Thinkin of gettin circumsized at 19

[DrEaMzOf8]

ime thinking of getting circumsized but ime afraid that it will hurt like hell and i hear you cant have sex for like 6 weeks, that would kill me, has anyone gone through this at a late age and can tell me how it was

 

[prince Albert]

Why would you want to get circumcised?

 

[SyncMaster]

Don't do it please.... you'll regret it the rest of your life.

 

[dfurs660]

First, this is a pro-foreskin part of the board so you're not going to get any encouragement.

I'll tell you this though; Unless there is any medical reason to do so, don't. It's such a blessing to be normal and natural. If you get circumcised, your penis will be uglier, it'll be MUCH less sensitive, and yes, at first, it will probably hurt.

You'll regret it. Seriously.

 

[TomdW]

Why would you want to lose some feeling in your penis?

 

[MDC]

Unless you have serious medical issues that can only be solved with circumcision, it would make even less sense than removing your earlobes.

 

[DrEaMzOf8]

alright thanks guys, i was just thinking about it, i never really had a special reason, no medical condition or none of that. well i guess i wont be thinking about it anymore, i always thought that my dick would look better if it was, but its a done issue now.

 

[TomdW]

Glad to hear it. You've made the right decision.

 

[Rude_God]

I have also been thinking about it.
But I have a good reason, my foreskin is really tight and a lot of the time its really sore after sex, and sometimes during.
And now I've started Penis Enlargement it also gets sore after that.
All manner of creams and stuff I've tried haven't really helped.
It's typical state is raw and inflamed. Not much fun.

 

[German Stallion]

Well, here is a different take on this: I have worked in the hospital over the years and have seen a lot of adult circumcisions. It is not that bad. Hurts, I am sure but it goes away quickly. The issue is that many, many on this forum have had bad circumcisions. They were cut as infants and the circumcision was close and tight. I was circumcised as a child and had a very loose and "excellent" circumcision. I have heard it was/is called a "german cut." I don't think that all circumcision is bad. Since doing Penis Enlargement I have restored my foreskin totally but really have had issues with it. I am over the issues and it is fine now, I accept it. But I liked being circumcised and my loose cut was comfortable and I didn't have a problem. GS

 

[MDC]

Rude God,
Have you tried a stretching routine along with steroid ointment? I believe the standard regiment is to apply the ointment twice per day for a few days, then to combine it with regular stretching. In a few weeks, you should notice some relief.

I don't know which ointments work best, but betamethasone is the one I saw recommended for this.

Have you consulted a doctor yet?

 

[RonJLow]

my foreskin is really tight...
All manner of creams and stuff I've tried haven't really helped

You need to actively stretch. I'm working on a concept to help someone in your situation.

Contact me if you'd like to help and would be willing to test prototypes.

-Ron Low
[words=http://TLCTugger.com/MOS]TLCTugger[/words].com

 

[Rude_God]

Hey thanks for the replies guys.
Yeah I have tried steroid creams like eumovate, sometimes they help but not always.
Sure I would be willing to try out any prototype routine you might have in mind.

 

[wonder1]

Shame about your position.

Short term you will think it is better, you will be under the illusion that your penis is bigger (especially the head). Then it will get progressively less sensitive and you'll end up regretting it.

If you do go through with it, discuss the various circumcision types with the surgeon, perhaps opting for a lose circumcision and keeping the frelum intact.

 

[ggogeta]

I personally have a frenelum that is too small... The skin wil expand enough, but the friggin frenelum won't stretch enough and it just plain huts when erect and skin is under the glan. Is there some tretment for that? Can the frenelum be stretched, just like the whole Penis Enlargement process?

Thanks

 

[MDC]

ggogeta,
I think that the same treatment would be recommended. Apply the steroid ointment or creme twice a day, and combine with frequent manual stretching.

You should be able to tell if it's helping within a few weeks.

 

[Nelly Gay]

Circumcision as an adult is complex surgery and there can be many problems ,both cosmetic and functional. Do not undertake surgery lightly and see the best surgeons as it is so easy to botch the job...
I had a circ at 30 and needed two emergency operations and ,even now, the effect is not wonderful! That said, I have no real regrets about having a circumcision even if cosmetically I do not pass muster...
The main problem is erections poist-op and stitches can come out.
The biggest difficulty is knowing how much tissue to remove.

Keith.
2" and holding.
4" diameter.
Grower and not shower.

