Small dick and PE, plea for DLD help

The title says it all, so here it goes.

I knew about penis enlargement from 2006, I was in high school at the time and I measured NBPenis EnlargementL: 4" and MSEG: 4". Then I went to the forums and was very disheartened about the average size being close to 6". So I was determined that even if it takes me 5 years I am gonna get 7" length and fuck every woman in the world (teen hormones).

Well.....that didn't happen. So much shit gets in the way of Penis Enlargement that you need a lot of discipline and determination to achieve your goal. I remember when I would do the simple stretches I would get rock hard and bust a nut never getting anywhere.

So two months ago I turned 25 years old and was still a virgin mainly due to my size and lack of confidence. I finally got the motivation and drive to follow a detailed routine (DLD's newbie routine) especially with the great deal of advancement that has occurred on this forum. Although I didn't follow it as much as I wanted to, especially the jelqing since I get so hard so fast. I also started working out and lost 10% body fat over a few months (I am currently 20% body fat with 1 inch fat pad, my goal is 7-8%) and I measured a month ago and I gained 0.25" in length! This was amazing for me. I was so fucking full of confidence that I was determined to fuck a woman.

My buddy told me about the escort business, so I was like sure I have the money for a one night stand. So the chick goes down on me and I am done in 1 minute max, fuck me! I paid for one hour, I told her it was my first time and she laughed at my size and duration. I was so discouraged that I paid her for the full hour and left out of there after 15 minutes.

This has fucked up my confidence and took me 2 weeks to get out of that mind set. Not only do I have a small dick, but I have premature ejaculation. The premature ejaculation is thanks to my younger days when I found out about kegeling. I pretty much kegel all day every day even when I sit involuntarily. Anyways, I am looking for help from you guys, especially DLD, for a plan that will achieve my goals. I am kind of lost right now with so many options and penis problems to tackle, I need a personal coach or something. I have the size genetics, MOS dvd, and am willing to buy a pump.

Goal 1: NBPenis EnlargementL: 7" MSEG: 5.5"

Goal 2: Make my head smaller than my shaft, its the reverse now. When she was blowing all I felt was my head being licked which I think was why I premature ejaculated.

Goal 3: Fuck a woman for 30 minutes straight

Any input is appreciated.

Well welcome back my man! First off get comfortable with your current size. It's YOUR penis so be proud of it! You can't go your whole life embarrassed by what you consider small. When I started I thought my penis was tiny. Through Penis Enlargement I've become more comfortable with myself and I've grown to accept and love my penis, it's truly liberating.

I've struggled with premature ejaculation and through Penis Enlargement I've also grown out of that. For me, premature ejaculation was 100% mental. Once you get more in tune with your body (through Penis Enlargement) then you will start to see that problem diminish. I've also learned that you have to relax and enjoy what's happening and take your time during sex, that has helped me a ton.

Hey there!

First of all; so sorry to hear about your escort date going wrong. One thing I can say, that she surely wasn't a professional. Sure, might have done a lot of work, but people in that business should elevate your confidence, not bring it down! Really, I hope your next encounter will be a sweet one, no matter if it's a escort or just a girl you get from a club or so.

Second: There is hope and you can grow! And you can get over premature ejaculation.

Then third! You have the tools! Remember, your hands are the ones used in the newbie program. Sizegenetics and pumps can help, maybe speed up the process. Also a decent cockring could be beneficial after a girth workout.
I highly suggest you go with the newbie program for now. Stick with it, be consistent! Get something done everyday. I feel that coming to MoS forum helps my mind set to stay awake, focused on exercises and all.

ctm also put it well; relaxation is one key. You mentioned about kegeling a lot; relax more, do some reverse kegels as well. Kegels are essential to growth and all, but it's a muscle so you must give it a break as well.
Take your time when you are giving yourself some loving. Edge, learn your point of no return, breathe deeply. Learn what triggers you to ejaculation. Most of the times it is mental.
If it's physical, there are some supplements and drugs to prolong your time, but try first without them. I don't know if you're uncut or cut, but I feel that using a lubricant during self service is "closer" to the real deal, where there is moisture included.


