im sitting here crying...

You should be able to get a boner without even touching yourself, provided the right mental stimuli exists. If you cannot get a boner, then something is wrong with your psyche or else you have a cardiovascular problem.

When you get turned on, you should feel a slight rush or tingling sensation in your groin area before you actually get a boner. I am sure you know of this feeling when you see something that really makes you go wild.

If you are getting this feeling and not getting a boner, you might have some sort of vascular damage. If you are not getting this feeling, then you are having problems focusing on thinking about sexual thoughts and anxiety can have a lot to do with it because when you are having sex you should be excited by the moment and not be thinking about your penis unless you are so narcissistic that it actually turns you on to think about your own dick.

Sex hits the subconscious (reptilian brain) and not the conscious (mammalian brain) so it is important not to be rationalizing anything during sex because often the best sex is when you are thinking the least because your reptilian brain has totally taken over.

Since you spank it a lot, you probably watch a lot of adult entertainment (which will desensitize your brain to being stimulated sexually), try and concentrate hard on the sexuality of it all by looking straight at something and then trying with your eyes to keep refocusing on the image or video or whatever as if you are pretending to zoom in with your eyes on what you are actually seeing. This trick has helped me when I need to concentrate on focusing on a particular object, and I am not sure how it works, but if you are watching adult entertainment and spanking it and then you do this, you will find you will cum very fast and not be able to control it.
 
well, i dont take any supplements or anything like that, Jakb. I goto the gym everynight and play like 1-2 hours of full court basketball then lift some weight, not too much tho... but ive been doin this for the past 5 years so I dont think its from that...
 
Bro i even feel worse than u, beleive me.
For the past 2 months i havent been able to finish when having sex and i went into trouble with a lot of girls including my girlfriend.
I've been feeling like shit and i dont know what to do, i feel lonely and lost and i feel sad for myself.
Beleive me i just hope this happens to noone because its the worst feeling ever! Having sex and not having sex is the same thing to me and i got sick of girls judging me..."oh u dont like me".."ur cheating on me".."i'm not sexy enough".."u have "problems".."see a doctor"..well fuck girls i'm sick of this shit.

Sorry i had to write this here bro but i duno...

Good luck and stay safe.
 
pepepe said:
thats not over masterbating doing what your doing.if u jerked it 3-5 times a day like i did for many years then you would know that over masterbating causes impotence like it did for me.
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I have always jerked of alot. The last 4-5 years I have jerked minimum 2-3 times a day and for long periods upp to 8 times a day(when on testosterone). It when I jerk the most that I have my most impressive hardons. If I for some reason dont jerk for a few days Im not as hard or full as I am if I jerk it 3-4 times a day. I dont think your problem came from jerking of ir did you abuse yourself 15 times a day for 10 years or something ?:(

beboxbox plz bro go se a doc. Maby your parents will find out. But is it better to be limp for life but keep it a secret,then to have a problem that gets fixed but parents will be notified about it? I wish you all the best in recovering from this
 
kausion_420 said:
If anything Penis Enlargement has helped me achieve better boners but since my erections have never been like those rock hard ones that curve up I am not worried.


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whats wrong with Penis Enlargementing and having a dick which curves upwards?
 
Beboxbop, I think maybee starting Penis Enlargement in teens could be a bad idea, never thought of it before but I truely belive that the male body does not stop growing untill 21
 
BeBobBox said:
I dont get nocturnal erections anymore. Maybe it will get semi-hard(50%) at night but thats about it.

I dont really think its from Penis Enlargement. I only jelq and stretch, the basic [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-newbie-forum/1597-dlds-first-routine-i-gained-2-inches-with-this-routine-full-tutorial.html]newbie routine[/words]. so theres nothing really harmful there.

I eat really healthy and I only drink water throughout the day. So I dont think its my diet either.