 

[ggogeta]

Circumcision as an adult is complex surgery and there can be many problems ,both cosmetic and functional. Do not undertake surgery lightly and see the best surgeons as it is so easy to botch the job...
I had a circ at 30 and needed two emergency operations and ,even now, the effect is not wonderful! That said, I have no real regrets about having a circumcision even if cosmetically I do not pass muster...
The main problem is erections poist-op and stitches can come out.
The biggest difficulty is knowing how much tissue to remove.

Keith.
2" and holding.
4" diameter.
Grower and not shower.

Welcome on the forum man

 

[ggogeta]

ggogeta,
I think that the same treatment would be recommended. Apply the steroid ointment or creme twice a day, and combine with frequent manual stretching.

You should be able to tell if it's helping within a few weeks.

Basically you are saying the frenelum can be stretched permanently?

 

[Vectormatch]

Basically you are saying the frenelum can be stretched permanently?

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/showthread.php?t=210347

Yes, all skin can be stretched, it just takes a long time and isn't that comfortable. Read this link on how to go about stretching it out.

Don't get circumcised unless there are major problems.

 

[prince Albert]

Circumcision as an adult is complex surgery and there can be many problems ,both cosmetic and functional. Do not undertake surgery lightly and see the best surgeons as it is so easy to botch the job...
I had a circ at 30 and needed two emergency operations and ,even now, the effect is not wonderful! That said, I have no real regrets about having a circumcision even if cosmetically I do not pass muster...
The main problem is erections poist-op and stitches can come out.
The biggest difficulty is knowing how much tissue to remove.

Keith.
2" and holding.
4" diameter.
Grower and not shower.

Keith,why did you choose to get cut at 30?

 

[Rude_God]

ggogeta

I used to have the same problem, until I tore my frenulum while having sex with a tight girl. It was scary and embarassing at the time and I worried I'd done some real damage. But it healed up perfectly within a day, and now there's no problem with it.

So maybe you just need to go rip yourself on a really tight girl! Beats stretching for hours on end....

 

[Nelly Gay]

Why was i circumcised at 30 ?
Ironically, for cosmetic reasons as I prefer the look of the circumcised penis !

 

[ggogeta]

ggogeta

I used to have the same problem, until I tore my frenulum while having sex with a tight girl. It was scary and embarassing at the time and I worried I'd done some real damage. But it healed up perfectly within a day, and now there's no problem with it.

So maybe you just need to go rip yourself on a really tight girl! Beats stretching for hours on end....

Allright! but it's not cool to get tore man Are you saying once you get tore, the next time it does not hurt again?

 

[Nelly Gay]

Tearing the fraenulum is bloody and alarming.
Though it heals, the band of tissue also often contracts due to the scarring which creates further problems !
I think our mutual friend is bullshitting ... Superman or what ?

 

[ggogeta]

Tearing the fraenulum is bloody and alarming.
Though it heals, the band of tissue also often contracts due to the scarring which creates further problems !
I think our mutual friend is bullshitting ... Superman or what ?

That's what I was thinking :s

 

[Vectormatch]

There is a surgery to disconnect the frenulum. Not that it is without risk and loss of sensentivity. So, if it is ripped, it could be possible that it would heal the same way as the surgery would.

 

[ggogeta]

There is a surgery to disconnect the frenulum. Not that it is without risk and loss of sensentivity. So, if it is ripped, it could be possible that it would heal the same way as the surgery would.

I guess I'd like to get it off completely... it's really too small and hurts bad whenever I have sex. At least it's another story with condoms (everything's good w/ a condom, I guess not everyone would say so ).

 

[Nelly Gay]

You ought to try to save your fraenulum if at all possible as it is the most sensitive part of the penis and is full of rich nerve endings.
The fraenulum can be divided to lengthen it.
Most progressive surgeons will endeavour to keep your "banjo string" intact.

 

[ggogeta]

You ought to try to save your fraenulum if at all possible as it is the most sensitive part of the penis and is full of rich nerve endings.
The fraenulum can be divided to lengthen it.
Most progressive surgeons will endeavour to keep your "banjo string" intact.

All I want is no more tears:s

 

[Nelly Gay]

All I want is no more tears:s

"No more tears" was A Barbra Streisand song from 1979.
Subtitled "Enough is enough".
That said see your Doctor.
Do you lubricate ?

