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Everytime one of these discussions pops up I always sit back and watch the speculation. Every once in a while I get to chuckle at some "expert" that states that women don't ejaculate.
I am fortunate to be married to a women for the last 15 years that is a world class squirter.
We actually discovered she could do this by accident. She was exhausted from a long day at work and I was still sore from teeth marks she left the day before rofl
I decided I would get even by going down on her until she forced me to stop. She was having a lot of small orgasms and oozing out the usual flow of jucies. I finally hit it right and she had a nice big shaking big O. Usually I would stop, but this time I kept going with a renewed vigor. By the time she hit the third or forth big orgasm she was spraying all over the place. It was really cool to watch!
What we figured out is that she was so tired that she let her guard down. She said the before the orgasm it felt like she had to pee and she was too tired to stop it. I can guarentee that it was not piss that came out.
After that she started doing it all the time. Just like Frankie says "Relax".
It is certainly a learned thing. We have taught a couple of other women how to do it. All it takes is good stimulation and the woman has to be comfortable enough to let loose.
The only other advice I can give is go down to your local wally world and buy baby changing pads. These things are about the size of a towel but have a water proof layer. You will need that to catch all of it you don't drink.
Lastly, what she has to drink during the day will greatly effect how it tastes. The best is after she has had a few margaritas. It tastes very sweet.
Maybe if I get her drunk enough she will let me take a picture of it squirting.
I am fortunate to be married to a women for the last 15 years that is a world class squirter.
We actually discovered she could do this by accident. She was exhausted from a long day at work and I was still sore from teeth marks she left the day before rofl
I decided I would get even by going down on her until she forced me to stop. She was having a lot of small orgasms and oozing out the usual flow of jucies. I finally hit it right and she had a nice big shaking big O. Usually I would stop, but this time I kept going with a renewed vigor. By the time she hit the third or forth big orgasm she was spraying all over the place. It was really cool to watch!
What we figured out is that she was so tired that she let her guard down. She said the before the orgasm it felt like she had to pee and she was too tired to stop it. I can guarentee that it was not piss that came out.
After that she started doing it all the time. Just like Frankie says "Relax".
It is certainly a learned thing. We have taught a couple of other women how to do it. All it takes is good stimulation and the woman has to be comfortable enough to let loose.
The only other advice I can give is go down to your local wally world and buy baby changing pads. These things are about the size of a towel but have a water proof layer. You will need that to catch all of it you don't drink.
Lastly, what she has to drink during the day will greatly effect how it tastes. The best is after she has had a few margaritas. It tastes very sweet.
Maybe if I get her drunk enough she will let me take a picture of it squirting.
Doubtful
Read Wannabe's post. That says it all in my opinion. It took a while with my ex gf as well. The problem is even when they "aren't trying to hold back" really she likely is holding back. It's natural, no one wants to pee on the bed
Try doing it in a hottub or bathtub, where she may feel more comfortable letting loose.
Read Wannabe's post. That says it all in my opinion. It took a while with my ex gf as well. The problem is even when they "aren't trying to hold back" really she likely is holding back. It's natural, no one wants to pee on the bed
Try doing it in a hottub or bathtub, where she may feel more comfortable letting loose.
JEN and I usually have sex on an old leather couch that is vitually water proof. After sex we can simply wash up. Laying down some plastic or, as Jersey suggested, using a tub may be the best way to encourage her to relax. Keep at it, it is worth it, in time it will happen and you will be the master of the female orgasm.
REDZULU2003
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I used to drink the juice straight from my ex girls cunt, it tastes kinda like a sweet piss.
It came from her cunt hole, and there was a nice mouth full for me to digest.
Havent gotten a girl to ejaculate since, but saying that all I do these days is have One night stands and masturbate to BangBoat videos.
It came from her cunt hole, and there was a nice mouth full for me to digest.
Havent gotten a girl to ejaculate since, but saying that all I do these days is have One night stands and masturbate to BangBoat videos.
J
Jen
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crazyed27 said:
don't you mean squirtity-squirt-squirt
xoxo sexyjen
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OK I have been passed the following 10 point guide to female ejaculation, I have tried it a few times and think were getting there, one thing I was told is that woman have a point of no return just before they squirt, is this true Jen
I will post the 10 points in the following posts
I will post the 10 points in the following posts
Although it’s possible to help a woman achieve a G-Spot
orgasm on the first sexual encounter, the surest bet is with steady
partners who are familiar and comfortable together. This is
because of emotional qualities. In order to fully let go, many
women need to feel safe, loved, and secure with their partners’
sexual prowess and understanding.
Recommendation number one: As was said earlier, it’s wise
not to mention the G-Spot orgasm to your partner. If you tell her
you want to “try something new” you’ll be fostering expectations
in her that may be counter-productive when you actually get
down to lovemaking. She’ll feel the need to “perform” without
understanding the details. Therefore, she will be apprehensive and
edgy—when it’s helpful to be exactly the opposite: relaxed and
comfortable.
Instead of telling your lover about your covert plan, set up the
opportunity to “show” her. Sit down with your lover and tell her
that you’d love to take her out for dinner or a movie, then return
home and spend the evening making slow passionate love. Be
sure to mention the second part of this plan so your lover doesn’t
get the wrong impression—that the two of you are going to spend
the evening out together. This will do two things for you. One,
your lover will appreciate your candor and the romance of the
gesture; two, it will prime her for lovemaking. If your relationship
is fair or better, she’ll probably be thinking about the lovemaking
long before you order supper or choose a movie.
Beyond this preparation, be sure to groom yourself prior to
your date. Because much of this technique involves stimulation of
the vagina, be sure your fingernails are short, clean, and smooth
to avoid damaging the soft tissues of her body. Wear your favorite
cologne. Look and feel your best.
orgasm on the first sexual encounter, the surest bet is with steady
partners who are familiar and comfortable together. This is
because of emotional qualities. In order to fully let go, many
women need to feel safe, loved, and secure with their partners’
sexual prowess and understanding.
Recommendation number one: As was said earlier, it’s wise
not to mention the G-Spot orgasm to your partner. If you tell her
you want to “try something new” you’ll be fostering expectations
in her that may be counter-productive when you actually get
down to lovemaking. She’ll feel the need to “perform” without
understanding the details. Therefore, she will be apprehensive and
edgy—when it’s helpful to be exactly the opposite: relaxed and
comfortable.
Instead of telling your lover about your covert plan, set up the
opportunity to “show” her. Sit down with your lover and tell her
that you’d love to take her out for dinner or a movie, then return
home and spend the evening making slow passionate love. Be
sure to mention the second part of this plan so your lover doesn’t
get the wrong impression—that the two of you are going to spend
the evening out together. This will do two things for you. One,
your lover will appreciate your candor and the romance of the
gesture; two, it will prime her for lovemaking. If your relationship
is fair or better, she’ll probably be thinking about the lovemaking
long before you order supper or choose a movie.
Beyond this preparation, be sure to groom yourself prior to
your date. Because much of this technique involves stimulation of
the vagina, be sure your fingernails are short, clean, and smooth
to avoid damaging the soft tissues of her body. Wear your favorite
cologne. Look and feel your best.
After you wine and dine her, talk about old times and those to
come, perhaps give her flowers, brush the spinach out of your
teeth from dinner, maybe slow dance in the living room and eventually
work your way to the bedroom, be sure to remind her of
how beautiful she is and how much you enjoy being with her.
Boost the intimacy. Talk to her. Remember that for many women,
foreplay is mainly emotional. Spend lots of time on the emotional
bonding. Strengthen your relationship and bond with her
come, perhaps give her flowers, brush the spinach out of your
teeth from dinner, maybe slow dance in the living room and eventually
work your way to the bedroom, be sure to remind her of
how beautiful she is and how much you enjoy being with her.
