So I got a new girl - absolute nympho...

After several years of marriage with a woman I really enjoyed being around but didn't feel very attracted to physically, with whom the sex was somewhat regular and pretty decent, we ended things. She cheated on me several times, so I said "that's enough" and I'm moving on.

Anyway, it's been about six months since our last night together. I'm a hair over 31, and I've always considered myself to be pretty average downstairs, maybe a bit better. With the ex, I enjoyed a cock ring much of the time, but my EQ was fine without, it just made me feel harder and bigger - not to mention it would wake me up out of a sound sleep if I wore it to bed.

I've noticed since the split that my EQ has gone way down. Even at my hardest, it just seems meh. I'm currently attributing it to the depression I was in for much of that time. On top of that, I'm circumcised and my sensitivity hasn't ever been great. I've always been a grower, when soft it's not uncommon to turtle practically out of existence. :\

I met this new girl - the most gorgeous thing I've ever seen, and the personality to match. Amazing body, fantastic face, DDDs, turned on by all the things that do it for me, twenty-three, loves cock in all her holes, she's totally monogamous and she's pretty sure she'll jump me the minute we get together. We're a bit of a long-distance thing right now, but I want to be ready for her when we can be together. I find myself getting hard whenever I think about her, but it's never the kind of dynamite I'd like it to be. She's not a size queen, but I've seen her go at it with a toy for an hour or two and still want more. She says she has "issues" and that previous guys have been overwhelmed by her appetite.

I know there are tons of supplements and techniques on here that should help, I'd just like some suggestions that'll show results in the next couple of months. When I was with the ex, I tried some off-brand sildenafil but it didn't seem to have ANY effect. It might have just been a bad batch or counterfeit though. I liked how the old Titan formula made me feel, but it didn't really whammy me. I'm doing mostly body-weight work at home - pull ups, push ups, weighted squats, and some cardio a couple of times a week for stamina. I loved the weight rack we had at my old apartment, but I'd hate to pay a huge gym fee for half an hour of heavy lifting a few times a week; all the gyms near here are underwhelming and overpriced. I'm not on any supplements currently, though I'll sometimes have a whey protein shake for breakfast.

Do lots of kegals everyday. You can also try some length exercises I found doing length work and legals helped my eq a lot.eat fruits and veggies. Try to cut back from cholesterol. Bacon blonnie, McDonalds. You don't want to eat unhealthy. Any time you are weight trainning or doing some kind of exercise try to only take 30 second breaks and try to get 1-2 hours of exercise at least 5 days a week to keep your hgh, testosterone and hormones going. Make sure you get the sleep you need as well. Its also important to do something relaxing as well maybe yoga works well for you or a nice walk to your favorite spot. Its also important to practice breathing from your stomach and breath proper to keep oxygen throughout the body. Best of luck!

I don't eat as healthy as I would like - but I do get a good amount of veggies. If I look at my diet and decide I need the extra protein, I like to add berries to a shake for the nutrients - otherwise I avoid most sugars, including much fruit. I'll occasionally grab a couple McChickens when I'm stuck in town, but I don't eat a lot of fast food. My stress levels are quite tolerable, and I've always been good at letting any stress just wash off - except in this mess with the ex-wife. Back to normal now. I'm also a vocalist, so I have plenty of experience with proper breathing and abdominal support.

I've been taking a few minutes during breaks at work to stretch muscles, which has significantly helped the shin-splints I was getting when I skate. I try to skate for a few hours at least once a week, and I have a short workout I do at home with a 50lb anvil and a pull-up bar. I've been told that when going for strength or size gains, long sessions every day is counterproductive for many people - especially ecto-meso guys like me. In the past I've worked mostly on one-set-to-failure because it's fast and it made a huge difference in a matter of a few weeks.

Speaking of huge changes. I did some basic stretching work and some jelqs today. I went from so wimpy that my 1.125" neoprene cock rings slid down my pantleg to full enough flaccid that they wouldn't fit. Felt good. Just not sure how to maintain that when I'm busy at work!

GirthGains;639322 said:

Do lots of kegals everyday. You can also try some length exercises I found doing length work and legals helped my eq a lot.eat fruits and veggies. Try to cut back from cholesterol. Bacon blonnie, McDonalds. You don't want to eat unhealthy. Any time you are weight trainning or doing some kind of exercise try to only take 30 second breaks and try to get 1-2 hours of exercise at least 5 days a week to keep your hgh, testosterone and hormones going. Make sure you get the sleep you need as well. Its also important to do something relaxing as well maybe yoga works well for you or a nice walk to your favorite spot. Its also important to practice breathing from your stomach and breath proper to keep oxygen throughout the body. Best of luck!

