Erection issues after bathmate use

and after seeing a urologist, consider seeing a mental-health professional next. I'm guessing that there's a bit of 'displaced blame' occurring here and the root of the issue isn't The BM

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Big Schwanz Acht;712172 said:

and after seeing a urologist, consider seeing a mental-health professional next. I'm guessing that there's a bit of 'displaced blame' occurring here and the root of the issue isn't The BM

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i highly doubt the issue is BM from what he's saying because anyone can have erection issues simply by not doing anything, lack of libido can be caused by many things

ruined1;712195 said:

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there is no displaced blame. Before pumping i was fine. After pumping my 30 year old 7.1" penis with BathMate HydroMax X40 about 20 minutes off and on 3 times a week for a month or two - i lost spontaneous erections, lost morning wood, and need constant stimulation to keep an erection. I also got some of the little red dots on penis that went away within a day. jdm5jdm5jdm5 and i and many others all KNOW its not psychological. It's Venous Leak or Broken Capillaries or extremely Desensitized Penis.

I masturbated for my last time last night, woke up with no morning wood. Been flaccid all day. Non-erect penis length may be a tad longer, but i have horizontal stretch marks going from left to right on top shaft of penis. Ugly. And penis may have gotten slightly darker. And dead.

I've been depressed more than this in the past and still got spontaneous erections from clothes touching or from thinking of sex. What's happening is from the BM because at age 30 i know my own body.

After I get my car running and get to the urologist, i will report back. Also gonna try Vitamin K Creams if I can find something. If urologist can't help, I will go to mental health facility because It's going to be hard going through life alone with a dead dick thanks to BM. I will also report back each morning just to tell you if i got wood. Now that i know no doctor's recommend the BM - that this is all still experimental - I'm really hoping to hear from jdm5jdm5jdm5 and others like us to find ways to get back to normal.

last night i got an erection before bed. I did a few kegels then just stopped because i'm supposed to be resting, and erection quickly went away.
woke up with no morning wood and i suspect penis will be flaccid and dead all day again.

ruined1;712329 said:

last night i got an erection before bed. I did a few kegels then just stopped because i'm supposed to be resting, and erection quickly went away.
woke up with no morning wood and i suspect penis will be flaccid and dead all day again.

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I am very confused why you are using the word "Dead", is there a dual meaning I am not hip to? If you are able to get an erection in any state, sleeping, awake, stimulated or not, you DO NOT have a dead dick. I really believe this is an obsessive loop you have caught yourself in. If you are able to get erection you have no problems physically, the problem is obsessive.

jdm5jdm5jdm5;706769 said:

I know I over did it. I have a bathmate xtreme x30. I would leave it on 30 minutes at a time without taking it off. I would maintain the pressure as tight as I could the whole 30 minutes. I wouldn't cause pain just slight discomfort. I used it for 3 or 4 months like this.


About a month ago I started to notice some EQ issues. I stopped using the bathmate 2 weeks ago because my EQ became very concerning. I no longer can get a spontaneous erection. I have to have direct contact to get and maintain an erection. I've even been with a couple women 2 to 3 weeks ago and cannot get and maintain an erection without direct contact.

I used to be able to get an erection just thinking about sex or touching a woman. Since I stopped using the bathmate my penis is shriveled and cold throughout the day. I still get mentally aroused thinking about sex but my penis doesn't respond. The thought of this being permanent is devastating. Based on my routine and symptoms do you guys think this is a venous leak or something permanent?

Have you guys heard of the bathmate causing venous leak? Any ideas/opinions?

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STart doing jelqs and ulis, that would fix you up, worked for me, and work for dozens of people around MOS.

do jelq's and uli's help w/OCD, or would it just be a distraction?

big schwanz acht;712351 said:

do jelq's and uli's help w/ocd, or would it just be a distraction?

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ocd?

obsessive compulsive disorder...many are afflicted, some mildly some more severe. I'm a bit concerned that the OP may have a tinge, so I thought I'd ask you

Well I cant give you a precise answer for this, but jelqing and ulis distract my mind as long as I working those two exercises, all my attention and concentration are pointed in routine.

Perestroyka;712359 said:

Well I cant give you a precise answer for this, but jelqing and ulis distract my mind as long as I working those two exercises, all my attention and concentration are pointed in routine.

