Going Crazy

Ok I finally have to except it. People think I have small penis. In actuallity I dont Im usually about 4.5" soft, with about 4.5" to 5" girth and fluctuate between 4 and 5.5 inches soft length. And am about 7.5 x6 slightly bp erect. I dont know if its because i have long legs, or high riders or both, but it seems like in my circle of friends, my family and at work its almost like a known fact that my penis my small, even though none of them have seen it.

I am so fed up with this shit. I could have sworn I even heard my little neighbors who are about 16 call me little "pegna" which in spanish means little penis. Im not totally sure on that one though.

To top it off I went to Wurst_fest this weekend. Pretty much an outdoor October fest where they had the trough type urinals. And I know its sounds gay, but of course i looked at other guys, I didnt see one guy who was bigger than me. I feel like im gonna go crazy, why does the world think im small?

The worst part is when your walking around at the mall, at work, or whatever, and you see a guy look at you and then they stick their hands in their pockets, or they grab their crotch and start kinda loosen it up or whatever. Im not quite sure what this means but im thinking its them being afraid their penis looks as small as mine so their trying to make an adjustment.

Ive just about run out of options, I mean staticstaclly I have a large(r) flacid penis but it seems people are still misjudging me. I just want to know how I can cope with this and just deal with the fact taht even though everyone thinks Im small Im not. I know im gonna get flamed because ive made similar posts like this before. But oh well, I am going crazy anway and this is the only way I can get some type of carthisis. Im not whining or anything like that I just need some feedback from you guys ( the only people I can talk to) on how to keep my self sane, and maybe explination as to what has or is causing this to happen to me.

Thanks in advance.

Hey man,
I think you are suffering from paranoia. You're penis is big for sure. I seriously doubt guys in the mall look at you and think I hope my cock doesn't look as small as his!

Why do friends, family and work think your penis is small anyway? Why would they think this?? I think you are worrying about nothing mate. You have a big one so who cares.

Provider said:

Hey man,
I think you are suffering from paranoia. You're penis is big for sure. I seriously doubt guys in the mall look at you and think I hope my cock doesn't look as small as his!

Why do friends, family and work think your penis is small anyway? Why would they think this?? I think you are worrying about nothing mate. You have a big one so who cares.

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I agree totally.. I think its just paranoia getting the better half of you.

I agree with the previous posters that its all in your head. You could always just whip it out and show them and compare with them if your that desperate.

Or when your coworkers or friends go to the public toilets go too and stand right beside them and then laugh at their cock or some shit and say look at my big man beast.

yeah what the hell are you talking about man. If I was as big as you I'd flat out state how big I was and anyone that doubted me I'd ask how much they actually doubt me. Then I'd pull it out and if it was a woman I'd put it in her hand. lol nah nah I'm just playing, but really what is all the fuss about with you? You know you have a massive penis so who cares what anyone else thinks? I don't know why your family would care though or how they would even be thinking about your penis and its size. That seems a bit weird. You do sound paranoid.

good show

hi, scubaman

how do you know they think you have a small penis? in your post you didn't actually say anyone has verbally said this. maybe they have or maybe they haven't. i'm only trying to understand. if they actually have then maybe they are messing with you. if not and especially if they never brought it up then is it possible it's just in your head?

i think i know how you feel. i always think people can see me through my pants. i know this isn't true yet i freak and i'm constantly adjusting myself. then if i convince myself they can't see what i've got i might think that they are thinking about it anyway because i'll start to think they can read my mind. then it never ends. you telling about those kid neighbors of yours sounding like they said you have a little dick reminded me of this. also, do you speak spanish? i'm portuguese and i'm not aware of the word "pegna". it's possible i never heard that word but it seems to me that word would be italian more than anything else. it's possible you didn't actually hear it too. i agree with the others it may be paranoia.

