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Hi guys,

I have been using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] for 3 months now (along with manual excercises) and I've become extremely sensitive to sexual stimulations e consequently very fast in reaching the orgasm ( approx.one minute). The feeling that I have (having sex) is that there is too much pressure inside my penis and that the pc muscle is like in a constant squeezed state

I wanna spcify that:
-I have always been a regular guy in terms of duration, 15 minutes on average
-I have been into Penis Enlargement for several years now, using only manual excercises, and last september I decided to buy th [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] in order to boost my gains because I have been experiencing months of no results.
-for the first two months I didn't have the girlfriend so I didn't notice the problem; in the last month I have tried to reduce the number of workout, but it didn't work, so now I've decided to stop.

Is there anyone that have at least noticed an increase of sensitivity? What can I do?

I am pissed because I was gaining again and I really wanna go on
 
I am confused, you were gaining and now you are not gaining? When did gains slow and when did this issue arise? Are you able to masturbate for longer periods? There are exercises you can do to correct this but Penis Enlargement usually cures premature ejaculation, it does not cause it.
 
I'm in the same boat. the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] turned me into a minute man. It's very upsetting. I no longer use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]. I thought that quitting would help my staying power return but it hasn't. My girlfriend hates the fact that i used it and i feel foolish for it aswell.
 
first of all thanks for your answer. I have been manually exersising for 3 years, with some months off due to work problems. Last year I've joined [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], bought the package with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/mosdvd.htm]dvd[/words] and the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]PA[/words] because I felt the italian program (i am italian) I was in was obsolete. So I have started with your program from phase 2 and then went for phase 3. I have being gaining for about 6 /7 months, from december 2011 to junes 2012, but then my gians stopped for 3 months. I was insecure about what to do: go for phase 4 or buying a device. I have red hundreds of enthusiastic comments about the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] here on the forum, so I said, I'll give it a shot.
So from september till the end of november, I have used it along with stretches and jelques. And in this period I was gaining again, especially in girth. For the first 8 weeks, I didn't have sex at all, so I couldnt' notice this issue. Yes, I was a bit faster with the masturbation, but I didn't give it too much importance cause I was masturbating just few times aweek. But when I started having sex again, I started to be tremendously fast like never before in my life, never (I am 31). Again, I feel that there is to much pressure inside the penis and that my pc muscle is constantly squeezed.

I hope you can help me with this, I am 7x5, I can live happily with this size, but not with this duration
 
TheMaestro;523174 said:
I'm in the same boat. the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] turned me into a minute man. It's very upsetting. I no longer use the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]. I thought that quitting would help my staying power return but it hasn't. My girlfriend hates the fact that i used it and i feel foolish for it aswell.
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Thank you for sharing...I am sure there is a way to fix it! Let's see what dld suggest us
 
I don't really get this problem with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]. Not saying it's not possible but I just don't understand how it would be doing this. This is an interesting hypothesis, I think, from tenI

"Again, I feel that there is to much pressure inside the penis and that my pc muscle is constantly squeezed."

I don't think the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] does anything at all to the pc muscle, does it? Doesn't it ONLY pull blood into the penis? Is the suggestion that it's pulling blood into all the parts of the entire area?
 
For me, i dont have that sensation of a constantly squeezed pc muscle. It seems to be a sensitivity issue, although i don't really feel like it's more sensitive. The only explanation that made sense to me was Dr. Lin's. I've seen discussions on his credibility(or lack of), so i cant say he's right, but it made sense to me. The only other thing i can think of is that new tissue growth and nerve growth happen with gains, so maybe the new nerves being stimulated create an overload??:(
 
Actually, I don't know if it is precisely the pc muscle or something else, I admit the I havent studied the penis' anatomy very well. But, when I am sexually stimulated, I feel the area between balls and ass very contracted, I can't say it's painful but it bothers me for sure. Seems like the erection it's stronger than the "system" can tolerate, in fact after sex I feel very tired in the area and a sort of sting
 
i just started using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] and i have noticed the opposite. im able to go longer, even with the extra girth making penetration tighter now. granted i have only used a few times. but i am deffinatly still able to dictate when the blow. what kinda routine are you doing with the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]? are you doing one long session, or multiple shorter sessions? i do the 5min x 3 with 200 jelqs in between sets and after. seems to get the job done.
 
