A study on womens size perception, MUST READ!

MikeShlort · Jul 25, 2012

pUNKY;493994 said:
Maybe 'study' was the wrong word. The comment about guys lying is based on lying to women and it does contribute. My only point of this is just to give perspective on size and what a women can enjoy. I'm kind of confused a bit by your post and what your point is...

The dildos thing I just thought was interesting because these are objects a women has choice over, unlike when she fucks a guy. If she wants a 8x6, she can get it, same with a 6.5x5. IF you look at most sites that sell sex toys (like DLD said) the most popular brought sizes are those with the average range, that's what the whole point was. Now a days women throw around 8" like it's nothing yet in reality those 8" they had are probably between 6-7.

Also worth to bare in mind that dildos are typically 1" shorter than marketed, so a dildo branded 5" actually only has 4" insert able length.

I bought a dildo to use on a girl once.
It was marked as 7" and it was 8" of insert able length.
It was also 8"x6" and the girl at the store told me it's the most popular and her personal favourite.
The girl I used it on came three times in less than 5 minutes with it. I had to ram very hard but she came in less than a minute the first time.
So I think size is a huge factor.
That's why we all want 8x6 or 9x7. I believe the bigger the cock, the easier it is to make a girl cum, and it gives her stronger orgasms as well. It's just science: more dick = more surface area stimulated per stroke. Luckily for us girth is not so hard to gain, you could gain an inch temporarily by doing a 30 min pumping set. It's length that's a bitch. I think a lot of people here underestimate the size of penises when we judge them by viewing �naked people movies�. I use the side view when I judge length. I'm about 6.6-6.7" if I measure not beding the curve (6.9" with the curve) and when I look in the mirror my penis looks tiny from a side angle. Even ones on the net that look small to me are longer from the side angle. Coming back to the dildos, the 8x6 that I have is completely straight and when I put it up to my body to look at it on a side angle, I am pretty happy with how big it looks. I think being straight makes it look a lot longer as well, possibly why I look so short because of the curve. But I think women like the curve, and that could be why they are okay with buying a 6.5x5 dildo, because it may happen to have a wicked curve on it that they can maneuver to their lower spots. Either way, length is really a cock sucker to gain but I think it's the most important, as girth can be easily gained temporarily by pumping.

DLD · Jul 25, 2012

MikeShlort;494025 said:
I bought a dildo to use on a girl once.
It was marked as 7" and it was 8" of insert able length.
It was also 8"x6" and the girl at the store told me it's the most popular and her personal favourite.
The girl I used it on came three times in less than 5 minutes with it. I had to ram very hard but she came in less than a minute the first time.
So I think size is a huge factor.
That's why we all want 8x6 or 9x7. I believe the bigger the cock, the easier it is to make a girl cum, and it gives her stronger orgasms as well. It's just science: more dick = more surface area stimulated per stroke. Luckily for us girth is not so hard to gain, you could gain an inch temporarily by doing a 30 min pumping set. It's length that's a bitch. I think a lot of people here underestimate the size of penises when we judge them by viewing �naked people movies�. I use the side view when I judge length. I'm about 6.6-6.7" if I measure not beding the curve (6.9" with the curve) and when I look in the mirror my penis looks tiny from a side angle. Even ones on the net that look small to me are longer from the side angle. Coming back to the dildos, the 8x6 that I have is completely straight and when I put it up to my body to look at it on a side angle, I am pretty happy with how big it looks. I think being straight makes it look a lot longer as well, possibly why I look so short because of the curve. But I think women like the curve, and that could be why they are okay with buying a 6.5x5 dildo, because it may happen to have a wicked curve on it that they can maneuver to their lower spots. Either way, length is really a cock sucker to gain but I think it's the most important, as girth can be easily gained temporarily by pumping.

