Any updates on wearing out the PC before sex to see if it cuts down on the urge to cum so fast?
Lately I've been doing a lot of kegel work and I've definately noticed benefits; however, one side-effect is the one mentioned in the original post: it is now difficult to not cum too quickly when having sex.
I mean, it feels -great-, but god d*mn... I've always taken pride in being able to last quite awhile on average and making my woman orgasm multiple times, but now I'm starting to feel like a 3-minute man.
I've tried reverse kegeling, thinking about things which I dislike (such as baseball) and so forth... Mr. Happy is just too damn happy and has none of it, heh.
What I noticed last night during sex is that it is my head which is more sen-si-tiiiive. I can usually hit my gf's cervix and she loves it, but that means rubbing my head around in there a lot and it drives -me- wild now whereas before I could concentrate on how she felt inside as I know what she likes. Now I'm actually having to concentrate on how -not- to rub her so as to not make myself explode immediately. The other thing is I usually go slow, especially when doing the cervix thing so as not to hurt her, but occasionally she enjoys a good old fashioned pounding, and in the past I could do that until either she came or I just got tired and gave up... then I'd go slow, rest and get back at it; rinse-repeat. Now, within 10-seconds of going fast, I can't stop myself from coming given how my head is being stimulated. I'm now having to stop before she cums just to keep myself from cumming which was almost never a problem in the past as I personally don't like it fast (well, doing the whole "Who's your daddy?" thing is fun). I can usually keep going after 1 orgasm (sometimes even 2 if I'm lucky and stay hard), but still... it is way too fast now, and unless I just stick it in and sit there doing nothing, it is too sensitive, heh.
I'll try kegeling a lot before sex if possible and see if it helps. Maybe I can hang some baseball posters or pictures of ugly women above my bed so I can stare at them. heh.