doublelongdaddy;523450 said:
Purely and ABSOLUTELY mental.
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How so? Everyone doing Penis Enlargement is doing it with the belief that they will gain and that they will last longer, not the opposite. Doing these routines and exercises should be reinforcing those beliefs and solidifying the mindset. If I thought it would have an adverse affect on me I wouldn't have done it. While using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] i believed 100% that it would increase my staying power. I would do erect bends at 80-100% erection strength while watching adult entertainment then do my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] session. This routine had me at an almost constant state of stimulation for 30+ minutes. I don't understand how that kind of practice creates a purely mental premature ejaculation problem. Sex with my GF used to last >30 minutes. We had rented a room one day ,and, after using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] for some weeks, I was expecting to pull an all nighter on her. My expectations fell from the sky after two strokes. All I can say is that I assure you it isn't mental, I believe I may have suffered some sort of nerve damage and I dont know how to fix it.
 
doublelongdaddy;523450 said:
Purely and ABSOLUTELY mental.
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Dear DLD, I respect you and honor you for all the good you have done (and are doing)to the Penis Enlargement community, I truly believe your are one of the most qualified in the field, but it is too easy to say it's mental, it doesnt match with your reputation nor with your expertise. I think I deserve a better answer than that, if only for the fact that I am your "double customer' (mos program + [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]).

here there are two guys that are experiencing the same problem, and not a little one! so if you don't know how this could have happened, just say: "sorry guys, it's weird, it's the first time I hear this. Maybe it's because of this or that, not sure. Why don't you try to do xxxx for xxx time and then let me know?"

I swear to God, my only goal here is my health, nothing else. I am perfectly consciuos that maybe the other guy (the maestro) and I can be just a 2 in a million cases where the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] causes this problem, so I personally encourage all the people reading this thread to look for the thousands enthusiastic testimonials, not only of the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words], but also of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] program and all the products you find in this forum!

I sincerely hope you can help us!

Penis Enlargement WORKS!
 
Just a quick thought;

Usually Penis Enlargement fights against premature ejaculation. But there might be a case or two (as few have reported) where the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] or other type or exercise might sensitize your penis, in someways. This can be seen as a good thing, in my opinion, but it needs a new approach as well.
I went through quick, are you cut or uncut?

One way to fight against the premature ejaculation is to start slow. Learn your point of no return. As you cum sooner, the PONR is also earlier. Slow, steady movements. Stop and start often. Remain positive.
Do you think about the orgasm or does it just happen? Breathe deep.
Lots of short words and advices here. Kegels; remember to do reverse kegels! In a way it sounds like your PC muscle is pushing constantly, making cumming fast so easy, try to loosen it up.

All in all, don't stress about it. With girls or partners it's always different anyway. Love yourself!

And true, Penis Enlargement works!
 
arkailija;523585 said:
Just a quick thought;

Usually Penis Enlargement fights against premature ejaculation. But there might be a case or two (as few have reported) where the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] or other type or exercise might sensitize your penis, in someways. This can be seen as a good thing, in my opinion, but it needs a new approach as well.
I went through quick, are you cut or uncut?

One way to fight against the premature ejaculation is to start slow. Learn your point of no return. As you cum sooner, the PONR is also earlier. Slow, steady movements. Stop and start often. Remain positive.
Do you think about the orgasm or does it just happen? Breathe deep.
Lots of short words and advices here. Kegels; remember to do reverse kegels! In a way it sounds like your PC muscle is pushing constantly, making cumming fast so easy, try to loosen it up.

All in all, don't stress about it. With girls or partners it's always different anyway. Love yourself!

And true, Penis Enlargement works!
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first of all, thanks for your advices.

probably it's just my system that has reacted in this way to completely new stimolation.

I am uncut and I don't think about the orgasm, it just happens.

I will now focus primarily on reverse kegels, I am sure the pc muscle has reacted in this way because it wasn't ready to this completely new stimolation.

