Foreskin Frustration

Hey all,
first off I'm not sure if this is the apprpriate place to post this thread, but I wasn't sure. I posted the same thread in FR just incase. Please remove this thread if you think it should be here.

So, not been a member very long, but I have been following the forums and have started Penis Enlargement. been Penis Enlargementing for a couple months now, haven't been measuring, but it seems like its working, I'm kinda just doing it also for overall penis health or whatever. But I'm uncircumcised, and last week I went to a urologist, because when my penis is erect, my foreskin doesn't fully retract. So, stretching is pretty difficult, since its mainly jsut skin I'm stretching.. Anywayz, the doc pushed pretty heavily on circumcision, even though I was kinda hoping that was a last resort, and then he said most of his patients reported increased sensitivity, which is contrary to everything I've heard. He kinda said circumcision is the only option. If i went under the knife, he said no sexual activity for four weeks, which probably means no Penis Enlargement either, I didn't mention Penis Enlargement to him, he seemed like he would've been the type that was anti-Penis Enlargement and gotten angry or something. Kinda had the "my way or the highway attitude", which I guess is legit, since he is a doctor. But still, he was kinda a typical L.A. prick, nah jus jokin. Anyways, I'm worried that I would lose all my gains and stuff. I apologize that this is so poorly written, i've been lacking sleep lately. I'm basically just looking for any advice, especially from those who have been circumcised as adults/teens, and what you would recommend in this situation. Or, if anyone can recommend any good urologists L.A.. Although that just sounds like I'm searching for an answer that fits my taste, which prolly isn't good. Whatever thanks. I'm 20, btw.

I highly recommend circumcision because I have benefited greatly from it. I was circumcised last year, at 26, after many years of consideration. There were many factors in my decision: cosmetics (my own personal preference of look, as well as girl's impression of a uncircumcised penis--very few girls liked an uncut guy due to reasons such as hygiene, inconvenience of holding the foreskin back during oral sex or how it glides), sexual experience, hygiene, etc. Also, foreskin has made using Penis Enlargementing devices and methods more difficult since creating a good grip is not so easy.

What you have seems to be a condition called Phimosis and circumcision will resolve this. You could do stretching techniques on the foreskin, but that just gives you more foreskin and that may not be what you want.

When speaking to your urologist about the procedure which is extremely fast in terms of surgery procedures make sure you express how you want the results to look: tight or loose circumcision, etc. Mine only took 30 minutes or less. To a surgeon, it is the easiest of surgeries: He's just basically taking away a section of excess skin and sewing the incisions.

Don't even consider sex or Penis Enlargement during your 6 week healing process because you're risking breaking the incisions and getting infections. Wait till you are completely healed.

As far as sensitivity, I find it just as sensitive as before, but sex to be more gratifying because you are not being stimulated by the foreskin gliding back and forth during sex, but rather you are feeling the vaginal muscles of the girl, etc. There are many reasons I find the circumcision procedure to be totally worth it. And since you have that phimosis condition, insurance should cover it.

lili9zero;324394 said:

I highly recommend circumcision because I have benefited greatly from it. I was circumcised last year, at 26, after many years of consideration. There were many factors in my decision: cosmetics (my own personal preference of look, as well as girl's impression of a uncircumcised penis--very few girls liked an uncut guy due to reasons such as hygiene, inconvenience of holding the foreskin back during oral sex or how it glides), sexual experience, hygiene, etc. Also, foreskin has made using Penis Enlargementing devices and methods more difficult since creating a good grip is not so easy.

What you have seems to be a condition called Phimosis and circumcision will resolve this. You could do stretching techniques on the foreskin, but that just gives you more foreskin and that may not be what you want.

When speaking to your urologist about the procedure which is extremely fast in terms of surgery procedures make sure you express how you want the results to look: tight or loose circumcision, etc. Mine only took 30 minutes or less. To a surgeon, it is the easiest of surgeries: He's just basically taking away a section of excess skin and sewing the incisions.