Boost the intimacy. Talk to her. Remember that for many women,
foreplay is mainly emotional. Spend lots of time on the emotional
bonding. Strengthen your relationship and bond with her
Most likely, with a few more kisses, some light petting, and
additional compliments, the two of you will be stripping each
other as if your clothes are on fire—falling into the bed together
as if it were the only pool of water in the world. And this is when
you need to gently take control. If this is your steady partner and
you’ve primed her the week before your “date”, she’ll likely be
wet and ready to fall into your standard lovemaking. Seize control
by telling her you want to “take it slow” this time. Remind her
that you want to make slow love to her—that you want to spend
some time pleasing and savoring her and making her feel loved.
She’ll love you for that. Ask her to lie back and make herself
comfortable. Remind her that you love her and remind her how
beautiful you think she is. If she has beautiful breasts, tell her so.
If it’s her eyes, her long legs, or her full sensual lips that you like,
tell her so. Praise is a key element within any relationship. It
costs nothing to give but can be priceless when received. It helps
us maintain a healthy image and self-worth while making us feel
respected, desirable, and loved. If you love your partner, praise
her. Tell her what you love about her; not just her physical beauties,
but her emotional qualities, skills, or whatever it is you truly admire.
By doing this, you’re promoting a deep sense of intimacy and
comfort while keeping her aroused. Kiss her. Nibble on her lips.
Kiss her throat, the lobe of her ears, her eyelids—all of which are
very erotic and arousing spots for the majority of women.
In the case of most women, by the time you’ve spent a few
minutes kissing all about her face, nibbling the lips, kissing the
eyelids, perhaps blowing in her ear, and dragging your lips over
her neck and down to her shoulders, you’ll probably notice her
beginning to inch upward or pressing your face toward her
breasts. . . arching her back. If she’s forward, she may seek you
out with her hand or guide your hand to her breast. She may even
tell you she wants you—but don’t sell off the million-dollar
orgasm that cheaply. A critical element here is keeping all your
attention, physical and emotional, focused at breast level or above.
additional compliments, the two of you will be stripping each
other as if your clothes are on fire—falling into the bed together
as if it were the only pool of water in the world. And this is when
you need to gently take control. If this is your steady partner and
you’ve primed her the week before your “date”, she’ll likely be
wet and ready to fall into your standard lovemaking. Seize control
by telling her you want to “take it slow” this time. Remind her
that you want to make slow love to her—that you want to spend
some time pleasing and savoring her and making her feel loved.
She’ll love you for that. Ask her to lie back and make herself
comfortable. Remind her that you love her and remind her how
beautiful you think she is. If she has beautiful breasts, tell her so.
If it’s her eyes, her long legs, or her full sensual lips that you like,
tell her so. Praise is a key element within any relationship. It
costs nothing to give but can be priceless when received. It helps
us maintain a healthy image and self-worth while making us feel
respected, desirable, and loved. If you love your partner, praise
her. Tell her what you love about her; not just her physical beauties,
but her emotional qualities, skills, or whatever it is you truly admire.
By doing this, you’re promoting a deep sense of intimacy and
comfort while keeping her aroused. Kiss her. Nibble on her lips.
Kiss her throat, the lobe of her ears, her eyelids—all of which are
very erotic and arousing spots for the majority of women.
In the case of most women, by the time you’ve spent a few
minutes kissing all about her face, nibbling the lips, kissing the
eyelids, perhaps blowing in her ear, and dragging your lips over
her neck and down to her shoulders, you’ll probably notice her
beginning to inch upward or pressing your face toward her
breasts. . . arching her back. If she’s forward, she may seek you
out with her hand or guide your hand to her breast. She may even
tell you she wants you—but don’t sell off the million-dollar
orgasm that cheaply. A critical element here is keeping all your
attention, physical and emotional, focused at breast level or above.
So here you are, in bed together, probably naked by this point,
very aroused and ready. You’ve (both) been thinking about this
moment ever since you first mentioned the evening out. This is
the part where both patience and self-control are beginning to
come into play—don’t sell yourself short and give in!
Lavish her with kisses. If she enjoys having her neck kissed,
by all means oblige. If she enjoys breast stimulation, nuzzle and
fondle and tease her breasts. At this point you can “bend” the rule
of focusing all attention at the breast level (and above) by rubbing
her stomach. This is an important step in the arousal process. The
purpose of this step is to increase blood flow in the pelvic area.
Work your hand back and forth across her stomach and down her
abdomen very slowly. You don’t want her to think you’re targeting
the vulva, so move slowly and randomly until you’ve reached the
area just above the pubic hairline. Absolutely DON’T drop your
hand any lower—even if she tries to move it there—even if she
tells you she wants you and starts pulling you toward her.
The reason you don’t want to touch any lower than the
abdomen (yet) is because it breaks the bond you’re working to
build. Some women have experienced the “vagina marksman”
and may be emotionally turned off when interest is transferred to
the vagina (if done too soon). When this occurs, it often signifies
the “end” of the bonding process and the “beginning” of sex. It
can flick as quickly as a light switch. The mist of enchantment lifts.
Continue to nuzzle her breasts, kiss her, nibble at her neck, or
whatever shows your love. Your goal is to continue increasing the
emotional bond between you, and she will unconsciously give
you signs as the strength of the bond deepens. Remember—
you’re about to provide the stimulus for an orgasm that is unlike
anything she’s ever felt. In order to reach it, she’ll be slowly
transferring her trust to you. She’ll need to feel cherished, safe,
and adored in order to do so without holding back.
As you nuzzle at her breasts, kiss her neck, nibble her ears, or
whatever it is that turns her on, you are watching for two “go
ahead” signs before moving to step five. The first is the most
important. You must continue stimulation until she is virtually
smashing your head into her chest, breathing heavily, tugging at
you as if she’s trying to pull you inside her. Once you become
aware of this, start watching (or sensing) for the second sign:
movements in her hips. The hips never lie. . . and you want her
thrusting them upward. If she’s not thrusting, arching, or twisting
her hips, she’s not ready. So continue nuzzling and sucking at her
breasts or otherwise stimulating her until her hips move. If need
be, move your hand a little lower on her abdomen to brush the
upper edge of the pubic hair as you rub. Before long, both of
these signs will come.
very aroused and ready. You’ve (both) been thinking about this
moment ever since you first mentioned the evening out. This is
the part where both patience and self-control are beginning to
come into play—don’t sell yourself short and give in!
Lavish her with kisses. If she enjoys having her neck kissed,
by all means oblige. If she enjoys breast stimulation, nuzzle and
fondle and tease her breasts. At this point you can “bend” the rule
of focusing all attention at the breast level (and above) by rubbing
her stomach. This is an important step in the arousal process. The
purpose of this step is to increase blood flow in the pelvic area.
Work your hand back and forth across her stomach and down her
abdomen very slowly. You don’t want her to think you’re targeting
the vulva, so move slowly and randomly until you’ve reached the
area just above the pubic hairline. Absolutely DON’T drop your
hand any lower—even if she tries to move it there—even if she
tells you she wants you and starts pulling you toward her.
The reason you don’t want to touch any lower than the
abdomen (yet) is because it breaks the bond you’re working to
build. Some women have experienced the “vagina marksman”
and may be emotionally turned off when interest is transferred to
the vagina (if done too soon). When this occurs, it often signifies
the “end” of the bonding process and the “beginning” of sex. It
can flick as quickly as a light switch. The mist of enchantment lifts.
