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Posted by BigFatJoe

Hi, i got 32 years.
I am having difficulties in staying erect for some time, and without stimulation like adult entertainment or real life i cant get even hard so for jelqing i usually use adult entertainment. (doing pc muscle will help this)?

When doing pc muscle i only see my left testicle coming up is the other one dead??

After starting the routine i kinda start feeling my left testicle some soft sensation in there sometimes i have it others dont?

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Posted by 8incyclops

Don't be sorry got a problem ask the question,Left testicle coming up?To find the pc muscle it's like when you take a piss and you hold the urine flow that's the pc muscle.

Trouble getting erect could be any number of things like stress,overweight,to much adult entertainment,depression,drugs etc find what it is a work on it.

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Posted by BigFatJoe

Thanks Cyclops

Been stressed lately, i am overweight also with more 22 pounds , but i guess the main reason is adult entertainment.

I have been masturbating once a day for a long time sometimes more sometimes less, and lately in the last 3/4 months i have been masturbating even more like 2 3 times a day.

So since i had that problem on getting hard i decided to check on the web about it and i started to read some wierd stuff like if i don't have my sperm in my testicles for more then 48 hours
i can end up sterile and some other stuff, but enough to scare me so i stopped masturbating 1 week ago,

After that i decided to join the community and restart doing PE exercices since i did it once for 1 month only 2 3 years ago, guess i wasn't mentally prepared :D.
 
The testicles can be at shorter distances and kegels would show this by one ball raising higher than the other, this is not a problem it is only a difference in length of connection. You can combat this using the Testicle Health Massage and Stretch found in the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. Practicing this workout daily will even out the distance and make all things even. adult entertainment can be a culprit of poor erection quality under too much exposure, I suggest finding the most innocent material to view that will bring erections and keep it at that. Progression in pornography will always turn out badly, moderation in all things my Brother.
 
Keep up with your kegels and don't forget reverse kegels, cut back on the adult entertainment, you should still be able to masturbate about three times a week or replace it with sex the choice is yours.

Have you had sex recently? If so how was your erection then? Just asking because with my own personal experience I used to think I had e.q. problems not too long ago because I couldn't stay erect without stimulation for longer than a minute if I were masturbating or rushing to put on my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words], and while I am masturbating my glans never really fill up but the rest of my shaft maintains a decent erection, but I found that when I'm having sex my e.q. is out of this world my dick is longer, my glans are fully mushroomed and I have no refractory period after I cum I just clean myself up, jelq a little bit to get the leftovers out and stick it back in for another round.

I know damn sure that I prefer real pussy vs. My hand and adult entertainment and I believe that's why I experience such a big difference in e.q. between those two circumstances.
 
Thank you very much guys,

about the adult entertainment im out for now, i want to give it a rest, so i decided i will only do my pe exercices for now.

I am not with a girl for 1 year and 3 months now so I dont know how efficient it its, that helped in masturbating a lot more :(.
The same happens to me to, i am erect still i dont get the mushroom effect, but like i said i did once Pe some years ago and jelqing exercices and pc muscle will help on that you start having a lot more blood coming to your penis.

yes a pussy vs my hand and adult entertainment is a lot better :D, the fact that you are not alone changes everything and you get aroused which is harder to happen at least for me when seeing adult entertainment, got to beat the guy to dead :).


Question: In case you have finished your jelquing exercices can you ejaculate?, i was thinking in doing it 1 day a week just to keep it flowing?, guess stopping is bad for testicles right?.
 
BigFatJoe;595877 said:
Question: In case you have finished your jelquing exercices can you ejaculate?, i was thinking in doing it 1 day a week just to keep it flowing?, guess stopping is bad for testicles right?.
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We need to let one off every now and again, it is a perfectly normal part of human sexuality. You could practice getting erect and getting off without adult entertainment to pull you from the addictive nature of adult entertainment. I have tried but can't master this. I need some visual stimulation but I try to keep it as innocent as possible. I will not watch intercourse or anal adult entertainment, I prefer a solo model that is pretty and young. The biggest problem here is sifting through all the garbage adult entertainment to find it. adult entertainment and masturbation can be a very tough nut to crack.
 
BigFatJoe;595877 said:
Question: In case you have finished your jelquing exercices can you ejaculate?, i was thinking in doing it 1 day a week just to keep it flowing?, guess stopping is bad for testicles right?.
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You should try edging after your girth routine, masturbate but stop from ejaculating when you get the urge to, keep doing this over and over again until 30 minutes are up, once the time is up you can finally let it rip, this will help fill that temporary girth work you've done with very nutrient rich blood to help grow, will help with your premature ejaculation and if you don't have it will make you an even greater champ in bed, it can also help your e.q. As you're training your penis to stay erect longer without ejaculating as opposed to just hurrying up to ejaculate because it feels good and just putting it back in your pants.
 
Thanks again guys, awesome info.

I will not watch intercourse or anal adult entertainment, I prefer a solo model that is pretty and young
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yeah, lately what turns me on "more" is beautiful girls with awesome body shapes naked or not, if they are hot and sexy im good :D.

Without that kind of stimulation for now i guess would be quite hard to get hard i guess.


You should try edging after your girth routine...
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Yah... that sounds good, but this exercise would be best if done more then once a week to build [words=http://fleshlight.sjv.io/c/348327/302851/4702]stamina[/words] but without the (let it rip part i guess :D), seems definitely an important exercise if you want to satisfy your partner , and very important for guys with premature ejaculation.

Im all edging, jelqs and keels at the moment.
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:D seems you are lucky enough already :D or worked hard for it, since your just working on the performance part i would prefer to just do those also but i really need to pull out some inches to :D only have 6 inches i would like to add 2 inches more maybe, would be very happy with that.