Size preference will be unique with most women but I think they mostly but the 6 x 5 dildo because it seems more normal, I think a lot of girls may be embarrassed to buy a big dildo.

pUNKY · Jul 25, 2012

MikeShlort;494025 said:
I bought a dildo to use on a girl once.
It was marked as 7" and it was 8" of insert able length.
It was also 8"x6" and the girl at the store told me it's the most popular and her personal favourite.
The girl I used it on came three times in less than 5 minutes with it. I had to ram very hard but she came in less than a minute the first time.
So I think size is a huge factor.
That's why we all want 8x6 or 9x7. I believe the bigger the cock, the easier it is to make a girl cum, and it gives her stronger orgasms as well. It's just science: more dick = more surface area stimulated per stroke. Luckily for us girth is not so hard to gain, you could gain an inch temporarily by doing a 30 min pumping set. It's length that's a bitch. I think a lot of people here underestimate the size of penises when we judge them by viewing �naked people movies�. I use the side view when I judge length. I'm about 6.6-6.7" if I measure not beding the curve (6.9" with the curve) and when I look in the mirror my penis looks tiny from a side angle. Even ones on the net that look small to me are longer from the side angle. Coming back to the dildos, the 8x6 that I have is completely straight and when I put it up to my body to look at it on a side angle, I am pretty happy with how big it looks. I think being straight makes it look a lot longer as well, possibly why I look so short because of the curve. But I think women like the curve, and that could be why they are okay with buying a 6.5x5 dildo, because it may happen to have a wicked curve on it that they can maneuver to their lower spots. Either way, length is really a cock sucker to gain but I think it's the most important, as girth can be easily gained temporarily by pumping.

Like mentioned in the original post, I'm not trying to say girls would not like a bigger penis, if that were the case I wouldn't be pe'ing. With the insertable length comment, I'm just going on what is actually posted on the product description by the supplier on 99% of those dildos. If you in fact got one that was an inch larger, then that has to be a fault, A company wouldn't say it was 7 then make it 8 on purpose. Also not everyone wants a ridiculously big penis, 8x6 is the maximum I would go, I want to be able to go balls deep in the majority of women I sleep with, I would say anything after that is more for the guys sake or the shock factor as most women wouldn't be able to take it. I mean each to their own and all that, its just my preference.

I'm always sceptically when buying in a store, the most popular product can easily be the most expensive or the ones they need to get rid of, or as you said the personal preference.

As for the the bigger cock, the more easier to make a girl cum, its a bit of a cop out. Yes it may make her feel more full but Jesus you do actually have to know how to use it. That's one of the biggest things that gets me, people can go on about how much size matters and yes it does but do not just depend on that to make a girl cum. It's a bit of a lazy attitude,, I'm very average size wise and am confident I could make most women cum, its not an arrogance thing, but I'm confident in the bedroom and will just put the work in to make sure she finishes. A bigger dick will no doubt make the sensation better for her, but it really wont be the be all end all.

�naked people movies� wise, you really have to have a good understanding to be able to judge them accurately. You say people underestimate, but once you take away the small women, the magnified lenses and good camera angles and the pre pump, then your not left with the monsters you think. Yes they are all big but not the 9x7 everyone seems to think.

Also an upward curve is normally a good thing, better chance to stroke the g-spot which is only 3/4" into the vagina.

DLD · Jul 25, 2012

I guess so

pUNKY · Jul 25, 2012

To be fair I guess non of this really matters, it's all personal opinion and at the end of the day were all here to get the samr goal, no matter what the motivation. I just thought it was a nice new perspective. Hope everyone is well any how.

DLD · Jul 25, 2012

pUNKY;494036 said:
As for the the bigger cock, the more easier to make a girl cum, its a bit of a cop out. Yes it may make her feel more full but Jesus you do actually have to know how to use it.

A big penis in the wrong hands is a bad thing. I think a woman would prefer an average man with good technique over a bigger guy with shit technique.

MikeShlort · Jul 25, 2012

pUNKY;494036 said:
Like mentioned in the original post, I'm not trying to say girls would not like a bigger penis, if that were the case I wouldn't be pe'ing. With the insertable length comment, I'm just going on what is actually posted on the product description by the supplier on 99% of those dildos. If you in fact got one that was an inch larger, then that has to be a fault, A company wouldn't say it was 7 then make it 8 on purpose. Also not everyone wants a ridiculously big penis, 8x6 is the maximum I would go, I want to be able to go balls deep in the majority of women I sleep with, I would say anything after that is more for the guys sake or the shock factor as most women wouldn't be able to take it. I mean each to their own and all that, its just my preference.

I'm always sceptically when buying in a store, the most popular product can easily be the most expensive or the ones they need to get rid of, or as you said the personal preference.

