Wife Cheated - Need gains fast

Hey man- I hope you are taking all this to heart. Everyone here means well. I think Red's advice is the best yet.

True story---

I was dating this chick and she and I were at the end--back and forth---we were at a point where it was give and take. We were trying to work it out and taking about things and she calls me up and asked if I can come over to her house on my lunch break to talk. I said sure. I get there and guess what--SHE WAS FUCKING SOME DUDE on the couch and I could see them through the door window. Tell me that's not fucked up. I left. She called me a few days later and asked why I never showed up. I said, "I did show up and saw you fucking that dude. The shit you left at my house is in dumpster if you want it. Never call me or try and see me or talk to me again. Bye."

That was it. Never talked to her again. Granted--there were no kids to deal with but it was still a shitty thing to do to someone. It worked out for me though. I found Mrs. Kooky and we have been together 11 years.


Seriously man--tread carefully here and how you move forward with the wife--

What I will add that I failed to mention is if you love your wife, really do love her right! well it would be worthwhile to try and mend the marriage. I'm trying to put myself as a husband with kids, in your situation. If I loved the lady then I would be willing perhaps to try and mend it. I would find it hard to ever trust her again ever but love is something so powerful it can truly conquer anything!!! That bastard freind, is he out of the game now?

The only thing I dont agree with is making your cock larger to simply satisfy her because of this bigger guy! That just isnt fair on you man plus if she loved your new 8 inch wang would that really change anything? if problems are in the marriage then they would still be present.

Hope it all goes well, keep us updated.

Could be worse man, you could have found her texting DLD.

Seriously all y'all poking fun at this guy need to fuck off. I've been there....3 kids and a cheating wife and to ask for details or woe other smart ass remark is pretty low. Talk about beating a dead horse. Most the real advice is good. If you love her try to work it out because ya there is millions of booty calls running around but someone you can love is one in a million.

Now when I was in that situation I decided if I loved myself and my family I would send her ass packing because if she loved you she wouldn't do it. She didn't accidentally fuck someone. Anyway I grew a set and got divorced took the kids and have been a single dad for almost 5 years now. Best choice I've ever made

One other thing--KEEP THE TXT AND EMAILS!

If this does go bad, you can use them for proof in court later.

Just want to apologize for my last comments. Didn't realize there was kids involved. That's a tough situation dude, I hope things work out.

I have wife and a kid so heres my policy.
If wife cheats divorce.. what has happend once will happen again at some point. They just learn to hide it better if you give them another chanse.
I agree earlier statement that you should be more worried about commitment on her part rather than your size.
I also agree that size is FOR YOU not for anybody else.
If she got busted red handed dump her... take care of the kids and yourself. Its not your fault she is not true to you.


Stay strong in your fundamentals borther!

The way I read the scenario is that getting a bigger penis is just one small piece in the attempt to piece your relationship back together. Not the key factor.

http://www.acfc.org/

American Coalition for Fathers & Children

Great organization.
Know your rights.

Thanks for the great info and advice.

I defently want to do the pe for myself... it will make that part of the pain go away knowing that I'm able to compaire.

Children are 1 , 4 and 6.. I just don't want them sharing their lives with another father. They are so young.

If we split I would loose half of my time with them. I still love my wife but not in the same way right now after everything.... people say it will get better. I dunno....

Hang in there man, things will get better. Been in that position before (no kids or wife though) and all I can say is, if all she needed to maker her happy was a bigger dick, why didn't she approach you and speak repeatedly on at least 5 occasions, like "honey, I have to have a bigger dick". She didn't. She cheated on you. She stepped down from the same level. Now the power and the purpose, the path ahead lies with you.

Divorces affect kids: No way of stopping that either, but fatherhood is not determined by a big dick either, in other words, don't tell yourself that just coz he's got a a bigger dick (for now - yours is growing that makes him a better dad. Look at the facts, the plain, simple facts. Don't make a mystery out of the twat. He does deserve the very worst you can imagine. but focus on what you can do: Be there for your kids, work your organ daily, get fit and shaped up...FOR YOU.

This of course coming from a man never married and with no kids. Hope it goes well man, you got more balls than the little cunts looking for personal humor in your pain.

Much respect, salute.

yeah right,
imagine a girl coming to you: Hey Dude, I"m sorry, but I need a bigger dick, let's work something out o_O

I'm sure you will work something out with your wife. You know, this could have been a mistake by her and she is very sorry! I know I for one can sound harsh on these forums hen women cheat and call them alsorts but I shouldn't because the situation is dependent like not all women are slags obviously and albeit I do not accept cheating, sometimes I think the person made a mistake and really regrets it. Some women like some men are just players.

Have you also thought about a marriage Councillor? to me you guys really need a 3rd party to bat to and throw with your issues. These issues whatever they are need to be ironed out, then you both can move forward. I dont know all the reasons as to why people have affairs. I'm sure many reasons can be cited apart from someone being a low life selfish pig. If she is sorry, genuinely sorry and wont do it again and she loves you, you love her then I for sure would work on it but its you who has to choose. Dont work on the penis stuff just cos of the other guy, that wont be the issue really ... perhaps you were working very long and she was lonely? not that is your fault, I'm just trying to figure out why she would cheat on you ... take it from me ... it wont be because he had a larger penis, that is all crap and just our own male insecurities coming out and yes I have been there when I was 17 years old and an ex was screwing a larger man wasn't serious but I was annoyed.

yep, its a bunch of stuff... I did work alot to try to bring in more money, and we are under financial stress just like alot of others out their...

we struggle to have time alone with the kids and all.

i guess she just wanted that excitement that the other guy could give her and the sneaking around made everything much better im sure..>

we had our ups and downs over the years like everyone... just never could think of her doing this to me..
We are going to try to got to a marriage counselor next week.

-Blake

SirKyle;463232 said:

yeah right,
imagine a girl coming to you: Hey Dude, I"m sorry, but I need a bigger dick, let's work something out o_O

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Dude, it's not just some girl, it's a wife. A wife SHOULD speak to her husband.

Glad your seeking a Councillor. &dangledongdave yeah they should but sometimes we don't, none of us are perfect and in this world now the modern world has changed so much.

dangledongdave;463249 said:

Dude, it's not just some girl, it's a wife. A wife SHOULD speak to her husband.

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There is alot of things that should happen - alot of things we should all be doing etc and man I agree with you - a husband and wife should speak to each other and be free to be open with each other without fear. But guess what, we are all humans and we all make mistakes. This is a big mistake - but maybe this is what was needed for them both to open their eyes to what their relationship is and where they want it to be. Use this constructively - often shit like this can make the relationship far more honest and close than one would expect, but the key is how to handle this. Good luck brother.

Yeah, she will do it again, I agree. Your kids do need you though, so it is a hard choice. I think in the long run you will probably be happier to go ahead a leave her, as long as you can work it out so that you get the kids for as long as you can. Good luck.

Wow...I had to stand back on this one. She fucks your best friend and your revenge is Penis Enlargement? This is not the way to go about it and the biggest thing you will gain going after things this way is a massive complex. If this woman has cheated on you it is time to separate. There is NO forgiveness in this, at least for me. Love is sacred and marriage is a commitment to each other through good and bed. If this cheating is OK with you then that is fine and you should entertain an open relationship but ground rules need to be in place. One thing I can guaranty you is a 7" penis will not ge her back or get back at her....an 8" one will

So maybe i shout set my goal to 8''

That would be great!

How frequently do people that started around 5 inches make it to 8??