Just want to hear from people their experience with telling wife/partner about doing pe . My wife freaked out when she found my andro and since then we haven't really spoken about it . I still do all my work in secret which makes it hard to keep consistent . Would love to hear anyone else's experience and how many guys have full support of their partners ?
How to tell your wife about pe
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why did she freak out.
warmachine1;495493 said:
Firstly she was like wtf is this thing then when I explained she said it was stupid and there was no reason to try change what I've got and then she thought maybe it was cos I wanted a bigger dick for someone else . It's nice that she really likes it how it is but I'm sure she won't complain with an extra inch or two in length and girth .
I wouldn't tell. I'd just enjoy the reaction when she starts to notice.
Try inviting her to a girth work session or show her a before and after of your cock. I introduced my wife to it by sending her a text photo of the Dick after a hard girth workout when I was maxed out, and she skipped class top come home and get some.
After that we've turned it into a bonding experience with my wife. She loves lubing me up for the pumping sessions and when I clamp she's right there sucking me to get me hard. Sometimes while i'm clamping shell masturbate in front of me and after a few sets when my Dick and head were super thick well fuck while clamped. The only thing she can't handle watching is when I hang and when i'm doing bundled stretches.
After that we've turned it into a bonding experience with my wife. She loves lubing me up for the pumping sessions and when I clamp she's right there sucking me to get me hard. Sometimes while i'm clamping shell masturbate in front of me and after a few sets when my Dick and head were super thick well fuck while clamped. The only thing she can't handle watching is when I hang and when i'm doing bundled stretches.
mizzougrad01;495537 said:
That's fucking awesome and so hot.
I introduced it to my wife as body modification and a confidence builder, much like any exercise or weightlifting.
Now, with me plumbing her depths and making her squirt five times a session, she doesn't mind one bit.
Besides its your body, you can do whatever you want with it.
She as your partner should support you and have your back regardless.
Ask her to imagine that she wanted to enlarge her breasts and you acted aghast, how would that make her feel?
I think it is best to keep it under wraps, penis envy is a really good way top mess up a relationship and believe me, it is all about your penis. Your mate really needs to be open minded and secure in their sexuality in order to accept and support this.
mizzougrad01;495537 said:
Lucky bastard !!!!! The pic of after girth session might be a good idea . I was just thinking the other day after a good Jelq and horse session I wish she walked in right now !
My wife totally knows I have my Penis Enlargement equipment. However, I do not allow her to see when I am using it. One day I went to the computer desk where she was doing some work and I had just finished pumping. All I did was rub against her purposefully on accident and when she turned around, she wanted to grab it and play with it. But I did not let her. I told her it is all for her. Since then, she is all for my diong Penis Enlargement.
She knows I still have andro but I still don't do it when she's home which makes it hard to stay consistent .
Not long now till I get [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] so maybe I'll wait till I get that then show of my dick all pumped up and see what she says then . Just feels weird having to do it in secret I feel like I'm doing something bad but really it shouldn't be any different than wanting to go to the gym to get a six pack or going on a diet . Thanks for everyone's advice .
Not long now till I get [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] so maybe I'll wait till I get that then show of my dick all pumped up and see what she says then . Just feels weird having to do it in secret I feel like I'm doing something bad but really it shouldn't be any different than wanting to go to the gym to get a six pack or going on a diet . Thanks for everyone's advice .
This has shown up in discussion before. Some women will think you are making it bigger to get more pussy. I don't tell my girl about it, but lately i wonder how she wouldn't know because I think i've gained a bit on length since being with her. I can feel it going deeper now.
I've been doing daily squash jelks and the other morning I could barely fit it inside her too. Hydromaxmm... maybe girls get morning pussy where it shrinks in size, then again i had serious morning wood.
I've been doing daily squash jelks and the other morning I could barely fit it inside her too. Hydromaxmm... maybe girls get morning pussy where it shrinks in size, then again i had serious morning wood.
My wife loves the fact I'm bettering myself in anyway. Gym , education, and pe are all the same.
She doesn't watch, but has sneaked a peek. I find hiding anything from her to be wrong tho. She knows me inside and out.
She doesn't watch, but has sneaked a peek. I find hiding anything from her to be wrong tho. She knows me inside and out.
Ultimately, you have to decide why you're doing Penis Enlargement in the first place... and, most of all, you have to decide which one you value most: your penis or your relationship. If Penis Enlargement is likely to cause some kiind of harm to your relationship, is it worth it?
I can speak light-heartedly about this, because, luckily, my girlfriend never made any kind of fuss about it. In fact, I've asked her if she'd like me to stop and she replied "nope. Let's see how far you get, I'm sure we can work it out". So I don't really know how you're feeling.
Anyway, I wouldn't sacrifice being with the woman I love for having a bigger dick.