As for the the bigger cock, the more easier to make a girl cum, its a bit of a cop out. Yes it may make her feel more full but Jesus you do actually have to know how to use it. That's one of the biggest things that gets me, people can go on about how much size matters and yes it does but do not just depend on that to make a girl cum. It's a bit of a lazy attitude,, I'm very average size wise and am confident I could make most women cum, its not an arrogance thing, but I'm confident in the bedroom and will just put the work in to make sure she finishes. A bigger dick will no doubt make the sensation better for her, but it really wont be the be all end all.

�naked people movies� wise, you really have to have a good understanding to be able to judge them accurately. You say people underestimate, but once you take away the small women, the magnified lenses and good camera angles and the pre pump, then your not left with the monsters you think. Yes they are all big but not the 9x7 everyone seems to think.

Also an upward curve is normally a good thing, better chance to stroke the g-spot which is only 3/4" into the vagina.

I think they weren't counting the head in the measurement, as there was exactly 7 inches of shaft, then the head, which was 1 inch.
BTW I got 7 inches of the dildo into her right away, although I'm not sure if after awhile she would have stretched out and allow more into her as I only used it on her for 5 min

About the size thing, I had to ram her hard with the 8x6, like until my arm hurt to make her cum. So I'm aware that technique, speed and force is a huge factor. I really believe if I had an 8x7 dildo, it would have made her cum even faster or with less force. But that's speculation. We should ask our friend who is conducting the dildo experiment on his ex girl to have a go at my theory.
A cop out is saying that "size is good but without technique it's useless." I'm sure most guys with big dicks know how to fuck well, as they usually get more pussy and practice. I know for me, if my penis was bigger I'd be fucking as hard as ever. I said something to this effect in an earlier thread anyways. I think the guy with the small dick that had to go hard to please a woman will become the better love if he achieves size through Penis Enlargement than the guy who was born with it.

I don't take into consideration the woman when I estimate a penis in �naked people movies�. I look at how far it sticks out from the body. I also look at his hands. I have average sized hands for a skinny male, so I kind of judge by the hands as well. Most guys don't have smaller hands than me, so I look at that, also my fingers are thin. But really I just look at how far it sticks out from the body and compare it to mine in a mirror. Camera angles can't really do much for the non-distorted side view from a nice distance where his body is in the whole frame and the angle is exactly a side view, not a tilted angle.

pUNKY · Jul 26, 2012

MikeShlort;494138 said:
I think they weren't counting the head in the measurement, as there was exactly 7 inches of shaft, then the head, which was 1 inch.
BTW I got 7 inches of the dildo into her right away, although I'm not sure if after awhile she would have stretched out and allow more into her as I only used it on her for 5 min

About the size thing, I had to ram her hard with the 8x6, like until my arm hurt to make her cum. So I'm aware that technique, speed and force is a huge factor. I really believe if I had an 8x7 dildo, it would have made her cum even faster or with less force. But that's speculation. We should ask our friend who is conducting the dildo experiment on his ex girl to have a go at my theory.
A cop out is saying that "size is good but without technique it's useless." I'm sure most guys with big dicks know how to fuck well, as they usually get more pussy and practice. I know for me, if my penis was bigger I'd be fucking as hard as ever. I said something to this effect in an earlier thread anyways. I think the guy with the small dick that had to go hard to please a woman will become the better love if he achieves size through Penis Enlargement than the guy who was born with it.

I don't take into consideration the woman when I estimate a penis in �naked people movies�. I look at how far it sticks out from the body. I also look at his hands. I have average sized hands for a skinny male, so I kind of judge by the hands as well. Most guys don't have smaller hands than me, so I look at that, also my fingers are thin. But really I just look at how far it sticks out from the body and compare it to mine in a mirror. Camera angles can't really do much for the non-distorted side view from a nice distance where his body is in the whole frame and the angle is exactly a side view, not a tilted angle.

You make a good point, I would say there would be a fair few guys (not all) who when naturally large would be quite lazy in sex and not great fucks, compared to (like you say) someone who has earn t it. With the �naked people movies� thing, I know very little about all the tricks they use but you seem to have a pretty good idea. I remember a post saying to try and find them when it's near the women's face and use the iris as point of reference as its very similar across all races and types of women.....but I have no real idea.

