it should at least be mentioned before they leave the home for living on their own. No sense in letting your offspring go off without knowledge of something that could literally give them a better self esteem and make their lives better as a result. To not, once you know it works, honestly sounds like a dick move. But maybe that's just me.
 
templnite;677177 said:
Why have you dodged the topic for a year longth?

It's debateably controversial. I think it's simple. It's a massive thread. Wasn't bored enough to get into it.

Felt like it
 
Longth;677225 said:
It's debateably controversial. I think it's simple. It's a massive thread. Wasn't bored enough to get into it.

Felt like it

It is debatable on many levels, I am sure Higherone has even adjusted his views on this topic. I believe that once your Son is at an age of maturity, my Son was mature at 16 while others may be 18. My Son knows about PE, he knows it works but he has no interest in doing it. It was not a huge deal to talk about. He was insecure when he was around 9 about his penis size and I talked to him about average size and so forth not mentioning PE as I did not want to add fuel to the fire, I only wanted to help my Son see he was doing just fine in the size department. My Son is 21 now and has two boys of his own and I know he will follow the same order as I did.
 
^That's good parenting :D and a good son!
Some guys are insecure, and they want to pass that on to their kids, but mike has shown his boy the right path instead (thats cause you were never insecure about size right mike :blush:)
 
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doublelongdaddy;677671 said:
It is debatable on many levels, I am sure Higherone has even adjusted his views on this topic. I believe that once your Son is at an age of maturity, my Son was mature at 16 while others may be 18. My Son knows about PE, he knows it works but he has no interest in doing it. It was not a huge deal to talk about. He was insecure when he was around 9 about his penis size and I talked to him about average size and so forth not mentioning PE as I did not want to add fuel to the fire, I only wanted to help my Son see he was doing just fine in the size department. My Son is 21 now and has two boys of his own and I know he will follow the same order as I did.

Agreed. Know your son and what he can handle. Don't push your insecurities on to him but present the facts. Great advice!
 
higherone;677876 said:
Agreed. Know your son and what he can handle. Don't push your insecurities on to him but present the facts. Great advice!

And love him with all your heart and soul!
 
I will only tell mine about how the organs work, and not to be promiscuous so he can focus on what's important which is the lord. Of course my kid would have an average sized dick, but if he was micro then yeah id help him maybe buy a sizegenetics or some shit, maybe. Its imperative to rear the child to have no fear of having small dick first, if he cannot overcome this then he's basically fucked when a real problem arises. Why are you so worried about this anyway bra are you planning to do it?
 
templnite;680204 said:
I will only tell mine about how the organs work, and not to be promiscuous so he can focus on what's important which is the lord. Of course my kid would have an average sized dick, but if he was micro then yeah id help him maybe buy a sizegenetics or some shit, maybe. Its imperative to rear the child to have no fear of having small dick first, if he cannot overcome this then he's basically fucked when a real problem arises. Why are you so worried about this anyway bra are you planning to do it?

Not worried just curious. When mine hits 16.
 
I don't think anybody wants to tell their kid "look son you're not good enough, start on this routine" that's just basically admitting you have failed as a parent. Hold off till he's eighteen, and if he's not a baws yet you can tell him
 
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