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OCD can't be solved and it shouldn't be a problem. OCD can be a good thing many times. But jelqing can be distracting if thats what you need.

kyomoto;712383 said:

OCD can't be solved and it shouldn't be a problem. OCD can be a good thing many times. But jelqing can be distracting if thats what you need.

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I agree 100%. For so long therapist would diagnose me with this terrible disorder called OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) and it caused stigma just in the diagnosis never mind getting my head around the disorder (along with other disorders included in my profile). I choose to see these diagnosis's as being a positive thing. OCD, for me, is the ability to focus on something until it is accomplished Multiple Personalities, well I have 16 people working for me in my head Bi-Polar, I work my ass off for 6 months and I need to rest for a bit. I mean throw any disability at me and I will make it an ability.

I've quoted 'ole Yogi many times...'half this game is 90% mental'

doublelongdaddy;712456 said:

I agree 100%. For so long therapist would diagnose me with this terrible disorder called OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder) and it caused stigma just in the diagnosis never mind getting my head around the disorder (along with other disorders included in my profile). I choose to see these diagnosis's as being a positive thing. OCD, for me, is the ability to focus on something until it is accomplished Multiple Personalities, well I have 16 people working for me in my head Bi-Polar, I work my ass off for 6 months and I need to rest for a bit. I mean throw any disability at me and I will make it an ability.

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Yeah theres nothing wrong with OCD. Some people wish to have it because the types of focuses and organization in simply having that feeling is good in life.

kyomoto;712507 said:

Yeah theres nothing wrong with OCD. Some people wish to have it because the types of focuses and organization in simply having that feeling is good in life.

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Seriously? Do you actually believe that a person would wish a mental illness upon themselves just so they can have a clean house? Don't take Mike's experiences as the norm, he's been able to overcome a multitude of issues but not without heartache and sacrifice, (some of which would have buried most of us). I'm just asking you to think for a minute before you spout-out something of which you obviously have no experience with...it's offensive at the very least and could be down-right harmful.

(and please don't respond with any equivocations, your statement has no defense)

Big Schwanz Acht;712543 said:

Seriously? Do you actually believe that a person would wish a mental illness upon themselves just so they can have a clean house? Don't take Mike's experiences as the norm, he's been able to overcome a multitude of issues but not without heartache and sacrifice, (some of which would have buried most of us). I'm just asking you to think for a minute before you spout-out something of which you obviously have no experience with...it's offensive at the very least and could be down-right harmful.

(and please don't respond with any equivocations, your statement has no defense)

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Well I guess i wasn't specific on what types of OCD. I didn't make it clear that there are some good and some bad. So for now just understand i only refer to good ocd

i was kinda expecting these kind of responses. Can you delete my profile and posts or instruct me how to?

ruined1;712566 said:

i was kinda expecting these kind of responses. Can you delete my profile and posts or instruct me how to?

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what. damn because we didnt give him what he was looking for he wants his acc deleted lol

I don't know what has happened to you, but I had a very similar situation of what you are going through. I had used an air pump and I had overpumping my penis for 30 mins, then I had a mild lymph fluid and donut all over my penis that caused the swelling. I have to stop to pump for days or weeks (I can’t remember). I still don't have the erection since I have injury my penis. Lucky, I went to see my GP and I don’t have any damage or venous leak. I have been diagnosed with a varicocele, so I am going to have surgery soon to solve the problem.

I have learned my lesson in the hard way, there is rules that you should be following, do 5 mins slow pumping with max pressure, 5 mins ssj, 5 mins slow pumping with max pressure. Do these like 3 times for no more than 15 mins and then stop no more pumping! You have to understand that in PE, it does take time and patient. You can't rush it to make a big cock because it is impossible to do when it need take time to make a dick to grow slowly and it can cause a permanent damage if you are not taking extra care.

I have no problem when I used the bathmate before I have been diagnosis with varicocele, bathmate have really helped me to improve my erection as only a little bit but not alot. They have also helped to increase my libido. I wish I could continue to use the bathmate, but the varicocele has ruined my erection and sex life, so I'd find it impossible to use it. I have to stop use it and follow the urologist's advice to get a treatment. When I recover, I will be more careful what I am going to do as I am not going to be stupid like what I did in the past.

What I can say though is that you are overpumping. You must have been pump too hard, too much and too long that cause your penis to suffer. Go and get check up with your GP. You might have venous leak and physical issue.