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The best advice! Also, make sure you don't make any promises you can't keep

Discord, keep us posted about your first fuck i want all the details .

Get a bathmate. The temporary size gain from it is simply amazing. Woth a little practice you can get like 0.5 inch girth for a few hours after the pumping. And yes. Girls fucking dig it.

The more you use it. The bigger you will get and it starts to become permanent.

It sets thing in perspectice when you fuck them pumped and non pumped.

You get these "eyes turning up and her trying to scream omg but npthing comes out of her mouth as you slowly fill out her pussy.

I have done it with freaks and shy women.

Not seen anyone who didn't get a good reaction.

And if you have problems with not getting 100 hard. Kegels edging and perhaps a little less masturbation can do the trick.

Also a normal training scheme and diet will help alot.

And yes those pills where most likely fakes. Unless you have serious issues with erection (which i wouldn't say you have with what you just said)
Those pills would give you a raging hard on.

If your new to penis enlargement take up the dld beginners routine and follow it regularly like a god damn bible. I have seen people get amazing beginners results from it.

And grats of the nympho. Had a few of those in my life aswell.

It'll be a while before we get to the real thing. We've cybered a few times, but being so far apart means good planning is required to get together. That's part of the reason I want to be ready, when we do get together, to knock her socks off.

I told her I hope I live up to expectations - she said she's sure it'll be better. If nothing else, she knows I'm eager to satisfy in other ways.

Discord;639869 said:

It'll be a while before we get to the real thing. We've cybered a few times, but being so far apart means good planning is required to get together. That's part of the reason I want to be ready, when we do get together, to knock her socks off.

I told her I hope I live up to expectations - she said she's sure it'll be better. If nothing else, she knows I'm eager to satisfy in other ways.

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I told my girl I was a big man and she said she does not care that I am fat

As some have already said, lot's of kegels bro, lot's of them. Edging could work too, but I am not big on that because for most guys that requires the use of ����, which I am completely against as I think it creates more problems then edging can help (just my opinion, not everyone on here will agree).

If you want to go all night, look into trying Pau Yuen Tong Balm. I started using it two years ago, and I wish I found it 20 years ago! So far the longest I have been able to last with my wife is just over two hours. It's the best thing besides the Bathmate that I've incorporated into the bedroom. My wife wants to know where the sudden stamina came from (I used to last about 15 minutes if I thought about baseball) I tell her it's the blood pressure medicine...

I 2nd the bathmate... Sexual libido is different for every person, but you can without a doubt get stronger more frequent erections with the bathmate. I was always a horny fucker, but my erections were never crazy until I started doing lots of bathmate.

acromegaly;640894 said:

I 2nd the bathmate... Sexual libido is different for every person, but you can without a doubt get stronger more frequent erections with the bathmate. I was always a horny fucker, but my erections were never crazy until I started doing lots of bathmate.

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This true. Pumps in general were originally created to facilitate harder erections for men who were impotent. The secondary benefit was realized later that pumping enlarges the penis. Things have come so far now with the BathMate.

It's been a while, time to update.

On the PE front, I've been doing a series of long stretches in the morning, no particular routine because it depends on how much I can handle, and jelqs similarly. I was getting some capillary bursting so I cut back on that part. Also, a quick stretch and massage to between semi and hard every time I use the restroom. It's made a big difference in the shrinkage I was seeing. I've also stopped wearing boxer-briefs so much, going mostly commando in loose jeans. I ordered the X40 and it should arrive on Monday. Pricey, but I hope it's worth it.

Fitness-wise, I feel like I'm doing a lot better, though I don't see any difference really. I can do 5-10 chin-ups easily, can usually do a set of 5 pull-ups with good form - though I like to pull up my knees to my chest. Doing better on pushups than I've ever in my life. I've been doing 50lb goblet squats, but they're too easy now. The only area I'm bothered by is my gut. I can sorta see the top abdominals and a couple intercostals, but I know how much diet is involved with getting cut enough to show the lower abs. It may not be something I want to fight for. She likes my body, I just want to be able to sweep her off her feet at will.

No end in sight for the long-distance-relationship, but it's still going strong. She's begging for her first full frontal pic, I haven't given her one yet. Waiting for my X40. >

I think the forum ate my last post.

I've been working on a low-key stretching and jelqing routine, the intensity of which depends on how my skin is doing. I had some capillaries burst that looked pretty ugly but went away after a couple days. I'm much happier with the overall feel lately. I've also put away my boxer briefs and started going commando, that's made a big difference too.