Continue to nuzzle her breasts, kiss her, nibble at her neck, or
whatever shows your love. Your goal is to continue increasing the
emotional bond between you, and she will unconsciously give
you signs as the strength of the bond deepens. Remember—
you’re about to provide the stimulus for an orgasm that is unlike
anything she’s ever felt. In order to reach it, she’ll be slowly
transferring her trust to you. She’ll need to feel cherished, safe,
and adored in order to do so without holding back.
As you nuzzle at her breasts, kiss her neck, nibble her ears, or
whatever it is that turns her on, you are watching for two “go
ahead” signs before moving to step five. The first is the most
important. You must continue stimulation until she is virtually
smashing your head into her chest, breathing heavily, tugging at
you as if she’s trying to pull you inside her. Once you become
aware of this, start watching (or sensing) for the second sign:
movements in her hips. The hips never lie. . . and you want her
thrusting them upward. If she’s not thrusting, arching, or twisting
her hips, she’s not ready. So continue nuzzling and sucking at her
breasts or otherwise stimulating her until her hips move. If need
be, move your hand a little lower on her abdomen to brush the
upper edge of the pubic hair as you rub. Before long, both of
these signs will come.
Once you have the two “go ahead” signs of arching hips and
tugging, absolutely don’t break contact with her breasts, chest or
face. Keep your head and face at chest level or above. This gives
the unspoken message that “you’re still with her”—not merely
moving on to focus on her vagina and get your next lay.
With the hand you’ve been using to massage her abdomen,
slowly trace down to rub her upper and inner thighs—again,
without touching the vagina and setting off the “vagina marksman”
alarm. If you’d like, reach around and squeeze the lower
half of either buttock in a teasing way. Massage the muscles gently;
working the flesh actually tugs at the edge of the vulva, helping
to open the labia and helping her become more ready and wanton.
This massage also increases blood flow in the pelvis, arousing
and heightening sensitivity.
Trace your fingers up and down her thighs, provocatively
circling her “magic triangle”. Brushing the edges will ensure her
hips continue to thrust.
Above all, remember to focus on her and hold the emotional
bond you’ve established.
tugging, absolutely don’t break contact with her breasts, chest or
face. Keep your head and face at chest level or above. This gives
the unspoken message that “you’re still with her”—not merely
moving on to focus on her vagina and get your next lay.
With the hand you’ve been using to massage her abdomen,
slowly trace down to rub her upper and inner thighs—again,
without touching the vagina and setting off the “vagina marksman”
alarm. If you’d like, reach around and squeeze the lower
half of either buttock in a teasing way. Massage the muscles gently;
working the flesh actually tugs at the edge of the vulva, helping
to open the labia and helping her become more ready and wanton.
This massage also increases blood flow in the pelvis, arousing
and heightening sensitivity.
Trace your fingers up and down her thighs, provocatively
circling her “magic triangle”. Brushing the edges will ensure her
hips continue to thrust.
Above all, remember to focus on her and hold the emotional
bond you’ve established.
By now she should be thrusting her hips wantonly and moving
in a way to actually encourage you to touch her vagina. If she’s
bold, she may try to massage herself or try to guide your hand (or
other part) to the area. However, don’t let her. If necessary remind
her lovingly that you want to spend more time just touching and
savoring her. If she wants to massage herself, encourage her to
massage her breasts. Moreover, encourage her simply to just lie
back and enjoy.
Your next step will be to move your hand above her womanhood
and hover it there, just brushing the tips of the pubic hair. If she’s
really aroused, this will drive her absolutely crazy. She’ll sense
your hand and the heat of your hand and should impulsively arch
her hips toward your hand. Expect this reaction and raise your
hand to avoid contact.
While hovering, you may even tug at the hair lightly. You need
not tease her in this way for more than 2 or 3 minutes, but be sure
to allow your hand to hover above her womanhood long enough
for her to show some type of acknowledgment—even if that’s
only a moan.
Many women harbor inhibitions about being verbal or displaying
their sexual needs or desire. The underlying significance of the
“hovering” is two-fold. Not only does it increase your lover’s
arousal, but it also encourages her to react and helps to break
through any inhibitions she may be struggling with. It should be
abundantly clear that you are deliberately (almost mercilessly)
teasing her, searching for a reaction, and this gives her a justifiable
reason to react without compromising her ego or sacrificing dignity.
You’ve compelled, almost forced, her to react. And for many
women, once they have reacted the first time and break the barrier,
it’s easier and acceptable to react again.
After you’ve hovered and received a reaction, allow your fingers
to trace up and down the flesh on either side of her vagina.
By saying “flesh”, we do not mean the labia but rather the
mounds on either side of the vulva. Touch it very lightly. This is
an extension of the tease and should further fuel the fires of arousal.
Continue this for a while and slowly change the feather-light
touches into a soft massage. Few people realize there are muscles
on either side of the vaginal opening, so take a little time and
gently massage these muscles, relaxing them.
After you’ve massaged these muscles for a moment, trace her
vagina with your fingers, using a finger on either side of her vagina
to lightly pull back and spread open the labia. The labia are a
very sensitive and erogenous area, yet many women report they
are overlooked during lovemaking. So spend a little time here,
flattening the genital lips and tracing them with your fingertips.
Gently tug at them and spread them open. This sense of the vagina
being “open” will often trigger a high “vaginal craving”, and
she’ll want that void filled.
If you’d like, you may even stroke the clitoris lightly—but
don’t linger there as the clitoris can be very disruptive to firsttime
G-Spot orgasms. If you’ve thought of the clitoris as the primary
stimulus point for a woman, you’ll want to re-train your
thinking. From this point on, think of the G-Spot as the main
stimulation and the clitoris as either a “booster” or a secondary
stimulus. Remember that the women polled report that G-Spot
orgasms are significantly more intense than clitoral orgasms, both
in duration and fulfillment.
As we discussed earlier, “blended orgasms” are an exception
to this rule and will certainly warrant future exploration. But for
tonight, this special first night, we’ll avoid the clitoris unless she
really needs an extra boost.
In some ways, the G-Spot and the clitoris are like
internal/external counterparts. G-Spot virgins, who have spent a
lifetime thinking of their clitoris as their primary stimulation,
may get so involved trying to give themselves a clitoral orgasm
that they lose track of the G-Spot stimulation you’re trying to
build. While it has not been scientifically proven, our belief is
that “single-task” persons can only focus on one form of internal
stimulation. . .just as they can only focus on one form of external
stimulus at a time. Logical thinking would lead to the conclusion
that “multi-taskers” are more likely to succeed at blended
orgasms.
Whether or not this is the case, we advise you try to keep your
lover away from her own clitoris for this night. Touch it enough
to tease, and then move on.
Bear in mind through this whole process, never break contact
with her breasts or above. . . returning frequently to kiss her lips
and ward off her advances if she tries to pull you onto her.
in a way to actually encourage you to touch her vagina. If she’s
bold, she may try to massage herself or try to guide your hand (or
other part) to the area. However, don’t let her. If necessary remind
her lovingly that you want to spend more time just touching and
savoring her. If she wants to massage herself, encourage her to
massage her breasts. Moreover, encourage her simply to just lie
back and enjoy.
Your next step will be to move your hand above her womanhood
and hover it there, just brushing the tips of the pubic hair. If she’s
really aroused, this will drive her absolutely crazy. She’ll sense
your hand and the heat of your hand and should impulsively arch
her hips toward your hand. Expect this reaction and raise your
hand to avoid contact.
While hovering, you may even tug at the hair lightly. You need
not tease her in this way for more than 2 or 3 minutes, but be sure
to allow your hand to hover above her womanhood long enough
for her to show some type of acknowledgment—even if that’s
only a moan.