Don't even consider sex or Penis Enlargement during your 6 week healing process because you're risking breaking the incisions and getting infections. Wait till you are completely healed.

As far as sensitivity, I find it just as sensitive as before, but sex to be more gratifying because you are not being stimulated by the foreskin gliding back and forth during sex, but rather you are feeling the vaginal muscles of the girl, etc. There are many reasons I find the circumcision procedure to be totally worth it. And since you have that phimosis condition, insurance should cover it.

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Some good points plus I think circumcised men make Penis Enlargement length gains faster than their counterpart. It seems that foreskin can be a nuisance in Penis Enlargement.

It's a tough question. I am uncut and really like having my foreskin. My girlfriends have always been into it. I seem to get more penis attention from it since a lot of girls in the US haven't seen one before.

I have had people suggest getting it cut before. To me it would be like a girl having her labia cut off. It's just part of me.

Try the stretching first and see how it goes. If it doesn't appeal to you go for the cutting.

I always retract my foreskin and wash with soap and water and maintain a very clean cock. I would also suggest working on your hygene while your stretching it out.

It's a pretty big decision to get cut later in life. It's definately removing something that is part of you.

I'm sort of sitting here thinking of all the guys who are trying to regrow theirs these days, it really comes down to a personal preference.

Wonder what girls like more, uncut or cut?

Theres had been a bit of a negative stigma atached to foreskin in the US. It is understandable to single out that which is not seen as "normal." Whats curious is that most people had no choice in the matter.

As for you, surgery seems like an extreme measure that should be taken as a last result. IMO lots of doctors are all too eager too operate without acknowledging alternatives (perhaps because surgery earns them money)Im no expert, but I do remember there were alternatives to surgery mentioned in these forums. Supra had this link in his sig: http://www.gfs.platigo.com/index.html

Good advice Wang Chung

doublelongdaddy;324800 said:

Wonder what girls like more, uncut or cut?

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I think that stats are of no use on this one. It all depends on which kind of girl you happen to land.

My current gal is a pro uncut girl but she's had her share of cut. She did a lot of research on it while pregnant years ago and came to find out that in our local area only 40% of male infants were getting cut.

AdmiralLongDong;325072 said:

I think that stats are of no use on this one. It all depends on which kind of girl you happen to land.

My current gal is a pro uncut girl but she's had her share of cut. She did a lot of research on it while pregnant years ago and came to find out that in our local area only 40% of male infants were getting cut.

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Interesting. I gathered it would be closer to 90%...Learn something new everyday.

Yeah I thought it was a weird stat. I think it is influnced by the number of Mexicans here. Being from a catholic country and circumcision being considered a jewish ritual by the catholic church most Catholics around the world are not cut. Doesn't make sense since Jesus was a jew.

AdmiralLongDong;325109 said:

I think it is influnced by the number of Mexicans here.

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Why is this? Mexicans are largely uncut?

I think most immigrants from other countries are predominantly uncut. I could be wrong about mexicans.

Of course Muslims and jews are the exception to this.

Although circumcision is common in the USA today, I believe that in western culture it originated during the victorian era to keep young men from masturbating, as the foreskin is kind of like having a little pussy attached to your dick. All you gotta do is lube it and go.

The irony about the victorian era is that prostitution was at an all time high when everyone was running around pretending to be a virgin.

I don't think Britts are cut. I'm sure most continental europeans aren't either.

I love my foreskin, and have never had any complaints from women. Most jusy say wow I thought it would be different, I like it, your clean, ect ect.

I would never get cut nor if I had a son would he be cut. It should be your choice not some fuckin doctors choice because it happens to be the popular thing to do among hockey moms. Whats the difference between my cock and a pit bull??? The lipstick around the head!!!

LOL'ing at the last part of Ed's post.

Thanks for all the replies, I really do appreciate it. Is there anyone here that used to be uncut and got cut as an adult? I talked to one guy, and he gave me his perspective, but I'm just trying to get some more advice on what I should do.