Thanks again
 
Yeah, at the moment, it seems, this kind of practice is my only option. Trying to focus on the sensations and going slow is frustrating though. I miss the days when I could just go "H.A.M.". I am cut, what is the significance of that though? Also, I found DLD's response upsetting. It's somewhat a slap in the face. It's like he's saying "how dare you badmouth the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]! you are all crazy!"
 
tenI, No problem, I'm glad if I could be somekind of help.
Do you use lubrication while masturbating? I'm uncut as well and well, yes, sometimes stimulation is too good and ejaculation might happen a bit sooner than anticipated.
Reverse kegels are a tool when you're on the brink of PONR. As said, it's a bit of new learning process.

To TheMaestro, as you're uncut, I think the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] can pull on skin, maybe renegerate the cut area, making it more sensitive. This is just a thought, nothing scientific, at least nothing I could backup with a referal etc..

So, never lose hope, sometimes it takes a while to learn some new ways. Our bodies change and adapt to new stress and so on.
 
TheMaestro;523561 said:
How so? Everyone doing Penis Enlargement is doing it with the belief that they will gain and that they will last longer, not the opposite. Doing these routines and exercises should be reinforcing those beliefs and solidifying the mindset. If I thought it would have an adverse affect on me I wouldn't have done it. While using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] i believed 100% that it would increase my staying power. I would do erect bends at 80-100% erection strength while watching adult entertainment then do my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] session. This routine had me at an almost constant state of stimulation for 30+ minutes. I don't understand how that kind of practice creates a purely mental premature ejaculation problem. Sex with my GF used to last >30 minutes. We had rented a room one day ,and, after using the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] for some weeks, I was expecting to pull an all nighter on her. My expectations fell from the sky after two strokes. All I can say is that I assure you it isn't mental, I believe I may have suffered some sort of nerve damage and I dont know how to fix it.
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So how are you able to last so long doing erect work without ejaculation? If it were a physical issue it would be consistent through all times of stimulation. Physical premature ejaculation may seem physical but I assure you it is all in the mind. I had these issues early in my Penis Enlargement and solved them using mental practices while strengthening my pelvic floor muscles.
 
tenI;523575 said:
Dear DLD, I respect you and honor you for all the good you have done (and are doing)to the Penis Enlargement community, I truly believe your are one of the most qualified in the field, but it is too easy to say it's mental, it doesnt match with your reputation nor with your expertise. I think I deserve a better answer than that, if only for the fact that I am your "double customer' (mos program + [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words]).

here there are two guys that are experiencing the same problem, and not a little one! so if you don't know how this could have happened, just say: "sorry guys, it's weird, it's the first time I hear this. Maybe it's because of this or that, not sure. Why don't you try to do xxxx for xxx time and then let me know?"

I swear to God, my only goal here is my health, nothing else. I am perfectly consciuos that maybe the other guy (the maestro) and I can be just a 2 in a million cases where the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] causes this problem, so I personally encourage all the people reading this thread to look for the thousands enthusiastic testimonials, not only of the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words], but also of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] program and all the products you find in this forum!

I sincerely hope you can help us!

Penis Enlargement WORKS!
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I understand where you, and everyone else is coming from, but I need to advocate as I know best, Premature Ejaculation is corrected through practice and that practice is largely mental. You may be an exception to the rule and perhaps the type of exercise you are using is causing too much stimulation, but even then the goal would be to surpass the stimulation and grow mentally stronger to keep control.

The same thing goes for erections and dysfunction...it is EXTREMELY rare that someone would become physically huge and impotent-, in 99% of the cases, as severe as they may seem, are corrected through practice of proper therapy.
 
kis_;523884 said:
Well, i experienced premature ejaculation after i got a herniated disc in my back that caused my pelvic floor muscles to become overactive.
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kis_,

I hurt my back about 10 years ago with a slight herniation causing sciatic nerve issues at first and now a constant lower back pain.(repetitive stress injury) I now notice that I can be sitting comfortably watching tv or at work and my pelvic floor muscles are always tense. I can relax them but it takes conscious thought to keep the muscles relaxed and once I stop thinking about it they contract again.

Does this sound like something you are experincing?

With any sexual stimulation, besides manual dry masturbation, I have to fight to keep control result of which is an extremely slow pace which often time is not stimulating for my gf and I can still hit repeated PONR in the first few minutes.

