Lee M

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Before i begin, thanks to all who replied to my threads, appreciate the help and advice but sadly this has been a terrible experience for me..

I started Penis Enlargement at the beginning of 2012, just jelqing to start off, got 0 gains so gave up for a while and started researching into it more deeply. I then came across the Bathmate, which a paid £75 for, not cheap by any means. When buying this, the instructions said nothing about what else was needed to achieve lasting gains so i started using this on its own for a few months. Granted, it makes your dick look bigger for about 15 mins after use, but after that it goes back to it's original size but then looks like its been in an accident (bruising, red marks, itching etc..) Also to add, i suffer from foredyce spots, which have gotten much worse since starting Penis Enlargement.

I was pissed off to say the least, so again started researching. I found this website, an then realised there was many possible ways of getting lasting gains, all of which needed to be combined with other techniques, each more costly than the last if you wish to do it safely. Stuff like extenders, hanging weights, all way too overpriced for what you actually get. Personally, i cant afford to be spending hundreds, even thousands on this type of thing. I have to work for a living, paying bills etc, it's just not cost effective for the average person.

Back to topic, after months of using the Bathmate, stretching, jelqing etc, my dick looks so unhealthy that im ashamed to have sex with my new partner, who is now thinking im not attracted to her or im scared of sex in general which isnt the case. Before starting Penis Enlargement i didnt have this problem. Not only that, but i now feel im suffering from ED (erectile disfunction). I cant keep an erection for long and getting one while around my partner is damn near impossible. This shouldnt be the case as i couldnt be more attracted to her and i honestly think she is gonna end our relationship very soon.

I now find myself a nervous wreck, ive lost 2 stone in weight, i cant sleep and worst of all im depressed to the point where ive had suicidal thoughts. Basically it's ruined my life to a certain degree. Im now having to see a doctor about this but tbh, with regards to the discolouration and wrinkles that i have gained through doing this, i dont think there is a cure. There is a full section on this forum dedicated to this but nobody has a solution, in fact nobody on the face of this planet has a solution by the looks of things..

Im not saying that Penis Enlargement doesnt work, but i will say this: It hasnt worked for me. I cant stress this enough, if you are considering Penis Enlargement, do weeks, even months of research before trying any method you read about, and weigh out the pro's and con's on if it is gonna be worth it for you. Do you want a ever so slightly bigger dick but for it to look like you beat it 24/7? I personally wish id never bothered with it at all.

Thanks for reading, be warned!
 
P.S. Whoever runs this site, please dont remove this thread. People deserve to know the risks involved with this process.

Thank you.
 
Lee M;525013 said:
Before i begin, thanks to all who replied to my threads, appreciate the help and advice but sadly this has been a terrible experience for me..

I started Penis Enlargement at the beginning of 2012, just jelqing to start off, got 0 gains so gave up for a while and started researching into it more deeply. I then came across the Bathmate, which a paid £75 for, not cheap by any means. When buying this, the instructions said nothing about what else was needed to achieve lasting gains so i started using this on its own for a few months. Granted, it makes your dick look bigger for about 15 mins after use, but after that it goes back to it's original size but then looks like its been in an accident (bruising, red marks, itching etc..) Also to add, i suffer from foredyce spots, which have gotten much worse since starting Penis Enlargement.

I was pissed off to say the least, so again started researching. I found this website, an then realised there was many possible ways of getting lasting gains, all of which needed to be combined with other techniques, each more costly than the last if you wish to do it safely. Stuff like extenders, hanging weights, all way too overpriced for what you actually get. Personally, i cant afford to be spending hundreds, even thousands on this type of thing. I have to work for a living, paying bills etc, it's just not cost effective for the average person.

Back to topic, after months of using the Bathmate, stretching, jelqing etc, my dick looks so unhealthy that im ashamed to have sex with my new partner, who is now thinking im not attracted to her or im scared of sex in general which isnt the case. Before starting Penis Enlargement i didnt have this problem. Not only that, but i now feel im suffering from ED (erectile disfunction). I cant keep an erection for long and getting one while around my partner is damn near impossible. This shouldnt be the case as i couldnt be more attracted to her and i honestly think she is gonna end our relationship very soon.

I now find myself a nervous wreck, ive lost 2 stone in weight, i cant sleep and worst of all im depressed to the point where ive had suicidal thoughts. Basically it's ruined my life to a certain degree. Im now having to see a doctor about this but tbh, with regards to the discolouration and wrinkles that i have gained through doing this, i dont think there is a cure. There is a full section on this forum dedicated to this but nobody has a solution, in fact nobody on the face of this planet has a solution by the looks of things..

Im not saying that Penis Enlargement doesnt work, but i will say this: It hasnt worked for me. I cant stress this enough, if you are considering Penis Enlargement, do weeks, even months of research before trying any method you read about, and weigh out the pro's and con's on if it is gonna be worth it for you. Do you want a ever so slightly bigger dick but for it to look like you beat it 24/7? I personally wish id never bothered with it at all.

