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I've only had 2 girls call me small. One girl who put her hand down my pants and felt my flaccid penis (we never got past that point because of issues of time and she was 14 at the time, I was 16 so I would say that she wasn't very experienced. The only other time was with a couple that my wife and I were swinging with, the girl said I was too small and that I didn't do what she wanted so she didn't enjoy it (she liked to be choked, cut with knives and all other types of crazy shit I wouldn't even do to my own wife let alone another man's wife.) I'm 5" long and I've never measured my girth, but I'd say I'm thin, like a little thicker than 2 fingers.
There's something you have to know about women that MOST women and VERY few men don't know the facts about women's bodies (which are much like a man's body if you didn't know)
The clit is very much like the head of a man's penis, it is where the MOST nerves are located and deliver the greatest amount of pleasure MOST (about 95% of women) cannot truly orgasm without clitoral stimulation. You can look at it in terms of a man's body. A penis in a woman's vagina would be like something in a man's ass. It is nearly impossible for a man to just get off with something pumping in and out of your ass without stimulating your penis, the same goes for a woman, it is nearly impossible for a woman to orgasm just by having something pumping in and out of their hole and no stimulation to their clit.
So, for women to say that size matters is bull shit, the thing they are referring to is the "full" feeling that they get with having a penis inside of them while they are receiving clitoral stimulation, just as (if you guys have ever been brave enough to experiment) a man with something filling his anal cavity and putting pressure on his prostate gland coupled with stimulation of his penis feels pretty damn good and your orgasm is MUCH stronger. (And no I'm not gay nor am I saying that any man is gay for liking anal stimulation, because clearly homosexuality and pleasure are two different subjects).
So remember guys, the ONLY reason that a woman would prefer a large penis to a smaller penis is because those particular women know nothing about taking care of their own bodies (ie...kegel muscle exercises to tighten the walls and floor of the vagina) so women who are constantly with BIG men have a more open vagina meaning that they need something big in there to get the "full" feeling. MOST women aren't smart enough to figure out that if they do kegel exercises, they can make their vagina as tight as a virgin and almost ANY size penis is going to give them that "full" feeling that they so desire.
BTW...The whole g-spot thing is a MYTH, there is absolutely NO scientific evidence to prove one way or the other that a g-spot even exists, so by thinking that getting your penis HUGE is going to make women crave you, you are sadly mistaken. True that women VISUALLY prefer men with larger penis than smaller because of the way that society has made big penises out to be some magical wand that will make a woman quiver with orgasms and total ecstasy (really a ploy to get men to go out and buy a shit load of pills etc.. that do absolutely nothing and give you a reason to waste your money and make them rich) The same way that society puts weight loss as a priority for people (mostly women) And is a way for them to trick people into buying their products which do absolutely nothing and only take the money out of your pockets and put it into theirs.
If you want to get a woman to brag about you and bow down to you as a sex God, start reading about women's bodies, read sex books etc.. on how to please a woman (and each woman is different, so you actually have to take the time to LEARN the body of the person you are currently with).
P.S. I'm 2nd to the smallest penis my wife has ever had and I'm the ONLY man to have given my wife multiple orgasms (the most was 40 in an hr. and the longest orgasm she had lasted 30 minutes) She went into convulsions and an astHydromaxa attack (which ended up turning into a bad thing) BUT...my point is that the size of your penis has absolutely NOTHING to do with pleasing a woman, the whole making your penis bigger is ONLY something to make men feel better about themselves...remember that.