Like I said, the urologist i saw was entirely pro-circ, he practically scoffed when I asked about any alternatives, but I don't know if I really want that. Crazy-ed, wasn't it kinda a pain in the ass dealing with people giving you BS about your foreskin? I know that aesthetics would be a slightly vain reason to get cut, but that would be part of the reason for me. And, its a really big pain in the ass for me to stretch with.

I know that I'm the one that will have to ultimately make the choice for myself, but I still would appreciate all the advice i could get, since that will help me form a decision, and this decision seems like a pretty important one. Thank you once again.

Yeah I am uncut, 23 years old and have recently been wondering about circumcision. For most of my life I always thought uncut penises were like mine but I saw that they could retract the foreskin and I couldn't because it was so tight. Now I feel weird about showing my dick. I feel like my dick would be/could be bigger and longer without the tight foreskin stopping it and would be more hygienic for me but afraid of anything sharp going near my beloved penis.

i think getting cut, and actually having a choice in doing so, is ludacris.

the only reason someone would voluntarily do that to themselves is becuase they are uninformed and ignorant of the connotatins of their actions.

don't mean to offend, but make an informed decision.

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I am pro-circumcision because I lived 26 years with a normal, uncut penis, but did not feel comfortable with it. There are many factors in my decision to undergo circumcision: cosmetics, hygiene, comfort, sexual enhancement, easier Penis Enlargementing, among other reasons.

I wish I was circumcised as a child because there are more sensitive area/skin surrounding the head and that should enhance sexual experiences. Getting cut as an adult does actually take away a section of sensitive skin (the foreskin rolled is very sensitive). But sex, I find, after circumcision is more comfortable and pleasurable as during penetration (vaginal, for instance) the penis is getting friction and stimulation directly from the vaginal walls. When uncut, the foreskin glides back and forth and if you do not hold back skin at the base, you are often getting stimulation from your foreskin gliding back and forth, and less of the vaginal walls. Best explanation of this is:

Take a long sleeve shirt and take your other hand and stroke your hand/arm. Notice how the sleeve rolls back and forth and you are not feeling the other arm as much?

Now, remove that sleeve and do the same motion. You will notice that you are feeling the arm (now without the sleeve) much better.

During oral sex, one has to hold down the foreskin if stimulating the head is what you're after (but isn't that the point?) otherwise it just glides back and forth. The majority of girls in America (I believe) are more comfortable with a cut penis. This is a cultural thing so I think lots of minorities like myself (Asian) often go against the procedure. I think most non-old fashion are getting cut more now, but can't be too sure. In my family and relatives, many have elected not to circumcise--though I do plan on circumcising my boys should I am privileged to have children.

The cut/uncut debate is a vigorous debate everywhere, even on Youtube. The procedure is not barbaric nor is it mutilation! That argument is just stupid because there are health and hygiene benefits to the procedure. Mutilation is if the procedure involves cutting off the head, but that is not what it is aimed at. The debate should be education--educating the parent on pros/cons of the procedure and let them decide.

I've highlighted some points here from my perspective and experience. There will be disagreements, but remember, I have experienced BOTH uncut and cut. Someone dared say that I am jaded in noticing the differences and benefits of the procedure because it is only 1 year since I had it done. Like I should give it more time. He considers I am warped in feeling the way I feel! I refused to reply because it makes it is just a waste of time to argue with someone like that.

name some health and heigene issues, becuase i am confident that they are all myths.

tyandhisrod;325195 said:

name some health and heigene issues, becuase i am confident that they are all myths.

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I thought this too. There are plenty of places on the human body that need to be cleaned that may be difficult to reach but we do it, I gather the penis, uncircumcised, is much the same. Soap, water? Not too demanding.

I like the way a uncircumcised penis looks. I think it makes it appear much larger. As a matter of fact, I was about to start a thread about this...go figure.