 

[ggogeta]

I use no lubricant, except for the women's but I just thought it was not normal that my frenelum was so small. I've seen some pictures on [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words] sites and those guys get it all the way down. I barely can get in just under the gland. SO I was logically thinking about surgery.

But as I said, a pre-lubifricated condom + an excited women means no problem at all for me.

 

[Rude_God]

"I think our mutual friend is bullshitting"

Why would I lie? :s That would be a bizzare thing to just make up.
I can show you a pic, if you really want.

"Are you saying once you get tore, the next time it does not hurt again?"

Pretty much. I'm saying once its torn, it's torn. The tight band that forms the frenulum is basically ruptured, so the tension in the ligament, and resulting pain, is just gone.
Yes it is bloody, and alarming. I thought I'd done some permanent damage, and envisioned weeks, if not months, of no sex.
But it healed up just fine, and now sex is less painful as well.
I was worried that aesthetically it would look bad but it looks better than it did before to be honest.

I'm not saying actually TRY and go out and get injured. I'm just saying if it does happen, and it may be likely if you have a tight frenulum as well, then don't worry about it. When it happened to me, I was in a panic until I saw my GP (and so was my girlfriend). So if it happens, save yourself the anxiety. Btw my GP informed me that it is a fairly common thing to happen to guys, and there's no adverse effects.

 

[ggogeta]

Common? nice then Dang I don't know what to do now

 

[Nelly Gay]

At least have a medical opinion ....
Some overly tight frenums can be physically stretched thereby avoiding any surgery.
The surgery iteself would be done under local and involve "a snip" and some stitches.
If you do treat your frenulum the results of healing can be disastrous...
Tightening and fore-shortening.
Steroid creams may help ?

 

[ggogeta]

"I'll see what I can do"

 

[desiel_dick]

wow that is gonna hurt so fuckin bad...im glad my mom got my circumsized when i was born...DOc did a great job

 

[Nelly Gay]

wow that is gonna hurt so fuckin bad...im glad my mom got my circumsized when i was born...DOc did a great job

Photographic proof, please !

 

[RonJLow]

Photographic proof, please !

Proof of a good cut job? You can see my dink at my web site. I'd say my doctor did an expert job, too, but a mutilation done with precision is still a mutilation. He took half my sexual nerve endings and threw them in the trash.

If he wasn't a feeble retired old fuck who didn't know any better in 1962, I'd crack him in the head with a bat (I know where he lives).

 

[ggogeta]

I'd crack him in the head with a bat (I know where he lives).

omg ! lol

 

[Anoxia4play712]

well, I didn't have time to sit here and read through all of the replies to this topic...I'll do that a bit later...so forgive me if I mention something that someone else already has.

I am 19 years old (turned 19 in July of 2005) and I got my circ done in October. It's something I have always wanted done...and the only reason I didn't have it done when I was a child was because my mother didn't think it was necessary...I just found it odd because every male in my family has been circumsized...and yet I was not...but whatever!

I had the surgery (it was elective since I had no medical problems that forced me to have the procedure done) in the morning..the surgery took about 30 or 40 minutes...I had general anesthetic...so I was completely out...I woke up in the recovery room...sat in the bed for about 5 minutes waiting to fully wake up...had some water...the nurse wheeled my bed to the bathroom so I could get dressed, and I put my pants on, my shirt, laced my boots (22 eyelets, mind you!) and I didn't feel a thing...no discomfort at all.

I had a pain killer perscription filled and only took 1 pill during my entire recovery period of about a month. There was never any pain whatsoever...I only took the one pill on the first day I was actually going to be up walking around for long distances...just as a precaution...but I didn't even need it. The only thing that caused little discomfort were the middle of the night erections which kind of pulled at the stitches and woke me up...but it didn't "hurt"...

So, basically, it all boils down to your pain tolerence...but I do not regret having it done at all...you DON'T lose all of the feeling...hell, it's been 5 months since my op and my glans is still sensitive! So, if you really want to go for it...do it! You wont regret it. I got it done because I wanted it...not for any other reason.

If there's still anything you want to know...just drop me a line and I'll answer your questions. Take care.

- Sean

 

[ggogeta]

What would be the advantages you get from being circumcised vs being uncut? (Except the satisfaction it has been made.)

 

[Anoxia4play712]

What would be the advantages you get from being circumcised vs being uncut? (Except the satisfaction it has been made.)

