On my way!---the right way this time
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Right now I do 2 sets of 10mins at around 7hgs. I will have to try your routine here shortly.
You've got nothing but gains coming. I've recently gotten back on the wagon after my complete crap shoot of a life. My length needs to grow a little more and I'll be set with nothing but girth work. Much like you, I'm starting to get content with what I have and feel my time can be used more for my loved ones. Just a choice I have to ponder on. Your thread keeps me motivated to not do but also, that if I do, I know I'll be happy with what I have. Thanks for having a great mind set and look on life. Good luck and GOD bless on your endeavors.
Lol. You'll be fine. Life has mistakes and you only grow from them. I've only been good for 2 weeks. You are strong and nothing can change that. My best wishes on your endeavors again.
This is a very important post and I urge anyone seeing this right now to read it fully.
Anyone who has ever read this or any of my other threads is going to notice a few changes made. I recently went through a really rough time with my girlfriend. She found out a few things about me: 1) I used to do Penis Enlargement (I'll get to that later) 2) I used to be a adult entertainment addict 3) I used to have really fucked up views of women and sex
On the first point, you may be able to find a post of mine on the "delete my account" thread somewhere on the forum (I don't really know where it is and it doesn't really matter). that was because I wanted my account deleted/my username changed because a few weeks ago, my girlfriend was using my computer and found my browsing history on here. that included pages on other discussion site dealing with overcoming addiction to pornography and pages on this forum regarding Penis Enlargement (obviously). at first I thought she had only found out about me getting over a adult entertainment addiction, but it turns out that she pretty much read everything on here too (more on that in a little bit). I wanted to delete my account/get my name changed if it couldn't be deleted because I didn't want her finding and reading all of the things I did on here (because I was ashamed basically, but that has less to do with Penis Enlargement and more with how I used to view women and sex). however, she later told me that she actually read all of the questionable and bad things that I wrote about on here, so that didn't really matter anymore. anyway, after talking to her about everything in regard to penis enlargement, I decided that I will be discontinuing any practice of any of these techniques. that is because 1) she finds it weird and 2) (the more important point) she explained to me that she never was dissatisfied with my penis size. she asked me "did i ever give you any inkling of a feeling that I wasn't satisfied with you in bed?" to which the answer was "no."
On the second point, that is what it is, and relates more to my third point than any other factor, so I'll just get right to it.
On my third point (that I used to have very fucked up views on women and adult entertainment), the changes I made to my threads, and will continue to make to previous threads as I encounter them is that I will be deleting any pictures that I posted of myself and deleting any post that I made that was derogatory toward women and their involvement in acts of sex. Having been addicted to adult entertainment, I had very warped views of women, to the point where I wrote about women in very objective ways on this forum, of which I am extremely shameful of. after my girlfriend discovered the things I wrote on here about girls (things like how in the process of abstaining from adult entertainment, in my mind, I started to notice girls again and that it was rebooting my sex drive. however, i said this in such terms as seeing girls "made me want to fuck" and the like).
the point is, even though regaining my sex drive by abstaining from adult entertainment is a good thing, it was bringing out the truth about my own mind that I viewed women more as objects than people, and sex as more of a dominant, one-sided act for the male's pleasure. the shock that I caused my girlfriend brought me to realize that I truly needed to ask myself how i viewed women and sex, and after doing that, to change the way that I thought. I have since then done so, and I feel much better about myself as a human being.
I need to say now, that adult entertainment screwed me up beyond my own mental recognition of myself. sex should be a natural, shared act, where both people are on the same level of enjoyment and anything else. one person should not use the other for their own personal gain, nor should one partner view the other as an object. and sex truly is better when it is with someone you have a connection with. my girlfriend read the derogatory things that I wrote on here and it even brought her to believe that I would cheat on her, which is something I would never do. but it just went to show how extremely toxic the way i used to think was. I'm ashamed of it, I really am.
finally, I want to say that there is nothing wrong with penis enlargement in a general sense. for anyone who is "smaller than average," it can be a great way to give you the confidence you need by making you bigger. I can attest to it working because of the smaller gains that I've made, and I've seen people on here who have gained a lot more size than me. but I deleted the pictures and derogatory, sexist posts that I made on here because they reminded me of a time when I was in a very dark place mentally. you can still see my counter in my signature for staying away from adult entertainment, and it will continue to count up not because I forgot to reset it, but because I am honestly never going to fall back to watching adult entertainment and viewing sex and women the way I did. I strongly advise anyone reading this to evaluate the way you view sex and people of the opposite gender and ask yourself, "is this really the way I should be thinking? how is it affecting me and how would it affect the relationships I had if people had a window into my brain?"
hopefully none of you ever have to go through the emotional conflict me and my girlfriend had to go through. she is someone I never want to lose, and going through this showed me just how valuable she is to me.
