Why some people have a small Penis???

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Hi Boys!
I'm asking many times why some men have a small penis...
Is this by genitics,diet,psychological or other things???
Do you think that having less than 5 inches penis is a normal situation???
Your opinion is very important so please answer this question...
Thank You very much
 
Dunno I have a small one. I know my grandfather and dad don't have a small one because I've seen them before.

But one time I was complaining to my mother about my small one and telling her I'm going to kill myself because of it and she was like "well your dad has a small one too". Which made me want to kill myself even more, hearing something coming like that from my own mother, reaffirming my beliefs that women are even more evil and shallow than I thought.
 
^ That's the worst kick in the nuts I've ever heard of in my life. >:( Makes me want to apoligize to you for that. I've had that feeling once or twice because my flaccid size makes me angry.
 
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I think it has to do with puberty, how much testosterone we experience through this period, our sexual habits while this natural testosterone phase ensues. I think I grew to above average due to a few factors. First was a habit I had since I was a little boy of pulling on my penis. It was in no way to increase the length, it was only a habit but I have done it since I was very young. Today I still find myself stretching my penis through my pocket, especially during stressful situations. I also think my masturbation, during puberty, was rougher than most guys. I would use a tight grip and make the masturbation last as long as possible. Really looking at this it is easy to see similarities to penis enlargement.

My Mother has also told me, since beginning [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words], that my penis was always bigger than the other boys. I think this was in direct relation to the above info.
 
Genetics may play a part to some degree but as DLD says, the testosterone during the puberty time is very important. I too feel that pulling youir penis as a young man, makes a difference. I too had an active masterbation time as a youth and was always bigger than the other guys. I believe that if we could simulate the erections of youth/puberty we would do well to increse the penile length and girth. GS
 
Well I don't think it has anything to do with masturbation during puberty because I masturbated a lot, I remember doing it when my penis was so small that I had to grip the entire thing and masturbate with only 2 fingers and not a full hand.

And look where I am today, post-puberty and still below average in size!
 
It is genetics mostly but some people go through puberty stress-free without any worry about school marks or anything because they dont care or what-not and IMO people who start having sex at a younger age might cause the penis to develop better.. i dunno though. The only reason im not saying its genetics is cuz my dad is bigger then me :P I'm 18 but i doubt i will grow natrually anymore.. i hope i will but if i do i wont even know because ill attribute it to the fact im doing pe :)
 
I think it's because at very young age, 10, boy was influenced by enviroment who had negative attitude towards sex, and maybe even negative attitude towards him as a sexual being. Then his subconciuos made a blocade about him expressing his sexuality, witch include his sexual life his sexual organs etc etc. Sometimes this kind evolving (growing up) with this kind of bad attitude towards sex and sexuality, can be pretty ugly, not just small penis as a result. But this is just my opinion, there was a guy posting here claiming his friend had a 10 inch penis, with bad sex life..i dunno know
 
I think before we can ask this question, we have to ask what small really is.

Size, is a concept humans have invented. Just like the concept of time, or the concept of perfection.

Maybe instead of "why some people have a small penis", we are better off asking "why do most people have a big penis".

Maybe, the people we think have a small penis, really have a big penis, and that the rest of people are actually super lucky and have a HUGE penis...

I dunno...
 
misterious said:
I think before we can ask this question, we have to ask what small really is.

Size, is a concept humans have invented. Just like the concept of time, or the concept of perfection.

Maybe instead of "why some people have a small penis", we are better off asking "why do most people have a big penis".

Maybe, the people we think have a small penis, really have a big penis, and that the rest of people are actually super lucky and have a HUGE penis...

I dunno...
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Thats kinda right, except the people we think are small arent big. theyre average and anything above is ''big'' , i consider my self small not because of measurment, im 6 inch erect nbp but compared to my body.. 6'3/210 lbs it looks fucking stupid lol, especially with my low girth...

