doublelongdaddy;665615 said:
For me, if I were not me:), I would not even mention PE unless my child came to me first with an issue. Pushing a child into PE may cause many sexual psychological issues and insecurities. Have a open, honest and understanding relationship with your Son and he will come toy very time he needs help. Keep you babies close to your heart!

Indeed. It's all in the relationship.
 
higherone;672517 said:
Absolutely! The relationship is so important and must be nurtured with time, love, and attention!

And just make sure that kid becomes your best friend, that is the best fathering I can offer!
 
doublelongdaddy;672639 said:
And just make sure that kid becomes your best friend, that is the best fathering I can offer!

Great advice! I think that would make the sex talk and PE if you choose to let him in on it that much easier.
 
higherone;676871 said:
Great advice! I think that would make the sex talk and PE if you choose to let him in on it that much easier.

It starts out in the beginning, just love him like a Brother! He will become your best friend and that connection is incredible! My Son, who is 21 now, is my best friend and now that he has two boys of his own he will do the same. Having a boy is such a special thing!
 
had a conversation recently my step son said something about how one of his buddys gets two girls at once because he has a big dick, my wife told him that women dont care about penis size. I said that was a lie, and if you want it bigger you can stretch it a lot and it will grow. Well the point was completely missed and he now thinks I have a tiny dick hahaha. every kid is different but yeah it can definitely be hard to explain the subject gently.
 
"Women don't care about penis size" ?:(. Ask her what do they care about then cause its a mystery
 
templnite;677046 said:
"Women don't care about penis size" ?:(. Ask her what do they care about then cause its a mystery

They care in different ways. Some women want a smaller penis, some enjoy average size, some like it a bit bigger and then theres the SizeQueens. What matters most is what you, yourself, cares about.
 
I've dodged this topic for a year but I think the answer is pretty obvious...

When you have the first chat explaining the urges that come with puberty, it would make sense to me if the concept were introduced at this point. The body is ready for it, with hormones and growth happening already, so optimization of the process seems like a no brainer to me. The only caveat is they're liable to take it too far if you fail to explain the female anatomy with enough detail. It wouldn't seem like a huge deal to them at that point though, since they're still relatively unfamiliar with sex and it will help them avoid a complex in the future.

I definitely think it should at least be mentioned before they leave the home for living on their own. No sense in letting your offspring go off without knowledge of something that could literally give them a better self esteem and make their lives better as a result. To not, once you know it works, honestly sounds like a dick move. But maybe that's just me.
 
templnite;677177 said:
Why have you dodged the topic for a year longth?

It's debateably controversial. I think it's simple. It's a massive thread. Wasn't bored enough to get into it.

Felt like it
 
Longth;677225 said:
It's debateably controversial. I think it's simple. It's a massive thread. Wasn't bored enough to get into it.

Felt like it

It is debatable on many levels, I am sure Higherone has even adjusted his views on this topic. I believe that once your Son is at an age of maturity, my Son was mature at 16 while others may be 18. My Son knows about PE, he knows it works but he has no interest in doing it. It was not a huge deal to talk about. He was insecure when he was around 9 about his penis size and I talked to him about average size and so forth not mentioning PE as I did not want to add fuel to the fire, I only wanted to help my Son see he was doing just fine in the size department. My Son is 21 now and has two boys of his own and I know he will follow the same order as I did.
 
^That's good parenting :D and a good son!
Some guys are insecure, and they want to pass that on to their kids, but mike has shown his boy the right path instead (thats cause you were never insecure about size right mike :blush:)
 
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doublelongdaddy;677671 said:
It is debatable on many levels, I am sure Higherone has even adjusted his views on this topic. I believe that once your Son is at an age of maturity, my Son was mature at 16 while others may be 18. My Son knows about PE, he knows it works but he has no interest in doing it. It was not a huge deal to talk about. He was insecure when he was around 9 about his penis size and I talked to him about average size and so forth not mentioning PE as I did not want to add fuel to the fire, I only wanted to help my Son see he was doing just fine in the size department. My Son is 21 now and has two boys of his own and I know he will follow the same order as I did.