Many women harbor inhibitions about being verbal or displaying
their sexual needs or desire. The underlying significance of the
“hovering” is two-fold. Not only does it increase your lover’s
arousal, but it also encourages her to react and helps to break
through any inhibitions she may be struggling with. It should be
abundantly clear that you are deliberately (almost mercilessly)
teasing her, searching for a reaction, and this gives her a justifiable
reason to react without compromising her ego or sacrificing dignity.
You’ve compelled, almost forced, her to react. And for many
women, once they have reacted the first time and break the barrier,
it’s easier and acceptable to react again.
After you’ve hovered and received a reaction, allow your fingers
to trace up and down the flesh on either side of her vagina.
By saying “flesh”, we do not mean the labia but rather the
mounds on either side of the vulva. Touch it very lightly. This is
an extension of the tease and should further fuel the fires of arousal.
Continue this for a while and slowly change the feather-light
touches into a soft massage. Few people realize there are muscles
on either side of the vaginal opening, so take a little time and
gently massage these muscles, relaxing them.
After you’ve massaged these muscles for a moment, trace her
vagina with your fingers, using a finger on either side of her vagina
to lightly pull back and spread open the labia. The labia are a
very sensitive and erogenous area, yet many women report they
are overlooked during lovemaking. So spend a little time here,
flattening the genital lips and tracing them with your fingertips.
Gently tug at them and spread them open. This sense of the vagina
being “open” will often trigger a high “vaginal craving”, and
she’ll want that void filled.
If you’d like, you may even stroke the clitoris lightly—but
don’t linger there as the clitoris can be very disruptive to firsttime
G-Spot orgasms. If you’ve thought of the clitoris as the primary
stimulus point for a woman, you’ll want to re-train your
thinking. From this point on, think of the G-Spot as the main
stimulation and the clitoris as either a “booster” or a secondary
stimulus. Remember that the women polled report that G-Spot
orgasms are significantly more intense than clitoral orgasms, both
in duration and fulfillment.
As we discussed earlier, “blended orgasms” are an exception
to this rule and will certainly warrant future exploration. But for
tonight, this special first night, we’ll avoid the clitoris unless she
really needs an extra boost.
In some ways, the G-Spot and the clitoris are like
internal/external counterparts. G-Spot virgins, who have spent a
lifetime thinking of their clitoris as their primary stimulation,
may get so involved trying to give themselves a clitoral orgasm
that they lose track of the G-Spot stimulation you’re trying to
build. While it has not been scientifically proven, our belief is
that “single-task” persons can only focus on one form of internal
stimulation. . .just as they can only focus on one form of external
stimulus at a time. Logical thinking would lead to the conclusion
that “multi-taskers” are more likely to succeed at blended
orgasms.
Whether or not this is the case, we advise you try to keep your
lover away from her own clitoris for this night. Touch it enough
to tease, and then move on.
Bear in mind through this whole process, never break contact
with her breasts or above. . . returning frequently to kiss her lips
and ward off her advances if she tries to pull you onto her.
By now there should be no doubt she’s ready. She should be
moaning (at least quietly), thrashing her hips, arching her back,
and urging you on. And as you finally dip your finger into that
moist warm wetness, your patience and self-control will be tested
to their maximum endurance. But don’t give up. . . you’re
almost there!
Slide your finger into her very slowly—dipping in very shallow
at first to allow your finger to become moist—pulling out and
dipping in again. As you do this, dip a little deeper each time,
keeping light pressure on the front wall of the vagina—all the
while be careful not to scratch those sensitive folds of velvet with
a fingernail.
When touching a woman, many lovers make the error of
plunging a finger as deeply into the vagina as possible and wiggling
the member around, not realizing that aside from the hidden
G-Spot, most of the sensitive nerves lie within the first two inches
of the vagina’s throat. Hence, the adage: It’s not what you’ve got
but how you use it. So don’t make the error of plunging. Your
goal here is to tantalize the outer nerve endings while allowing
your finger to become sufficiently lubricated to visit hidden depths.
If your partner is not well lubricated, you may want to use a
suitable lubricant. Her being “dry” does not mean she is not aroused.
Diet, hormonal levels, medications, and menstrual cycle can all
affect vaginal lubrication. Wetness is not a valid gauge of arousal.
Finally, slide your index finger into her, skimming the upper
wall. This is the critical process of locating the G-Spot, so while
you’re still kissing her, teasing her nipples or sucking her breasts,
concentrate for a moment on what your finger encounters.
Study the following diagram. This may help you better understand
the location of the G-Spot when the time comes.
With most women, about one-and-one-half inches inside,
you’ll feel a slightly textured area of skin (it feels somewhat the
same as the roof of your mouth). Just beyond this textured area is
the G-Spot, hidden in what feels like a “valley”. If you go too far
and pass the G-Spot, you’ll feel a smooth “plateau” that is flat for
an inch or two, then curves inward toward the cervix opening
(which is also a very erotic spot if caressed lightly—although it is
hard to reach).
If you go too far and reach this plateau, back up to the bottom
of the “valley” and rub the down-slope between the valley and the
edge of the textured area.
In most cases, the G-Spot feels like a small bean or a very
small nipple. At other times it can’t be sensed at all. Just like
breasts or nipples, some women have small G-Spots and others
have larger ones. (The former is especially true of postmenopausal
women).
Once you’ve found the G-Spot (or are in the vicinity where it
should be, if it can’t be felt), begin rubbing very lightly in a circular
manner, at the rate of about one revolution per second. The
pressure you apply should begin with about the same degree of
pressure you would use to write your name on a steam-fogged
mirror. You can use one finger, or two, whichever feels most comfortable
to you and best matches the size of your partner.
moaning (at least quietly), thrashing her hips, arching her back,
and urging you on. And as you finally dip your finger into that
moist warm wetness, your patience and self-control will be tested
to their maximum endurance. But don’t give up. . . you’re
almost there!
Slide your finger into her very slowly—dipping in very shallow
at first to allow your finger to become moist—pulling out and
dipping in again. As you do this, dip a little deeper each time,
keeping light pressure on the front wall of the vagina—all the
while be careful not to scratch those sensitive folds of velvet with
a fingernail.
When touching a woman, many lovers make the error of
plunging a finger as deeply into the vagina as possible and wiggling
the member around, not realizing that aside from the hidden
G-Spot, most of the sensitive nerves lie within the first two inches
of the vagina’s throat. Hence, the adage: It’s not what you’ve got
but how you use it. So don’t make the error of plunging. Your
goal here is to tantalize the outer nerve endings while allowing
your finger to become sufficiently lubricated to visit hidden depths.
If your partner is not well lubricated, you may want to use a
suitable lubricant. Her being “dry” does not mean she is not aroused.
Diet, hormonal levels, medications, and menstrual cycle can all
affect vaginal lubrication. Wetness is not a valid gauge of arousal.
Finally, slide your index finger into her, skimming the upper
wall. This is the critical process of locating the G-Spot, so while
you’re still kissing her, teasing her nipples or sucking her breasts,
concentrate for a moment on what your finger encounters.
Study the following diagram. This may help you better understand
the location of the G-Spot when the time comes.
With most women, about one-and-one-half inches inside,
you’ll feel a slightly textured area of skin (it feels somewhat the
same as the roof of your mouth). Just beyond this textured area is
the G-Spot, hidden in what feels like a “valley”. If you go too far
and pass the G-Spot, you’ll feel a smooth “plateau” that is flat for
an inch or two, then curves inward toward the cervix opening
(which is also a very erotic spot if caressed lightly—although it is
hard to reach).
If you go too far and reach this plateau, back up to the bottom
of the “valley” and rub the down-slope between the valley and the
edge of the textured area.