7 inches NBP is considered big.. my friend shows off non stop how he has a big dick in front of his girlfriend i think he is 7x5 and every girl will say the same thing '' OMG ITS BIG ''... truth is, it is big but not much above the average so what would they say if DLD pulled out 11 inches of meat lol
 
I would say its a mixture of Genetics and growth hormones we have shooting around our bodies when we're hitting puberty.

Would be awesome if oneday scientific studies were done on this area such as Testosterone levels during puberty and penis size, hgh levels and penis size etc etc for me though I see Genetics as a massive player .... however thats another question ... what portion of the genetics and why? How has it evolved to be like that?

Its so interesting ... penis enlargement and indeed penis size discussions and thoughts in general are so varied ..... why do certain nations have larger cocks than others? questions like this are very interesting.

I've been reading a book by Luca Cavalli sforza on human genes and how they have gone around the globe and affected features, skin colour etc and its VERY GOOD DEEP STUFF and I recommend you look for his books ... now if he or someone in his field ever got into this and did penis size checks in their work alongwith the genetics path they follow than we would soon see a REAL correlation in penis size not just around the world but in many groups of men in general within local communities as he has studied surnames in Italy and how they stay pretty much the sane in the South because of inbreeding.

Very deep subject penis size and very much NEGLECTED.
 
MissionPossible said:
7 inches NBP is considered big.. my friend shows off non stop how he has a big dick in front of his girlfriend i think he is 7x5 and every girl will say the same thing '' OMG ITS BIG ''... truth is, it is big but not much above the average so what would they say if DLD pulled out 11 inches of meat lol
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gotta respect his confidence:)
 
I have a small penis and my father has a normal or average sized penis both flacid and erect. So the genetics
reason does not relate to me. To say that penis size does not matter is an individual thing. Some men can accept
Their size and some can't. It's got nothing to do with what a women thinks of your size, it's what you think of your size. Just like some men are bald or not, etc.... In regard to what women think of a man's size, in my experience having a small penis does matter. It's not the women's fault. Most women just assume that a guy that they are interested in has at least an average sized penis.
 
I masturbated a lot during pubert made no diff to my little willy. The testosterone during puberty seems plausible. But then how do you explain those haîrless, whimpy, skinny looking guys, almost femine looking guy's with huge
Penises? The reality is no one knows why.
 
Consider this.
I have really long legs where as some people have really short legs. Its just like that. Some parts of your body are bigger than others. Whether it be your legs, head, hands or penis.

Penises that deviate a little bit from the "average" size is probably just a genetic thing. Take me for example. I am tall and skinny, and guess what? My penis was long and thin (before Is started Penis Enlargement).

A short runt of a man will probs have a dick that sits a little below average. A huge man probably has a dick that sits a little above average.

But then, how can we justify monster cocks and teeny weenys? Well, its probs still genetics. We have experienced millions of years of evolution. Without a doubt there would have been countless genetic mutations that caused penises to vary in size which just becomes part of the gene pool that his humanity. Some genes dominant, some recessive.

I do not believe that all men are born with and average size and it is then somehow changed dramatically due to their lifestyle and growth (which could affect it to a small degree in some ways)
 
steven222;484706 said:
I have a small penis and my father has a normal or average sized penis both flacid and erect. So the genetics
reason does not relate to me.
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It is not an absolute, breast size is also attributed to genetics, however it is not always equally applied. One of my female friends has size B breasts and her mom and sisters have at least D to DD+. I will take hers over her sisters. :)
 
I believe genetics is definitely the biggest reason. And to you guys who refer only to your dad; half your genes are from your mother's side.. Genetics can also play out in strange ways, like families that have a lot of twins for example, twins often appear in every other generation. Two black parents gets a 100% white child because of white genes on both side many many generations earliger (and vice versa).