Thanks for reading, be warned!

Sorry to hear about all the trouble. I will say that I think that your specific skin issues are an outlier here. I've gotten the temporary discoloration from using the Bathmate but it always goes away after a day at the most. As for foredyce spots, everyone has those to some degree. It's a natural occurrence of the body.

It sounds like you've either been overdoing it or this (Penis Enlargement) isn't something that's good for you for whatever reason.
 
It sounds like you used the Bathmate incorrectly. You wouldn't have gotten the injuries you did if it had been used correctly. A lot of newbies get over zealous and get injured early in their Penis Enlargement career. You don't have to spend any money on Penis Enlargement. You can do manual Penis Enlargement for free and many members on here have gotten excellent results from it. If it can work for us it can work for you. The first thing you will have to do is change your negative attitude. Penis Enlargement or anything else will not work for you if you have a negative attitude about it. If you really want a bigger penis, read about all the success stories on here and realize that it could just as easily be you if you change your attitude. Get on the newbie routine and be consistent. Penis Enlargement is just like anything else; you have to do it correctly to make it work.
 
i agree with the other two posters, something went wrong with Bathmate use, it shouldnt cause that kind of effect on your penis or reduce erection quality. for most people it usually increases eq due to the extra bloodflow. as for expensive equipment, i got my Bathmate off of ebay for £50. you can also get cheap generic stretches that would also work fairly well for about £20. thats all you really need to buy for some good gains.
i've been using the Bathmate for a few months now with the only issue being bloodspots. i know that other people on this site have been using it for much longer with no issues whatsoever.
if you feel comfortable posting pictures, it would probably be helpful to you to post pictures on MOS so members can assess the damage/ give some advice
 
as for the weight loss and suicidal thoughts theres obviously some other issues going on that that a doctor needs to look at asap
 
I think it's important to note here that you haven't BROKEN YOUR DICK. You've injured it and you're really worked up about that, understandably.
 
if you want help with skin bruises and wrinkles, stretch marks use hirodoid cream. it works really really good. you can also mix it with some drops of dmso. make sure you take a shower before being with a partner because they dont want to taste/smell the creme.
 
Ok dude. First of all get your relationship back on track. Who gives a fuck what your dick looks like. Shamelessly Ravish her body with your cock. Show her love like nothing else.
I'll share a fact with you. Discolouration, bruising and Erectile dysfunction caused by Penis Enlargement will all improve just by stopping Penis Enlargement. I know this through personal experience. If preventing your relationship from breaking up means quitting Penis Enlargement then so be it. You can always come back to Penis Enlargement when everything is back on track.
Also, I have not payed a cent for Penis Enlargement and I have made great gains. I just do manual exercises. No Bathmate or Size Genetics extender. Fuck that.
 
neognostic;525020 said:
Sorry to hear about all the trouble. I will say that I think that your specific skin issues are an outlier here. I've gotten the temporary discoloration from using the Bathmate but it always goes away after a day at the most. As for foredyce spots, everyone has those to some degree. It's a natural occurrence of the body.

It sounds like you've either been overdoing it or this (Penis Enlargement) isn't something that's good for you for whatever reason.

Well my discolouration isnt going away.. And yes foredyce spots are apparently common from what ive read, but for some reason they seem more noticable since doing Penis Enlargement. As for overdoing it, i dont see how. My routine was pretty light compared to some ive seen. I always tried not to over-pump and not to pull my dick off while jelqing.
 
tef1;525025 said:
It sounds like you used the Bathmate incorrectly. You wouldn't have gotten the injuries you did if it had been used correctly. A lot of newbies get over zealous and get injured early in their Penis Enlargement career. You don't have to spend any money on Penis Enlargement. You can do manual Penis Enlargement for free and many members on here have gotten excellent results from it. If it can work for us it can work for you. The first thing you will have to do is change your negative attitude. Penis Enlargement or anything else will not work for you if you have a negative attitude about it. If you really want a bigger penis, read about all the success stories on here and realize that it could just as easily be you if you change your attitude. Get on the newbie routine and be consistent. Penis Enlargement is just like anything else; you have to do it correctly to make it work.

Ive followed the instructions for the Bathmate as they are, so i dont see how im using it incorrectly. Manual Penis Enlargement doesnt seem to get me gains, ive tried.

And my negative attitude comes from my results: 0 gains, yet all of the above problems.
 
jordey;525028 said:
i agree with the other two posters, something went wrong with Bathmate use, it shouldnt cause that kind of effect on your penis or reduce erection quality. for most people it usually increases eq due to the extra bloodflow. as for expensive equipment, i got my Bathmate off of ebay for £50. you can also get cheap generic stretches that would also work fairly well for about £20. thats all you really need to buy for some good gains.
i've been using the Bathmate for a few months now with the only issue being bloodspots. i know that other people on this site have been using it for much longer with no issues whatsoever.
if you feel comfortable posting pictures, it would probably be helpful to you to post pictures on MOS so members can assess the damage/ give some advice

Maybe my body just isnt responding to the Bathmate? I dont know. But the ED problem was making it difficult to enter it erect obviously. When i first started i was getting the bloodspots but now i dont get any, however it's been replaced by discolouration and wrinkles. Im going see my doctor first and if all else fails i'll take some pics and post them on here.

