What Age Should You Start Your Son On PE And How Should You Go About It?

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Sorry about that assumption...I've only been a member here for about 2 years and jumped into that thread after your bump.

It's an odd metamorphosis that I'm comfortable speaking here about topics/feelings/aspirations/etc. that otherwise would never have been explored...in fact, I'd go out of my way to try and direct conversations as far away from PE/size/sexuality because I was uncomfortable with myself. I can only imagine being in my teens, how I'd feel about openly discussing PE...not a chance in Hell, I'm certain.

My concern about having this type of talk with a child, is that we're almost cavalier about the subject due to the frequency in which we're involved...I always feel the need to measure my words if I'm ever in a civilian conversation and similar topics come-up. There's is a phenomenon of being almost too comfortable

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

I'd say if I was in my 20's and discovered this site, my life would have a very different hue...not necessarily better, but definitely different. A friend once said that "every man will have at least one 'ice-pick' in his lifetime" and what he meant by that was ~ there will be a person in your life that you love so deeply and that same person will shove an ice-pick through your neck. If I knew about PE a few decades ago, I could have seen/dodged a couple of very beautiful but very painful (in every sense of the word) ice-picks.

Now here's my belief regarding PE...it evens the relationship playing field and in the wrong/young/immature/egotistical hands it is potentially dangerous. Misogyny takes many forms, and if the balance of perceived power shifts too far to someone with those predilections, then PE has become more of a weapon.

Raising kids is the toughest job in the world, (if done correctly ) and being prepared for anything and everything is the father's duty. I think I was most effective when the connection/bridge I had was stronger than any fear/subject/episode that ever arose and I was present intellectually/emotionally/physically to respond with honesty and with the child's best interests. Knowing that as the child matured, there would be many opportunities to have a dialogue on their terms and at their level, but I didn't think it was appropriate to introduce things that potentially weren't on their radar at their stage of evolvement.

 

[acromegaly]

How did he react? Was it no big deal or a little awkward?

Not awkward at all, like I said it was not a sex talk. I would never expose my kids to something weird anyways it was more along the lines of something "for your health". I don't know about you guys but as a young boy I heard a lot worse from other boys than from my pops lol. Btw I didn't read a majority of this thread I'm sure some freaks commented on it.

 

[DLD]

How did he react? Was it no big deal or a little awkward?

My goodness, I thought you started this thread! Now I am seeing the disputes. Well, it is god it is on the table and we can get some good morals put in place concerning this.

I take nothing back in the way of my praise for him, he does a great deal of behind the scenes work that has greatly benefitted the Brotherhood.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Not awkward at all, like I said it was not a sex talk. I would never expose my kids to something weird anyways it was more along the lines of something "for your health". I don't know about you guys but as a young boy I heard a lot worse from other boys than from my pops lol. Btw I didn't read a majority of this thread I'm sure some freaks commented on it.

If you get a chance, read this from the point where he bumped it

 

[kyomoto]

is this bordering on incestuous pedophilia on any level? I don't mean to drag this into the darkest alley/gutter of The Internet, but exploring ones sexuality is a deeply personal journey and could be unknowingly 'tainted' by a fathers 30 year-old (+/-) prism. I am 100% supportive of complete transparency, but you must take into account the stage in which their brains have developed...it's too easy to put your adult mind upon the child. It just seems like a very dangerous mixture that could have immediate or latent repercussions. Am I the only person who has a visceral reaction when I see this thread pop-up?

You think too much of it. You're too involved with the psychological area. But you have a point. You need trust when getting into very personal parts of life.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

You think too much of it. You're too involved with the psychological area. But you have a point. You need trust when getting into very personal parts of life.

I completely disagree, critical thought separates a person from the throngs of vid-bots bouncing from one stupid act to another. I think people don't realize the words are 'things' and they can have deep impacts on lives. When it pertains to the development of a child, a parent can never "think too much of it".

