How to tell your wife about pe

The colonel;508464 said:

Like isaid I don't know how she won't notice when I get the Bathmate !!!!!!!!
More info on the first time she noticed thread .

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She will notice after one session.

My girlfriend freaked out when the titan came lolz...man she gave me so much problems...what can I tell her??

Just tell her she might be freaking out now but she'll be screaming your name later

I told my wife just after I started and she thought it was strange and not needed as I satisfy her plenty already but I just told her the truth that its a insecurity thing.

She lost a lot of weight when she was a teen and her boobs shrunk and stayed small so she had a boob job and I said it was the same as that she wanted bigger boobs I want a bigger dick for no one else but myself.

We don't really mention it so its not really a problem for me

I can't see why any woman gets a boob job. They clearly don't understand men in the slightest.

MikeShlort;508574 said:

I can't see why any woman gets a boob job. They clearly don't understand men in the slightest.

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Why not ?

My mrs had c/d cup boobs at 17 then she lost a lot of weight and went to a A cup so she had them done to get back to her C/D cup.

I'm sure if your dick shrunk by half you want to get it back to its former glory lol

MikeShlort;508574 said:

I can't see why any woman gets a boob job. They clearly don't understand men in the slightest.

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I really do not like breast implants, they feel and look fake. I think that if a woman wants to increase breast size they should use Fenugreek, it is a natural herb and with one month they will make unreal gains in breast size. It is cheap and healthy. Basically it fools the woman's body into thinking it is pregnant and the breast grow in response to this.

hepcat;509155 said:

Does she have to keep taking Fenugreek to keep the gains? I'm talking the rest of her life.?

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You will fall into cycles, she will take it for a couple months and then stop taking it, wait a couple weeks and see how development is, if desired start another cycle. Jen was able to go from a B cup to a DD cup in almost no time at all.

The two side effects you may notice is a faint smell of Maple Syrup, she may also lactate for extreme manipulation.

hepcat;509197 said:

Sounds promising! Thanks for the reply!

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No problem!

doublelongdaddy;509152 said:

I really do not like breast implants, they feel and look fake. I think that if a woman wants to increase breast size they should use Fenugreek, it is a natural herb and with one month they will make unreal gains in breast size. It is cheap and healthy. Basically it fools the woman's body into thinking it is pregnant and the breast grow in response to this.

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My mrs are done well and don't look fake at all, we've had 2 kids since she had them done so they have dropped a little from when the grew when she was pregnant which makes them look completely natural.

Obv if you have a good squeeze you can tell but other then that there good, there not just stuck there like 2 balloons like some fake breasts lol now they are bad

Kingy;509416 said:

My mrs are done well and don't look fake at all, we've had 2 kids since she had them done so they have dropped a little from when the grew when she was pregnant which makes them look completely natural.

Obv if you have a good squeeze you can tell but other then that there good, there not just stuck there like 2 balloons like some fake breasts lol now they are bad

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Silicone or Saline?

Well it happened...my fiancée found the Bathmate where I clumsily left it and forgot to put it away. I keep it in a zipped bag and I heard her saying "what's this?" Then I heard e zipper open and off I ran to stop her but alas I was too late. Needless to say I was embarrassed as fck, but all credit to as her she took it well. She just thought it was absurdly funny and amazed how monstrous the Bathmate looked. She couldn't understand why I thought I needed it and I said it could be fun to use and with time would make me gain in size. She then wanted to see how it worked and I showed her. Needless to say we shagged like crazy afterwards and she's cool with it now. She warned me not to get obsessed with it but it was cool to have fun with.

So all in all it went well .

LasherG;522870 said:

She warned me not to get obsessed with it but it was cool to have fun with. .

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As I would, do not become obsessed! Keep it light and carefree and always let her know she is most important.

