doublelongdaddy;665269 said:
16 is a good age. It really depends on the relationship you have with your Son(s). My Son knew about PE since he was 8 years old, today he is 21 and never had an inkling to enlarge. It is best to keep a very open relationship so that if your child feels inadequate they will come to you.

Really depends on the child. He could still be immature enough to create a mentality where this will help him fuck girls at school. I want my children to understand that sex and girls aren't everything and theres more to life than that and you can be happy without one.
 
kyomoto;665572 said:
Really depends on the child. He could still be immature enough to create a mentality where this will help him fuck girls at school. I want my children to understand that sex and girls aren't everything and theres more to life than that and you can be happy without one.

For me, if I were not me:), I would not even mention PE unless my child came to me first with an issue. Pushing a child into PE may cause many sexual psychological issues and insecurities. Have a open, honest and understanding relationship with your Son and he will come toy very time he needs help. Keep you babies close to your heart!
 
doublelongdaddy;665615 said:
Pushing a child into PE may cause many sexual psychological issues and insecurities.

Matthew 18:6
"If anyone causes one of these little ones--those who believe in me--to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.
 
templnite;665652 said:
Matthew 18:6
"If anyone causes one of these little ones--those who believe in me--to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea.

Indeed! And another verse that should be taken to heart is "The sins of the Father shall visit the Children"
 
Ezekiel 18:22
The one who sins is the one who will die. The child will not share the guilt of the parent, nor will the parent share the guilt of the child. The righteousness of the righteous will be credited to them, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against them.

Yes that's true mike you can inherit your kids alot of things such as violence, alcoholism, sexual deviance, and pretty much any bad habit which 'runs in the family'. That's why its important to raise the children in the path of righteousness in order to sever the devil's ties :blush:
 
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doublelongdaddy;665615 said:
For me, if I were not me:), I would not even mention PE unless my child came to me first with an issue. Pushing a child into PE may cause many sexual psychological issues and insecurities. Have a open, honest and understanding relationship with your Son and he will come toy very time he needs help. Keep you babies close to your heart!

Of course. Have to keep close relationships while of course giving the privacy.
 
templnite;665739 said:
Ezekiel 18:22
The one who sins is the one who will die. The child will not share the guilt of the parent, nor will the parent share the guilt of the child. The righteousness of the righteous will be credited to them, and the wickedness of the wicked will be charged against them.

Yes that's true mike you can inherit your kids alot of things such as violence, alcoholism, sexual deviance, and pretty much any bad habit which 'runs in the family'. That's why its important to raise the children in the path of righteousness in order to sever the devil's ties :blush:

You always have the perfect response, thank you! You know how much I love Christ and you are always encouraging me to love him more and more! Bless you my Brother!
 
1 Kings 17:6
The ravens brought him bread and meat in the morning and bread and meat in the evening, and he drank from the brook.

Sometimes the Lord uses the most unlikely person to bring his message of love. If I ever say something that touches your heart in a positive way as long as its clean, and pure it was Christ who spoke to you.
 
templnite;665951 said:
1 Kings 17:6
The ravens brought him bread and meat in the morning and bread and meat in the evening, and he drank from the brook.

Sometimes the Lord uses the most unlikely person to bring his message of love. If I ever say something that touches your heart in a positive way as long as its clean, and pure it was Christ who spoke to you.

I was just discussing this with my therapist! Like myself, she loves God very much. I was telling her about how at times people who I could never imagine saying something to me with such substance, things that could only come from Christ himself. She went on to tell me exactly what you said above. She said that the Holy Spirit will deliver the message through people and in these instances it is important to know that it is God bringing the message but at the same time the messenger has been blessed by God in their duty. It is such a beautiful way to see how Christ enters all of our lives in so many beautiful ways.
 
templnite;666258 said:
Mysterious ways

So Mysterious but just like the title of this thread, we are all God's Sons and in this way we relate on a much more spiritual level. So when feeling that compassion from Christ in the way a Father loves his Son, we should do the same with our children. Love these little ones as they will inherit the Earth and allow our names to live on. Bless the Holy Father for our Children!
 
.;672517 said:
Absolutely! The relationship is so important and must be nurtured with time, love, and attention!

And just make sure that kid becomes your best friend, that is the best fathering I can offer!
 
.;676871 said:
Great advice! I think that would make the sex talk and PE if you choose to let him in on it that much easier.

It starts out in the beginning, just love him like a Brother! He will become your best friend and that connection is incredible! My Son, who is 21 now, is my best friend and now that he has two boys of his own he will do the same. Having a boy is such a special thing!
 
had a conversation recently my step son said something about how one of his buddys gets two girls at once because he has a big dick, my wife told him that women dont care about penis size. I said that was a lie, and if you want it bigger you can stretch it a lot and it will grow. Well the point was completely missed and he now thinks I have a tiny dick hahaha. every kid is different but yeah it can definitely be hard to explain the subject gently.
 
"Women don't care about penis size" ?:(. Ask her what do they care about then cause its a mystery
 
templnite;677046 said:
"Women don't care about penis size" ?:(. Ask her what do they care about then cause its a mystery

They care in different ways. Some women want a smaller penis, some enjoy average size, some like it a bit bigger and then theres the SizeQueens. What matters most is what you, yourself, cares about.
 
I've dodged this topic for a year but I think the answer is pretty obvious...

When you have the first chat explaining the urges that come with puberty, it would make sense to me if the concept were introduced at this point. The body is ready for it, with hormones and growth happening already, so optimization of the process seems like a no brainer to me. The only caveat is they're liable to take it too far if you fail to explain the female anatomy with enough detail. It wouldn't seem like a huge deal to them at that point though, since they're still relatively unfamiliar with sex and it will help them avoid a complex in the future.

I definitely think it should at least be mentioned before they leave the home for living on their own. No sense in letting your offspring go off without knowledge of something that could literally give them a better self esteem and make their lives better as a result. To not, once you know it works, honestly sounds like a dick move. But maybe that's just me.
 
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