Well, I don't know, really...I don't look at it in terms of advantages vs. disadvantages. I just got it done because I had always wanted it done...it's weird growing up uncut when the norm is guys who are cut.

Most people look at it like this: They think that girls prefer "cut" guys (speaking in terms of women in the states...as I know it's still fairly common to be uncut in most european countries) Most people...including doctors agree that it is easy to take care of, in terms of how clean it is...as you know, if you are uncut, you have to retract your foreskin and clean it very well in the shower (I personally never found this to be a problem, though...staying clean was always easy) Some people argue that it is easy to catch and transmit STD's with the foreskin intact...although there is no proof of this...Some people also believe that having the foreskin intact can make it easy to suffer from penile cancer...people believe that smegma is linked to causing penile cancer...and, of course, smegma is no longer produced when the foreskin is removed...

there are all sorts of things that can be looked at as advantages and disadvanatges...depedning on how you look at them. I just think being cut looks better...but it really just comes down to personal preference...I have not suffered any problems since having my circ...it was probably the best decision I ever made! )

- Sean

 

[ggogeta]

Well thanks for those points man I wanted that kind of feedback from a guy who has been uncut before.

great

 

[Anoxia4play712]

Well thanks for those points man I wanted that kind of feedback from a guy who has been uncut before.

great

no problem...I'm always up for offering my 2 cents when it comes to a discussion such as this. I did a lot of research on every topic possible before I went under the knife...so I learned quite a bit in the month leading up to my surgery

- Sean

 

[ggogeta]

I hope to see you fooling around man

 

[RonJLow]

it's been 5 months since my op and my glans is still sensitive!

No offense, friend, but I thought I was fine for the first 30 or so years of my life. The numbing is cumulative. Get back to us in 10 or 20 years.

 

[RonJLow]

smegma is no longer produced when the foreskin is removed...

It no longer accumulates. You still shed skin cells, and to an extent your skin still exudes the same emolients, they just rub off on your clothes and bedding.

 

[RonJLow]

I have not suffered any problems since having my circ...it was probably the best decision I ever made!

You have to pardon my fascination with this. Let's completely ignore the state of your glans and remaining skin for now. So you're saying that the part that has been removed gave you no pleasure at all?

You do realize that most intact guys would say that their frenulum must be the closest thing to a woman's clitoris that a man can know. You might know that Taylor et al have shown conclusively that over 50% of the nerve endings of the penis are in the part of the skin tube and frenulum that are removed in the typical circumcision. You most certainly formerly experienced the sensation of your skin rolling and unrolling (with manual stimulation) at the extreme point of the skin tube where the unique J-receptors reside (of which you would now have none). You don't miss the way a partner used to plunge his/her tongue between your skin tube and glans and swirl around, tickling two surfaces at once?

Like 80% of the world's men you had a perfectly normal penis, no hygiene difficulties, healthy as can be; and now after this amputation, there's nothing you miss?

It really defies belief. Are you for real? Have you ever been diagnosed with body dismorphic disorder or similar?

 

[Nelly Gay]

You have to pardon my fascination with this. Let's completely ignore the state of your glans and remaining skin for now. So you're saying that the part that has been removed gave you no pleasure at all?

You do realize that most intact guys would say that their frenulum must be the closest thing to a woman's clitoris that a man can know. You might know that Taylor et al have shown conclusively that over 50% of the nerve endings of the penis are in the part of the skin tube and frenulum that are removed in the typical circumcision. You most certainly formerly experienced the sensation of your skin rolling and unrolling (with manual stimulation) at the extreme point of the skin tube where the unique J-receptors reside (of which you would now have none). You don't miss the way a partner used to plunge his/her tongue between your skin tube and glans and swirl around, tickling two surfaces at once?

Despite the major problems post-operatively with my circumcision I too have no regrets about having the operation. I prefer the look of a circumcised penis and cannot understand the almost-biblical tirades that the pro-foreskin campaigners unleash.
My penis does not look "perfect" but at least the glans is fully exposed and that pleases me.
You do not have to have body dismorphia to have operations.
Some might question the men on this site (who all seem to have admirable dongs) continually "expanding their horizons".
I have heard of silicone injections to the shaft and scrotal sack ?!!

Like 80% of the world's men you had a perfectly normal penis, no hygiene difficulties, healthy as can be; and now after this amputation, there's nothing you miss?

It really defies belief. Are you for real? Have you ever been diagnosed with body dismorphic disorder or similar?