DLD · Jul 26, 2012

A woman's size perception is always off and you can test it. Just ask them to hold their hands out to what size 9" is, it will always be off by 2"....This is an Einstonian Equation

MikeShlort · Jul 26, 2012

doublelongdaddy;494305 said:
A woman's size perception is always off and you can test it. Just ask them to hold their hands out to what size 9" is, it will always be off by 2"....This is an Einstonian Equation

Hopefully one day when I ask that question they will simply point to my crotch.

petersouth · Jul 27, 2012

Of course we all know when you watch �naked people movies� in most cases with the bigger guys there is 2 or 3 inches of dick not being used.

Why? It doesn't fit.

dirtymeatstick · Jul 27, 2012

lol, really you feel bad about that? To each his own I guess, but I rather get off on when I notice that twinge of pain... I mean I am pretty athletic and intimidating looking to begin with, and honestly if I didn't have a big dick to back that up then I would feel pretty pitiful.

dirtymeatstick · Jul 27, 2012

pUNKY

'' Like mentioned in the original post, I'm not trying to say girls would not like a bigger penis, if that were the case I wouldn't be pe'ing.''

I don't Penis Enlargement for women, I do it for myself bro, lol!

eightup · Jul 27, 2012

Hey all, just wanted to kick in with an experience i had with a �naked people movies� star. I didn't do it with her mind you, but i was having a chat about various things with her at the erotic museum in Paris.

Look at the scenario, She was the smallest freaking thing i've ever met. Big bust, sexy ass lips, blah blah. And i'm 6"2 going to 6"3 with shoes. And her hands were also a third of mine almost in length. Her head as proportioned to the body (usually people with big heads look weird on camera), and just imagining fucking with her from my point of view would have made my dick look bigger. Definetely. And if she was sucking my humble above 7 almost 8 (soon i hope!) and 5.8`6 girth, it would have been a good shot.
I met her another time cuz a friend of mine had a fetish for meeting �naked people movies� stars because he wanted to fuck one absolutely. Well, we were sitting next to each other, coffee and chatting, i had that visual again of her size compared to myself. I really felt like i was talking to a little girl, head turned way down, her doggy eyes looking up at me. And were i not so off handed about it, i'm sure i would have gone to bed with her. She totally ignored my friend and we just kept flirting like no one's business. So putting myself in her head, i thought maybe in her mind my big hands, height etc, assured her that at least i would be something above average, and that was probably more than enough for her. Most importantly, it was our conversations, metahors and the way i pricked her senses which were important to her. I wasn't stuffing her with machism and trying to dick her, and she was loving it. What she liked more is that i wasn't acting gay though showed no interest in dicking her.

So impressions are treacherous. You might think you're worth shit as compared to �naked people movies� actors, but aside from the truly big ass ones who have the luxury of curiosity from hundreds of females, but the curse of not being able to go all the way through, women probably think 8 inches is perfect. Statistics back this up everywhere you go on the net. tThere's no need of having a 10 incher unless your business is the big D.

Somehow if you're not going into fucking thousands of women for fun, it might not be the perfect tool to have to the average girl with maybe 10-20 men under her belt, which is somehow what men are looking for maybe?

pUNKY · Jul 27, 2012

dirtymeatstick;494409 said:
pUNKY

'' Like mentioned in the original post, I'm not trying to say girls would not like a bigger penis, if that were the case I wouldn't be pe'ing.''

I don't Penis Enlargement for women, I do it for myself bro, lol!

That's cool bro, I wasn't implying that's every ones motivation, I mean I Penis Enlargement for myself also but the end all fact is as much as we Penis Enlargement for us individually, the end goal is to have a bigger dick to fuck a chick with.

sevenup;494410 said:
Hey all, just wanted to kick in with an experience i had with a �naked people movies� star. I didn't do it with her mind you, but i was having a chat about various things with her at the erotic museum in Paris.