Im smart enough to know that suicide is both selfish and hurtful to anyone who knows me, so it wont happen, but if i said the thought hadnt crossed my mind id be lying. This is all because im unhappy with my size, look and performance of my penis. I feel i need to be bigger but the damage im causing to it in the process is giving me serious doubts.
 
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neognostic;525057 said:
I think it's important to note here that you haven't BROKEN YOUR DICK. You've injured it and you're really worked up about that, understandably.

Well ive stopped Penis Enlargement for a few days now and still no signs of improvement. I just makes me feel useless as im with the hottest girl ive came into contact with and i cant do anything with her. Maybes my nerves are getting the better of me now? Either way im gonna lose her soon, i can tell from a mile off that she is getting board of me and it's not like she needs to look far for another partner, most of the workplace fancy her.
 
b.d.d.;525082 said:
if you want help with skin bruises and wrinkles, stretch marks use hirodoid cream. it works really really good. you can also mix it with some drops of dmso. make sure you take a shower before being with a partner because they dont want to taste/smell the creme.

Has this been proven to work? If so then why hasnt there been a thread about it?

I'll give that a try, thank you.
 
kitfisto;525090 said:
Ok dude. First of all get your relationship back on track. Who gives a fuck what your dick looks like. Shamelessly Ravish her body with your cock. Show her love like nothing else.
I'll share a fact with you. Discolouration, bruising and Erectile dysfunction caused by Penis Enlargement will all improve just by stopping Penis Enlargement. I know this through personal experience. If preventing your relationship from breaking up means quitting Penis Enlargement then so be it. You can always come back to Penis Enlargement when everything is back on track.
Also, I have not payed a cent for Penis Enlargement and I have made great gains. I just do manual exercises. No Bathmate or Size Genetics extender. Fuck that.

I appreciate the advice but how am i meant to do the above if i cant keep it up??? Ive stopped Penis Enlargement and im hoping things will change but up to now, im still suffering from the above mentioned problems.

What is your routine?
 
Lee M;525095 said:
Well ive stopped Penis Enlargement for a few days now and still no signs of improvement. I just makes me feel useless as im with the hottest girl ive came into contact with and i cant do anything with her. Maybes my nerves are getting the better of me now? Either way im gonna lose her soon, i can tell from a mile off that she is getting board of me and it's not like she needs to look far for another partner, most of the workplace fancy her.

I think a big part of this is nerves and pre-existing anxiety about your penis. I think it's EXTREMELY unlikely you've done real damage to your penis. I've seen some wounds on here that overzealous guys have recovered from that were way way way worse than what you're describing. If you don't mind taking a picture so that others who've injured themselves can take a look and maybe tell you what's going on from their point of view then that might be a good idea.

It sounds like you've been dealing with anxiety induced ED a bit anyway. I've dealt with this a bit myself in the past and the headgames you play with yourself about it can make it a lot worse. I guess the question is, can you get an erection on your own or with the aid of �����������? Were you able to prior to using the Bathmate?
 
Lee M;525098 said:
I appreciate the advice but how am i meant to do the above if i cant keep it up??? Ive stopped Penis Enlargement and im hoping things will change but up to now, im still suffering from the above mentioned problems.

What is your routine?

If he's doing manuals then he's just jelqing and stretching. I wouldn't worry about routines until I had what's going on with you squared away in my mind, IMO.
 
neognostic;525104 said:
If he's doing manuals then he's just jelqing and stretching. I wouldn't worry about routines until I had what's going on with you squared away in my mind, IMO.

I agree, the mind controls everything. Work on your mind and come back to Penis Enlargement later if you wish.
 
Thanks for the advice guys, but the worst has happened as i expected. My girlfriend has just dumped me.. She claims it has nothing to do with the 'no sex' thing but im unsure. Really dont know where to go from here on. Its been just one thing after another problem wise recently.
 
Hey Lee, sorry to read about the breakup

I have been reading your posts lately, and like others, I have noticed a lot of negativity and anxiety. It probably had nothing to do with the "no sex" thing, but maybe she could pick up on this anxiety and stress you had. As for the "no sex" thing... I truly think that any girl who really cares about you would not worry about the wrinkles, dots, and discoloration of your penis. It seems like you were making it a way bigger deal than it actually is.

And I personally think where you go from here is to go and talk it all out with someone. I've been down that road, and had to pick myself up many times. You can't lose confidence in yourself over one girl. It's one of those things where if you need some help with some issues, work on making yourself a better person inside, and that will translate to working on a better outside you.

As a few people have said, the mind does control everything, and it can make everything great and it can make everything terrible.

Good luck to you... everything will get better if you work at it
 
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