I am glad I read your post!

Have you had any luck in this front?
 
Hi gumby.

Yes, this is something i am experiencing. And this condition the pelvic floor muscles are in is a state of hypertonicity, wich means your muscles are unable to relax. In my case the hypertonicity is caused by a nerve compression, and worsened by the mental part this brought with it. I experienced amongst other symptoms, nerve pain and extreme penile shrinkage too at times. So, hypertonicity in your case can be caused by tension in your pelvic floor over time because of backpain/sciatic nerve pain.This i am writing her is just my opinion on the matter, from my point of view and experience.

You should take a look at this:
http://www.prematurej.com/tennis-ball-massage
http://www.prematurej.com/reverse-kegel-exercise
http://www.prematurej.com/bc-muscle-stretching
http://www.prematurej.com/pc-muscle-stretch-2
In addition to this you likely will benefit from stretching the piriformis muscle and glutes. It would be wise too take care of any triggerpoints before you stretch.

Have you had magnetic resonance pictures of your back taken?

Well, i'm going to have surgery in 2 weeks so i guess i will see when i've had the surgery.. but for now my condition have improved the last month or so because of medications i'm taking and because i have spent almost every day lying in a chair, but this doesn't solve my problem ofcourse.
 
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kis_

Thank you for the information and I hope your surgery goes well!

I had an MRI when the injury occured, but that was 8-10 years ago. My experience with this was a bit odd. I am 6'4" so I had to go in the MRI backwards and my feet hung off end of the table right below my knee. This caused me to be stuck in an arched position for 30-45 min. When I got up to leave my pain was all but gone! So I think being in that position popped something back into place. According to the notes read by the radiologist I had/have a slight herniation but when the back specialist looked at my pictures he said he did not see anything that was too bad and treated me for muscle spasms. I did not find out about the herniation until 2 years ago from a chiropractor who asked for the pictures and notes from the radiologist.

I will give your recommendations a try.

Thank you again!
 
gumby.

Thank you:)

As i can see you'd had/has got different opinions from various medical personel.
I think it depends on what kind of perspectiv you have on the matter that will result in different opinions, for instance that when you're lying flat on your back the compression on the spine isn't very much compared to standing up or sitting and so on. And the pictures as far as i now, is often taken in a lying position wich may display a different view of the situation than it may be. This was at least a opinion the various therapists i've been at had on the matter.

The many various doctors i have been at, included radiologists ment that my pictures din't show any significant affection of the nerves in my back. And three manual therapists(chiropractor,naprapathy and orthopedist) and two doctors said it was quite possible that my problems came from the herniations, while a physiotherapist din't think so. Actually many of the medical persons i've met after my injury thought it was psychological.

This just shows that everything isn't always as it seems, and i think it's wise to be open minded and take every probability in considuration when evaluating a person. Arrogance is a very common thing in the national health service in my country at least, wich can be a big problem.

It may be that your problems have nothing to do with your herniation, whether direct or indirect. But i think it's worth giving the possibilities a try. Just my opinion:) Good luck with your problems:)
 
Guys, if you have any Premature Ejaculation problems, or have had and fixed them- please join/read the discussion on "Kiss the Premature Ejaculation GOODBYE!!!!" located in my signature. I just updated the info and I think that it's a really good read and it's worth the read. :)
 
Had same problem. After using [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98 ]Bathmate[/words] for couple of months i developed a constantly "tight" pc muscle feeling resulting in fast orgasm with sex. Problem resolved once i started using [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words]. My thinking is that the stretch is helping the ligaments and pc muscle to relax. Anyway thank goodness it resolved as there is nothing worse than blowing long before you have had ample time to enjoy your girls body :p
 
It's good to see that you have overcome this issue. Having your PC muscle flexed and out of your control is one of the things that leads to your downfall in the worst way. I will keep that in mind, thanks for sharing your solution. I will post it in my thread as a possible solution :)
 
Im glad if it helped. It was really worrying for awhile there but the [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] really helped. Not sure if its a universal fix but it did the trick with me. :)
 
