thanks for the reply dld.


SO mentally wise, tell myself i really struggle ejaculate when im edging and or having intercourse?
 
medici999;420805 said:
thanks for the reply dld.


SO mentally wise, tell myself i really struggle ejaculate when im edging and or having intercourse?


That is what I do, I say to myself "Mike, you really have an issue with lasting too long" or "Sex always lasts a long time for me" or "I have such a problem with lasting too long" etc. Backwards psychology:)
 
ok, so i tried this...i was saying before and during...i always have trouble cumming, or i always last ages...and i tried to tell my mind it didnt feel good....yet i still wanted to cum after 5mins or maybe even less!
 
medici999;421360 said:
ok, so i tried this...i was saying before and during...i always have trouble cumming, or i always last ages...and i tried to tell my mind it didnt feel good....yet i still wanted to cum after 5mins or maybe even less!

It takes lot and lots of practice but very worth it. I can have sex as long as I like (or she likes) and I decide when I will cum.
 
I did this to try it out and lasted 11 mintues. I cumemd because I was tired just after my workout. I wasn't even close to cumming and was really surprised. usually when I wank i cum after 1 minute, maybe even less. I found that jsut pacing myself and general Penis Enlargement training has helped a lot. To make this excercise harder, can one watch adult entertainment or must ione piurely visualise?
 
Simyan;422492 said:
Any ideas folks

How is this different when you are having sex, I assume you last much longer than a minute.
 
Ye i do but i was saying when im just wanking i dont last long. This shitnreally works, i did 20 minjtes tody. I could do it all day witout cummin, it just gets boaring lol. Wen i get some time off i will do. 1 hor a day
levista;53036 said:
i think i prefer slicedbeefs method to Ron Jeremy's LOL

doublelongdaddy;422506 said:
How is this different when you are having sex, I assume you last much longer than a minute.
 
Been trying this properly for a good 10days now...first thing i do when i wake up is tell myself i can last ages, and i never cum unless i tell myself i want to...etc.

I also tell myself it again before sexual intercourse/edging....but im still lasting very little time..

Am i on the right track though?
 
Im not if anyone else is like this but as a youngster I always associated masturbating = cumming. ..or more accurately, the physical sensations of rubbing my cock = ejaculating.

So now ive conditioned myself that as soon as that physical sensation occurs I start thinking/intending to get to the point of blowing a load.

As a youngster i would always try to get to blowing load ASAP...

so now Ive gotta reverse this.... Ive gotta change the MEANING i give to these sensations. I think thats what sliced beef is talking about here.
 
^^ to the above

That's exactly the same as me. I have been doing similar to the OP and have gone from ejaculating in 1-2 minutes with adult entertainment to lasting as long as I want with it
 
The techniques work but it is the practice and mastering of the skill to become proficient with it.
 
PumpSon!;466195 said:
^^ to the above

That's exactly the same as me. I have been doing similar to the OP and have gone from ejaculating in 1-2 minutes with adult entertainment to lasting as long as I want with it

Good one PumpSon.

Have you discovered any little tips or insights you could share?

I also feel that when watching adult entertainment my excitment gets too much. If Im wanking and just looking at a blank wall i dont get that feeling of cumming (unless im visualizing sexy thoughts). When i watch adult entertainment its easy for me to get to the feeling of cumming.
 
messi121lion;496093 said:
Premature ejaculation

BAN..

but great thread.
Since then adult entertainment got even more into our minds. adult entertainment is really destroying sexual performance.
My EQ goes through the roof once I stop watching adult entertainment.
 
Been married nearly 8 years and still occasionally have premature problems. I typically have about half hour of foreplay ending with me eating her out, fingering her or her using my cock like a dildo while she rubs her clit. always resulting in her cumming. then we have sex. i always do this so that she cums first and i dont feel so bad.

But i am begining to wonder if thats part of the problem. pleasing her and having a raging chubby for a half hour or so might be causing me to cum so quickly.

thoughts?

thanks gents
 
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