Another big part of telling your mate is you may see yourself become more open with it and they may see this as obsession. I think that is why the forum is important, it allows us to say the stuff here so we are not making it the star player in our relationships. If she knows that is great if she is good with it but don't make it the main part of your relationship. Us, as men, when we learn about Penis Enlargement we become hyper-amazed. It becomes something we can't stop thinking about and when we realize it is true we can become obsessed. It is important to understand that your excitement and creation is not hers, it is yours...don't expect equal expression of emotion.
Obsessive questions like; "Does it feel bigger today?" or "Do you think I look longer?" and the like will put their head in a spin. You will start to appear insecure and if the relationship is rocky tables will turn and you could lose your mate. I only advise from experience in this. When my last girl left me she made it very clean that a large part of why she fell out of love was because of how obsessed I became with my penis and Penis Enlargement. Looking back, she is right. Once I included her in my Penis Enlargement the relationship fell further and further apart. Today I would not make it a big deal but I have learned these lessons, I just hope others heed my warnings. There was a time I advocated to include your mate in Penis Enlargement, today my advice would be just the opposite.
I think the simplicity of gaining without her knowing is awesome. I love when guys get asked if their dick is still growing. The sense of mystery makes you a superman in her eyes, magical. If she knows how the trick is done the magic no longer has the same appeal.