To blindly trust personal parts of life is either lazy, naïve or just plain dumb

 

[kyomoto]

I completely disagree, critical thought separates a person from the throngs of vid-bots bouncing from one stupid act to another. I think people don't realize the words are 'things' and they can have deep impacts on lives. When it pertains to the development of a child, a parent can never "think too much of it".

To blindly trust personal parts of life is either lazy, naïve or just plain dumb

Its true they can have deep impact but people need to be taught, well the children on a better level to understand things of the world and their body. More knowledge, maturity, and explanation then the less worries when it comes to giving in and trust will have to come naturally, not forced. I agree with you to an extent.

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

yep parents can be naive,lazy or just plain dumb or even evil...but if i had had someone letting me know me about PE maybe in my teens.

wonder how id have reacted to that..Both sides need a special way to understand PE transmitter and receiver.

wonder at what age a kid looks for ass n pussy..everything starts whit images mags,adult entertainment..etc

 

[kyomoto]

I was gonna say the exact same thing about what you hear from your friends. LOL

Like the fact that you made it about health and not sex. Good move.

Best way to approach things is by giving concern for health and feedback on that end. And it isn't a lie, it is healthy for the penis in terms of erection quality

 

[templnite]

Yeah everybody this is my lawyer here spittinthat hot fire flamenumbaone deadoralive. Brah thread closed plus anyone that commented on thefbi database watchlist now

 

[DLD]

This thread is getting more action than a 2 dollar whore!

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

Sexual maturity develops over time. Some 30 year olds are less sexually mature than some 18 year olds.

Which I believe should be the litmus test of 'should I or should I not' introduce my son to PE. In this day and age, I'm certain the kids already know if they've had a curiosity...I'd only have this discussion if my son brought it up and, through a few probing questions by me, know if he's serious or not...even then, I'd tread very lightly

 

[LONGERDICK7+]

Sexual maturity develops over time. Some 30 year olds are less sexually mature than some 18 year olds.

that can be true young kids are hornier everyday or is it just my imagination,

 

[rollfizzlebeef]

Looking forward to the day when this is universal knowledge amongst men. I don't think it's a stretch to say that most, as in the marjority of men, will be aware of PE in 20 years. I'm kind of surprised on some level that it hasn't exploded with how ubiquitious adult entertainment has become, especially in the last few years.
Looking at this from 5,000 feet, PE it still is in it's infancy, and it's amazing how far things have come in the last decade alone (add another 5 to that).

I'd figure all the young guys who are obcessed with building musle would lean toward PE as well. There are similarities to the golden age of bodybuilding, pre-Arnold, and what PE currently is.

 

[templnite]

Word is bond though I learned about pe around sixteen but life was so rad that i only got serious about it recently. That's around the time of first icepic, If it wasn't for that dirty trifling slut I might have never learned about pe. Unless I just stumbled on the idea through adult entertainment or a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] commercial I saw when I was a kid.

Though, I consider pe sexual deviance if its not medical as in micro. That's why we got all the freaks commenting like stilly and acro.

 

[kyomoto]

Word is bond though I learned about pe around sixteen but life was so rad that i only got serious about it recently. That's around the time of first icepic, If it wasn't for that dirty trifling slut I might have never learned about pe. Unless I just stumbled on the idea through adult entertainment or a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]extender[/words] commercial I saw when I was a kid.

Though, I consider pe sexual deviance if its not medical as in micro. That's why we got all the freaks commenting like stilly and acro.

Correct. Bond is best when you actually do it right. Remember to always regenerate that feeling of urge you once did so you can continue being the undead being to take over the PE realm

 

[DLD]

In all reality my Son knew about PE at like 9 or 10 because it was impossible to hide it. He never had any desire for it. He is very happy with what He has.

 

[Big Schwanz Acht]

That's around the time of first icepic, If it wasn't for that dirty trifling slut I might have never learned about pe. QUOTE]

God works in mysterious ways, lmbo

 

[Disco Dave]

You don't have to talk to your kid about pe. You only need to leave your laptop open with the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]mos[/words] newbie forum visible. Lol.