Penis Enlargement is not the enemy. Sexism and objectification of women is. this may sound very preachy and dramatic, but it's the truth.
[I will continue to update this thread with my thoughts on the matters I just wrote about, but I don't plan on ever doing Penis Enlargement ever again. although I think I will always wish I was bigger (something I probably also picked up from watching adult entertainment), as long as my girlfriend is satisfied, I have no need to do any more.]
Anyone who has ever read this or any of my other threads is going to notice a few changes made. I recently went through a really rough time with my girlfriend. She found out a few things about me: 1) I used to do Penis Enlargement (I'll get to that later) 2) I used to be a adult entertainment addict 3) I used to have really fucked up views of women and sex
On the first point, you may be able to find a post of mine on the "delete my account" thread somewhere on the forum (I don't really know where it is and it doesn't really matter). that was because I wanted my account deleted/my username changed because a few weeks ago, my girlfriend was using my computer and found my browsing history on here. that included pages on other discussion site dealing with overcoming addiction to pornography and pages on this forum regarding Penis Enlargement (obviously). at first I thought she had only found out about me getting over a adult entertainment addiction, but it turns out that she pretty much read everything on here too (more on that in a little bit). I wanted to delete my account/get my name changed if it couldn't be deleted because I didn't want her finding and reading all of the things I did on here (because I was ashamed basically, but that has less to do with Penis Enlargement and more with how I used to view women and sex). however, she later told me that she actually read all of the questionable and bad things that I wrote about on here, so that didn't really matter anymore. anyway, after talking to her about everything in regard to penis enlargement, I decided that I will be discontinuing any practice of any of these techniques. that is because 1) she finds it weird and 2) (the more important point) she explained to me that she never was dissatisfied with my penis size. she asked me "did i ever give you any inkling of a feeling that I wasn't satisfied with you in bed?" to which the answer was "no."
On the second point, that is what it is, and relates more to my third point than any other factor, so I'll just get right to it.
On my third point (that I used to have very fucked up views on women and adult entertainment), the changes I made to my threads, and will continue to make to previous threads as I encounter them is that I will be deleting any pictures that I posted of myself and deleting any post that I made that was derogatory toward women and their involvement in acts of sex. Having been addicted to adult entertainment, I had very warped views of women, to the point where I wrote about women in very objective ways on this forum, of which I am extremely shameful of. after my girlfriend discovered the things I wrote on here about girls (things like how in the process of abstaining from adult entertainment, in my mind, I started to notice girls again and that it was rebooting my sex drive. however, i said this in such terms as seeing girls "made me want to fuck" and the like).
the point is, even though regaining my sex drive by abstaining from adult entertainment is a good thing, it was bringing out the truth about my own mind that I viewed women more as objects than people, and sex as more of a dominant, one-sided act for the male's pleasure. the shock that I caused my girlfriend brought me to realize that I truly needed to ask myself how i viewed women and sex, and after doing that, to change the way that I thought. I have since then done so, and I feel much better about myself as a human being.
I need to say now, that adult entertainment screwed me up beyond my own mental recognition of myself. sex should be a natural, shared act, where both people are on the same level of enjoyment and anything else. one person should not use the other for their own personal gain, nor should one partner view the other as an object. and sex truly is better when it is with someone you have a connection with. my girlfriend read the derogatory things that I wrote on here and it even brought her to believe that I would cheat on her, which is something I would never do. but it just went to show how extremely toxic the way i used to think was. I'm ashamed of it, I really am.
