What Age Should You Start Your Son On PE And How Should You Go About It?

[Disco Dave]

Some fathers have their sons playing tackle football at 7 years old. So lets say that at birth you realize that your son may need PE. What Age Should You Start Your Son On PE And How Should You Go About It ? This is a SERIOUS QUESTION.

 

[IVEADREAM]

I would think I would at least wait til he was at the age when he starts noticing girls. Then you know that that part of his mind and body were starting to change into that mind set and for each boy it's going to be different ages. Also his maturity level needs to be considered. I had my first real kiss when I was 9 and had my first sexual experience when I was 13 and not bragging or anything but I was more mature than other kids my age. I think I could have handled it then if my dad would've at least introduced me to some basic PE. like some light stretches and jelqing. Now my now wife's son who is 28, I don't think he could handle it even now at his age but he's very immature. So I think the maturity level is very important. Some boys would just giggle like a school girl and run telling their friends "hey listen what dad's wanting me to do." I never had a son but I did have 2 girls and we have a great relationship and I think that is also key. Have a great relationship with your son now til he reaches that age (I think you'll know) and it will make it a lot easier to introduce him to this PE world and when you do don't just throw everything at him at once, keep it simple. Tell him "hey, I want to explain a couple things to you that will help you the rest of your life, not only physically but also mentally as well." I knew a kid I played football with when I was in high school in the late 80's and his pecker hung almost to his knees. Come to find out I was told he beat off everyday 2 or 3 times a day. I'm not sure how big PE was back then but I wonder now if maybe his dad didn't pass on something to him. Who knows. Anyway most importantly, always have a good relationship with your kids, boy or girl, let them know they can always come to you for anything. That will help keep the door open for anything when they're ready. Heck with this day and age of information he might even come to you and ask you about PE.

 

[Zambrodom3]

I would think I would at least wait til he was at the age when he starts noticing girls. Then you know that that part of his mind and body were starting to change into that mind set and for each boy it's going to be different ages. Also his maturity level needs to be considered. I had my first real kiss when I was 9 and had my first sexual experience when I was 13 and not bragging or anything but I was more mature than other kids my age. I think I could have handled it then if my dad would've at least introduced me to some basic PE. like some light stretches and jelqing. Now my now wife's son who is 28, I don't think he could handle it even now at his age but he's very immature. So I think the maturity level is very important. Some boys would just giggle like a school girl and run telling their friends "hey listen what dad's wanting me to do." I never had a son but I did have 2 girls and we have a great relationship and I think that is also key. Have a great relationship with your son now til he reaches that age (I think you'll know) and it will make it a lot easier to introduce him to this PE world and when you do don't just throw everything at him at once, keep it simple. Tell him "hey, I want to explain a couple things to you that will help you the rest of your life, not only physically but also mentally as well." I knew a kid I played football with when I was in high school in the late 80's and his pecker hung almost to his knees. Come to find out I was told he beat off everyday 2 or 3 times a day. I'm not sure how big PE was back then but I wonder now if maybe his dad didn't pass on something to him. Who knows. Anyway most importantly, always have a good relationship with your kids, boy or girl, let them know they can always come to you for anything. That will help keep the door open for anything when they're ready. Heck with this day and age of information he might even come to you and ask you about PE.

Being the young age I am, funny or not I have thought about this as well. I would've been VERY happy if I had discovered PE back when I was 13-14. I would've had my dream size on the age of 16-17 (especially because of the hormonal puberty boost to PE). But I AGREE 100% with this post! It really depends on how mature the kid is and what relationship you two have. Great post, great thread!

 

[Disco Dave]

IVEADREAM: I think Zam was right. Your post is very helpful.

 

[ADF]

I have a son from my first wife, now in his 30's, and if I had know about PE back then, I would have told him about it at age 12 which is recognized as the age of accountability since at that age a deeper conscious awareness begins. Couple that with brain plasticity, and you have a PE monster in the making........provided he even takes to PE after you tell him.

 

[DLD]

interesting they are called permanent gains when they are not lol...misleading lol

I agree, though DLD seems to be using the word "permanent" to refer to "cemented" gains now so we might be looking at the dawn of a less confusing era soon.
His recent posts make no distinction between temporary and the old "permanent" so the terminology could still use a little refining IMO.

 

[DLD]

I'd say it's about maturity and openness. If you're open and honest with your son, he'll be open to it. You know your son best. When the time is right, you'll know and do it. I personally would slowly introduce it, not all at once.

Agree with you. Being open goes both ways so if you are trusting with your emotions and experience with your child he will return this openness when he needs help. My Son knows all about PE but chooses not to participate and I respect that but if the time came where he needed help I know he would come to me.

 

[DLD]

And that openness and honesty is in all things, not just PE. You're right DLD.

When we are honest and open with our children they always find comfort in this. The closeness of a Father and Son is priceless and a guaranty that you will not miss out on the important parts of your Son's life. My Son and I are like best friends and share everything with each other and there is nothing better than to have this type of relationship. And it does not just benefit your child but also yourself. We do get older but sharing in the youth of your children will always keep you young at heart.

 

[DLD]

Pretty sure there are a few father son PE'ers in the group now with [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] being over a decade old!

I know there are, I hope [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is a tradition all fathers pass on to their children when the time is right.

 

[makemebig]

I realized I had a smallish dick when I was a junior in HS at age 16. I would have appreciated knowing about PE at the time so I could have avoided a 4.5" X 4.4" NBPE at the end of puberty. However, I doubt the standoffish relationship I had with my father would have helped had he been aware.

I have two sons, currently in their late 30's and not sure if my relationship with them at the time of their puberty would have fostered a discussion regarding penis size. Still have no idea how big their dicks are and don't feel comfortable asking them now about their size.