once, damn i can't believe i'm going to say this, i wondered why one girl was so hot and cold with me. i wondered if she would care about my size if we ever hooked up. i got so fed up i just didn't care anymore if i couldn't get her so i put something in my pants to see what would happen. she noticed... and it didn't help. a friend of hers started giving me looks a lot after that but it didn't help with the one i was interested in. so because it seemed to me she didn't care i then wanted her again. now i was in a bad situation. how would i explain it if we hooked up? that she was hallucinating? i started obsessing about Penis Enlargement and figured i'd better Penis Enlargement like a father mocker. just bad, bad, bad stuff. my obsessing and paranoia hurts me.

i bug out a lot like you do. i've felt suicidal for a little over a week now and i put meaning, usually negative, into the things i am not sure about like you do.

the part about guys rearranging their packages in the mall because they see your small package and they want to make sure they seem more substantial shows what your focus is on. i have a lot of insecurities about some sexual stuff and i think about certain things all the time even though i hate them. it makes me suffer through experiences that have not happened in real life except in my head. even though they only happen in my head i suffer as if they really happened and my mind, spirit and physiology are afflicted just the same. it's because that is what MY focus is on. i might get some spam email with the word PROMO in the subject line but i see �naked people movies�.

time to refocus and reframe. reframe that belief. for example, those guys who you think see what you've got are actually feeling insecure because they see you actually have a bulge. then they start to fluff themselves so they can feel more secure that they can compete with you. they envy your bulge that's why they do it - of course it's quite probable that it has nothing to do with you and that may be important to realize first and foremost but my example is still a better belief than what you described.

regards, buddy

scubaman70 said:

Ok I finally have to except it. People think I have small penis. In actuallity I dont Im usually about 4.5" soft, with about 4.5" to 5" girth and fluctuate between 4 and 5.5 inches soft length. And am about 7.5 x6 slightly bp erect. I dont know if its because i have long legs, or high riders or both, but it seems like in my circle of friends, my family and at work its almost like a known fact that my penis my small, even though none of them have seen it.

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Okay, most every man here can sympathize with your feelings, but in your case it truly is in your mind. Your flaccid size is excellent. Your girth is well above average. Your erect size is above average too, unless you have a monsterous fat pad like myself.

scubaman70 said:

I am so fed up with this shit. I could have sworn I even heard my little neighbors who are about 16 call me little "pegna" which in spanish means little penis. Im not totally sure on that one though.

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SHIT!!! You've got to be freakin' kidding me! I have like 2" flaccid most of the time, somewhat due to my gut, but it just blows my mind that anyone could say such things about you, given my own situation.

Provider said:

Or when your coworkers or friends go to the public toilets go too and stand right beside them and then laugh at their cock or some shit and say look at my big man beast.

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I often to have this problem. I myself when i get realy good erections am 7.25 at the top measurement, and im close to if not 8 inches at the side, non bone pressed on both. These are on real good erection days, fully arroused and no floppy shit going on, im talking blood red and rock solid. Usually im in between 6 and 3 quarters to 7 when im not having that great of a day, or week. However my delema is with my flacid penis, not my erection. To me my erection size is great, i have not one problem with it, besides yes wanting it bigger like the rest of you but i know its above average. I just wish my flacid size was bigger, and wouldnt shrink up so much. Like you scubaman im usually hanging around 4 or a bit over flacid, but its not always like that. Alot of the time i shrink up to 3.50 or a little under, and it doesnt even have to be cold out. It happens at random times, and that realy bothers me. We all have our problems, thats mine. I dont have any idea why it shrinks up so frequently, maybe its because i think about it? I truely have no idea, but it drives me up a wall. Does this happen to anyone else, and if so is there any way to counteract it or is there just nothing i can do about it? Any help would be appreciated, and i dont mean to hijack the thread scuba if i did.

not small at all man just chill don't let your psyche get the best of you

Here's a perfect example:

I just got back from workin out at the gym. I was towards the end of my workout so of course, I had some workout shrinkage. It wasn't too terible, id say a little over 4" at the time. The problem is it gets really stiff and my balls start to ride up. So even though I wear really long baggy shorts, you can still kind of see it (my penis) kind of look like its pokin out.