Just my 2 cents
I can speak light-heartedly about this, because, luckily, my girlfriend never made any kind of fuss about it. In fact, I've asked her if she'd like me to stop and she replied "nope. Let's see how far you get, I'm sure we can work it out". So I don't really know how you're feeling.
Anyway, I wouldn't sacrifice being with the woman I love for having a bigger dick.
Just my 2 cents
Another big part of telling your mate is you may see yourself become more open with it and they may see this as obsession. I think that is why the forum is important, it allows us to say the stuff here so we are not making it the star player in our relationships. If she knows that is great if she is good with it but don't make it the main part of your relationship. Us, as men, when we learn about Penis Enlargement we become hyper-amazed. It becomes something we can't stop thinking about and when we realize it is true we can become obsessed. It is important to understand that your excitement and creation is not hers, it is yours...don't expect equal expression of emotion.
Obsessive questions like; "Does it feel bigger today?" or "Do you think I look longer?" and the like will put their head in a spin. You will start to appear insecure and if the relationship is rocky tables will turn and you could lose your mate. I only advise from experience in this. When my last girl left me she made it very clean that a large part of why she fell out of love was because of how obsessed I became with my penis and Penis Enlargement. Looking back, she is right. Once I included her in my Penis Enlargement the relationship fell further and further apart. Today I would not make it a big deal but I have learned these lessons, I just hope others heed my warnings. There was a time I advocated to include your mate in Penis Enlargement, today my advice would be just the opposite.
I think the simplicity of gaining without her knowing is awesome. I love when guys get asked if their dick is still growing. The sense of mystery makes you a superman in her eyes, magical. If she knows how the trick is done the magic no longer has the same appeal.
Obsessive questions like; "Does it feel bigger today?" or "Do you think I look longer?" and the like will put their head in a spin. You will start to appear insecure and if the relationship is rocky tables will turn and you could lose your mate. I only advise from experience in this. When my last girl left me she made it very clean that a large part of why she fell out of love was because of how obsessed I became with my penis and Penis Enlargement. Looking back, she is right. Once I included her in my Penis Enlargement the relationship fell further and further apart. Today I would not make it a big deal but I have learned these lessons, I just hope others heed my warnings. There was a time I advocated to include your mate in Penis Enlargement, today my advice would be just the opposite.
I think the simplicity of gaining without her knowing is awesome. I love when guys get asked if their dick is still growing. The sense of mystery makes you a superman in her eyes, magical. If she knows how the trick is done the magic no longer has the same appeal.
doublelongdaddy;496501 said:
Yeah I hear what your saying and I don't want it to seem like I'm obsessed ( even though it is hard not to be once you've seen some gains ) and I don't want her to think that it means more than our relationship . For now I think I'll just keep going how I am and if the subject comes up again I'll see how we go from there . It does mean I'm going to have to hide my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] when I get it though and I'm sure that she'll find that and then I'll have to explain that too !!!! It's not like she doesn't know at all but we only talked about it a bit . After she freaked when she found andro we went out to dinner a few days later and I explained it and how it works . She seemed kinda of curious but still found it a bit weird . Since then we haven't talked about it . I kinda said what if you could wear a bra clothes panties or anything for a few hours per day that could change things on your body that you were unhappy or self conscious with and she kinda got it but still was a bit freaked out which I can understand cos it's a pretty funky looking apparatus and the idea that you can actually grow your dick takes a bit to get your head around . Like you said dld I don't want her to think its more important than her ! Which it isn't . If she flat out said I don't want you to do it I would stop but she didn't say that she just didn't think I needed to .
I text mine while she was at work and told her i was starting Penis Enlargement, she reys "whats Penis Enlargement?" LOL I said youll see.
She replys later ...i know now! Lol! Curiosity killed the cat right? So while i was useing the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] one night she needed to pee so i let her in while i had it on! She came in and her eyes got the size of pancakes and askes is it gunna stay that BIG? Lol
she supports it 100% now ...haha
She replys later ...i know now! Lol! Curiosity killed the cat right? So while i was useing the [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] one night she needed to pee so i let her in while i had it on! She came in and her eyes got the size of pancakes and askes is it gunna stay that BIG? Lol
she supports it 100% now ...haha
Man I can't wait to get a [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] ! Andro doesn't really give a omg sexy look though while you have it on . It looks like a torture device , lol! I just can't see any chick not liking the visual difference after [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] use , well from what I've read and seen in pics from people anyway . But still i think I'll wait and see if she notices my growth then maybe we can talk again . Fuck Im so looking forward to getting [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] . I already love girth work !!!!!!!
The colonel;495479 said:
WHat is andro?
