im sitting here crying...

because my penis doesnt work anymore. No matter what I do I cant get hard. It keeps getting worse everyday. Ive jacked off like 1 time in the past month and havent looked at any ����, and still my dick wont get hard. ive been tryin to just avoid my penis for a while and tonight i tried to get a boner, and it just wouldnt get more than like 20% full... The past few months ive noticed my boners were getting softer, and now I can even get it up.... IM A FUCKIN TEENAGER .... this shouldnt be happening.... and if this is happen right now im my life, I cant imagine what im going to be like when im older. im just ballin in tears right now, i dont even know what to do... and if this doesnt get better, i dont really see a point to stayin alive... < i need some help...please leave this in this forum...

Dude, I think you should go see a doctor, FAST.
Have you done anything specific that might have triggered your condition? I.e. do you remember a certain exercise session where you felt like you actually damaged your penis, or has the ED come about gradually?

gradually i think... i think its from over masturbation over the years... and now its just hit rock bottom it seems like

I'm with Shafty. Talk to a doctor about this. I can kind of relate, as my erections are not what I would like them to be, but your situation sounds like its pretty bad.

How much do you mean by over masturbation?

I know I had a period in my teens when it would be like three times a day, then two times a day, and now I'm down to once a day. But masturbation in teens shouldn't have an effect on your penis like it is now. You say it has come gradually, have you done heavy Penis Enlargement as well? I think I read at some place that you were with this chick and you couldn't get hard.. I have been there too! Took a few weeks to recover from that mental blow so my erections sucked afterwards for about two weeks. So it could be a mental block as well. Try doing relaxation exercises/meditation. Also, if you're under a lot of stress, the willy takes a blow as well... One needs to see that the penis is a part of one's body, not a separate being. So take care of your mind and body, and in time that specific part of the body will feel good as well.

Hey bob, Man you got to relax. I've been there before. I'm still a teenager too, so it'll pass. Go see a doctor let him run some blood tests, and you'll see you're fine. If I ever have any pressure built up in my mind like "I've got to get hard, I've got to get hard" It doesn't work. So just relax bro, you'll be fine. Honestly if it was something serious you would probably show symptoms in other areas, that's what the doc said to me when I went to see him about this. I hope this helps and I'll be praying for you.

BeBobBox said:

gradually i think... i think its from over masturbation over the years... and now its just hit rock bottom it seems like

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over masturbation WILL cause you not to get hard,just ask me,i mean thats the whole reason why i started pe because i spanked it alot over a period of alot of years and one day i couldnt get hard anymore no matter what.i felt like shit for about a month and i was self concious about it for a few months more.jelqing helped me get my erections back up.

I would really go see a doc about that.

For me my erections haven't really changed since I started Penis Enlargement. Before I started my erections were hard enough to bone a chick nice but they didn't curve up or anything just straight out. If anything Penis Enlargement has helped me achieve better boners but since my erections have never been like those rock hard ones that curve up I am not worried.

Maybe keep Penis Enlargement'n until you are really long and thick and bone chicks almost flaccid like what __________ does :D...

Do you have sexual urges? Just wondering if this might have nothing to do with Penis Enlargement and that your testosterone level has plummeted for some reason.

You should get your testosterone level checked. Things that change after you get low testosterone can for instance be that your penis gets less sensitive.

I don't think it's from overmasturbation. Don't see how that can affect you 1 month after not even trying. I mean, if you have for some reason managed to go 1 month without jacking off, it seems to me like low testosterone. With high testosterone, you'd still want to releave yourself.

If this is the case, you might have to look into some form of hormonal testosterone therapy.

I dont get some guys. Personally MY penis is my most valuable part of my body. If I could, I would get it insured by Lloyds Of London (they insure some of the most valuable things on the planet). If I ever have anything that I think is even remotely wrong with my penis, I never take a chance. I go see a doctor about it rather than ask a bunch of total strangers I dont know on some internet forum for advise.