I ordered a Bathmate X40 the other day, they're pricey but I hope they live up to the hype. It should be here on Monday. I'm anxious because my pet has been begging for her first full-frontal photo and I want to try out the X40 before I take that picture. I think she'll be pretty happy.

A few of you mentioned libido. What has bothered me is that my brain says I want it, but my dick says "meh, whatever." Not like I can't get it up, but I just don't get hard in situations that I'd expect to. Probably had a lot to do with not being very attracted to my ex for so long and that she never actually acted like I was of any sexual interest at all. She'd act horny, but not like she actually wanted me. My new girl actually wants *me* which is a huge turn on, in itself.

Oh, also I will advise on where I'm at now, just to keep track here.

BPEL 6.5", Girth 5"

It does take me some effort to get that aroused without her around to 'help'.

Discord;641681 said:

I think the forum ate my last post.

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When the post is as good as what you wrote above can you blame the forum for eating it?

Discord;641681 said:

I think the forum ate my last post.

I've been working on a low-key stretching and jelqing routine, the intensity of which depends on how my skin is doing. I had some capillaries burst that looked pretty ugly but went away after a couple days. I'm much happier with the overall feel lately. I've also put away my boxer briefs and started going commando, that's made a big difference too.

I ordered a Bathmate X40 the other day, they're pricey but I hope they live up to the hype. It should be here on Monday. I'm anxious because my pet has been begging for her first full-frontal photo and I want to try out the X40 before I take that picture. I think she'll be pretty happy.

A few of you mentioned libido. What has bothered me is that my brain says I want it, but my dick says "meh, whatever." Not like I can't get it up, but I just don't get hard in situations that I'd expect to. Probably had a lot to do with not being very attracted to my ex for so long and that she never actually acted like I was of any sexual interest at all. She'd act horny, but not like she actually wanted me. My new girl actually wants *me* which is a huge turn on, in itself.

Oh, also I will advise on where I'm at now, just to keep track here.

BPEL 6.5", Girth 5"

It does take me some effort to get that aroused without her around to 'help'.

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Awesome, try to do the bath mate with a full erection and you will get the best expansion. I would do ten minutes and if you do not get fluid retention do the full 15 min ur next session. If u get a bad doughnut/fluid retention try doing shorter sets with jelqs. Congrats on getting a new girl it sounds really exciting

acromegaly;641823 said:

Awesome, try to do the bath mate with a full erection and you will get the best expansion. I would do ten minutes and if you do not get fluid retention do the full 15 min ur next session. If u get a bad doughnut/fluid retention try doing shorter sets with jelqs. Congrats on getting a new girl it sounds really exciting

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I like a bitty of space when doing BathMate work. I feel like 95% -90% is best for me as far as expansion goes. I will start out at 100% but I always subside to 90-95%.

I probably could have done better with the X30. Oh well, water under the bridge. I can't imagine how anyone could need the kind of size the X40 provides. It looks like it could pump a horse.

I'm super excited about my girl, I'll call her Angel. But it's a relationship like any real relationship - things are up and down. Being long-distance adds complexity like not being able to give her the physical contact she needs when she wants cuddles. I mean, besides the obvious reliance on sexting and cyber.

Tried it out and got some pics. Wow, pumping made my girth seem huge afterward. Very full feeling. I was able to only get to about the 6" mark on the cylinder, and could only hold it for about five minutes because I didn't want to hog the bathroom. I'll try to maintain it better in the morning before work, but I have practically zero privacy. Grr. Even my damn bedroom... it's the only way to the garage where the freezer and laundry are. Bleh. The perils of being too cheap to get an apartment.

Angel is PMSing today and doesn't want much to do with anyone, but I got some pics for her when she's feeling interested. She even said she's been a "shitty partner" lately, which I vehemently denied. Anyway, she posted some ...ahem - intimate - shots for me today, but said she wasn't even remotely horny. sili girl.

Does anyone else have trouble 'keeping it up' when there's no actual pussy forthcoming? I can edge for hours, and I can get hard with only a little effort, but the second I grab the camera 'pfffffffft' I got nothin'. Maybe I'll try to get some good shots first thing in the morning, my morning wood is usually more insistent when it's there at all.

Camera shy dick. I get the same thing, dunno why. Probably psychological. You'd be surprised about the pump size you need once you get to my size. I easily fill the penomet (which is the same size as the x40) width wise, and I almost touch the end lengthwise.

I think you should get a backup chick. Your post has about 3 red flags that she has probably moved on to someone closer. Long distance never works, so I would recommend getting someone closer as well, that way when it doesn't work out, it isn't as disappointing.

It's true, long distance is a bad idea