Agreed. Know your son and what he can handle. Don't push your insecurities on to him but present the facts. Great advice!
 
higherone;677876 said:
Agreed. Know your son and what he can handle. Don't push your insecurities on to him but present the facts. Great advice!

And love him with all your heart and soul!
 
I will only tell mine about how the organs work, and not to be promiscuous so he can focus on what's important which is the lord. Of course my kid would have an average sized dick, but if he was micro then yeah id help him maybe buy a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sizegenetics[/words] or some shit, maybe. Its imperative to rear the child to have no fear of having small dick first, if he cannot overcome this then he's basically fucked when a real problem arises. Why are you so worried about this anyway bra are you planning to do it?
 
templnite;680204 said:
I will only tell mine about how the organs work, and not to be promiscuous so he can focus on what's important which is the lord. Of course my kid would have an average sized dick, but if he was micro then yeah id help him maybe buy a [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]sizegenetics[/words] or some shit, maybe. Its imperative to rear the child to have no fear of having small dick first, if he cannot overcome this then he's basically fucked when a real problem arises. Why are you so worried about this anyway bra are you planning to do it?

Not worried just curious. When mine hits 16.
 
I don't think anybody wants to tell their kid "look son you're not good enough, start on this routine" that's just basically admitting you have failed as a parent. Hold off till he's eighteen, and if he's not a baws yet you can tell him
 
I dont think even at 18 the son is just gona ask his dad "hey dad is there any way that would you know how to grow a penis" ?
And in same way you tell your kid some stories from your childhood you can tell it as your own story how you felt this and that, how you found out about PE and how everything worked for you.
If the kid gets interested he will either ask you Qs right away or he will look that all up on internet by himself.
 
BigBeardBig;680935 said:
I dont think even at 18 the son is just gona ask his dad "hey dad is there any way that would you know how to grow a penis" ?
And in same way you tell your kid some stories from your childhood you can tell it as your own story how you felt this and that, how you found out about PE and how everything worked for you.
If the kid gets interested he will either ask you Qs right away or he will look that all up on internet by himself.

:)
 
BigBeardBig;680935 said:
I dont think even at 18 the son is just gona ask his dad "hey dad is there any way that would you know how to grow a penis" ?
And in same way you tell your kid some stories from your childhood you can tell it as your own story how you felt this and that, how you found out about PE and how everything worked for you.
If the kid gets interested he will either ask you Qs right away or he will look that all up on internet by himself.

What is so important to me is the fact that my Son is my best friend, from the beginning and will be for all my life. In this deep love and trust we have together any problem or issue is easy to talk about and deal with. Every special part of my Son's life I have been there for him, just as he for me. I like that I can tell him anything and he can do the same. The first time my son drank was with me. The first time he smoked weed was with me, the fist girl he met and fell in love with he made me a part of by giving me two Grandchildren. I hope my Son can give the same love and friendship to His Children. My Son always knew about PE but it was something he was no interested in, he told me he was happy the way he is and I respect that.
 
You gotta accept yourself fam that's the most respectable thing because it shows your grateful to god
 
templnite;681198 said:
You gotta accept yourself fam that's the most respectable thing because it shows your grateful to god

This is very true in my family. My siblings do not share some of my values as I do not theirs. I think it is important to listen to a counter-argument in any debate to learn from that perspective. This is very evident in my family, we have hot Italian arguments but in the end we learn from each other.
 
templnite;680930 said:
I don't think anybody wants to tell their kid "look son you're not good enough, start on this routine" that's just basically admitting you have failed as a parent. Hold off till he's eighteen, and if he's not a baws yet you can tell him
I would never tell him he's not good enough. That's just asking for a complex and issues.
 
