Rich Guy vs Big Guy - A Woman's Answer

Hey guys.

I posed a question to an ex ( I have mentioned her in my deep penetration test thread).

The question was: If you could choose between two guys for a boyfriend, one made $65K a year, and the other $165K a year.

The rich guy is 6 x 5 and the average income guy is 8 x 6, and aside from size and income, everything else about the two men is equal.

She chose the big guy.

That is odd, to me anyway. Has she had both a 6X5 and an 8X6 guy before? Seems a little sili to me to decide your fate on something so insignificant in the overall spectrum of things that comprise life itself. Seems like overall, a much richer and fulfilling variety of life experiences can be enjoyed and pursued with an income so significantly different. While the "big dick" is only enjoyed while having sex, the significant difference in freedom of choice and activity during the lifetime allowed by the increased financial freedom makes the "better sex" seem insignificant in comparison. Like I said, it seems like a very odd, misguided, and life inhibiting choice to me. Would I choose a woman who makes 50 grand a year and wears D cups over a woman that makes 150 grand and wears B cups with everything else being equal? Get the hell outta' here! I am not insane! Bigger boobs are definitely not worth giving up 2/3 of the financial freedom available that that stupid choice would dictate. LOL

Besides, if she is a size queen, she can easily buy a dildo that she likes with all of that extra money. :D

Maybe there is a type of therapy for that sort of obsession which would make her make such a steep sacrifice for a "bigger penis". hahaha

Given that scenario and choice by your ex, by definition, that may be a obsession rather than a preference. :D

In this sense; obsession: A compulsive, often unreasonable idea or emotion

Or are we talking about a one night stand and not a relationship choice? I can definitely see the choice as a mere preference if it is short term decision.

Ask a sili question; get a sili answer.Where's the surprise?

Just because it isn't the respose you were hoping for, doesn't mean it is an "obsession".

I think if I had to pick money or great sex for the rest of my life, I would pick the sex too.

She reasoned that the big guy can always get a promotion, work harder, or be trained for a higher paying job if he wanted to. The smaller guy can't do much.
(she doesn't know about Penis Enlargement) Also, yes she's had my 7.5 x 6, so pretty close.

Sorry just having a little fun with the idea of choosing "better" sex over an entirely better life in general, all things being equal of course. But would you choose the D cup wearing grocery store clerk over the B cup CEO? (all else being equal of course)

If you would, then I would still say it is more of an obsession with boob size than a rational decision for your overall life, but it is just my opinion. :D

irspow;473479 said:

Sorry just having a little fun with the idea of choosing "better" sex over an entirely better life in general, all things being equal of course. But would you choose the D cup wearing grocery store clerk over the B cup CEO? (all else being equal of course)

If you would, then I would still say it is more of an obsession with boob size than a rational decision for your overall life, but it is just my opinion. :D

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You can't compare breast size to penis size. Its like comparing a well-toned chest on a man to how tight a woman's vagina is.

irspow;473479 said:

But would you choose the D cup wearing grocery store clerk over the B cup CEO? (all else being equal of course)

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Yes, I would.
Since I'm not a useless person, I can also make money myself, so I would never choose a woman based on her wage. Now, boob size is definitely important in my book . At least, ever since I got to hold a pair of 40DDs, a few years ago, I got hooked.
So yes, since I don't get myself in the position of being dependent of my girl's salary, I would surely prefer big boobs.
Besides, choosing someone based on her money is shallow [read in a sarcastic tone]

One women huh? try many many more. I believe money is most important to many peoples lives over a big dick but yes some women will prefer a big dick over big $, they are size queens and I also think they have a subconscious problem with them being so drawn towards a larger man, its more then pleasure and all that stuff. Was this women you asked ever sexually abused as a kid? or neglected by her father? if yes to either it could indicate her wanting the larger cock to feel more secure while thinking she is being loved, either this or she is a shallow size queen and many if not 9/10 men will have a lucky escape from such a whore.

Closet size queen indeed

This is the same girl that agreed to get screwed with various size dildos. It does not surprise me that a girl like this would choose a big dick over a decent guy. Not trying to be mean or talk bad about your girl but i would consider her a slut and not believe anything she says because she obviously has a warped view of reality.