Delain;687795 said:
Hi Kis, sorry for my english... I have sent a private message. I have a doubt. I'm thinking about surgery, is a good option? Do you have good results? I have a herniated disc in L5-S1, and I belive that maybe, is the cause of all my problems. I do gym, strecthes, but without results, or very little. I have hard-flaccid, PE, etc... Can you say me something about surgery? Thanks.
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I'll bump this thread for you also in hopes he comes back :)
 
lightlyfried;688012 said:
Hopefully are bumps will bring him back :)
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Sometimes it does so it is always good to bump a thread of someone who was successful in hopes of them come back around and give back a bit.
 
master_mind;697061 said:
I agree [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] CAN cause premature ejaculation.
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In what respect? The [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words] should condition you to last longer. I have never heard of the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]BathMate[/words] causing pre-mature ejac.
 
Sorry you feel this way, God Bless You and Goodbye
 
Delain;705219 said:
Solo tú, maldito imbécil hablas bien de tu mierda de producto... JODER eres un coñazo embustero que engañas a chicos con poca autoestima. Tu [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]bathmate[/words] es una mierda y siento que la gente crea en ti. Espero que alguien me lea y no te compre tu mierda. Yo nunca la he usado pero no me hace falta para saber que es una estupidez. Y si tú lo defiendes...eres estúpido. Vendedor de mierdas
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Por que te pones de mal humor? El no handa vendiendo nada a ti. hay maneras de obtener el tamaño del pene simplemente con trabajo de las manos. No necesitas comprarte un producto. Si quieres obtener tamano en circunferencia o longitud te puedo ayudar
 
kyomoto;705379 said:
Por que te pones de mal humor? El no handa vendiendo nada a ti. hay maneras de obtener el tamaño del pene simplemente con trabajo de las manos. No necesitas comprarte un producto. Si quieres obtener tamano en circunferencia o longitud te puedo ayudar
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No reason to even reply to someone with this type of attitude. I can completely understand men being frustrated with a lack of gains, fine, come to us for help and will freely help, but do not come out swinging making allegations that are simply no true. I will always give a Brother 3 tries but this man is not built for the Brotherhood and he can find another place to spew his accusations.
 
doublelongdaddy;705660 said:
No reason to even reply to someone with this type of attitude. I can completely understand men being frustrated with a lack of gains, fine, come to us for help and will freely help, but do not come out swinging making allegations that are simply no true. I will always give a Brother 3 tries but this man is not built for the Brotherhood and he can find another place to spew his accusations.
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I suppose. THe guy was pissed lmfao
 
Munto;705933 said:
Something I haven't appreciated until recently - especially men accumulate excess iron over the years - women do too, but start later on usually 50+

And high iron could have an impact on your erection as well, since high iron can do a lot of damage it is a pro-oxidant.
I'm currently working on lowering my ferritin to the ideal ranges.

Iron Disorders: The Importance of Checking Your Iron Levels
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Pretty much. It's a hassle checking your nutrition daily, but after you do it for maybe 2-3 weeks you understand the nutrition in food and can estimate amounts of whatever. It's what I've done and always make sure to get certain vegetables that I know are sufficient for me in vitamins and other minerals and I know i don't go overboard either. I like to fast too if I'm feeling I've had too much of something vitamin wise to let it ease into the body. But if you're going to fast make sure you're not doing it on and off so much because it could make your stomach acid react badly.
 
The Best Positions to Last Longer In Bed
Position #1 - "The Surreptitious Female Rider"
This is perhaps the best position for you if you are looking to last longer. Let her mount atop you while having sex. There are 2 advantages to this position:
Greater Control: You can control your arousal completely. This is because this position allows your body to be completely relaxed and stress-free. You are lying on your back and just enjoying the sensations coursing through your body. When you are this relaxed, you can control your arousal whenever you want.
Putting Her In Charge: The best advantage to this position is that she is in charge of the stimulation. Her rhythmic movements might inflame you, but you are in total control of your arousal and you can relax or tighten your pelvic muscles with total ease. How great is that?
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This is another great position you can try out. This is the reverse of Position #1. This is where your partner mounts you, but in a 'facing away' position. You can try this variation after adopting the traditional female rider. It can help vary the stimulation, without losing the fun and pleasure of the act.
 

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