I'm not a bleeding heart person but whenever it comes to children ( under 18) I don't ever teach about sex other than what is normal because I think its wrong to sensualize them. I know people that lost their parents at a very young age like nine, and had to start providing so they didn't get a childhood. You are taking that boy out of his innocence/ignorance, and handing him over to the cold ravenous standards/grievances of the world.
 
templnite;681293 said:
I'm not a bleeding heart person but whenever it comes to children ( under 18) I don't ever teach about sex other than what is normal because I think its wrong to sensualize them. I know people that lost their parents at a very young age like nine, and had to start providing so they didn't get a childhood. You are taking that boy out of his innocence/ignorance, and handing him over to the cold ravenous standards/grievances of the world.

Unless it is your own child no sexual talk should occur, I agree 100%.
 
templnite;681293 said:
I'm not a bleeding heart person but whenever it comes to children ( under 18) I don't ever teach about sex other than what is normal because I think its wrong to sensualize them. I know people that lost their parents at a very young age like nine, and had to start providing so they didn't get a childhood. You are taking that boy out of his innocence/ignorance, and handing him over to the cold ravenous standards/grievances of the world.

Agreed. If it's your son you have to gauge his maturity.
 
The crucial thing is that he doesn't knock up a fat/ugly chick. I've seen many times how PE'rs find themselves looking at birds, but they have already made a compromise with a woman they thought was befitting of their lil dick syndrome. That's the lame part because you marry or knock up a bih (that you don't want) in the U.S. is the same as signing a record contract with birdman except you're robbed even worse.

you gotta teach your kids about values before telling him how a big as dick is valuable. This in bold is the most suspect thing ever typed which is why its unspoken (don't tell ya kids!)
 
templnite;682276 said:
you gotta teach your kids about values before telling him how a big as dick is valuable. This in bold is the most suspect thing ever typed which is why its unspoken (don't tell ya kids!)

I could not have said better myself, accept for the gammer:)
 
I needed to break the spelling lest I turn gay from typing it, or you from reading it. It has to do with law of attraction I believe. We could attract the negative spirits
 
templnite;682337 said:
I needed to break the spelling lest I turn gay from typing it, or you from reading it. It has to do with law of attraction I believe. We could attract the negative spirits

How right you are.

"Now when the unclean spirit goes out of a man, it passes through waterless places seeking rest, and does not find it. "Then it says, 'I will return to my house from which I came'; and when it comes, it finds it unoccupied, swept, and put in order. "Then it goes and takes along with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there; and the last state of that man becomes worse than the first. That is the way it will also be with this evil generation."

Matthew 12:44
 
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golferjohn;684187 said:
except vs. accept
to vs. two vs. too
wear vs. where vs. we're
their vs. there vs. they're

passes for ESL

Just here (not hear) to help

???
 
I don't think i'd tell me son, I mean if he grows up knowing about PE I think he could grow an insecurity just of out me mentioning it. And think it's something he'd have to do with his genetic size. If he asked or was insecure i'd tell him, but I wouldn't want to fix something that isn't broken.
 
lightlyfried;684732 said:
I don't think i'd tell me son, I mean if he grows up knowing about PE I think he could grow an insecurity just of out me mentioning it. And think it's something he'd have to do with his genetic size. If he asked or was insecure i'd tell him, but I wouldn't want to fix something that isn't broken.

If you have a good relationship with your Son, one like I have with Armand, my Son, they will trust you and come to you if there are problems he might be having. As a good Father it is important to listen to your Son's fears or issues and reassure him with what you feel he is ready to take on. My Son had penis concerns when he was young, maybe 9 years old. He came to me and asked what normal was and I sat him down and explained it to him. I showed him his measurement and let him know where most boys were at that age. He was in the 5" area and I told him he should be so happy with what God gave him. After this he never cared about size again. He knows everything I know as far as PE goes and he is a brilliant man with a great background in physics so at some point I hope him to come on board to help out.

