My PE experience - a journey of insecurity
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doublelongdaddy;734022 said:Ahhh, the benefits of having no women
yep i understand u i think lol
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LONGERDICK7+;734025 said:
Benefits 101
- Peace and Quiet
- Do what I want when I want
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- Eat and sleep when I want
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- No bitching and complaining
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- I can go on for days!
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doublelongdaddy;734072 said:
maybe you should its inspiring!
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Suction resistance has risen sharply and all of a sudden. Now the skin at the base hurts from the suction when using the BM but I can live with that.
My #1 issue, I've slowly come to realize, is ED. I can't get up to 100%. Haven't been able to in months. Erections are rather weak, mostly up to 80%, and they fade away really quickly. This hampers BM usage where I masturbate to get as hard as I can and quickly pump before I lose my erection. It also affects progress management as I can't judge whether I'm gaining or not without a full erection.
Morning woods do happen sometimes but they're rarely over 70%. I tried stopping �naked people movies�/masturbation and relapsed after 20 days as I saw no change at all. Also I couldn't do that now anyway as I have to masturbate in order to get hard enough for the BM - I don't know how else you would do that anyway. I kegel every day (soft kegels anyway) and that doesn't seem to help either.
As I'm pretty young and healthy I wouldn't want to indulge in pills and the like (and I'm honestly too shy to get through a prescription and all that). How would you cope with that?
My #1 issue, I've slowly come to realize, is ED. I can't get up to 100%. Haven't been able to in months. Erections are rather weak, mostly up to 80%, and they fade away really quickly. This hampers BM usage where I masturbate to get as hard as I can and quickly pump before I lose my erection. It also affects progress management as I can't judge whether I'm gaining or not without a full erection.
Morning woods do happen sometimes but they're rarely over 70%. I tried stopping �naked people movies�/masturbation and relapsed after 20 days as I saw no change at all. Also I couldn't do that now anyway as I have to masturbate in order to get hard enough for the BM - I don't know how else you would do that anyway. I kegel every day (soft kegels anyway) and that doesn't seem to help either.
As I'm pretty young and healthy I wouldn't want to indulge in pills and the like (and I'm honestly too shy to get through a prescription and all that). How would you cope with that?
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Quetzalcoatl;734133 said:
I found fatigue was my biggest hurdle due to training with as much intensity as I could stand for at least a 30 minute (usually 45 minute) session. I no longer consider myself young, but I'm strong, healthy and in decent shape. I've never experienced any ED issues, but I definitely had difficulty getting to 100%. Now, when I know I'll be engaging in sexual activity, I'll take a 25mg of Vitamin Calis and voila! insta boner! The latent effects last for almost a week, so my EQ during PE is still 90-100%...I also believe having regular sex (with a partner, lol) helps with keeping everything operational
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Big Schwanz Acht;734137 said:
Forgot to mention that I had similar EQ prior to PE too so I'd rule out fatigue.
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Quetzalcoatl;734150 said:
EQ problems are most of the time weak pelvic floor muscles. Doing the Kegel program in the Newbie Routine with greatly strengthen the muscles and bring much better EQ. If this is not the case I would look into Viagra or the like to see if theses a psychological issue or a physical one. Physical weakness is usually never the case unless it is temporary fatigue.
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doublelongdaddy;734203 said:
I usually do kegels although I never tried the "squeeze as hard as you can" variant. I'll try that one.
Failing that, I wouldn't be against giving the big V a shot, but I'll admit I'd rather ask someone here and pay for shipping and everything rather than going out and getting some myself.
Quetzalcoatl;734133 said:
There's times I've been really tired and wondered if I'd be able to achieve 100% EQ for sex. Doing a quick test alone would sometimes have me discouraged and worried. Yet as soon as we start foreplay I'm suddenly 100% and really eager. Sometimes I simply need my wife's presence and interaction to get completely there.
I'm just wondering if it's a psychological problem for you rather than physical.
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I don't have a stable relationship and noone to... test my EQ with in this period, so the matter is in my hands, pun definitely intended. The issue may very well be psychological but I can't rule out other reasons for now.
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doublelongdaddy;734515 said:
Nope. Somewhere around 75%, including when reaching the PONR. Bit spongy, not too stiff.
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Quetzalcoatl;734546 said:
Have you been to a urologist? Have you tried any medications yet? This is obviously not a psychological issue so being physical, if you have not yet, I would highly recommend seeing a urologist. There are many reason this could be happening but none should cause alarm since you are still able to become 75% erect, impotence would be a complete lack of erection. It may be blockage, it may be weak pelvic floor muscles, it may be a drop in testosterone, it may be many different things. Viagra or Cialis is most likely what the doctor will send you home with.
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doublelongdaddy;734573 said:
No medications and yes, I've been to a urologist - two years ago - but for another issue: a small, hard ridge had formed below the corona (which is still there nowadays, just softer), probably due to PE.
I would rule out weak muscles as I can perform dry orgasms but you are right in that I should consult a specialist as that would provide more insight.
What means does a urologist have to diagnose the issue (if any), though? I mean, if it's likely that he just sends me home with a V prescription, we may never know the underlying issue.