In most cases, the G-Spot feels like a small bean or a very
small nipple. At other times it can’t be sensed at all. Just like
breasts or nipples, some women have small G-Spots and others
have larger ones. (The former is especially true of postmenopausal
women).
Once you’ve found the G-Spot (or are in the vicinity where it
should be, if it can’t be felt), begin rubbing very lightly in a circular
manner, at the rate of about one revolution per second. The
pressure you apply should begin with about the same degree of
pressure you would use to write your name on a steam-fogged
mirror. You can use one finger, or two, whichever feels most comfortable
to you and best matches the size of your partner.
Okay, you’re finally there, rubbing the G-Spot. . .so why isn’t
anything happening?
When you first touch the G-Spot, don’t be surprised if you
don’t get an immediate reaction, just continue rubbing between
the bottom of the valley and the back edge of the “textured” area.
In most cases, women will make comments such as “that feels
good” or “stay right there” or “that feels so different”. But if you
don’t get any response at all, don’t panic. Think of the G-Spot as
being similar to the nipple. When you first touch a nipple it is
soft and only relatively sensitive. But as blood flows to the area
and the nipple grows erect and aroused, the sensitivity increases
in a dramatic flourish. The G-Spot is much the same. As you
begin to caress it in a slow, circular manner, you will soon feel
the area swell. It may become more porous and have an almost
grainy feel. And it will most definitely become very sensitive.
If the G-Spot is massaged without prior arousal, many women
find it uncomfortable. This is one of the key reasons that some
people fail to find the G-Spot. Half-hearted pioneers often search
for a spot that gives a woman great pleasure. Yet if these seekers
blindly happen upon the G-Spot (without proper arousal) the
woman may report minor discomfort or an “uncomfortable feeling”,
steering them away. This is an important point to remember
in the future. If you try to move through the G-Spot technique
faster in the future and skip over steps, the G-Spot may not be
properly aroused when you reach it. Always follow the steps and
watch for the “go ahead” signs from your partner as you move
from one step to the next.
RhytHydromax is the absolute key here. As long as you maintain a
steady rhytHydromax, slow-building “waves” of ecstasy begin to wash
in. Each wave that comes will be a little higher in intensity than
the previous, and they will begin to cascade and surge faster and
faster, until a point is reached that, just as one wave is beginning
to fade, the next is already swelling.
If a women tries to stimulate her own G-Spot, her proclivity is
often to stroke the area faster and firmer (and faster yet) as the
waves grow more intense, trying to “force” a wave to crest and
break over into the undying ecstasy she senses just beyond. The
problem is, she can over-stimulate the G-Spot and inhibit the
orgasm. This is critical knowledge to consider when you hear
your lover’s pleas to move faster or firmer. Be cautious about giving
in. Maintain a slow even rhytHydromax at first.
On the other hand, if you’ve been stimulating her G-Spot for
ten minutes (or longer) at the one-revolution-per-second technique
and she can’t “crest over”, it may be time to try a different
touch. Remember that all women are different. Some women do
need a slightly firmer touch. For others, a side-to-side or up-anddown
finger movement is more effective than a circular one.
Some women prefer stimulation with one finger while others prefer
two or more. For yet others, slight variations in the speed are
more effective. . . or a combination of any of these factors. This is
where practice, judgment, and experimentation will come into
play. We first recommend using the circular, light, one-revolutionper-
second method. Our research has shown that it is the most
effective. When many lovers were urged to move faster or firmer
and the demand was obliged, the orgasm often faded instead of
growing. When the original slow and light touch was resumed,
success soon followed.
The good news is, there appears to be a “point of no return”
with G-Spot orgasms. After her first experience, your lover will
likely (ardently) convey this to you. Once she reaches the point
where “waves” of pleasure are building and cascading rapidly, the
orgasm becomes nearly inevitable.
We asked one woman if she could stop a clitoral or vaginal
orgasm from occurring. She replied: “Why, yes. Certainly.” In discussing
her G-Spot experience, the same woman stated: “I
reached a point where I couldn’t stop it from coming, even if I
wanted to!”
When you finally get to witness the extreme ecstasy of your
lover thrashing and screaming in the throes of pure ecstasy, it’s
very difficult not to become excited yourself and begin rubbing at
the G-Spot with great enthusiasm. When some lovers see their
partner in such ecstasy—especially if she has her first (visible)
ejaculation—they often experience orgasm themselves. However,
if you can maintain control and keep up the G-Spot stimulation,
her orgasm may continue perpetually. This is how some couples
state they can maintain an orgasm for up to 20 or more minutes!
One couple even reported an orgasm that lasted 40 minutes and
only stopped because neither partner could stand any more.
anything happening?
When you first touch the G-Spot, don’t be surprised if you
don’t get an immediate reaction, just continue rubbing between
the bottom of the valley and the back edge of the “textured” area.
In most cases, women will make comments such as “that feels
good” or “stay right there” or “that feels so different”. But if you
don’t get any response at all, don’t panic. Think of the G-Spot as
being similar to the nipple. When you first touch a nipple it is
soft and only relatively sensitive. But as blood flows to the area
and the nipple grows erect and aroused, the sensitivity increases
in a dramatic flourish. The G-Spot is much the same. As you
begin to caress it in a slow, circular manner, you will soon feel
the area swell. It may become more porous and have an almost
grainy feel. And it will most definitely become very sensitive.
If the G-Spot is massaged without prior arousal, many women
find it uncomfortable. This is one of the key reasons that some
people fail to find the G-Spot. Half-hearted pioneers often search
for a spot that gives a woman great pleasure. Yet if these seekers
blindly happen upon the G-Spot (without proper arousal) the
woman may report minor discomfort or an “uncomfortable feeling”,
steering them away. This is an important point to remember
in the future. If you try to move through the G-Spot technique
faster in the future and skip over steps, the G-Spot may not be
properly aroused when you reach it. Always follow the steps and
watch for the “go ahead” signs from your partner as you move
from one step to the next.
RhytHydromax is the absolute key here. As long as you maintain a
steady rhytHydromax, slow-building “waves” of ecstasy begin to wash
in. Each wave that comes will be a little higher in intensity than
the previous, and they will begin to cascade and surge faster and
faster, until a point is reached that, just as one wave is beginning
to fade, the next is already swelling.
If a women tries to stimulate her own G-Spot, her proclivity is
often to stroke the area faster and firmer (and faster yet) as the
waves grow more intense, trying to “force” a wave to crest and
break over into the undying ecstasy she senses just beyond. The
problem is, she can over-stimulate the G-Spot and inhibit the
orgasm. This is critical knowledge to consider when you hear
your lover’s pleas to move faster or firmer. Be cautious about giving
in. Maintain a slow even rhytHydromax at first.
On the other hand, if you’ve been stimulating her G-Spot for
ten minutes (or longer) at the one-revolution-per-second technique
and she can’t “crest over”, it may be time to try a different
touch. Remember that all women are different. Some women do
need a slightly firmer touch. For others, a side-to-side or up-anddown
finger movement is more effective than a circular one.
Some women prefer stimulation with one finger while others prefer
two or more. For yet others, slight variations in the speed are
more effective. . . or a combination of any of these factors. This is
where practice, judgment, and experimentation will come into
play. We first recommend using the circular, light, one-revolutionper-
second method. Our research has shown that it is the most
effective. When many lovers were urged to move faster or firmer
and the demand was obliged, the orgasm often faded instead of
growing. When the original slow and light touch was resumed,
success soon followed.
The good news is, there appears to be a “point of no return”
with G-Spot orgasms. After her first experience, your lover will
likely (ardently) convey this to you. Once she reaches the point
where “waves” of pleasure are building and cascading rapidly, the
orgasm becomes nearly inevitable.