In the end what matters most in a Father Son relationship is that you are best friends, that you treat him as your equal, that you set a good example, that you allow him to fall and help pick him up when he does, that you love him always and unconditionally. These are the most important parts to seek out.
 
doublelongdaddy;684741 said:
If you have a good relationship with your Son, one like I have with Armand, my Son, they will trust you and come to you if there are problems he might be having. As a good Father it is important to listen to your Son's fears or issues and reassure him with what you feel he is ready to take on. My Son had penis concerns when he was young, maybe 9 years old. He came to me and asked what normal was and I sat him down and explained it to him. I showed him his measurement and let him know where most boys were at that age. He was in the 5" area and I told him he should be so happy with what God gave him. After this he never cared about size again. He knows everything I know as far as PE goes and he is a brilliant man with a great background in physics so at some point I hope him to come on board to help out.

In the end what matters most in a Father Son relationship is that you are best friends, that you treat him as your equal, that you set a good example, that you allow him to fall and help pick him up when he does, that you love him always and unconditionally. These are the most important parts to seek out.

This is one thing I aim to be as a father eventually, I never had a good relationship growing up with my parents, not abusive, just distant. I'd want to be very open with my children and feel they could come to me with any dilemma without being judged.
 
lightlyfried;684795 said:
This is one thing I aim to be as a father eventually, I never had a good relationship growing up with my parents, not abusive, just distant. I'd want to be very open with my children and feel they could come to me with any dilemma without being judged.

And that will come to you. My Son is my best friend and we spend as much time together as we can. In a way I sometimes feel like he is guiding me more than me guiding him. I have a wonderful Son and he does take very good care of his Daddy! :)
 
kyomoto;717482 said:
I think 13 pages covers the answer(kidding). Or are you asking a separate question lol.

I think he's trying to trick us into saying something criminal. Its like if someone starts a thread titles "what's the best method of rick-rossing (date raping) someone". What would happen is they would refute him right way or help give him what he seeks, making the forum look either morally conscious citizens or splatter-rape cunt slicers clit blood garglers.

The right answer is when at age of consent (in the us) and to gk about it openly and honestly , no svengali funny buisness. Otherwise its child abuse and even violation and what if he breaks his dick because of you.

Imagine a mom that starts her daughters of on kegel balls? She's bassicaly programing her to think that's all she should aspire to do, to grip that cock and get fuked so that some punk can nut insider
 
You're assuming that a. we have no one on here with sons over 18. b. it's weird for dads and their sons to talk about sex and c. that I have bad intentions.

I was just seeing if anyone has done so and what they think is the best way to do it. That's all.
 
higherone;717506 said:
You're assuming that a. we have no one on here with sons over 18. b. it's weird for dads and their sons to talk about sex and c. that I have bad intentions.

I was just seeing if anyone has done so and what they think is the best way to do it. That's all.

If the son is eighteen then that's the first epart of your answer (at this age his personality is set and you can't tell him what to do, that's why you wanted to catch him young). What's weird is that just two posts above you say age doesn't matter :/ oukay. Its not weird to educate yor kids but thats not what you were plotting was it.

You sus bruh. Even the username higherone reminds you of those Jim Jones cults "I'll take your wife with god by fucking her" type of shit. Nigga the highest one is god and he says specifically "anyone who harms the children better to tie themselves to this millstone and throw yourself in the sea" . Y'all know sosavelli and me love the children, damn chief has like twenty at only nineteen

Idk what type of weird fetish youre into that involves getting your little boy to do penis exercises but its clear noone wants nothing to do with it. We don't need that in our spirit, you give off negative energy

Thread closed
 
higherone;717506 said:
You're assuming that a. we have no one on here with sons over 18. b. it's weird for dads and their sons to talk about sex and c. that I have bad intentions.

I was just seeing if anyone has done so and what they think is the best way to do it. That's all.

Nothing wrong with any of that.

There's a big difference between physically coaching in person and answering questions about their penis and sex, or turning them on to information about enlargement....the [words=http://www.mattersofsize.com/join-now.html]MOS[/words] forums for example.
 
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