finally, I want to say that there is nothing wrong with penis enlargement in a general sense. for anyone who is "smaller than average," it can be a great way to give you the confidence you need by making you bigger. I can attest to it working because of the smaller gains that I've made, and I've seen people on here who have gained a lot more size than me. but I deleted the pictures and derogatory, sexist posts that I made on here because they reminded me of a time when I was in a very dark place mentally. you can still see my counter in my signature for staying away from adult entertainment, and it will continue to count up not because I forgot to reset it, but because I am honestly never going to fall back to watching adult entertainment and viewing sex and women the way I did. I strongly advise anyone reading this to evaluate the way you view sex and people of the opposite gender and ask yourself, "is this really the way I should be thinking? how is it affecting me and how would it affect the relationships I had if people had a window into my brain?"
hopefully none of you ever have to go through the emotional conflict me and my girlfriend had to go through. she is someone I never want to lose, and going through this showed me just how valuable she is to me.
Penis Enlargement is not the enemy. Sexism and objectification of women is. this may sound very preachy and dramatic, but it's the truth.
[I will continue to update this thread with my thoughts on the matters I just wrote about, but I don't plan on ever doing Penis Enlargement ever again. although I think I will always wish I was bigger (something I probably also picked up from watching adult entertainment), as long as my girlfriend is satisfied, I have no need to do any more.]
Great post and I'm happy you seem to have found transparency in your relationship. However, if P.E. makes you happy, why can't you do it without overthinking it? Why do you have to watch adult entertainment and be sexist to do P.E.? If it's really not important to you anymore, that's OK. I just hate to see you swayed just because one woman in your life isn't "dissatisfied".
I hate to say this, but there are so many fish in the sea. Good luck with your love endeavors.
I hate to say this, but there are so many fish in the sea. Good luck with your love endeavors.
I appreciate your concern for my individuality as a man and the options to do what I please. I don't think that you have to be sexist and watch adult entertainment to do Penis Enlargement. That's not near what I meant to convey. watching adult entertainment/being sexist and doing Penis Enlargement are two completely separate matters. I think a lot of guys do get caught up in adult entertainment as a means to do their exercises. it's easy to see how it happens: some people pursue Penis Enlargement with such a passion that their sessions can last up to two hours (i'm talking girth workouts here)...that's a long time to be aroused for exercises without some kind of external stimulation. that's an exception to the rule however; you don't have to have sessions that long, and you don't have to watch adult entertainment to do Penis Enlargement.
The reason I quit watching adult entertainment was because it turned me into a sexist brute in some contexts. The reason that I stopped doing Penis Enlargement was because I'm happy with my size, and so is my girlfriend, since I'm above average. She is "satisfied," as opposed to "not being dissatisfied." Slight, but important differences. I learned that sex definitely doesn't revolve around the size of the man's penis. That was something I picked up from adult entertainment. Like I said in my most recent post: "Penis Enlargement is not the enemy. Sexism and objectification of women is." I didn't stop doing Penis Enlargement because it was a problem, I stopped because I realize that the image purveyed by adult entertainment of necessary megalophallus to truly please a woman had me thinking that I wasn't truly adequate.
But I am.
I don't want any guy reading this post or my last one thinking that Penis Enlargement is bad or that you shouldn't do it. It is good. It's just something I don't need to do anymore, and I can shift my focus and devote more of my effort towards other areas of my life.
As to there being so many fish in the sea, that is true. But my girlfriend in question isn't just A fish in the sea, she is THE fish for me. !Totally! cheesy, I know, but it's true. I don't know how soon, but engagement, and subsequently marriage, is soon approaching for the two of us. This just adds weight to her opinions in my mind. The focus of sex was never the size of my penis for her, and it doesn't need to be in my mind anymore either.
If I feel the need to be bigger again in the future, Penis Enlargement is always a viable option. But right now, it's just not something I need to do with where I'm at as an individual. Again, I have no ill feelings towards Penis Enlargement itself; I actually like it. But there were other things that I needed to put in check with myself right now, so Penis Enlargement fell lower on the list of my priorities after I sorted everything out, that's all
The reason I quit watching adult entertainment was because it turned me into a sexist brute in some contexts. The reason that I stopped doing Penis Enlargement was because I'm happy with my size, and so is my girlfriend, since I'm above average. She is "satisfied," as opposed to "not being dissatisfied." Slight, but important differences. I learned that sex definitely doesn't revolve around the size of the man's penis. That was something I picked up from adult entertainment. Like I said in my most recent post: "Penis Enlargement is not the enemy. Sexism and objectification of women is." I didn't stop doing Penis Enlargement because it was a problem, I stopped because I realize that the image purveyed by adult entertainment of necessary megalophallus to truly please a woman had me thinking that I wasn't truly adequate.