 

[BaddJack]

Some fathers have their sons playing tackle football at 7 years old. So lets say that at birth you realize that your son may need PE. What Age Should You Start Your Son On PE And How Should You Go About It ? This is a SERIOUS QUESTION.

When my son was only a year old my wife asked the doctor if we should be worried about his small penis.

The response was the typical - it's not a problem.

Not having gone through fatherhood before and not knowing my own growth rate nor anything about PE, I let it ride.

He is now in his mid thirties, I'm certain with a marginal unit, which I believe caused him to lose his first love.

He has publicly thanked me for his receding hairline, which is mine.

He is slightly taller than me at 6-3, built like a brick wall.

He takes after his mother's side of the family in regards to vision, I don't know where the small unit came from, other than the world of chemicals in which we live.

If I had known about PE in his developing years, I would definitely have helped him at an early age.

BJ

 

[youknowme123321]

When my son was only a year old my wife asked the doctor if we should be worried about his small penis.

The response was the typical - it's not a problem.

Not having gone through fatherhood before and not knowing my own growth rate nor anything about PE, I let it ride.

He is now in his mid thirties, I'm certain with a marginal unit, which I believe caused him to lose his first love.

He has publicly thanked me for his receding hairline, which is mine.

He is slightly taller than me at 6-3, built like a brick wall.

He takes after his mother's side of the family in regards to vision, I don't know where the small unit came from, other than the world of chemicals in which we live.

If I had known about PE in his developing years, I would definitely have helped him at an early age.

BJ

create a random email account and email him the matter of size website an forum...it is never to late to start PE!!

 

[Mr.Josh]

I may get a lot of akward responses from this, but I am a 26 year old father with going on 4 kids, yeah Mike go ahead and laugh now, I'm on my 4th now! haha But here is my reply to this question. My sons mother knows all about PE, hell she even approves of it, lucky stuff. But to be honest it makes her laugh everytime I tell her to let my 4 month son pull on his penis, and it'll make it grow. I let my boy go without a diaper pulling on his dingledude whenever free time allows it. I strongly think that PE should be introduced to every family when the birds and the bees convo gets struck up. Hell I've heard about mothers teaching the steps of masturbation to daughters, I think as a father I will teach and be open ear'd about PE to my sons when the birds and bees convo strikes up, if no questioning, right around 8ish I believe is a good time to start communicating about it all

 

[RUBY10"]

I started PE when I was 14. I got into self-improvement seriously when I hit 13, from IQ to fitness to my dick haha. These days, I see more and more boys deciding to fall back on status or be it money one day, than primal sexual attraction like a big muscular back or a thick dick. Even worse, their intelligence cant seem to rival that of my generations smart folk, the kids born after 2004 seem to be either totally retarted or scary bright outcasts. Im glad [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] exists to bring balance back to these lost lads, society and feminism have shunned masculinity and have confused these boys since their tender age.

 

[DLD]

I started PE when I was 14. I got into self-improvement seriously when I hit 13, from IQ to fitness to my dick haha. These days, I see more and more boys deciding to fall back on status or be it money one day, than primal sexual attraction like a big muscular back or a thick dick. Even worse, their intelligence cant seem to rival that of my generations smart folk, the kids born after 2004 seem to be either totally retarted or scary bright outcasts. Im glad [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] exists to bring balance back to these lost lads, society and feminism have shunned masculinity and have confused these boys since their tender age.

Since I am an old man I can completely understand what you are saying, but I started this journey as a young man. I have seen many boys come here and through the maturity of our work become men. Some guys when they first started were 18 and they are still here at 28 so this brings a lot of pride to us. I believe the world is on a steady downfall due to the social networks and the like, if the internet was down they would not know where to go or what to do.

 

[DLD]

That's the lasting legacy of the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] Brotherhood- passing it on!

11 years and going!

 

[Happywithbm]

I would wait and see what confidence level he would have. Or when having birds and the bees talk let him in on that it's ok to do some pulling and stretching for health reasons down there.

 

[DLD]

I would wait and see what confidence level he would have. Or when having birds and the bees talk let him in on that it's ok to do some pulling and stretching for health reasons down there.

That is the smartest way in my opinion. I think the boy needs to be in the right state of mind to grasp what we preach here. I think, with the internet, many kids would find us on their own without a talk. Although in the real world things are not quite accepted in PE yet, the internet world has embraced them.

 

[Jaronimo]

I would wait and see what confidence level he would have. Or when having birds and the bees talk let him in on that it's ok to do some pulling and stretching for health reasons down there.

I agree, I would give my son little "health tips" for his penis to get him doing p.e. without ever realizing it. Kind of like when I was a child my parents taught me general hygiene having not been circumcised, I can remember theme telling me to always roll my skin back to piss and to shower. May seem kind of like something obvious to do for most guys but this is something that really etched into my brain at that age, and it became a habit. Light jelqing and stretching could also become a habit for our sons until we feel they're mature enough to know more.

 

[DLD]

I agree, I would give my son little "health tips" for his penis to get him doing p.e. without ever realizing it. Kind of like when I was a child my parents taught me general hygiene having not been circumcised, I can remember theme telling me to always roll my skin back to piss and to shower. May seem kind of like something obvious to do for most guys but this is something that really etched into my brain at that age, and it became a habit. Light jelqing and stretching could also become a habit for our sons until we feel they're mature enough to know more.

A child is very impressionable and many times what we reflect to them becomes a permanent part of their psyche and this is why it is important to be gentle in our expression of things having to do with sexuality. The right time and place will happen if it is supposed to happen and offing the Brotherhood would be appropriate at that time. We have to remember that our children may not feel the way we did and there is no reason to give them an issue if it is not warranted.