yea ur probably just kegaling while fucking. ull notice some involuntary squeezes but as long as ur not holding it u should be ok, i can still last as long as i want, n i do 500 kegals a day. i think they play a big part in gains, bc it really is what fills ur dick with blood, and since ur making it bigger, it needs a more efficient pump. it makes sense to me. id say do em and make a conscious effort not to kegel while fucking, eventually u wont have a problem ull go back to normal, ie not kegaling like crazy while laying the pipe