New GF, new (very hard) goal. Many questions. Need help!

I'll try to be as short as possible.
Just like many other stories I've read here I got a "problem" with my new GF.
Her old BF had a 9" dick and by our conversations I have enough reasons to believe she is a size queen and about her notion of size. I think that 99% of other man would feel exactly as I felt in my place: an enormous lack of self-confidence about my dick size.
I'm not bad. I'm 7x5
I like her very much and I really believe that I should Penis Enlargement til my growth limit.
I know this is going to take a long time and I dont know how big I can get, but I'll try.
Since my dick is a little above the average size, I was never so worried about this but now I have this new situation. Back in 2011 before a met my new girl I just jelqued for improving the self-esteem.


My history on Penis Enlargement:
I started doing Jelqing on May/2011 and did it for 3 months every single day.
My routine was:
4 x 5 min sets of Wet jelging with 50-70% erection
4 x 5 min sets of Dry Jelqing with 50-70% erection
50 x 5 secconds manual stretches

Restuls: No results. Not .1" on girth neither in Lenght - I kept my 7" in the end of the 3 months time.

I left Penis Enlargement for sometime. On July if 2012 I bought Bathmate and I wanted again to be bigger and consistent. I've been trying it since then (5 months now) and I have gained .1" in lenght but no girth gains (not even .1").
This is making me really concerned about the future.
I do Bathmate 5 days a week. My routine:

5 min Warmup on hot shower (stretching a jelqing)
3 x 8 min of progressive pressure, finishing the last set with maximum pressure.
Finishing with 1 x 10 min of 80% pressure

I dont understand how it is possible for another man (a user of the forum) have a 2 months gain of 1.5 inches on girth and >1" on lenght and I cant have a miserable .2" on girth or lenght.
I'm right now living a hardtime, I never thought that I could feel THAT bad about just the pennis size. I consider myself good at bed, but as some use to say about car's engines: "There is not replacement for displacement". There is no magic that can be done to fill a place if you dont have enough volume.

What could I be doing wrong? What should I do?
I dont have fatpat so I cant have more gains there.

Also, could you guys post the link of a thread showing everyone's results?

Thanks in advance!

ps: I'll undergoing to a postectomy two months from now because I am uncut and I have lots of skin specially after I started do Bathmate. I hope to improve my gains after the surgery or at least facilitate Penis Enlargement.

Has she seen your dick and commented that it is smaller than he previous BF? Just because she says 9", it doesnt mean he actually had a 9" dick. Guys like to exaggerate, and girls generally dont pull out the ruler to verify, so they take his word for it.

Actually yes, she did see my dick. I know because I kept calm to ask her how they (her and her ex bf) measured it and they did it correctly.

btw: Nice gains!

Personally my opinion is that if all she wanted was a big penis then she wouldn't be with you she would be with him. Obviously you have qualities about you that are more important to her other than your penis. Women are not so much visual creatures are they psychological ones. If you can mentally stimulate them they are more apt to think you a better lover. You say you are a good lover. Has she told you how good the sex is with you? the old saying there is no good replacement like good ole displacement can be true but another saying goes it isn't the size of the boat but the motion on the ocean.

You are definitely large enough to satisfy the nerve endings in a woman's vagina you just have to learn how to use it better. I know I have been with some women who had lovers much larger than I but I still could satisfy them sexually. Of course at the time I was under 6" and working to get longer and thicker. It doesn't hurt to be a bigger man but isn't necessary. I know several bisexual women and they say that some of the best sex they have is with a woman without using any type of penetrating device other than fingers and tongues. See if you can get your woman to make you into her ideal lover and if you know of any bisexual women ask them what is it that they like.

Bottom line don't dwell on it.

Thanks Doc, I really understand this point of view and I agree with a big part of it. But we are all here for the same reason: We really want to make the difference, we want to grow as much as possible (of course not only to grow, but EQ and other things). I maintain my opinion that the overall volume is a must and that I will only be satisfied until I get enough size to fill her as much as I can.
I know it doesn't mean that I cant make her satisfied with my actual unit, but we are all here for excellence, not just the average. This is my approach.