Questions:
Well about this there isnt another way of doing it still i would like to know if when doing DLD somehow you are affecting your head glandes making them losing a bit of their sensibility?

Jaronimo you mentioned that you had been in a close situation to mine the way you described it so what exactly did you think it helped you more on that situation should i do some changes on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]?

I assume the routine is this one here

I will add the edging to this routine if its not to soon.

Apart from routine and exercises i would like to ask if anyone knows what means when you got a testicle that is quite sensitive that if you press gently you can feel a little sensation, its not like when we are in pain.
 
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i reply to this thread some hours ago when i clicked reply said that would need moderation, how long does it take? yet i didnt had anything rong in there i assume it was because of the link i added but from this site, still its the second time this happens to me.
 
BigFatJoe;596078 said:
i reply to this thread some hours ago when i clicked reply said that would need moderation, how long does it take? yet i didnt had anything rong in there i assume it was because of the link i added but from this site, still its the second time this happens to me.
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All posts just moderated.
 
BigFatJoe;596071 said:
Jaronimo you mentioned that you had been in a close situation to mine the way you described it so what exactly did you think it helped you more on that situation should i do some changes on the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]?
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I thought I was having e.q. problems but like I said when I had sex it was totally a false alarm because during this time my e.q. was great my dick was solid and I had a nice mushroom head. All I did at that time was jelq, edge, kegel, and spend a lot of time in my vacutech pump.

It could also be a sign of a fatigued pens which just means you're doing good work but sometimes we just need a day or two to heal and get back to 100% so that we can continue to train at 100%.
 
Jaronimo;596138 said:
It could also be a sign of a fatigued pens which just means you're doing good work but sometimes we just need a day or two to heal and get back to 100% so that we can continue to train at 100%.
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Another thing men need to understand about fatigue is that when the penis is in this state it is the best time to stretch for length gains as there is no muscle restriction of the stretch allowing all of the intensity to go to the penis. This is what DLD Blasters were built on.
 
BigFatJoe;596460 said:
how can i identify when its in fatigue state??
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Most men experience a decrease in e.q. or even just a hard time achieving and maintaining an erection, it usually happens after some major girth work though.
 
thanks, if it works this way why do we do dld before instead of after girth workout since is when is the best time to stretch for length gains?
 
thanks, if it works this way why do we do dld before instead of after girth workout since its when is the best time to stretch for length gains?
 
BigFatJoe;596596 said:
thanks, if it works this way why do we do dld before instead of after girth workout since its when is the best time to stretch for length gains?
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Training when fatigued allows for faster length gains but making this work timing wise would mean either manually exhausting the pelvic floor muscles through lots of Kegels, which serve to wear out these muscles or after girth work when the girth work is intense enough to cause fatigue.
 
doublelongdaddy;595991 said:
W I need some visual stimulation but I try to keep it as innocent as possible. I will not watch intercourse or anal adult entertainment, I prefer a solo model that is pretty and young. The biggest problem here is sifting through all the garbage adult entertainment to find it. adult entertainment and masturbation can be a very tough nut to crack.
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I agree fully with DLD here. I have begun to do the same. I am an ass man so i will watch and jerk off to vids of just adult entertainment models showing off their asses and this translates well when I am looking at a reall booty in front of me. will also use hot girl vids on youtube. Love Vida Guerra

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I would suggest watching adult entertainment every other day or so. I continue to follow this type of schedule because adult entertainment gives me great EQ. I would watch it every day but as a safety precaution I don't.

Another suggestion is rub the glans. For me any kind of light or hard glans rubbing induces erectile sensation IMMEDIATELY.
 
youknowme123321;596626 said:
I agree fully with DLD here. I have begun to do the same. I am an ass man so i will watch and jerk off to vids of just adult entertainment models showing off their asses and this translates well when I am looking at a reall booty in front of me. will also use hot girl vids on youtube. Love Vida Guerra

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Exactly where I am at. I look for young models showing off, this is enough for me. If I go beyond this I feel nothing but shame and guilt.
 
doublelongdaddy;596868 said:
Exactly where I am at. I look for young models showing off, this is enough for me. If I go beyond this I feel nothing but shame and guilt.
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Lol I can't count how many times I've finished after watching a adult entertainment and thought "what the hell is this sickness on my screen?"
 
dmoney101;598675 said:
Lol I can't count how many times I've finished after watching a adult entertainment and thought "what the hell is this sickness on my screen?"
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lol, no shit right? adult entertainment is a hard thing to keep in control. What I try to do to keep things in check is give myself no more than 15 minutes and I keep my searches as innocent as possible.
 
doublelongdaddy;598798 said:
lol, no shit right? adult entertainment is a hard thing to keep in control. What I try to do to keep things in check is give myself no more than 15 minutes and I keep my searches as innocent as possible.
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I only enjoy the hardcore shit now lol. But unlike other men, I completely separate that from real sex. That's the key, to be able to compartmentalize.
 
heh sorry guys i haven,t been replaying i don't even noticed this had a second page :(.

- is there any gadgets that allow you to do pe at work?, for guys with some privacy at work.

- is it possible to gain 2.5 3 inches? (and still depending on how you are working out and your body response), how long it could take if that would be possible?

DLD i saw some video you make about dld exercises and you talked that some people aint getting big gains because they are kinda afraid of stretching to much or maybe doing the exercises incorrectly, so when do we know that we are doing the right amount of stretch ? do we need to fell some pain close to the pelvic bone still when we are using the other hand anchoring it at the base?

thanks
 
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