MAXAMEYES;554617 said:
Try a little less sub-adolescent name calling on your next few responses. It's both immature and irresponsible as well as greatly frowned upon. [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] is more of a brotherhood with a common goal of helping each other succeed than a competition to see who can spout off the best insults.

Try a little respect and professionalism.

What? I wasn't insulting him. All I did was tell him that he's wrong and that his view on women is outdated.
 
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Shenlong;555848 said:
Ok then, tell me this, what purpose does a date serve?
Assuming for a second that your words are truth, why would a woman need a whole evening in which to judge you when she could just whip her top off and watch what happens to your pants?

Because women don't want to be seen for what they really are: Shallow, materialistic, hypocritical and horrible size-queens. If it was socially acceptable for women to just take off a guy's pants in public and get him hard, then they would do it without any hesitation.
Women only decide whether or not her date will become her boyfriend AFTER she has had sex with him - and that's only to see if his penis is big enough and if he's worth anything in the bed. The most important things for women are height, looks, penis size, money and status. Personality is nowhere near the most important thing for women.
 
Mmass;559297 said:
What? I wasn't insulting him. All I did was tell him that he's wrong and that his view on women is outdated. The vast majority of women are shallow cunts nowadays.

they most certainly are not... try looking for a better class of woman..
 
Women, just like men vary in many ways. I was having a discussion with Lightning about this the other night. In the world today, no matter who you are and what you look like (and I don't care if you have no teeth, arms, legs and have a second head growing out of your back!) there is someone in the world, or more like there are many in the world who will find it attractive. When I was growing up we did not have the internet so my idea of a relationship was based on having to look a certain way, I did not realize that being just the way I am would have been powerful back then, I thought that women would not find me attractive because I did not fit the sexy stereotype. It was not until the advent of the internet and when I started to see there is someone for everyone:)

Now with this said, today I also realize that preference in size, shape and look of penis is just as varied in preference to those who crave the cock:) Arguments to negate this would only further prove it...everyone is different!
 
doublelongdaddy;567736 said:
Women, just like men vary in many ways. I was having a discussion with Lightning about this the other night. In the world today, no matter who you are and what you look like (and I don't care if you have no teeth, arms, legs and have a second head growing out of your back!) there is someone in the world, or more like there are many in the world who will find it attractive. When I was growing up we did not have the internet so my idea of a relationship was based on having to look a certain way, I did not realize that being just the way I am would have been powerful back then, I thought that women would not find me attractive because I did not fit the sexy stereotype. It was not until the advent of the internet and when I started to see there is someone for everyone:)

Now with this said, today I also realize that preference in size, shape and look of penis is just as varied in preference to those who crave the cock:) Arguments to negate this would only further prove it...everyone is different!

exactly. this is why there is no such thing as perfection, as this assumes everyone has the same tastes and desires
 
jordey;614771 said:
exactly. this is why there is no such thing as perfection, as this assumes everyone has the same tastes and desires

In pornography you can see the proof of this. There are many fetish's that fill the adult entertainment sites, if you are into it I guaranty there is plenty of footage to watch because others feel the same as you. This is why we will see hot women with fat men or any other variation of what one person thinks is not attractive to those who do. Type any fetish into Google and it will show up.
 
My two cents on the subject:

I've always thought of myself as hung like a fucking mouse. I was terrified of sex. Lost my virginity when I was 18 to a girl I had been seeing for 5 months, who was 20, and also a virgin. I have never had a one night stand. I am 42 years old and have only had sex with 4 women. 2 of them were relationships which lasted 10 years (so 20 years total). First encounter at 18 = 10 years with the girl. Single for a year. Saw a girl for 3 months. Had sex with her. Walked into a new relationship two months after that and was with that lady for 10 years. By the time that ended I was 39.

Current relationship is 3.5 years in. We are engaged to be married and we fuck constantly.

Now, here's the interesting part.

I'm 6.5 by 4.0. No girth whatsoever. Yet 3 of the 4 girls I have slept with have told me I'm the best fuck they ever had. First girl obviously not because she was a virgin. But all 4 girls came back for more. Girl number 3 had slept with 29 guys, a couple of whom were packing huge meat. She said she hated it, it hurt, they were lousy lovers who thought size was all it took.

My fianceé is 10 years younger than me and she is fucking beautiful. She is fun. She is funny. She is smart and she is sexy as hell. I was fucking terrified to get it out. Our first time together, she kneeled in front of me to suck it and said "get it out....let's see if it fits" (in her mouth). From this, I deduced she's had some big ones. I made a self-deprecating joke about my size, put her on her back and licked her to her first ever orgasm from oral sex. Then I did it again.

I did not take my cock out. She scared me off.

Eventually she got her hands on it but I was scared shitless. We fucked every other day for a fortnight and she asked me to move in with her. No woman ever lavished praise on my dick like she does, either. Wow.

I must be doing something right. I don't have a big dick and I don't make a lot of money. So....what am I doing right?

One girl gave me a blowjob, when i was around 22 years old (my gf and I had split for a couple of months but we missed each other and eventually reunited), and she told me she couldn't get enough of my dick. We hung out a lot and she blew me countless times on her insistence. When I told her it had to stop because I wanted to give it another try with my ex, she told me I had a tiny dick. Classic case of a woman knowing how to hurt a guy. Yeah it's so tiny you couldn't stop sucking it and begged me to fuck you with it.

So......yeah, I think of myself as small. Very small. But none of my girlfriends ever did or else would they be with me for ten years, ten years, and "I want you to move in with me, I want to be with you forever, let's get married"?

Does this help me make peace with my size?

Nope. Nothing ever will. Except having a bigger dick.
 
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If we could just get out of our own way, the angst and insecurity would vanish. For me, it's more of a 'chicken/egg' conundrum and MOS/PE solved it...I can't tell you how much more peaceful my mind is now.
 
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If we could just get out of our own way, the angst and insecurity would vanish. For me, it's more of a 'chicken/egg' conundrum and MOS/PE solved it...I can't tell you how much more peaceful my mind is now.

I am right there with you❤️
 
Remember the first time I got close to a girl she jerked my dick off a few times she was older than me, somehow , someway,she sucked my dick for like ten secs n felt great,it was a good experience,weeks later I thought I had AIDS LOL LOL I just didn't want to know anything about women..now that woman is married Whit two kids LOL
 
In pornography you can see the proof of this. There are many fetish's that fill the adult entertainment sites, if you are into it I guaranty there is plenty of footage to watch because others feel the same as you. This is why we will see hot women with fat men or any other variation of what one person thinks is not attractive to those who do. Type any fetish into Google and it will show up.

You are rrright...... Lotta stuff to seelol
 
Crashing down stereotypes and assumptions like a boss LOL

Today my penis is kind of struggling so I don’t look so boss like LOL I’m not sure what happened but it turtled enough that I Peed sideways LOL
 
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