I excersize alot, goin to the gym everyday. I pretty much live a really healthy life...

and I dont want to goto the doctor.

kong what you said would seem to make sense, but about 2 weeks ago(2 weeks into not jacking off) I did jack off and my penis only got worse.

so I think im just going to totally just leave my dick alone for a few months. not jack off, no pe'ing... if by then its still bad...wow.... i guess ill have to see a doctor

<:( <:( <:( <:( <:( <:(
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I would see a doctor now, Its quite clear to me its in your mind, The more you think about the worse it gets.

The doctor will do tests and it could be hormonal, get your self checked now to get that worry out your mind.

I had a nice girl naked in my bed and I was away to bone her (I thought) my dick wasnt working, I should of run to the toilet and jerked it up but my mind was thinking to much, I was embarased and metally distressed.

Anyway worrying certinatly didnt make it better, If i was seriosly worried in tears Id see my doctor and tell him everything.

He would tell me to stop Penis Enlargement for a start because it COULD be the problem, but I think it lies more in your mind as you clearly are overthinking about this.

You cant magically think your cock hard in any situation, the cock gets hardest when your not concentrating on it.

For example, If i pick up a adult entertainment and start thinking *am i hard yet, come on work, get hard* and not enjoy the adult entertainment like i should then my errection could take longer to acchive, or in your case where you might be thinking that times 10 might achive no boner at all.

Try and relax more and take a break from Penis Enlargement, perhaps you overdid something??
 
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whats wrong with Penis Enlargementing and having a dick which curves upwards?
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You misread what I said. I said I never had a dick that curves upwards it has always been straight out. So the fact that it still sticks out doesn't have me worried.

If it used to stick straight up and now it sticks out then I would know my boner has gotten slightly weaker.
 
Hey BeBobBox , first of all relax. I know you dont want to here that and it sounds annoying but thats the first thing you should do. It sounds like you have something on your mind that is carrying a very heavy burden on you. Go see a doctor and go see a shrink. Do not worry you will be able to fix it.
 
Another thing that might be a good indication of low testosterone is your ejaculation volume. If very low, it tends to produce small amounts of semen. High, bigger loads.

So, might need to try perhaps twice to see, since you have waited quite a while now, quite some might have been stored up.
 
I used to masturbate around 3 times a day ever since i was 13, and now i even do it around 2 times a day. Im 23 now. I always notice that if im with somebody and i dont relax i have hard time getting an erection, but if i just think about the girl and get in the mood real good then it stays like a rock. Its all in the mind man so stop worrying about it and go do other things. Take a break from the Penis Enlargement also incase you really did mess something up, but i say that its probably all in your head so just try to relax and dont obsese about anything
 
I know for a fact that if you are not getting frequent boners during the night these should be rock hard, ( it is hard to tell as you are in a deep sleep but you know sometimes ). If this does not happen to you then it is clear it is not psychological problem but has a relation to poor blood flow as a esult of many number of things. You may have damaged something vital during a Penis Enlargement session without knowing, pain isnt always your main indicator of damage.
It could be something else, but I seriously recommend you do not delay seeing a doctor this is your cock, don't take chances.
 
Its all in your head dude this bothered me for a bit. You just have this huge anxiety over it so its getting worse and worse. For stronger erections jelq and do kegels and reverse kegels. Try this too to prove its all in your head maybee if you get some marijauan get real high and try to masterbate if that doesn't work try taping something around your penis at night that will break if you have an errection. Then go to the doctor test your testosterone levels. I am 19 to and had a similar problem. I'll pray for you and you pray for me.
 
Its all mental man, dont worry. Get your mind off getting it hard and think about something else. I know from experience that it doesnt get up if you TELL IT TO. You have to get into a "sex mood" to get it up. For me i can take a silagra and some diet pepsi(for caffeine--still's new combo--) and im good to go. Maybe your should try adding a valium(for anxiety) because bro, you sound very anxious about the whole situation. ALSO stay healthy,,for me chuckin the alcohol and cigarettes was a major plus too. My erections are definately harder because of chucking them. If you feel after this you still cannt obtain an normal erection you SHOULD go see a doctor to run some tests.
 
viagra is too expensive man...he is a grocery store worker.... get silagra... and yea getting HIGH (pot)might add some sexual desire to your mood.. but dont do it if youve never experimented before
 
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