Exactly dld! She is a special woman . I will do my best not to make that mistake.

if you let your female know it is not because you dont want her to cheat on you because of size, not the other way around. it will illustrate your insecurity perfectly. and remember if they tell you "you don't need it" you say "you are just saying that to not make me feel bad about myself"

BWC;522907 said:

if you let your female know it is not because you dont want her to cheat on you because of size, not the other way around. it will illustrate your insecurity perfectly. and remember if they tell you "you don't need it" you say "you are just saying that to not make me feel bad about myself"

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An even better counter would be to say "I don't need anything. I choose to want this"

I really dont think the majority of women would actually leave her husband because of his size (at least not mentally healthy woman - no offense to those that operate slightly left or right of the crazy scale). She married the dude in the first place so he must be at least adequate for her. Once you factor in love (cliche I know) all the rules change. If she loves you she has already accepted all your faults. Insecurity in the face of that is stupid, unnecessary and may actually harm the relationship because it is not up to her to make sure her guy feel secure. Her love should be evidence enough.

So when she asks why I have the Bathmate, I told her that it is just for fun and some extra size might make things even more exciting in the future and I really meant that. Before I met her I was insecure (btw my stats are a hair over 6" nbpl and 5.1" girth so im slam in the middle of average) but when we had sex I realised that she was actually a very snug fit. So after that I changed my perception of what is an acceptable size. I would definitely like some more length (7" would probably be fine) and more girth (5.5" I would be happy with) would be awesome addition but whether i achieve that or not wont matter in the scheme of things to come.

mizzougrad01;495537 said:

Try inviting her to a girth work session or show her a before and after of your cock. I introduced my wife to it by sending her a text photo of the Dick after a hard girth workout when I was maxed out, and she skipped class top come home and get some.

After that we've turned it into a bonding experience with my wife. She loves lubing me up for the pumping sessions and when I clamp she's right there sucking me to get me hard. Sometimes while i'm clamping shell masturbate in front of me and after a few sets when my Dick and head were super thick well fuck while clamped. The only thing she can't handle watching is when I hang and when i'm doing bundled stretches.

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invite your wife to do a jelqing session on you as part of your routine make it your 4 play youll both get a kick from it and you know your lady has a grip like a boa constrictor
if you have your wife help then you and her created another memory together and she can say to I Did That lol
im married and i told my wife straight out she Jelqs me and shower time has been more fun she says ................... you can feel the rest in
make her a part of your Penis Enlargement you have to also stimulate blood flow while in the Penis Enlargement so have her tickle your member to keep the blood flowing lol
if ya have to hide it your doing your relationship harm but if you explain it and make her part of the excercises then she will be a better understanding and your relationship will be stronger

ShaggyRat;523074 said:

invite your wife to do a jelqing session on you as part of your routine make it your 4 play youll both get a kick from it and you know your lady has a grip like a boa constrictor
if you have your wife help then you and her created another memory together and she can say to I Did That lol
im married and i told my wife straight out she Jelqs me and shower time has been more fun she says ................... you can feel the rest in
make her a part of your Penis Enlargement you have to also stimulate blood flow while in the Penis Enlargement so have her tickle your member to keep the blood flowing lol
if ya have to hide it your doing your relationship harm but if you explain it and make her part of the excercises then she will be a better understanding and your relationship will be stronger

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If it is the right kind of girl she may understand. If she is the jealous type you may have to deal with a huge case of penis envy.

Lol shaggy that's awesome though I doubt my girl would help me as she gets bored very easily. Or maybe she wont, ill ask her next time ;P. While our sex life is good she is not an overly sexual woman. I think the problem is she has mild OCD and is a hygiene/germaphobe freak. This prevents her from really letting go sexually however she does have an open mind to a certain extent. Working on her so we'll see in the future. One great thing, she came into the bathroom yesterday and chatted to me while I was doing pe (i dont lock the bathroom door anymore since she accidentally discovered my Bathmate and we had the "talk ) Very easy with what I was doing. If I can get her to help it would be awesome but knowing her Dislike for any repeatative exercise in general, i won't hold my breath .