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BeBox look I'm 19 so i can understand what you're going through right now. I mean i totaly freak just thinking about that happening to me. And i can really understand that it is realy hard for you to get you're mind sorted about what to do. Frist you should have a look at the possabilitys what could cause it. Better said whats up with YOU.
Is it the testorone? To answer this is quite easy. Have you been Horny at a normal level, with this i would say from my positin at this age would be about 2 days after not cumming. After about 5 days of not cumming I'm nearly at a level of going insane. But one month without been Horny or at least nearly not Horny would defenetly mean something is wrong with you're testosterone level. If it is this you should aswell be notecing that you arn't so intrested in hot girls like you used to be. With this i mean when you see a realy hot girl don't feel this burning inner urge to fuck the shit outa her. This is the one big Side what isn't so bad but still you have to go and see a doctore to see whats causing that. Only a doc can help you there.

The other Side would be that you are Horny like fuck until now but just can't get a hardon no matter what you do. This again can then have two sources. These two sources can bei either physicaly or Mentaly.
Is it Mentaly? From that what you are saying and at our age, better said it doesn't matter how depressed stressed or what so ever i was or am, at some point even if it's just a morning wood i will have an erection. I mean what am i talking big, i guess you know what i mean and i trust you're sense to know if you have a serious Problem you just can't get over. If it's mentaly you should still now and then have a morning wood because this doesn't come from how horny you are. The morning wood we all know comes from the body itself. every night you're body tests all his funktions about 4 times and this includes erections aswell.

Is it Physical? Well if both the upper points don't apply in any way, then you most likly have a physical Problem. This means you could have ripped, hurt or whatsoever damaged something that gives you an erection. In this case you really need to go and see Doc because damages like this can become permanent if you don't get it fixed! The argument of over wanking or what so ever sound to me more like a kind of Kathlik church myth, just like getting blind from wanking. I have never ever heard of anyone especialy at the age of 18 or 19, who stopped having hard ons for over a month because of to much wanking. 2 days yes can be, but a hole month? Realy not, you even proven this wrong because if it would only be wanking then you should have had an erection again long befor now. I mean i must be one of the greatist wankers ever seen on earth and i have never had a poblem Like i said, you're not old, don't take Problems of older People to explain your's. At our age not beeing able to have an erection is absolutly not normal, and you realy need to go and see a doctor. What i Posted above is just for you to categorize where you're Problem is, but you WILL have to go and see a Doctor. Best would be as fast as Possible. Because if it realy should be something physical then you need it to be fixed as fast as possible. Waiting any longer will only increase the chance of dameging you're selfe Permanently. And YES, even if it sound hard and demolishing, YOU HAVE A VERY SERIOUS PROBLEM.

Sorry.
Sounds like an anxiety disorder to me.
It happens all the time. It's happened to me before.
Once you start to worry... it only makes things worse.
(a catch 22 if you will).

Q:
So... you don't get early morning wood? (or as Lewis Black says "You don't wake up at 3 a.m. with a Pee Boner?")
If not... I would then try something simple like... a bit of cialis or viagra and a good ���� flick about an hour later. If you have done nerve damage... that is not going to work... then you'll *know* that you need to see the doc.

Honestly... the chances of you having permanent damage is pretty slim.
And beating it off alot would not do that either. (It was made for that anyway).
If you DID do damage to it during Penis Enlargement .... you would have known it at the time.
Nerve damage hurts like hell.
This is just my opinion.
But try not to worry.... THAT is not going to fix the problem.
Hang in there.

Now, I think the over masturbation talk is BS!
if you're used to masturbate daily or even a few times a day, you can't live a day without doing it. And you're penis will be used to it, the blood flow will be ok etc.
But: if you don't masturbate for weeks your body adopts to that. Listen, I have stopped masturbating once for a month and I totally lost my sex drive. After one month I could have continued, but for the sake of my weener I masturbated again, and I couldn't get it hard! It took me quite some time of daily (!) masturbation to get rock hard erections again.
just some food for your thoughts. anyway, I think your problem seems to be of another kind. go see a doc

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Sorry.
Sounds like an anxiety disorder to me.
It happens all the time. It's happened to me before.
Once you start to worry... it only makes things worse.
(a catch 22 if you will).