You should try a hanging routine. I hung for 100 days and went from 5.8-9 to 6.8 BPenis EnlargementL... actually it was more like 80 days. Start off by focusing on lengthening your ligs. You can probably hit 9 BPenis EnlargementL just through lig hanging. Then if you want more length keep hanging. Whenever you reach your desired length you can start girth work. That's the smartest way to go about Penis Enlargement without stunting your gains. Here's a link to the proof that I did in fact gain an inch in 100 days from hanging: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...100-Days-of-Penis Enlargement-Was-it-worth-it

Tahir,
I was reading your thread yesterday, I read your gains and testimonials about your routine. I found it very inspiring but at the moment I cant hang. This is basically because here in Brazil there are no hanging devices available. I was thinking about get me one ADS but before that I have to undergo thru surgery to cut the frenulum and the foreskin (next month I think). The reason I dont get myself an ADS is because since I am uncut my head is very sensitive and I'm sure I would not be able to wear it. First I should be used to be uncut, which would make the head less sensitive only then start using a ADS.
I am not considering hanging at the moment. This is my second attempt to Penis Enlargement but now I got Bathmate and I feel so much more motivated and less anxious than the last time. I've read about amazing gains just by manual exercises plus Bathmate, so my routine is going to be based on them.
I know the more weapons we use more success we have, but for now manual exercises and Bathmate are my only resources.

Another question that I have is Am I going to gain any length by cutting the frenulum?

Advantager;525536 said:

Another question that I have is Am I going to gain any length by cutting the frenulum?

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This depends on how tight the frenulum is.

Regarding your results, a few things i feel i need to ask:

1) What is your intensity like, do you jelq with a soft grip?
2) Do you change up your routine every 3-4 weeks? This could help analyze what your body responds to best, its just like weight-training, whats right for some may not be right for others.

Regarding your insecurity, PLEASE read my thread, i had the exact same issue with a girl who said she wanted over 8 inches at LEAST, and im only 6.75 in length. Anyway just read through the thread and you'll see how i hooked up with her and fukked her senseless, then she thought i was much bigger than i was. Like someone above mentioned ^ girls are gonna very rarely (if ever) pull out a tape measure and accurately assess your size, most dont even know the difference between 6 and 7 inches, or 8 and 9.

http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...cts-at-LEAST-8-inches-(not-joking)&highlight=

Unless your 9+ don't ask a female about her past if you know you will take it hard why do that to yourself do pe for you not her old bf

Good luck on your gains

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Tahir,
I was reading your thread yesterday, I read your gains and testimonials about your routine. I found it very inspiring but at the moment I cant hang. This is basically because here in Brazil there are no hanging devices available. I was thinking about get me one ADS but before that I have to undergo thru surgery to cut the frenulum and the foreskin (next month I think). The reason I dont get myself an ADS is because since I am uncut my head is very sensitive and I'm sure I would not be able to wear it. First I should be used to be uncut, which would make the head less sensitive only then start using a ADS.
I am not considering hanging at the moment. This is my second attempt to Penis Enlargement but now I got Bathmate and I feel so much more motivated and less anxious than the last time. I've read about amazing gains just by manual exercises plus Bathmate, so my routine is going to be based on them.
I know the more weapons we use more success we have, but for now manual exercises and Bathmate are my only resources.