Andropenis extenterd
I went thru similar situation when I received my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] and kaplan [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98]penis pump[/words]. Had to tell her cuz I had been doing Penis Enlargement in the closet so to speak and always felt like I was doing something bad cuz if I took an xtra 10 mins in bathroom she would question why I am taking so long in the shower. She then started to ask me if I was doing something to my penis cuz it felt bigger and thicker. She knows bout my [words=https://officialhydromaxpump.com/?uid=6&oid=2&affid=98Â ]Bathmate[/words] but sometimes makes me feel like I am doing something wrong so I am always trying to hurry up in the bath and sometimes dont feel like I really am gettin the full benefit. Think it is better to keep under wraps.
brownbro;496801 said:
This is the problem . Like you say you feel like you're not getting the best from your workout . Is she upset by your bigger penis ?
I'd just let my penis speak for itself.
Uneeded pressure to explain pe. Fuh dat.
Uneeded pressure to explain pe. Fuh dat.
"This is the problem . Like you say you feel like you're not getting the best from your workout . Is she upset by your bigger penis ? "
Just yesterday when I mentioned I was going to exercise the "pee pee" she came back with " Are you going thru somethin that I dont know about or do you want to tell me something" Keep explaining that its just exercising the penis and not playing with myself. Thats what I have her for! Says I am fine the way I am and already big for her. What do you answer to something like that?
Just yesterday when I mentioned I was going to exercise the "pee pee" she came back with " Are you going thru somethin that I dont know about or do you want to tell me something" Keep explaining that its just exercising the penis and not playing with myself. Thats what I have her for! Says I am fine the way I am and already big for her. What do you answer to something like that?
brownbro;497012 said:
If she's asking those kinds of questions, I'd say she's open to having an honest conversation about it. Why not take that chance and tell her exactly why you're doing this? Why not clear all her doubts and fears?
I'm not saying it will be an easy conversation. It could be so, or not. But I'm sure it will be worth it. Just remember that a relationship is built up on taking some things and letting go of others. It's up to you two, as a couple, to come to an agreement as to who takes what and who lets go of what.
doublelongdaddy;497033 said:
I feel like a little kid counting down sleeps till Xmas !!!!
So exited !!!!!!!!
It's just hard to tell what kind of response you'll get. You could lie and say you had peyronies disease and you have been doing exercises to fix that. One side effect of the work outs is that it makes your penis bigger. Just act really embarrassed about like you don't want to say what your doing. lol
Or just say you are doing it for yourself. My girl friend has no clue I'm doing Pe. Then again sometimes she makes comments about how hard it is. But in the end I am just doing this for myself as it's plenty large for her to be happy. with it. But I gotta admit that lately it's just gotten girth and I love that feeling of stretching her pussy with my cock.
Or just say you are doing it for yourself. My girl friend has no clue I'm doing Pe. Then again sometimes she makes comments about how hard it is. But in the end I am just doing this for myself as it's plenty large for her to be happy. with it. But I gotta admit that lately it's just gotten girth and I love that feeling of stretching her pussy with my cock.
Tell her blowjobs and sandwiches make your penis grow
MikeShlort;497927 said:
Ha !!!!! And spinach in a can !!!!!!
My wife knows about my penis exercising.. For a couple years I kept it private, but she is very curious and in this case she'd probably have learned of it at some point. She is supportive of it, and I think she is more understanding part because I have also invested in jade eggs and other vaginal workout stuff for her. All in all I still think that it is private to an extent, sometimes I have her give me head while I practice kegels in my cock ring which gives me variety from watching so much adult entertainment for this. She has noticed the changes in my dick and is excited when I get it thick before playing with her. The negatives to telling her is that I can tell that she just like most women will secretly fear me enlarging my penis so that I can fuck other women... still doesn't stop me though. Guess it depends on what your relationship dynamic is, but I honestly think that most women don't need to know about this, American women tend to be very judgmental and I think its good for men to have a space in their lives that is not for womens thoughts to be on.
I've told a few girls I've been with. Two thought it was unusual and that was that, we didn't talk about it again, but my current girlfriend is very supportive. Just before I left for class yesterday she asked if I had my DivoSuit on, which I didn't. I thanked her and went to my class. It gives me so much motivation.
How u like that divosuit?
doublelongdaddy;499299 said:She's asking about your Divo as if it were your bag of lunchNice
LOL.
"Don't forget to pull on your pecker each time you go pee, dear!"
mizzougrad01;499260 said:
It's good. I use it a lot. Keeps me bigger than I usually am when flaccid, so really I can't ask for more. It's no SizeGen, it doesn't keep me at 8 inches all day, but it's inconspicuous and doesn't need altering after an hour. It's great for when you're out and about.
Medicating;499530 said:
Do you need to take off for blood flow ? Any cold glans . Been looking into them cos wrapping is a pain at work and andro not an option when at work .