SYL3R,
Its a long road mate and I have gone from average to big but it took me years doing it but I didnt do it hours and hours eachday and that is silly but for guys it works and its whatever they like, similer to the gym where so many methods are around to train with etc.
I understand your situation with the g/f and kids albeit I'm not in this same boat, I do see where your comming from with time spent in the bathroom.
Privacy for you seems to be the major issue and I sense that its this which is deep down pissing you off because you cant focus all your attention to it like you want to, like we do here in our own privacy because of the g/f and kids so you are starting to dought it all and think negative, again I understand this.
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I would still do some wet jelqs and that doesnt need much time, say start with 200 eachday for 5 days on 2 off and than work up more. Just stick to wet jelqs now mate and miss all the other exercises out because you dont have the privacy at the moment and your thoughts are needing to be cleansed and the onlyway to do that is to cut your workload and get some positive progress and to do that just stick with wet jelqs and I gurantee you that gains will come.
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Have faith, cut the workload down and take baby steps and in time you will see gains ... we've all been in the same boat at somestage but if you really want it than you will need to think outside the box like I have suggested or make sacrifices but whatever you do dont have surgery ... the NHS wouldnt do it for you anyway, thats assumeing your from the UK??? they dont just put you in for that unless you have a micropenis and suffer bad mental problems from that which needs reports from doctors and psychiatrists etc unless you went private with someone like Bupa, if they did or do it that is.
Let us know your thoughts and please remember not to use such aggressive language here in the future otherwise warnings wil be issued and than a ban.
Regards