You're goals are doable! But one thing I must mention; the bigger head is sometimes preferable. Actually, when it comes to evolution, impregnation and such, a bigger penis head is considered better! And even nowadays many seem to prefer a big penis head. So grow proportionally, "even" your penis out.

I guess that's all from me for now. I wish you all the best, keep on growing!

Hey there, mate! Welcome to Matters Of Size (MOS)! I believe you have made the right choice joining us, because this is the biggest and best Penis Enlargement community there is. This community has been created by Mike Salvini or as we call him DLD (doublelongdaddy). He is the one that probably knows the most on the topic of Penis Enlargement (Penis Enlargement) and penile health in the whole world. This is why everything that is written or recommended by him is what you should follow religiously. You will also see that this is something much more than just a Penis Enlargement community where people stretch and jelq their penises and enlarge them. You will see that this is a big family where we all support each other and everyone is called a brother. Everyone here will give you support in your hardest moments whether it be penis size or anything that life serves us. If you are anything like me- you will realize that MOS is a place you could call your second home. I and all brothers here- we all welcome you warmly and we all wait to hear your progress story where you share how you finally reached your final size goal.


Now since your penis has no conditioning, you should realize that you must start from the bottom and work your way to the more and more intense exercises. Before I tell you what routine you should follow and where you should start- I must tell you that gains come slowly and with time. It takes time, hard work and a ton of DEDICATION to succeed in Penis Enlargement (and this goes for any aspect of life as well). Do not set your hopes too high at the beginning. Set a goal of gaining an inch in a year or so and either be surprised and see that you have gained even more in that period of time or just see that your goal has been accurately achieved. But believe me, if you set your hopes to gain huge size in no time- you might fall into disappointment and all the motivation you have can easily collapse. Do not measure weekly! Measure once every month or so. Again- gains do not come overnight and you might be very disappointed. Know that there are lots of brothers that work really hard and do intense routines for months to see gains smaller than a half an inch. There will be months where you see gains and there will be months where you won’t see gains. I, in no way want to demotivate you, I want you to expect the worst and not have a broken heart and lost your motivation and dedication. Expect the worst, if you get more than you expected- GREAT! , if you get what you expected- GREAT! And now for the advice on where to start- start from the Newbie routine written by DLD himself. (http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...ned-2-inches-with-this-routine)-Full-Tutorial ). This routine will not only get your penis stretched in different angles to give you maximum starting gains and give you mastery over the mother of all girth exercises (I believe this is said to be the first Penis Enlargement exercise documented), which is a very effective exercise as well, but will also condition your penis so that you can move on to the more intense exercises and therefore get more and more gains without hitting a plateau. Do not risk doing more intense exercises until you are conditioned and have at least a few months of Penis Enlargement behind your back. They might be more effective and more intense, but if you damage your penis, you’d have to stop Penis Enlargementing for some time (depends on how severe you injured yourself). That being said- I believe this is all you should know for now.


I think this is not all that bad. What you can do is either do some erect stretching (very effective when you want to make flaccid gains into erect gains) or maybe throw in some jelqs (good for girth, but also very effective length exercise). But if I was you- I'd consider this to be a bonus. That way you not only stretch, but you superset different exercises. Once your erection subsides- go back to your normal stretching routine. If you do what I wrote above, not only will you be able to continue your routine, but you will upgrade it to the level where you gain more and combine it with some girth methods giving you even more gains. I think this is something you should be happy and excited about

If you really want that boner out of the picture- masturbate and afterwards do some DLD Blasters principle (tire you PC so that you could get the most effective stretch ever). The reason why DLD Blasters is one of the best (if not the best) length exercises is behind its principle (you tire you PC off, so that it does no "defensive kegels" and not resist your stretch. Once I read DLD saying that is the surgery method- they cut the suspensory part and send people home with extenders and stertching routines. Doing what I wrote above is a perfect way to mimic this whole thing. Therefore, this would be as effective as having a Penis Enlargement surgery, but with the difference that you PC will be stronger, it will safe and natural, and no one's gonna cut nothing). Try doing both and see which one works better for you . (Plus- if you get hard while jelqing- this is something you should be happy about cause the more erect you are- the better the girth exercises work for you.


