Rough Masturbation Induced Sexual Dysfunction

DLD · Jul 14, 2014

youknowme123321;592456 said:
so i think i may try a fleshlight? anyone here have one and like it? or should i just use my hand and lube? i am think why not just spend the 60$ and get the fleshlight as it will prob recreate the real thing better with lube then my hand and lube can.

I have 2 and I use them in PE practically every session for edging and expressive stretching. They can feel very loose and wet or you can twist the enclosure and they become very tight...great for endurance training. They feel just like the real thing.

Sketch2000 · Jul 19, 2014

youknowme123321;592456 said:
this post has me thinking. I have always jerked off dry. THink this has affected my sensitivity. If a girl gets really wet i can have a tough time cumming mostly on the 2nd or 3rd time cumming in the same session or day. first time i guess it probably works to my advantage but i want to be able to cum more often and not have to feel like i am working so hard to cum aft the first time i cum

so i think i may try a fleshlight? anyone here have one and like it? or should i just use my hand and lube? i am think why not just spend the 60$ and get the moofleshlight as it will prob recreate the real thing better with lube then my hand and lube can.

Hey guys. I've masturbated twice successfully on my back with lube without going crazy curling my toes etc. Starting on my back because that's what I've obviously become most accustomed to.

Now I'm going to begin with the fleshlight, then move into different positions. I have started with the fleshlight on my back before and then tried to turn to another position just before climax. It works sometimes.

I think you should definitely invest in a fleshlight as its made to be just alike a pussy. That and as daddy mentioned you can adjust the tightness so i could start with it as tight as possible and then to other positions still tight and then loosen it gradually. Nothing comes closer to the real thing than a fleshlight which is why it's been so successful in sales.

The only thing that bothers me about it is warming it in warm water and lubing it up. That can take about ten minutes and if I'm really horny and want to chum i don't want to wait but otherwise its like a "planned masturbation" which isn't natural so it's destined for failure. So I'm just going to bite the bullet and use the fleshlight despite prep time consistently when i need to masturbate.

youknowme123321 · Jul 19, 2014

Sketch2000;593526 said:
Hey guys. I've masturbated twice successfully on my back with lube without going crazy curling my toes etc. Starting on my back because that's what I've obviously become most accustomed to.

Now I'm going to begin with the fleshlight, then move into different positions. I have started with the fleshlight on my back before and then tried to turn to another position just before climax. It works sometimes.

I think you should definitely invest in a fleshlight as its made to be just alike a pussy. That and as daddy mentioned you can adjust the tightness so i could start with it as tight as possible and then to other positions still tight and then loosen it gradually. Nothing comes closer to the real thing than a fleshlight which is why it's been so successful in sales.

The only thing that bothers me about it is warming it in warm water and lubing it up. That can take about ten minutes and if I'm really horny and want to chum i don't want to wait but otherwise its like a "planned masturbation" which isn't natural so it's destined for failure. So I'm just going to bite the bullet and use the fleshlight despite prep time consistently when i need to masturbate.

that's great!!! glad you are seeing some change. I am going to take your advice and get a fleshlight. maybe a Lisa Ann one if they have it!!!

DLD · Jul 20, 2014

youknowme123321;593550 said:
that's great!!! glad you are seeing some change. I am going to take your advice and get a fleshlight. maybe a Lisa Ann one if they have it!!!

Great edging tool especially because of how real it feels.

growtime · Nov 28, 2014

Not too much to add, but taking a few days off prior to masturbating will improve your sensitivity. In addition, if you've experienced numerous failures in getting to intercourse, you may also develop a performance anxiety on top of the problems you've had. If you continue to have a problem maintaining erection, you can go the counseling/sexual surrogate route if it's available to you (and it's kind of fun to eventually bang your therapist, just be careful not to fall in love with her). When I was 23 I saw this hot girl who was a sexual surrogate/grad student, and I pretended to have all these sexual hang-ups, made an appointment with the psychologist she worked with, and basically paid for therapy in order to get to bang her, and it was friggin' incredible! Best of all, she taught me to be a better lover. Sadly, once I was cured, there was a planned ending to therapy. Anyway, enough about me.

Another option is to see a urologist who treats ED for injectable erection medications. The injectables will keep you hard even if you don't want them to. One formula contains an ingredient called alprostadil that many find causes them pain, but you can get formulations that don't contain alprostadil. Should you go the injectable route, do your homework and avoid the ED clinics that are run by family doctors and their physician assistants because if you develop a complication, they're unqualified to perform the more invasive remedies that may be required to save your penis, and many of them are scams that make you buy the meds from them at highly inflated prices. If you live in a city that has a compounding pharmacy, they can probably give you the names of urologists who prescribe injectable ED meds.