We asked one woman if she could stop a clitoral or vaginal
orgasm from occurring. She replied: “Why, yes. Certainly.” In discussing
her G-Spot experience, the same woman stated: “I
reached a point where I couldn’t stop it from coming, even if I
wanted to!”
When you finally get to witness the extreme ecstasy of your
lover thrashing and screaming in the throes of pure ecstasy, it’s
very difficult not to become excited yourself and begin rubbing at
the G-Spot with great enthusiasm. When some lovers see their
partner in such ecstasy—especially if she has her first (visible)
ejaculation—they often experience orgasm themselves. However,
if you can maintain control and keep up the G-Spot stimulation,
her orgasm may continue perpetually. This is how some couples
state they can maintain an orgasm for up to 20 or more minutes!
One couple even reported an orgasm that lasted 40 minutes and
only stopped because neither partner could stand any more.
Even if your partner hasn’t mentioned it yet, at this point she
is likely aware that something quite different from a vaginal/clitoral
orgasm is beginning to grow inside her. She may even feel some
apprehension because of not knowing what’s happening. So as
you continue to stroke the G-Spot, be sure to reassure her that
you are there, with her, in support of her, and remind her that you
love her. Tell her of how beautiful she is and how much you
enjoy taking this time to bring her pleasure. Not only will this
make her feel emotionally safe and secure and help her climax
sooner, it will also help her relax and lessen any guilt she may
feel because of all the unselfish time you’re spending. If she complains
about feeling guilty, tell her you’ll gladly let her return the
favor another time, but tonight belongs to her.
In most cases, aside from the initial, slight swelling of the G-Spot,
you won’t notice any changes inside the vagina. When dealing
with women who are new to the G-Spot orgasm, you’ll often find
the muscles in your forearm begin to burn before you feel the
first vaginal contraction squeezing against your finger. Most of
our survey respondents state “20 minutes” of G-Spot stimulation
was required the first time. So again, it’s time to utilize that
patience and self-control. You haven’t come this far to stop now.
And if you do stop now, you’ll likely disappoint your lover (who
is aware of this massive ecstasy burgeoning inside her).
As the G-Spot orgasm grows near—The Big-O—the first
thing you’ll notice is a constricting of the vagina that begins with
one of her “waves”. With the next wave the vagina will constrict
again, fade, then quickly return with the next wave, building and
building to a point where the vagina is so perpetually constricted
the muscles often spasm and quiver. Sometimes, the constricting
is so tight it will eject your finger! About the same time you
notice the first constriction, you’ll also likely notice a greater
sense of wetness. In fact, some women become very wet, to the
point the suction of the finger causes slurping noises and a clear
fluid actually begins to weep from the vagina. As we discussed
earlier, this is the wonder of female ejaculation.
If this occurs, you may notice the consistency of this fluid
differs from the normal milky lubricant produced by the vagina.
Your finger may loose it’s slickness, and since the area is so
sensitive, you may want to pause and quickly apply an approved
sexual lubricant. Have some lubricant available before things get
started. As a general rule, the slicker your finger stays, the better.
is likely aware that something quite different from a vaginal/clitoral
orgasm is beginning to grow inside her. She may even feel some
apprehension because of not knowing what’s happening. So as
you continue to stroke the G-Spot, be sure to reassure her that
you are there, with her, in support of her, and remind her that you
love her. Tell her of how beautiful she is and how much you
enjoy taking this time to bring her pleasure. Not only will this
make her feel emotionally safe and secure and help her climax
sooner, it will also help her relax and lessen any guilt she may
feel because of all the unselfish time you’re spending. If she complains
about feeling guilty, tell her you’ll gladly let her return the
favor another time, but tonight belongs to her.
In most cases, aside from the initial, slight swelling of the G-Spot,
you won’t notice any changes inside the vagina. When dealing
with women who are new to the G-Spot orgasm, you’ll often find
the muscles in your forearm begin to burn before you feel the
first vaginal contraction squeezing against your finger. Most of
our survey respondents state “20 minutes” of G-Spot stimulation
was required the first time. So again, it’s time to utilize that
patience and self-control. You haven’t come this far to stop now.
And if you do stop now, you’ll likely disappoint your lover (who
is aware of this massive ecstasy burgeoning inside her).
As the G-Spot orgasm grows near—The Big-O—the first
thing you’ll notice is a constricting of the vagina that begins with
one of her “waves”. With the next wave the vagina will constrict
again, fade, then quickly return with the next wave, building and
building to a point where the vagina is so perpetually constricted
the muscles often spasm and quiver. Sometimes, the constricting
is so tight it will eject your finger! About the same time you
notice the first constriction, you’ll also likely notice a greater
sense of wetness. In fact, some women become very wet, to the
point the suction of the finger causes slurping noises and a clear
fluid actually begins to weep from the vagina. As we discussed
earlier, this is the wonder of female ejaculation.
If this occurs, you may notice the consistency of this fluid
differs from the normal milky lubricant produced by the vagina.
Your finger may loose it’s slickness, and since the area is so
sensitive, you may want to pause and quickly apply an approved
sexual lubricant. Have some lubricant available before things get
started. As a general rule, the slicker your finger stays, the better.
You’re there! As the wetness increases, the vagina will begin
to convulse violently. As we mentioned, some women constrict so
hard it forces the finger out of the vagina! By this time your
lover will undoubtedly be thrashing wildly and screaming “Don’t
Stop! Don’t Stop! Oh, God don’t Stop!” or “Faster! Faster!
Faster!” But regardless of how frantic your lover becomes,
regardless of how excited you get by watching her ecstasy, try to
control your motions.
As she finally crests over the top, most women will scream. It
differs from the normal orgasm scream, being more of a guttural
“expelling” sound rather than the gasping breaths of standard
orgasms. If you can picture the grunting scream of a woman giving
birth, her head hunched forward, clenching her knees, you’re on
the right track. . . and at the same moment she cries out, if she
hasn’t already done so she may ejaculate. This is especially true
of G-Spot virgins. While it defies the findings of scientific
research, many of our respondents mention the first G-Spot
orgasm as the “wettest”—almost as if the fluid has been locked
up for years and you’re opening the dam, setting it free.
Our theory is that many of these couples simply don’t “work”
as hard on subsequent sessions as they did during the first G-Spot
experience. Emotional bonding or the duration of stimulation may
also play roles in determining the volume of fluid produced and
the intensity of the orgasm. While these subjects are worthy of
future exploration, they need not detain us here.
At this point, simply keep your finger moving until your lover
asks you to stop or the orgasm fades. Typically, she will ride that
wave for one or two full minutes, and the orgasm will lessen.
When you see this event, you will be completely rewarded for
all your “work”. Just watching her writhe and knowing the intense
pleasure you are helping to provide is a great reward in itself.
Most men will want to join her as they sense this wave fading.
The change from a finger to a swollen penis may delight her. . .
and by this point, having watched her thrash and scream, feeling
the warm wetness on your finger and hand, your self-control will
likely be gone. So as long as she’s willing, jump in and enjoy the
orgasm with her. Feeling a wet, contracting vagina sucking at the
penis can be an experience neither of you forget!
to convulse violently. As we mentioned, some women constrict so
hard it forces the finger out of the vagina! By this time your
lover will undoubtedly be thrashing wildly and screaming “Don’t
Stop! Don’t Stop! Oh, God don’t Stop!” or “Faster! Faster!
Faster!” But regardless of how frantic your lover becomes,
regardless of how excited you get by watching her ecstasy, try to
control your motions.