If you drop fat- yes, you will gain! Let's just say that BPenis EnlargementL (Bone Pressed Erect Length) will come more and more like NBPenis EnlargementL (Non Bone Pressed Eerct Length). Measure both and you will see what the difference is . Just do not give up and continue losing fat and doing Penis Enlargement. That way you'll see double speed gains

My advice is for you to start some progress log where you write all the measurements and update the info in the doc evey month or so. If you don't know how to measure properly:

Correctly Charting Your Measurements

Bone Pressed Erect Length
Penis length is defined as the linear distance along the dorsal side of the erect penis extending from the mons veneris to the tip of the glans. In non-medical terms, the penis length is measured in a straight line on the top side of the erect penis, from the start of your pubic bone to the tip of your penis. Penis circumference is defined as the linear distance around the widest, thickest, part of the erect penis (see below).

1. Stimulate yourself into the erectile state.
2. Place your ruler at the pubic bone, at the base of your erect penis and measure to the tip of your glans.
3. Read the nearest quarter-inch measurement at the tip of your penis. (In the example shown, the measurement would be 4 and 3/4 (4.75) inches.)

Bone Pressed Flaccid Stretch
1. Make sure you are in a completely flaccid state.
2. Place your ruler at the pubic bone on the side of the penis
3. Stretch penis straight out
3. Read the nearest quarter-inch measurement at the tip of your penis

Non-Bone Pressed Erect Length
1. Stimulate yourself into the erectile state.
2. Place your ruler at the skin on the belly, at the base of your erect penis and measure to the tip of your glans without pushing ruler.
3. Read the nearest quarter-inch measurement at the tip of your penis.

Flaccid Length
1. Make sure you are in a completely flaccid state.
2. Place your ruler at the skin on the belly, at the base of your flaccid penis and measure to the tip of your glans without pushing ruler.
3. Read the nearest quarter-inch measurement at the tip of your penis.

Penis Erect Circumference
Penis length is not the only factor in determining penis size. The width, girth, or fatness, of a penis is also an important aspect when considering how you compare. Most people have a penis that is either longer and thinner, or shorter and fatter. To compare how the girth of your penis compares to the population, use the instructions below to determine your penile circumference (distance around the widest part of your penis).

1. Stimulate yourself into the erectile state.
2. Place the fabric ruler or string end at the widest part of your penis and wrap it carefully around one time. Mark the spot where the string first touches itself.
3. If using string, take the marked string and lay it against the ruler. Read to the nearest quarter-inch measurement.

Penis Flaccid Circumference
1. Make sure you are in a completely flaccid state.
2. Place the fabric ruler or string end at the widest part of your penis and wrap it carefully around one time. Mark the spot where the string first touches itself.
3. If using string, take the marked string and lay it against the ruler. Read to the nearest quarter-inch measurement.



If you want your head smaller than your shaft- just don't do any glans gaining exercises and concentrate on the shaft more (but they enhance each other perfectly, so you should see glans gains as well).


About the Premature Ejaculation- ( http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/showthread.php?73445-Kiss-the-premature-ejaculation-GOODBYE )this is a thread I started to try to help people like you . Its a big read, but I think it is worth reading it- I read a lot of stuff and sumarized it so all the info you need to last longer is there (or at least so I think). But even if it is not a perfect thread- I think it is at the very least helpful


I hope I was helpful . I wish you good luck on your Penis Enlargement quest and know that we all support you and if you ever need support or help- do not hesitate to ask for it . All the best, Zam

It looks like you already have everything you need, you just have to do it! Consistency is the key. If you really want a larger penis you have to make Penis Enlargement a regular part of your lifestyle. Good luck to you.

tef1;573783 said:

It looks like you already have everything you need, you just have to do it! Consistency is the key. If you really want a larger penis you have to make Penis Enlargement a regular part of your lifestyle. Good luck to you.

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Words can't express how true this is