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You can build your own hanger. I showed mine in the link. It works for up to 10 lbs. There are other hanger constructing tutorials on the forum as well. I mean, from what I've learned the best method to go about Penis Enlargement to gain length and girth is to stretch the ligs, then the tunica (if you are not at your desired length), then put on the girth. The reason for this is that girth work toughens the tunica; and you want you tunica to be as un-tough as possible for length gains.

carped1em;525557 said:

Unless your 9+ don't ask a female about her past if you know you will take it hard why do that to yourself do pe for you not her old bf

Good luck on your gains

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100% agree. the biggest turn off to her won't be your size but that you are insecure and compare. she's with YOU now, she likes YOU. if you are insecure about exes or potential suitors you take away points from yourself and give it to them. asking insecurely about any other man automatically puts in her head that you see something better about them and at the very least creates curiosity if not more attraction. if she's a slut she will go with them regardless if you confront her about it or not, make her believe that you know you are better than all of them by not acknowledging them. you may lose her to a more confident micro-penis, but he's more sure about himself which makes her believe he is actually better.

learn her body and what she likes and she wont remember that 9" if it slaps her across the face. kegel a lot so you can pound her 5 times in a row. a strong pc muscle is quicker to develop than gaining size. if she needs a minimum of 9" for satisfaction then you are not the abnormal one, she has a giant pussy. do not rush your growth or it wont happen, growing your dick is for you and as long as you hitting it right while you are on a patient journey to your goals you will have a happy lady. you do have a big dick.

I agree with Carped1em. Unless you're working with a monster your self, it's not a good idea to ask your woman about her past lover's size. If she admits to you that she's indeed had mutant schlong in her past, it's going to fuck up your mojo.

Thanks guys!
In the end that is sort of a good thing, it is motivating me to grow as much as possible.

Just going to throw my two pennies in here, because I can relate to this thread somewhat.

I'm currently exactly the same size as you (7 x 5) and that's after gaining an inch and a half of length from Penis Enlargement. Not only do girls tell me that I'm "big," but I know from pure statistics that I am...and yet, I still struggle psychologically with anxiety-inducing thoughts that my dick is actually too small, that girls are all actually lying to me because they don't want to hurt my feelings and so forth.

To put this in perspective for you, I just got my first-ever "your dick feels bigger" comment from a girl a few weeks ago, which felt awesome...but didn't stop the stupid anxiety I tend to have about this issue.

Bottom line: it's completely irrational, but it is what it is. As guys, we instinctively attach a huge amount of importance to the size of our dicks, to the physical and psychological mark they make on our women (i.e. being her "best ever"). Most women I know compare the issue to tit size, but I think it's way closer to the way women feel about their weight, and their tendency to attach totally non-related issues of self-worth to numbers on a scale.

What Penis Enlargement has taught me is that a man isn't actually measured by how much meat he's packing, because that's completely relative. You can always get more. I've never asked my girl about her biggest ex, but she's told me that I'm "one of the bigger ones." Well folks, there you have it: one of, but not THE.

Not yet.

Because even if that dude was 9", I have every intention of getting there, eventually. She says that, size not withstanding, I am the best lover she has ever had, but does it piss me off that other men have been deeper inside my woman than I have? Yep. Is she fudging the truth about my skills to make me feel good? Maybe. I have no way to know for sure because I can't read her mind. And entertaining bullshit doubt isn't going to let me.

So what I do to manage it is to think about Penis Enlargement as something I'm doing for myself, not for her or for any other woman. I want a bigger dick because I want to look in the mirror naked and feel fucking awesome about the way I look. I want to be able to look at any of the hundreds of thousands of random women I pass on the street and will never fuck, knowing that if I ever did have sex with any of them, I'd totally blow her mind.

And it's not just about the confidence, but the health of your tool. The first thing I noticed from doing Penis Enlargement, before any gains, was suddenly I was getting hardons like a teenager again. Even without the gains, it would be worth it for that alone. Girls come and go, but you and your dick are a life long thing, and properly done Penis Enlargement is the best way to keep him in shape.

It can be tough to look at things that way when you're worried about pleasing a particular girl you really like. But that clown's 9 inches didn't please her so much that she's still with him, did they? You're the man now. So take your time, do it right, and if she's smart she'll hang around long enough to take your 10 inches.