As she finally crests over the top, most women will scream. It
differs from the normal orgasm scream, being more of a guttural
“expelling” sound rather than the gasping breaths of standard
orgasms. If you can picture the grunting scream of a woman giving
birth, her head hunched forward, clenching her knees, you’re on
the right track. . . and at the same moment she cries out, if she
hasn’t already done so she may ejaculate. This is especially true
of G-Spot virgins. While it defies the findings of scientific
research, many of our respondents mention the first G-Spot
orgasm as the “wettest”—almost as if the fluid has been locked
up for years and you’re opening the dam, setting it free.
Our theory is that many of these couples simply don’t “work”
as hard on subsequent sessions as they did during the first G-Spot
experience. Emotional bonding or the duration of stimulation may
also play roles in determining the volume of fluid produced and
the intensity of the orgasm. While these subjects are worthy of
future exploration, they need not detain us here.
At this point, simply keep your finger moving until your lover
asks you to stop or the orgasm fades. Typically, she will ride that
wave for one or two full minutes, and the orgasm will lessen.
When you see this event, you will be completely rewarded for
all your “work”. Just watching her writhe and knowing the intense
pleasure you are helping to provide is a great reward in itself.
Most men will want to join her as they sense this wave fading.
The change from a finger to a swollen penis may delight her. . .
and by this point, having watched her thrash and scream, feeling
the warm wetness on your finger and hand, your self-control will
likely be gone. So as long as she’s willing, jump in and enjoy the
orgasm with her. Feeling a wet, contracting vagina sucking at the
penis can be an experience neither of you forget!
Directly after the orgasm, a few women pass through a phase
called “the little death”. This phase is a 5 to 10 second period in
which the woman may appear to faint and/or seems to stop
breathing. If this occurs, don’t panic. Women who have passed
through “the little death” frequently state they were so overwhelmed
with pleasure they “floated in delirium” for a brief period.
Other women may have a tendency to “pant” briefly before or
during the orgasm, resulting in either hyperventilation or
hypoventilation. In either case, a combination of the tremendous
release of stress, sudden slowing of the heart, and a re-direction
of oxygen-rich (or suddenly depleted) blood cells can bring about
“the little death”.
After 5 or 10 seconds, your lover should dreamily open her
eyes. When you ask if she’s okay—and you should—she’ll likely
tell you everything is fine, that she was simply enjoying the
moment.
If your partner does actually faint and remains unresponsive
for more than 15 or 20 seconds, you may have a medical emergency
on your hands and should contact medical assistance immediately.
Again, as a responsible party, it is your duty to know your partner’s
health status before engaging in sexual activity.
called “the little death”. This phase is a 5 to 10 second period in
which the woman may appear to faint and/or seems to stop
breathing. If this occurs, don’t panic. Women who have passed
through “the little death” frequently state they were so overwhelmed
with pleasure they “floated in delirium” for a brief period.
Other women may have a tendency to “pant” briefly before or
during the orgasm, resulting in either hyperventilation or
hypoventilation. In either case, a combination of the tremendous
release of stress, sudden slowing of the heart, and a re-direction
of oxygen-rich (or suddenly depleted) blood cells can bring about
“the little death”.
After 5 or 10 seconds, your lover should dreamily open her
eyes. When you ask if she’s okay—and you should—she’ll likely
tell you everything is fine, that she was simply enjoying the
moment.
If your partner does actually faint and remains unresponsive
for more than 15 or 20 seconds, you may have a medical emergency
on your hands and should contact medical assistance immediately.
Again, as a responsible party, it is your duty to know your partner’s
health status before engaging in sexual activity.
I wonder why the femail ejaculation is not publicised in the media so much. Theres no way a guy in this day and age hasnt seen some magazine article or program on TV about stimulating the G spot and heard of G spot orgasms at the very least! ...This is the 21st century after all and guys even wash up!... But loads of people still dont really know what it is...unless of course youve had 1st hand experience, like some of you lucky buggers. Yet another thing to add to my 'to do' list 
This kinda sucks...first off, my girl cant have more than one orgasm. Ever since I have been reading "guides" about cunnilingus, 99% of them state, "...and after the 5th orgasm, you will be ready to..." and I dont understand why they think every woman can have multiple orgasms. After I go down on my girl, and she orgasms, about 5 seconds after the orgasm, she pushes my head away. If I keep trying to play with her, she will give me a slap in the head because she says it is too ticklish, and I cant even touch her down there. My ex before her could have multiple orgasms, but oh well...Im just whining.
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Just like us men, all women are different man. I've dated girls who could not orgasm no matter what I tried. Then, again my last ex was very easy to get off from 'only' penetration. She didnt like getting oral, but she would cum very quickly and multiple times from vaginal sex.
AARES, my wife of 20 years is exactly the same. Only one orgasm and then she becomes overly sensitive. When I penetrate her, she can make herself come within 3 minutes, but then she's done and wants me to come at the same time or ASAP. However, when I continue on she loves the added length and girth I have been working on and she grabs me and pulls me in hard. I try to last longer though. Any input from experienced guys appreciated.
I think with time and practice every woman in capable of ejaculating and becoming multi-orgasmic. The largest limiting factor is the mental piece for the woman. I think woman who do not reach orgasm or only have a single orgasm have to really feel comfortable with their mate but also be able to completely and absolutely relax while having intercourse. I really had to encourage JEN to allow herself to experience this. She was scared that she would urinate and as this feeling approached she felt dizzy and on the verge of passing out. These things were enough for JEN to tense up and not allow for the next level of orgasm. We have a very open, honest relationship and when we discussed these things I was able to help her feel comfortable and secure enough to let loose and let the feeling happen. After this she was there, she had experienced her very first multi-orgasm that included ejaculation. Needless to say she was ecstatic (so was I) Getting over this mental hump gave her the confidence to allow this to happen each time with little effort.
) Getting over this mental hump gave her the confidence to allow this to happen each time with little effort.A lot of it comes down to trust and feeling open enough to just..well...let it riiiiiiip!
I think a lot of womens sexuality comes down to their first few sexual experiences. I think if a women has had initially a few bad experiences, which could be anything from feelings of self-consciousness to pain to just simply nervousness, then this can effect how she deals with further sexual encounters even if it subconsciously. The best a guy can do is to spend as much (unselfish) time on her to make her feel cared for and relaxed in order to help her open up sexually.
I think a lot of womens sexuality comes down to their first few sexual experiences. I think if a women has had initially a few bad experiences, which could be anything from feelings of self-consciousness to pain to just simply nervousness, then this can effect how she deals with further sexual encounters even if it subconsciously. The best a guy can do is to spend as much (unselfish) time on her to make her feel cared for and relaxed in order to help her open up sexually.
I can't BELIEVE i just found this post!!
I love watching chicks squirt and have downloaded a couple vids of this. well one girl same (squirted - HUGE) several times and i started REALLY paying attention to what she was doing - you know . . .research.
Well it payed off, I met this girl online a few months ago and we hit it off - she's a only 18, a virgin, and due to her religeous beliefs will be till marriage. BUT she's INCREDIBLY horny, so like any sexually mature healthy woman, she takes matters into her own hands (sorry - to easy to pass up).
Being so inexperienced, she doesn't know anything about well anything she rubs her clit, and sometimes fingers herself until she orgasms, then drifts off to sleep. Well enter NymphoMan!! (uh- that's me, is nymphomaniac gender specific?). Originally we'd play together online, but now it's moved up from cyber sex to phone sex she lives halfway across the country, and we'll be getting together this summer, but even then, like the song goes - No huggin' No Kissin' till she gets a wedding ring!!. But recently she mentioned that sometimes she's SO horny that one O isn't enough, but her clit's so sore after mastubation that it hurts to much to go again. NympoMan to the rescue!!