Another interesting thing; I spoke to a sexologist some time ago ( I did not have an appointment or anything, lol) and she said that you can get a picture of a man's size by looking at his hands. I did not believe that, but she told me to close my longest finger into my palm and open it again, then measure from the point of touch to the end of the finger, and that will in most cases be very accurate to a man's penis size. I did that in front of her, and she was like "Hydromaxm:)". I thought it was funny, cause I have big hands and long fingers and the other guy in the room had tiny hands, but only when I got home and measure did I find that it was pretty damn accurate. I measure 18,5 cm on the hand, my starting size before Penis Enlargement was 18,8.
 
hepcat;484749 said:
Hey, but for all I know, he might be full of shit.
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He may be but we aren't:) Fuck genetics and all that good shit, we got Penis Enlargement:)
 
Good responses :) I think most of it's mainly due to genetics, diet and blood circulation.

Penis size is important to an extent. I think when it comes to love making, technique also really helps.
So if you're a small/average person (I'm average myself) it really helps to be able to make up for it in other ways in the bedroom ;) so get creative!
 
my_shlong;484892 said:
Good responses :) I think most of it's mainly due to genetics, diet and blood circulation.

Penis size is important to an extent. I think when it comes to love making, technique also really helps.
So if you're a small/average person (I'm average myself) it really helps to be able to make up for it in other ways in the bedroom ;) so get creative!
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Good post, I completely agree! I also believe men with smaller penises generally give the women more pleasure, because they try to compensate in different ways (orally, with their hands, etc). Learning how to make your partner squirt for example; when you can make her squirt ten times during a "session", the size of your penis is really not that important, she will be CRAZY for having sex with you..
 
I think if a kid is fat during puberty he will suffer lower testosterone and his penis gains can be stunted. Cumming too much during puberty can also have similar effects. I personally would fuck the mattress and try to last as long as possible, which acted as edging and a kind of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]slow squash jelq[/words], and it made my penis at least an inch thicker, and i still have a huge mushroom head.
 
Junglefever;485116 said:
I personally would fuck the mattress and try to last as long as possible, which acted as edging and a kind of [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/penis-enlargement-forum/12539-slow-squash-jelq-nothing-give-me-better-expansion.html]slow squash jelq[/words], and it made my penis at least an inch thicker, and i still have a huge mushroom head.
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Accidental Penis Enlargement:)
 
I was on prozac from 14 until 18 (fucked up for sure), and my dick barely greww during puberty (I'm guessing due to low testosterone/hormones/whatever)
I'm lucky my dick was around 6" beforehand...

So my point is, yound peoplee must be careful what "medications" they take at such a young age, for mind and body's sake.
 
Dapper Dan;485470 said:
So my point is, yound peoplee must be careful what "medications" they take at such a young age, for mind and body's sake.
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Especially how freely they prescribe medications with no disclosure of side effects. Be proactive and research these medications before you take them, do not trust a haphazard doctor.
 
Dapper Dan;485519 said:
Dude, I could go on and on about that shit, its disgusting.
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Tell me about it, I have been a victim of this for more than 15 years now!
 
hepcat;485641 said:
I remember awhile back that you were tapering off your meds. Did you stop taking all of them? Either way I was wondering how it has effected you, because I'm on high doses of eight different psych meds. I don't wqnt to end up getting tardive dyskinesia from the Seroquel and Abilify I'm on. So I'm gonna taper off some of my meds and was just wondering what's in store for me.
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I ended up becoming manic but I think that was the goal anyway. Right now I am on a low dose of Serequel and that is it. I am in quite a depression right now so it is hard to tell where I am mentally about the Serequel. I mainly continue using it for sleep. If I could get a script for a strong benzo I could stop the Serequel. It is a very hard choice, every decision is a darts throw in the dark. I would love to know what it feels like to be just normal:)
 