Red.

By that description it is obvious you know my x wife! Haha

Guys, I honestly can't understand your reasoning.

On one hand, you keep saying that girls who prefer big dicks are shallow and act like they're whores, and that men should run away from such women and find one who really cares about a guy's feelings instead of his dick. On the other hand, you spend hours of your precious time going through this forum and trying to make your dick bigger.

What sense does this make? Either you go find a lady who cares nothing about your dick size, and you go use your time to do something else instead of Penis Enlargement, or you decide that women are as human and physical as we are (or at least "just as"), they do care about penis size, and you keep on putting your time and effort on Penis Enlargement.

If you can't make up your minds, then what sense does it make to aim for a 9 inch penis, which we all know is HUGE and that most women will probably find uncomfortable?
All over this forum we see comments like "yeah, I wanna get a huge rod, so I can tear up their pussies and have them craving for more". But then, if you find a woman who actually enjoys it and craves for more, she's suddenly a slutty size queen?

Please excuse my ranting, but something doesn't add up.

It doesnt add up as you put it because we dont all do this for women and yet I see where your coming from and understand what you type 100%. You would assume that every man doing Penis Enlargement was only interested in getting a larger mamba so he could stretch and poke the women into orgasmic bliss and hence expect them to love large shafts? but that isnt why many men do this. Allot do this because they feel small from experiences in showers and with other men or childhood abuse can cause trauma aswell.

I never did Penis Enlargement to impress women or to become large for the ladies. I carry on doing this because I ENJOY it, its a hobby and something I know allot about and like to share this with you lot on here. The women being stretched or poked is just a good side effect in my opinion, but was never on my radar to grow larger for them or because I assumed they wanted me larger. I'm going for whatever size I can final obtain and dont care if it doesn't fit either.

REDZULU2003;473992 said:

It doesnt add up as you put it because we dont all do this for women and yet I see where your coming from and understand what you type 100%. You would assume that every man doing Penis Enlargement was only interested in getting a larger mamba so he could stretch and poke the women into orgasmic bliss and hence expect them to love large shafts? but that isnt why many men do this. Allot do this because they feel small from experiences in showers and with other men or childhood abuse can cause trauma aswell.

I never did Penis Enlargement to impress women or to become large for the ladies. I carry on doing this because I ENJOY it, its a hobby and something I know allot about and like to share this with you lot on here. The women being stretched or poked is just a good side effect in my opinion, but was never on my radar to grow larger for them or because I assumed they wanted me larger. I'm going for whatever size I can final obtain and dont care if it doesn't fit either.

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RED, you've been around for almost 10 years now. You probably realized where you want to go with this long ago.
It is mostly the new(er) guys I'm talking about. They seem to come here not knowing exactly why they are doing this.
I can totally relate to starting Penis Enlargement for yourself, to feel more secure in the locker room, to feel more manly. That's why I do it too.

I just find it hard to understand when some people want to grow bigger to satisfy women but, at the same time, complain about the women who prefer bigger dicks. That's where I think some thought should be given to what is it, exactly, that we are looking for here?

Penis Enlargement is lots and lots and lots of fun, watching your cock grow larger is a huge ego boost, being able to penetrate deeper and to perform in positions that require a larger penis is a GREAT bonus. But I believe some care should be taken as for what exactly is going on on our minds when we start this, otherwise we might be lacking balance, and I find balance to be one of the most important things for our overall well-being.

OP, no shit she chose the guy with the huge cock. What girl in there right mind wouldn't? Girls love big penis. Plain and simple.

And if shes had your 7.5x6, then you've pretty much turned her into a size queen. Tossin a hot dog down a hallway.

the reason why I want a big cock is so I can feel secure, I'm not surprised she gave that answer, she sounds pretty cold, but still I think wanting a big cock is in the back of every womans mind, I don't feel secure at the moment because if I had a relationship with a woman like that it stands a good chance she would cheat on me, since I don't match her desire for a large size, but it's weird how woman can advertise their liking for huge sizes when you would think that would highlight the fact they have a huge vagina and need that size.