Now, I usually like to keep my "tricks" to myself - you know - let her learn about my skills the hard way, with panting, sweating, screaming, mind blowing, earth shattering orgasms. but since I'm not going to be having real sex with her i decide to give her a special treat.
I introduce my darling to her G-spot. This was just last Friday night, I asked her to just try my ida and see if she liked it, told her how to find it, told her several different ways to stimulate it, told her NO CLIT unless she can't cum without it. Sure enough, within a few minutes she has her first G spot orgasm. THEN comes the best part she's telling me "Oh god it was SO good, I loved it, Thank you so much," etc. etc. then I give her the . . . "Did I tell you to stop?" She gasps, then giggles then starts up again, a few min later, just before her next O i told her to not stop, keep going through the O and afterwards, just don't stop, presto - multiples! Still with no clit work, the next night she calls me to play again. And I decide it's time to go for the gusto (I'm not really sure what gusto is - but it must be good the way everyone's always after it!) we do the same work, start with the G, but then after a minute or two add the clit, and jsut as the O starts coming on, I tell her what to do when it hits . . .
A reverse kegel! just like she's forcing pee out, take a breath (not too deep), hold it, bear down, and just as the orgasm hits PUSH! HARD!
And just like that my web sweetie, who's never had a cock, never been given an O from another person, never even HEARD of the G spot three days before, had the most intense orgasm of her life, and squirted all over herself. i believe her exact words were (when she could speak again) . . . "Oh my God I exploded!"
So for the record - it can be taught, this is the first girl I've met since coming up with the technique that i've actually tried it on, but I'd call that a VERY successful test run.
However, it should be noted, that I had her continue (once the paralysis wore off - YES she was incapable of moving - except for the trembling), and the next two times, just as she was approaching orgasm, she started to push and the O sort of "slipped away", it wasn't until the third time she was able to orgasm and ejaculate again so it may involve a bit of timing that takes a bit of practice.
Thanks to DLD and Supra for post #5. After I "discovered" that female ejaculation might be teachable, I started doing more indepth research and had previously come across that info somewhere, nevertheless it was tremendously valuable infomation. One brief note - after the heading TECHNIQUES, the first paragraph, the G spot will not neccesarily be enlarged at first, it doesn't seem to swell until after it's been directly stimulated, but can be found easily as the skin texture is a bit rougher and covers an area about the size of a nickle. TECHNIQUES paragraph 3, strokes - gentle circles are great for initial stimulation, and once it swells i like to use two fingers, strumming side to side increasing pressure and speed as she approaches O, finally . . . TECHNIQUES paragraph 4, it's very unusual for a woman to "bear down" during O. The instinct seem to be to squeeze like a kegel as the muscles are contracting on their own, so she needs to be told to deliberately push during O.
i'm going to meet my little geyser this summer, I respect her desire to be a virgin til marriage and would never press the issue. But I'm hoping she permit oral - I'm DYING to have her exlode all over me.
BTW . . . after Saturdays juicy adventure - she proposed.
I love watching chicks squirt and have downloaded a couple vids of this. well one girl same (squirted - HUGE) several times and i started REALLY paying attention to what she was doing - you know . . .research.
Well it payed off, I met this girl online a few months ago and we hit it off - she's a only 18, a virgin, and due to her religeous beliefs will be till marriage. BUT she's INCREDIBLY horny, so like any sexually mature healthy woman, she takes matters into her own hands (sorry - to easy to pass up).
Being so inexperienced, she doesn't know anything about well anything she rubs her clit, and sometimes fingers herself until she orgasms, then drifts off to sleep. Well enter NymphoMan!! (uh- that's me, is nymphomaniac gender specific?). Originally we'd play together online, but now it's moved up from cyber sex to phone sex she lives halfway across the country, and we'll be getting together this summer, but even then, like the song goes - No huggin' No Kissin' till she gets a wedding ring!!. But recently she mentioned that sometimes she's SO horny that one O isn't enough, but her clit's so sore after mastubation that it hurts to much to go again. NympoMan to the rescue!!
Now, I usually like to keep my "tricks" to myself - you know - let her learn about my skills the hard way, with panting, sweating, screaming, mind blowing, earth shattering orgasms. but since I'm not going to be having real sex with her i decide to give her a special treat.
I introduce my darling to her G-spot. This was just last Friday night, I asked her to just try my ida and see if she liked it, told her how to find it, told her several different ways to stimulate it, told her NO CLIT unless she can't cum without it. Sure enough, within a few minutes she has her first G spot orgasm. THEN comes the best part she's telling me "Oh god it was SO good, I loved it, Thank you so much," etc. etc. then I give her the . . . "Did I tell you to stop?" She gasps, then giggles then starts up again, a few min later, just before her next O i told her to not stop, keep going through the O and afterwards, just don't stop, presto - multiples! Still with no clit work, the next night she calls me to play again. And I decide it's time to go for the gusto (I'm not really sure what gusto is - but it must be good the way everyone's always after it!) we do the same work, start with the G, but then after a minute or two add the clit, and jsut as the O starts coming on, I tell her what to do when it hits . . .
A reverse kegel! just like she's forcing pee out, take a breath (not too deep), hold it, bear down, and just as the orgasm hits PUSH! HARD!
And just like that my web sweetie, who's never had a cock, never been given an O from another person, never even HEARD of the G spot three days before, had the most intense orgasm of her life, and squirted all over herself. i believe her exact words were (when she could speak again) . . . "Oh my God I exploded!"
So for the record - it can be taught, this is the first girl I've met since coming up with the technique that i've actually tried it on, but I'd call that a VERY successful test run.
However, it should be noted, that I had her continue (once the paralysis wore off - YES she was incapable of moving - except for the trembling), and the next two times, just as she was approaching orgasm, she started to push and the O sort of "slipped away", it wasn't until the third time she was able to orgasm and ejaculate again so it may involve a bit of timing that takes a bit of practice.
Thanks to DLD and Supra for post #5. After I "discovered" that female ejaculation might be teachable, I started doing more indepth research and had previously come across that info somewhere, nevertheless it was tremendously valuable infomation. One brief note - after the heading TECHNIQUES, the first paragraph, the G spot will not neccesarily be enlarged at first, it doesn't seem to swell until after it's been directly stimulated, but can be found easily as the skin texture is a bit rougher and covers an area about the size of a nickle. TECHNIQUES paragraph 3, strokes - gentle circles are great for initial stimulation, and once it swells i like to use two fingers, strumming side to side increasing pressure and speed as she approaches O, finally . . . TECHNIQUES paragraph 4, it's very unusual for a woman to "bear down" during O. The instinct seem to be to squeeze like a kegel as the muscles are contracting on their own, so she needs to be told to deliberately push during O.
i'm going to meet my little geyser this summer, I respect her desire to be a virgin til marriage and would never press the issue. But I'm hoping she permit oral - I'm DYING to have her exlode all over me.
BTW . . . after Saturdays juicy adventure - she proposed.
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swolejah
Guest
Hey yeah.. sick question and dumb but do girls really ejaculte? I've heard many times that they do, and many times that they don't. Also if they do, do they do it as much as men because I heard it takes a while longer for woman to cum than men.
Gotta teach me here, i dont have an older brother to tell me!
Gotta teach me here, i dont have an older brother to tell me!
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KiTTie8695
Guest
I do, if that counts as anything.
Mwahahaha.
Mwahahaha.
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swolejah
Guest
ugh l0l
My girlfriend cums a lot. The bed is soaked after a sex session. Most the time she just cums from me fingering her hard and fast but she does now and again when I fuck her. She doesn't orgasm a lot though. She use to be really hard to please and I could never make her cum or orgasm but now it seems a lot easier. It's pretty easier to make her cum now but quite hard to make her orgasm.
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