I happened to walk by this girl and trainer who was male. And I am almost positive, I heard a say, "DOes he know he has a small dick?" and then sort of laugh. Needless to say this totally ruined my workout, and I was like damn does it look that bad. I also have really long legs which I dont think helps with the way it looks.

Its just like, you can be a really good looking guy, have a fantastic body, but it doesnt mean shit unless your packing. Anyone have any questions comments or feedback? Thanks in advance.

i think you're delusional or playing with us

scubaman70 said:

Here's a perfect example:

I just got back from workin out at the gym. I was towards the end of my workout so of course, I had some workout shrinkage. It wasn't too terible, id say a little over 4" at the time. The problem is it gets really stiff and my balls start to ride up. So even though I wear really long baggy shorts, you can still kind of see it (my penis) kind of look like its pokin out.

I happened to walk by this girl and trainer who was male. And I am almost positive, I heard a say, "DOes he know he has a small dick?" and then sort of laugh. Needless to say this totally ruined my workout, and I was like damn does it look that bad. I also have really long legs which I dont think helps with the way it looks.

Its just like, you can be a really good looking guy, have a fantastic body, but it doesnt mean shit unless your packing. Anyone have any questions comments or feedback? Thanks in advance.

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Hey atleast ur not like me and shrink even smaller. My penis actually shrinks, its terrible. Im a bigger dude to, im 5'6 and over 200 pounds so that isnt helping me at all. When it shrinks to just at 3 inches or a tad over, you can imagine how my dick looks. However im not worried if people are checking it out though, cause i know their not. In actuality nobody is realy looking down at your package and going "oh thats small", because nobody realy cares except you. You know how big it is when it truely gets arroused, but a somewhat decent flacid does help with confidence for sure. Is there anyone else on this board who is around my size fully arroused by has the same flacid penis shrink problems? Ive been doing the excercises, and my erect has improved in size, the base shows alot more now, but my flacid still does and looks the same.

My flaccid length isn't to pretty ether but it has gotten better with Penis Enlargement.
What I do is just periodically through out the day I grab the head and pull down, up where ever. Maybe do the pot stirrer thing. I think this is helping.


Anybody have a chart or graph on flaccid length. Average, Under, Above Ect....

nicobocabitch said:

My flaccid length isn't to pretty ether but it has gotten better with Penis Enlargement.
What I do is just periodically through out the day I grab the head and pull down, up where ever. Maybe do the pot stirrer thing. I think this is helping.


Anybody have a chart or graph on flaccid length. Average, Under, Above Ect....

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Whats ur size when fully arroused Boca? I feel Penis Enlargement has helped my penis overall esp with Kegals because i cover girls faces now, but my flacid still looks the same. I also feel that Penis Enlargement has caused it to shrink even more than usual. When im done the excecises, it looks so good. Its a solid 5 inches flacid when i get done stretching and jelqing. It has that baseball bat look to it, its a shame that it has to go away. When im not shrinking up constantly, with a good flacid hang i measured it and im 4.5 but i shrink so frequently youd never know it.


I often find myself doing the same thing, i do stetches to the left and right, downward and upward, some a stretches and do rotary cranks and that puts it right back at 4 or over, but then it does the same thing and shrinks. I have been clamping it thoughout the day for the past 2 weeks now to keep the blood in there so it hangs.

nebl i am 5.5 bpel 6.5


flaccid someone found me in my sleep and pulled down my paints probably 3 or 4 inches.


i started hanging flaccid now with a heavy piece of metal and a string with a tissue around my member

OK I wont bore you guys with the details but it happened again. I was leaving a friends house the other day and there was the couple I had just met. I could have swore I heard the girl lean over to her husband and whisper "he has a small penis".
I think maybe its because they are associated with a group of friends of mine who may think I have a small penis. I just want some advice on having the confidence like, if people think I have a small penis, how to over come that through the fact that i am about 7.25x6 which is at least above average.

I think if I can conquer that and just tell myself that I am at least above average and not worry about what people think I will be able to take on the world, as I constantly worry about the size of penis and sometimes its so debilitating I cant even think. Any stories, comments, suggestions?