Q:
So... you don't get early morning wood? (or as Lewis Black says "You don't wake up at 3 a.m. with a Pee Boner?")
If not... I would then try something simple like... a bit of cialis or viagra and a good ���� flick about an hour later. If you have done nerve damage... that is not going to work... then you'll *know* that you need to see the doc.

Honestly... the chances of you having permanent damage is pretty slim.
And beating it off alot would not do that either. (It was made for that anyway).
If you DID do damage to it during Penis Enlargement .... you would have known it at the time.
Nerve damage hurts like hell.
This is just my opinion.
But try not to worry.... THAT is not going to fix the problem.
Hang in there.

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I would tend to agree with this assessment. I think you have a lot of anxiety about ED and your obsession with the topic has worsened the problem in self-fulfilling prophecy fashion. If you can get to a doctor, it would probably be good to go so that you can be reassured that there is nothing physically wrong with you. This will allow you to relax and regain your confidence. The erections will then take care of themselves. We've all been there -- or will be at some point, no doubt.

Sucks how you have the power psychologically to easily cancel your ability to get hard, but it's impossible to will it up...

If it's psychological, you should still get nocturnal erections, if you had these before.

Could it be due to stress, lack of sleep, bad diet, lack of exercise, drinking, smoking, ect... I do know that when I don't treat my body well, and I'm only a few years older than you, my erections suffer big time. Try doing things to promote your overall health and I think your erections might get a lot better very quickly. Oh yeah, and drink a ton of water.

He said he can't get any erection anymore. And that since nearly a month now. I don't think eating right or more water will help much. He realy needs to go to a doctor.

We as men have a lot of pressure on us, sexually, imposed by both ourselves and by the society we live in. We are expected to be virile and horny all the time and be able to produce instant rock-hard erections on demand. We are also expected to have thick 8 inch cocks and giant balls and big muscles. We are also expected to be aggressive and revile any kind of close intimacy with other males. We are also supposed to be in control of our urges, content with our lot in life and completely self-confident and uncomplaining.

Is it any wonder, with these kind of expectations, that some of us become obsessed with the unrealistic image of the mythical strong male?

I agree with most of the others here. It is probably psychological.

Bebobox, I have seen you fall prey to this myth over the last couple months. I have watched you grow more anxious about your sexual performance, your size, your erections. I have watched as you denied yourself even the relief of maturbation.

Bebobox, you need to relax, accept yourself and your cock for what it is, and stop trying to live up to some kind of ideal. Masturbation isn't a sin. It's just a bodily function. All these bad feelings you have about sex and masturbation are just Judeo-Christian morals, meant to impose control over male sexuality...no different than circumcision and even marriage.

Jack yourself off. Don't worry if it doesn't get hard. You can still give yourself pleasure and orgasm while limp. Pop in some ���� and have some guilt-free R&R. Get that equipment back to doing what it is supposed to be doing. If your don't drive your car, it's going to fall apart. If you don't live in a house, it's going to crumble...and if you don't play with your dick, it's going to deteriorate, too! Play with it anytime you feel the urge to play with it. (Not in public, tho! ) Get rid of that guilt and anxiety and get yourself off good and enjoy yourself. I think, if you sweep all this useless anxiety and guilt crap out of your head, you will see the old boy coming back strong within a couple days.

Do you think God gave you that dick just to tease you? "Here you go, my son...don't play with it!" That's stupid.

BeBobBox, You have allot of good advice here and allot of guys who care about you. I really hope things get better. Get some rest, stop putting so much pressure on yourself and things will get better. I know how it feels when you are in the middle of a problem and everyone is telling you how to feel better. It is a terrible feeling, but take some comfort in knowing all these things are temporary and things will change.