Rooster4889;474153 said:

the reason why I want a big cock is so I can feel secure, I'm not surprised she gave that answer, she sounds pretty cold, but still I think wanting a big cock is in the back of every womans mind, I don't feel secure at the moment because if I had a relationship with a woman like that it stands a good chance she would cheat on me, since I don't match her desire for a large size, but it's weird how woman can advertise their liking for huge sizes when you would think that would highlight the fact they have a huge vagina and need that size.

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Vaginas are extremely elastic. Just because a woman prefers a big penis, it doesn't mean she has a huge vagina or that it is loose. All it means is that maybe she prefers to feel a bit stretched, or maybe she likes to feel more friction. It may even simply be a psychological thing. Maybe she just likes the thought of being fucked by a big guy (a "more masculine" guy, by society's standards) and it makes her feel more feminine.
There are lots of reasons why a woman would prefer a well hung guy, just as there are lots of reasons why I prefer boobs above C cups.
I love a nice big pair of tits because they're funnier to look at, they fill my hands, they fill my mouth, I love having them slapped on my face, they allow for titty-fucking, I get hypnotized by their bouncing, they are great pillows to lie down your head... I could go on and on.
I'm pretty sure we could make a comparison with penis size. Maybe she likes a bigger dick because it looks manlier, because it feels good in her hands, or maybe she likes to have both her hands wrapped around it and still be able to suck the glans, or even be able to touch the tip with her tongue when the guy has his dick between her tits; maybe she prefers positions which are easier to perform in with a bigger penis, or maybe she just likes to be able to brag to her friends about how she's dating Mr. Tripod.

Human nature is never simple, so it's hard to know for sure why one does something.

&Gravik its all personal choice and within reason. You make a general wide assumption that all women want a big cock. Let me take a tight girl and stretch her with my thick dick and I can tell you many dont like it! I have had many problems with my size but only because I like foreplay, licking pussy and have that more natural flow with it I manage to get penetration. Some women loved it but not all. I do this for me and wont stop, fuck it if a girl complains or it doesn't fit. I aint after a women atm and when I do find her, then it will be right and the cock issues will sort themselves out.

I reckon �naked people movies� has done ALLOT to influence guys views on sex and womens views to such extremes some guys dont see the wood from the trees. Not all guys like big boobs ... I'm more a average size but love hard nipples.

REDZULU2003;474274 said:

&Gravik its all personal choice and within reason. You make a general wide assumption that all women want a big cock. Let me take a tight girl and stretch her with my thick dick and I can tell you many dont like it! I have had many problems with my size but only because I like foreplay, licking pussy and have that more natural flow with it I manage to get penetration. Some women loved it but not all. I do this for me and wont stop, fuck it if a girl complains or it doesn't fit. I aint after a women atm and when I do find her, then it will be right and the cock issues will sort themselves out.

I reckon �naked people movies� has done ALLOT to influence guys views on sex and womens views to such extremes some guys dont see the wood from the trees. Not all guys like big boobs ... I'm more a average size but love hard nipples.

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These are facts one cannot simply argue against.

I haven't chimed in on this thread for a while. Here are the stats for all the questions on the situation.

1. The girl isn't a slut. She had two long term boyfriends before me. She has a decent career, and makes her own money. Granted, not a lot of money, but a decent wage.

2. Before I was with her, she said she didn't think size mattered.

3. She is the tightest girl I've EVER been with. Seriously intense and amazing to penetrate.

4. We're all here to get bigger, but when someone finds out a woman prefers a big dick, she's instantly a "size queen" and in some kind of freakish minority. If that is true, what the hell are we doing all there Penis Enlargement exercises for? To give us confidence with 2% of the female population, since the remaining 98% who aren't size queens don't care about size at all? The reactions here don't make sense. Either most women enjoy a big dick or they don't. If you think they do, keep Penis Enlargementing, if you think they don't unless they are a size queen, then why are you here?. I think some people here don't know what a size queen is. It is a person who will ONLY have sex with a man who is of a given size or over. This girl has dated smaller guys after me, and wasn't going to break up with them over it. The question put to her was if ALL else was equal, which would she prefer, money or a big unit. She chose the unit.

Now there are plenty of normal women out there who like big dicks but are not size queens.