And if not...hey, buddy, the world's your playground

Redthorn,
First of all congratulations for your gains. I would be satisfied with a 1,5" gain, that would be enough for me. As you mentioned, I dont want to be one of the best, there is no option for me other than to be the best performer ever. I know it is an ego thing, but It wont let me so easy.
I'll take my shot. This is a good motivational thing.
Besides, I'm young (26yo) and we just started dating. Who knows...with or without her, in the future I may not to be with her but I will still have a bigger unit, so make my best now is all I can do, and I will.

ps: I think this should be on Mental Penis Enlargement area.

Advantager said:

I'll try to be as short as possible.
Just like many other stories I've read here I got a "problem" with my new GF.
Her old BF had a 9" dick and by our conversations I have enough reasons to believe she is a size queen and about her notion of size. I think that 99% of other man would feel exactly as I felt in my place: an enormous lack of self-confidence about my dick size.
I'm not bad. I'm 7x5
I like her very much and I really believe that I should Penis Enlargement til my growth limit.
I know this is going to take a long time and I dont know how big I can get, but I'll try.
Since my dick is a little above the average size, I was never so worried about this but now I have this new situation. Back in 2011 before a met my new girl I just jelqued for improving the self-esteem.


My history on Penis Enlargement:
I started doing Jelqing on May/2011 and did it for 3 months every single day.
My routine was:
4 x 5 min sets of Wet jelging with 50-70% erection
4 x 5 min sets of Dry Jelqing with 50-70% erection
50 x 5 secconds manual stretches

Restuls: No results. Not .1" on girth neither in Lenght - I kept my 7" in the end of the 3 months time.

I left Penis Enlargement for sometime. On July if 2012 I bought Bathmate and I wanted again to be bigger and consistent. I've been trying it since then (5 months now) and I have gained .1" in lenght but no girth gains (not even .1").
This is making me really concerned about the future.
I do Bathmate 5 days a week. My routine:

5 min Warmup on hot shower (stretching a jelqing)
3 x 8 min of progressive pressure, finishing the last set with maximum pressure.
Finishing with 1 x 10 min of 80% pressure

I dont understand how it is possible for another man (a user of the forum) have a 2 months gain of 1.5 inches on girth and >1" on lenght and I cant have a miserable .2" on girth or lenght.
I'm right now living a hardtime, I never thought that I could feel THAT bad about just the pennis size. I consider myself good at bed, but as some use to say about car's engines: "There is not replacement for displacement". There is no magic that can be done to fill a place if you dont have enough volume.

What could I be doing wrong? What should I do?
I dont have fatpat so I cant have more gains there.

Also, could you guys post the link of a thread showing everyone's results?

Thanks in advance!

ps: I'll undergoing to a postectomy two months from now because I am uncut and I have lots of skin specially after I started do Bathmate. I hope to improve my gains after the surgery or at least facilitate Penis Enlargement.

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You can get to that 9 inches length of her ex if you can be consistent with PE for only 12 months. As a matter of fact, you can easily gain 2.5 inches from using the length master daily for a 12 months period.

You are very lucky to start with a size of 7 inches length and 5 inches girth. People had less and still gained massively.

huge-girth said:

You can get to that 9 inches length of her ex if you can be consistent with PE for only 12 months. As a matter of fact, you can easily gain 2.5 inches from using the length master daily for a 12 months period.

You are very lucky to start with a size of 7 inches length and 5 inches girth. People had less and still gained massively.

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Very lucky indeed.

The LengthMaster 3 is the tool you need for this. I agree fully with that.
Both me and @huge-girth have validated the effectiveness of the LengthMaster 3.
There is no other tool like the LengthMaster 3. The power is in bundled stretches and the intensity you can get by using both hands with no worries of loosing the grip.

squirt_inducer_man said:

Very lucky indeed.

The LengthMaster 3 is the tool you need for this. I agree fully with that.
Both me and @huge-girth have validated the effectiveness of the LengthMaster 3.
There is no other tool like the LengthMaster 3. The power is in bundled stretches and the intensity you can get by using both hands with no worries of loosing the grip.

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The device is a beast.