Good luck!

Zambrodom3 · Nov 28, 2014

growtime;622437 said:
Not too much to add, but taking a few days off prior to masturbating will improve your sensitivity. In addition, if you've experienced numerous failures in getting to intercourse, you may also develop a performance anxiety on top of the problems you've had. If you continue to have a problem maintaining erection, you can go the counseling/sexual surrogate route if it's available to you (and it's kind of fun to eventually bang your therapist, just be careful not to fall in love with her). When I was 23 I saw this hot girl who was a sexual surrogate/grad student, and I pretended to have all these sexual hang-ups, made an appointment with the psychologist she worked with, and basically paid for therapy in order to get to bang her, and it was friggin' incredible! Best of all, she taught me to be a better lover. Sadly, once I was cured, there was a planned ending to therapy. Anyway, enough about me.

Another option is to see a urologist who treats ED for injectable erection medications. The injectables will keep you hard even if you don't want them to. One formula contains an ingredient called alprostadil that many find causes them pain, but you can get formulations that don't contain alprostadil. Should you go the injectable route, do your homework and avoid the ED clinics that are run by family doctors and their physician assistants because if you develop a complication, they're unqualified to perform the more invasive remedies that may be required to save your penis, and many of them are scams that make you buy the meds from them at highly inflated prices. If you live in a city that has a compounding pharmacy, they can probably give you the names of urologists who prescribe injectable ED meds.

Good luck!

Incredible post! And your story is REALLY interesting!

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DLD · Nov 28, 2014

growtime;622437 said:
Not too much to add, but taking a few days off prior to masturbating will improve your sensitivity. In addition, if you've experienced numerous failures in getting to intercourse, you may also develop a performance anxiety on top of the problems you've had. If you continue to have a problem maintaining erection, you can go the counseling/sexual surrogate route if it's available to you (and it's kind of fun to eventually bang your therapist, just be careful not to fall in love with her). When I was 23 I saw this hot girl who was a sexual surrogate/grad student, and I pretended to have all these sexual hang-ups, made an appointment with the psychologist she worked with, and basically paid for therapy in order to get to bang her, and it was friggin' incredible! Best of all, she taught me to be a better lover. Sadly, once I was cured, there was a planned ending to therapy. Anyway, enough about me.

Crazy that this is really a job for someone

Did you get your choice of therapist?

growtime · Nov 29, 2014

doublelongdaddy;622507 said:
Crazy that this is really a job for someone Did you get your choice of therapist?

She was a grad student in psych, and I was in graduate studies for something else, both at the same school. I saw her at school because we were both at school, she was hot and I wanted to hook up with her. I heard from rumor mill about her p/t job as a sexual surrogate. I figured I'd have no shot at her in the legit sense, because between school and work she was busy, so I found out where she worked, made an appointment with the shrink and snuck in "professionally". I really didn't have any sexual problems but it was fun to go through the "treatment program". We started first session talking, cuddling, light kissing, second session more kissing, hot and heavy, mutual massage, still no direct genital touching or contact.

The next few sessions involved much of the same, but added in hand jobs and mutual oral sex. When she asked me of any concerns as we became more intimate, I told her I wanted to be able to last longer, and believe me, she was gorgeous, and having to last through 30-45 minute hand jobs and blow jobs was sublime torture. After I worked up to this, we moved to intercourse and full-out lovemaking/sex. I got a bit attached to her, and this is common, so there was a known end to intimacy and some talk time thereafter.

DLD · Dec 1, 2014

growtime;622772 said:
She was a grad student in psych, and I was in graduate studies for something else, both at the same school. I saw her at school because we were both at school, she was hot and I wanted to hook up with her. I heard from rumor mill about her p/t job as a sexual surrogate. I figured I'd have no shot at her in the legit sense, because between school and work she was busy, so I found out where she worked, made an appointment with the shrink and snuck in "professionally". I really didn't have any sexual problems but it was fun to go through the "treatment program". We started first session talking, cuddling, light kissing, second session more kissing, hot and heavy, mutual massage, still no direct genital touching or contact.

The next few sessions involved much of the same, but added in hand jobs and mutual oral sex. When she asked me of any concerns as we became more intimate, I told her I wanted to be able to last longer, and believe me, she was gorgeous, and having to last through 30-45 minute hand jobs and blow jobs was sublime torture. After I worked up to this, we moved to intercourse and full-out lovemaking/sex. I got a bit attached to her, and this is common, so there was a known end to intimacy and some talk time thereafter.

Wow, that is amazing. I can see a need for a business like this as it seemed to help you tremendously with self confidence and lasting longer. I hope you tool some good advice from her and it has helped you in real life.

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