But I am.
I don't want any guy reading this post or my last one thinking that Penis Enlargement is bad or that you shouldn't do it. It is good. It's just something I don't need to do anymore, and I can shift my focus and devote more of my effort towards other areas of my life.
As to there being so many fish in the sea, that is true. But my girlfriend in question isn't just A fish in the sea, she is THE fish for me. !Totally! cheesy, I know, but it's true. I don't know how soon, but engagement, and subsequently marriage, is soon approaching for the two of us. This just adds weight to her opinions in my mind. The focus of sex was never the size of my penis for her, and it doesn't need to be in my mind anymore either.
If I feel the need to be bigger again in the future, Penis Enlargement is always a viable option. But right now, it's just not something I need to do with where I'm at as an individual. Again, I have no ill feelings towards Penis Enlargement itself; I actually like it. But there were other things that I needed to put in check with myself right now, so Penis Enlargement fell lower on the list of my priorities after I sorted everything out, that's all
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bawg1012;576898 said:I appreciate your concern for my individuality as a man and the options to do what I please. I don't think that you have to be sexist and watch adult entertainment to do Penis Enlargement. That's not near what I meant to convey. watching adult entertainment/being sexist and doing Penis Enlargement are two completely separate matters. I think a lot of guys do get caught up in adult entertainment as a means to do their exercises. it's easy to see how it happens: some people pursue Penis Enlargement with such a passion that their sessions can last up to two hours (i'm talking girth workouts here)...that's a long time to be aroused for exercises without some kind of external stimulation. that's an exception to the rule however; you don't have to have sessions that long, and you don't have to watch adult entertainment to do Penis Enlargement.
The reason I quit watching adult entertainment was because it turned me into a sexist brute in some contexts. The reason that I stopped doing Penis Enlargement was because I'm happy with my size, and so is my girlfriend, since I'm above average. She is "satisfied," as opposed to "not being dissatisfied." Slight, but important differences. I learned that sex definitely doesn't revolve around the size of the man's penis. That was something I picked up from adult entertainment. Like I said in my most recent post: "Penis Enlargement is not the enemy. Sexism and objectification of women is." I didn't stop doing Penis Enlargement because it was a problem, I stopped because I realize that the image purveyed by adult entertainment of necessary megalophallus to truly please a woman had me thinking that I wasn't truly adequate. I am. I don't want any guy reading this post or my last one thinking that Penis Enlargement is bad or that you shouldn't do it. It is good. It's just something I don't need to do anymore, and I can shift my focus and devote more of my effort towards other areas of my life.
As to there being so many fish in the sea, that is true. But my girlfriend in question isn't just A fish in the sea, she is THE fish for me. !Totally! cheesy, I know, but it's true. I don't know how soon, but engagement, and subsequently marriage, is soon approaching for the two of us. This just adds weight to her opinions in my mind. The focus of sex was never the size of my penis for her, and it doesn't need to be in my mind anymore either.
If I feel the need to be bigger again in the future, Penis Enlargement is always a viable option. But right now, it's just not something I need to do with where I'm at as an individual. Again, I have no ill feelings towards Penis Enlargement itself; I actually like it. But there were other things that I needed to put in check with myself right now, so Penis Enlargement fell lower on the list of my priorities after I sorted everything out, that's all
It sounds like you've been doing some soul searching and may have stumbled upon the realization of who you truly are.
Please keep your identity in balance with your implicit devotion to your girl!I am not who I think I am.
I am not who you think I am.
I am who I think you think I am.
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This is what the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] brotherhood is all about. Please come back often and let us know how things are going!
I haven't been on here until now and I came back to butcher/delete everything because I used to be screwed in the head, like I said, and have been trying to make changes because my past keeps coming up and messing up my life. sorry to anyone who's read stuff i've written on here, but I'm editing all posts to basically say nothing. I used to be obsessed with this stuff and it wasn't healthy. kudos to anyone who can do it and remain healthy, it's just something I couldn't do