Are gains permanent or does P.E have to be maintained for lifetime?

Zambrodom3;599924 said:

And you DLD, do you find this size like the perfect spot between too big and enough to please a woman in bed?

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I think it is the perfect size for a man to shoot for. I went beyond but I am celibate and this is my job so going bigger just made sense for me.

Grew that much and you're celibate? Whyyyy? lol

dmoney101;600119 said:

Grew that much and you're celibate? Whyyyy? lol

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I am a Minister and I chose to give myself to God...hard for some to understand but for me it is the only way, at least for now. If the good Lord sees fit to introduce a woman into my life I would not push her away but so far celibacy has been the proper road for me.

doublelongdaddy;600182 said:

I am a Minister and I chose to give myself to God...hard for some to understand but for me it is the only way, at least for now. If the good Lord sees fit to introduce a woman into my life I would not push her away but so far celibacy has been the proper road for me.

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I believe GOD has given us a chance to do everything and it is only up to us whether we get it or not. You were blessed with your masculine figure, I believe this is the chance you have been given. I think when GOD has given you everything you need to get a girl, then the only one who can help you is yourself...

Zambrodom3;600339 said:

I believe GOD has given us a chance to do everything and it is only up to us whether we get it or not. You were blessed with your masculine figure, I believe this is the chance you have been given. I think when GOD has given you everything you need to get a girl, then the only one who can help you is yourself...

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My Mother constantly tells me God helps those who help themselves and I completely agree. God has given me many talents and the biggest sin of all is when I do not use them. It becomes hard for me to use them when I am going through a depression but when things brighten up I always pick up where I left off. As far as women go, I love women but I am not actively looking for a girl. To find a woman that would be compatible with me would be hard but if she is out there and it is in God's will I would be very happy to have her. I would definitely need someone who could understand all of my idiosyncrasies but she may be out there. I do get extremely lonely and having a mate would be a big help but I do not want someone who could not understand my ways.

I've been celibate for mad long close to a decade, no problem. I used to be crazy self-conscious because of my circ, which was forced on me when I was very young, highly sinful and wildly inappropriate thing to a child that should not have to succumb to other peoples beliefs. It was horrifying, but I learned to overcome my anger through various outlets. I'm in my 20's now and my main concern now is to land a good entry-level job, and then after a year or two pursue a college degree, and THEN I will start dating.

k18;600425 said:

I've been celibate for mad long close to a decade, no problem. I used to be crazy self-conscious because of my circ, which was forced on me when I was very young, highly sinful and wildly inappropriate thing to a child that should not have to succumb to other peoples beliefs. It was horrifying, but I learned to overcome my anger through various outlets. I'm in my 20's now and my main concern now is to land a good entry-level job, and then after a year or two pursue a college degree, and THEN I will start dating.

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I think that is smart. Getting to know and even more important love yourself is so valuable to a relationship. If we enter a relationship with crazy issues it will only harm the other person. Getting your life in order and dealing with personal issues will always bring a much healthier relationship. There are many things I have learned in my celibacy that would certainly benefit me if I ever got with someone again. In my past I was just looking for a way to avoid myself and the things I needed to fix and this is not fair to my mate.

k18;600425 said:

I've been celibate for mad long close to a decade, no problem. I used to be crazy self-conscious because of my circ, which was forced on me when I was very young, highly sinful and wildly inappropriate thing to a child that should not have to succumb to other peoples beliefs. It was horrifying, but I learned to overcome my anger through various outlets. I'm in my 20's now and my main concern now is to land a good entry-level job, and then after a year or two pursue a college degree, and THEN I will start dating.

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10 years...DAMN!! do it all as quick as you can!!! i regret not doing things sooner. now as quick as you can could take 10 years. i just mean always working towards goals. that way you're never thinking I should have gotten that done already

doublelongdaddy;600440 said:

I think that is smart. Getting to know and even more important love yourself is so valuable to a relationship. If we enter a relationship with crazy issues it will only harm the other person. Getting your life in order and dealing with personal issues will always bring a much healthier relationship. There are many things I have learned in my celibacy that would certainly benefit me if I ever got with someone again. In my past I was just looking for a way to avoid myself and the things I needed to fix and this is not fair to my mate.

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Yes, I agree!!

Good thread