Look at the scenario, She was the smallest freaking thing i've ever met. Big bust, sexy ass lips, blah blah. And i'm 6"2 going to 6"3 with shoes. And her hands were also a third of mine almost in length. Her head as proportioned to the body (usually people with big heads look weird on camera), and just imagining fucking with her from my point of view would have made my dick look bigger. Definetely. And if she was sucking my humble above 7 almost 8 (soon i hope!) and 5.8`6 girth, it would have been a good shot.
I met her another time cuz a friend of mine had a fetish for meeting �naked people movies� stars because he wanted to fuck one absolutely. Well, we were sitting next to each other, coffee and chatting, i had that visual again of her size compared to myself. I really felt like i was talking to a little girl, head turned way down, her doggy eyes looking up at me. And were i not so off handed about it, i'm sure i would have gone to bed with her. She totally ignored my friend and we just kept flirting like no one's business. So putting myself in her head, i thought maybe in her mind my big hands, height etc, assured her that at least i would be something above average, and that was probably more than enough for her. Most importantly, it was our conversations, metahors and the way i pricked her senses which were important to her. I wasn't stuffing her with machism and trying to dick her, and she was loving it. What she liked more is that i wasn't acting gay though showed no interest in dicking her.

So impressions are treacherous. You might think you're worth shit as compared to �naked people movies� actors, but aside from the truly big ass ones who have the luxury of curiosity from hundreds of females, but the curse of not being able to go all the way through, women probably think 8 inches is perfect. Statistics back this up everywhere you go on the net. tThere's no need of having a 10 incher unless your business is the big D.

Somehow if you're not going into fucking thousands of women for fun, it might not be the perfect tool to have to the average girl with maybe 10-20 men under her belt, which is somehow what men are looking for maybe?

That's kinda my POV also, I respect everyone might not see it this way but once you hit 8" I would say you will bottom out the majority of women. After that point in most cases I would say its more for the guys benefit rather than that of a women. The big one for me was reading kingsnakes progress and stories of him laying women. He's over 9" and normally comments that most women he has roughly 2" not penetrating. I fully respect if people want bigger, hell I may change my mind when I get there but for me I still want the ability to go balls deep.

Do you ask said �naked people movies� star about the sizes of the males in the industry? Getting an insight into the tricks the �naked people movies� industry use would really interest me, I remember a while back I spoke to some guy that used to be a pit boss or something in a casino and he gave me a run down of all the things they do to get you to sub consciously spend money, fuck it was interesting stuff.

DLD · Jul 28, 2012

pUNKY;494428 said:
That's cool bro, I wasn't implying that's every ones motivation, I mean I Penis Enlargement for myself also but the end all fact is as much as we Penis Enlargement for us individually, the end goal is to have a bigger dick to fuck a chick with.

That's kinda my POV also, I respect everyone might not see it this way but once you hit 8" I would say you will bottom out the majority of women. After that point in most cases I would say its more for the guys benefit rather than that of a women. The big one for me was reading kingsnakes progress and stories of him laying women. He's over 9" and normally comments that most women he has roughly 2" not penetrating. I fully respect if people want bigger, hell I may change my mind when I get there but for me I still want the ability to go balls deep.

Do you ask said �naked people movies� star about the sizes of the males in the industry? Getting an insight into the tricks the �naked people movies� industry use would really interest me, I remember a while back I spoke to some guy that used to be a pit boss or something in a casino and he gave me a run down of all the things they do to get you to sub consciously spend money, fuck it was interesting stuff.

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The goal is always for that "Oh my God" moment

Rude_God · Jul 29, 2012

Very interesting. One reviewer of the 6.5" one actually said it was 8". So despite the fact that it was 6.5", and she knew this to be the case having ordered it, her mind still insisted it was 8". Gives a really interesting insight into the female perspective on size.

DLD · Jul 29, 2012

Rude_God;494704 said:
Very interesting. One reviewer of the 6.5" one actually said it was 8". So despite the fact that it was 6.5", and she knew this to be the case having ordered it, her mind still insisted it was 8". Gives a really interesting insight into the female perspective on size.

I always heard this when I was 6.5" long, every girl would guess it was 8 or 9 inches...of course I never denied it

pUNKY · Jul 29, 2012

doublelongdaddy;494747 said:
I always heard this when I was 6.5" long, every girl would guess it was 8 or 9 inches...of course I never denied it

I'm scared to think what they would guess you at now

DLD · Jul 30, 2012

pUNKY;494792 said:
I'm scared to think what they would guess you at now

12-14...at this I laughed and told her my real size...this has only happened once though

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