hepcat;485656 said:
I know all too well that depression can creep up on you for no reason at all and that it's hard to come out of. You should just think how much you've helped people on these forums. I believe you are correct that there is Penile Dysmorphic Disorder and having BDD it was just a further depth I sunk to. I'm already above average in both dimensions yet the first time I go into a gym locker room it seems like everyone is bigger. I know you can't really tell from a flaccid penis, but everyone can't be a shower. Sorry for the digression but the point is you've changed a lot of people's lives for the better. I know whenever I hit the "What's New?" button and see a lot of DLD posts and replies to questions it makes me happy. Anyway, I hope you're also still hitting the gym because it helps with mood as I recently discovered first hand.
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Having [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] and being able to help men, especially when I am in the dumps, is one of the best therapies I could ask for. You guys keep me grounded, you give me a sense of purpose, when I am most lost [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] always finds me. I do not know what I would do without you guys. I can't believe that no matter how many times my brain goes astray, you guys are always here to catch me and put me straight. I wish I could find a way to be happy, inspired, excited, with a sense of purpose all of the time, this truly would be Heaven.
 
Life can certainly be a row of fucking hurdles!


I wish you luck and I belive you have the power to achieve what your mind wants and needs.
 
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Don't forget that genetics can effect penis size, but its not a direct relationship. Genital development and maturation is all dependent on hormones. Not only how much but in which proportion they are within your body. I think it is safe to say that external factors can have an effect on this. Pulling and tugging during this time of development is definitely very plausible to help it grow.

Also, just because you may have pulled on it or masturbated a lot when you were going through puberty, yet still have a small penis doesnt say much either, becuase you really dont know if it may have been even smaller had you not engaged in these activities.

I think that being healthy and giving our bodies enough sustinance to grow, especially during periods of development, while at the same time encouraging this growth is important not only for penis size but for the size of your intellect. :D
 
Wang Chung;485737 said:
I think that being healthy and giving our bodies enough sustinance to grow, especially during periods of development, while at the same time encouraging this growth is important not only for penis size but for the size of your intellect. :D
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A benefit that largely goes unnoticed. Once we learn how to change something as massive as our penis those same skills remain intact and useable in all other parts of self-growth and advancement. Penis Enlargement does have the main goal of penis enlargement but the byproducts of this accomplishments are also priceless.
 
PENIS_VS_PUSSY said:
Hi Boys!
I'm asking many times why some men have a small penis...
Is this by genitics,diet,psychological or other things???
Do you think that having less than 5 inches penis is a normal situation???
Your opinion is very important so please answer this question...
Thank You very much
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It is mostly as a result of genetics. I'm from a polygamous home. One of my dad's wife gave birth to all her sons with big penises. Myself and my blood brothers from my mother side have average penises.
 
The funny thing is, I come from a ton of mixed genetics from all over the world. Some have massive elephant trunks while some have mini Vienna sausages. I introduced them to PE but they rather have the dessert size sausages than growing trees to ram the bushes. Ehhh..
 
I dunno; I was horny AF all the time as a teen and masturbated a ton as a kid and still ended up with less than 6 inches.
I'd be willing to bet there's psychological factors that go into it. All my friends had great sex lives and I didn't; my insecurity about my size stopped me from reaching out to girls, and being fat and thinking I couldn't change it gave me severe body dysmorphia, and the constant emotional parental abuse gave me such low self-esteem I thought sex only existed to torture me. It's VERY hard to get out of that mindset as an adult. Keep on training.
 
During our adulescent years, we were loaded with hormones to make or break our prospective mating chances. This is when the body will divert tons of its resources to make us successful in passing on the genes. This was a perfect phase of penile growing. Now, we are just old nuts trying to make the penis larger. Some of us in the 20s, 30s, and 40s that actually go into a secondary phase of penile growth because of the sudden surge of hormones because we are just plain horny during our latter courting period. Old people in their 60s manage to gain penile growth because they always have been horny humans since their youths. The body will provide surges of needed hormones for growths, but we have to do things strategically.

But be warned, what you divert for your penis may be taken from another important area.
 
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