Foreskin Frustration

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Hey all,
first off I'm not sure if this is the apprpriate place to post this thread, but I wasn't sure. I posted the same thread in FR just incase. Please remove this thread if you think it should be here.

So, not been a member very long, but I have been following the forums and have started Penis Enlargement. been Penis Enlargementing for a couple months now, haven't been measuring, but it seems like its working, I'm kinda just doing it also for overall [words=https://shop.mattersofsize.com/products/sizegenetics-penis-extender]penis health[/words] or whatever. But I'm uncircumcised, and last week I went to a urologist, because when my penis is erect, my foreskin doesn't fully retract. So, stretching is pretty difficult, since its mainly jsut skin I'm stretching.. Anywayz, the doc pushed pretty heavily on circumcision, even though I was kinda hoping that was a last resort, and then he said most of his patients reported increased sensitivity, which is contrary to everything I've heard. He kinda said circumcision is the only option. If i went under the knife, he said no sexual activity for four weeks, which probably means no Penis Enlargement either, I didn't mention Penis Enlargement to him, he seemed like he would've been the type that was anti-Penis Enlargement and gotten angry or something. Kinda had the "my way or the highway attitude", which I guess is legit, since he is a doctor. But still, he was kinda a typical L.A. prick, nah jus jokin. Anyways, I'm worried that I would lose all my gains and stuff. I apologize that this is so poorly written, i've been lacking sleep lately. I'm basically just looking for any advice, especially from those who have been circumcised as adults/teens, and what you would recommend in this situation. Or, if anyone can recommend any good urologists L.A.. Although that just sounds like I'm searching for an answer that fits my taste, which prolly isn't good. Whatever thanks. I'm 20, btw.
 
I highly recommend circumcision because I have benefited greatly from it. I was circumcised last year, at 26, after many years of consideration. There were many factors in my decision: cosmetics (my own personal preference of look, as well as girl's impression of a uncircumcised penis--very few girls liked an uncut guy due to reasons such as hygiene, inconvenience of holding the foreskin back during oral sex or how it glides), sexual experience, hygiene, etc. Also, foreskin has made using Penis Enlargementing devices and methods more difficult since creating a good grip is not so easy.

What you have seems to be a condition called Phimosis and circumcision will resolve this. You could do stretching techniques on the foreskin, but that just gives you more foreskin and that may not be what you want.

When speaking to your urologist about the procedure which is extremely fast in terms of surgery procedures make sure you express how you want the results to look: tight or loose circumcision, etc. Mine only took 30 minutes or less. To a surgeon, it is the easiest of surgeries: He's just basically taking away a section of excess skin and sewing the incisions.

Don't even consider sex or Penis Enlargement during your 6 week healing process because you're risking breaking the incisions and getting infections. Wait till you are completely healed.

As far as sensitivity, I find it just as sensitive as before, but sex to be more gratifying because you are not being stimulated by the foreskin gliding back and forth during sex, but rather you are feeling the vaginal muscles of the girl, etc. There are many reasons I find the circumcision procedure to be totally worth it. And since you have that phimosis condition, insurance should cover it.
 
lili9zero;324394 said:
I highly recommend circumcision because I have benefited greatly from it. I was circumcised last year, at 26, after many years of consideration. There were many factors in my decision: cosmetics (my own personal preference of look, as well as girl's impression of a uncircumcised penis--very few girls liked an uncut guy due to reasons such as hygiene, inconvenience of holding the foreskin back during oral sex or how it glides), sexual experience, hygiene, etc. Also, foreskin has made using Penis Enlargementing devices and methods more difficult since creating a good grip is not so easy.

What you have seems to be a condition called Phimosis and circumcision will resolve this. You could do stretching techniques on the foreskin, but that just gives you more foreskin and that may not be what you want.

When speaking to your urologist about the procedure which is extremely fast in terms of surgery procedures make sure you express how you want the results to look: tight or loose circumcision, etc. Mine only took 30 minutes or less. To a surgeon, it is the easiest of surgeries: He's just basically taking away a section of excess skin and sewing the incisions.

Don't even consider sex or Penis Enlargement during your 6 week healing process because you're risking breaking the incisions and getting infections. Wait till you are completely healed.

As far as sensitivity, I find it just as sensitive as before, but sex to be more gratifying because you are not being stimulated by the foreskin gliding back and forth during sex, but rather you are feeling the vaginal muscles of the girl, etc. There are many reasons I find the circumcision procedure to be totally worth it. And since you have that phimosis condition, insurance should cover it.
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Some good points plus I think circumcised men make Penis Enlargement length gains faster than their counterpart. It seems that foreskin can be a nuisance in Penis Enlargement.
 
It's a tough question. I am uncut and really like having my foreskin. My girlfriends have always been into it. I seem to get more penis attention from it since a lot of girls in the US haven't seen one before.

I have had people suggest getting it cut before. To me it would be like a girl having her labia cut off. It's just part of me.

Try the stretching first and see how it goes. If it doesn't appeal to you go for the cutting.

I always retract my foreskin and wash with soap and water and maintain a very clean cock. I would also suggest working on your hygene while your stretching it out.

It's a pretty big decision to get cut later in life. It's definately removing something that is part of you.

I'm sort of sitting here thinking of all the guys who are trying to regrow theirs these days, it really comes down to a personal preference.
 
Wonder what girls like more, uncut or cut?
 
Theres had been a bit of a negative stigma atached to foreskin in the US. It is understandable to single out that which is not seen as "normal." Whats curious is that most people had no choice in the matter.

As for you, surgery seems like an extreme measure that should be taken as a last result. IMO lots of doctors are all too eager too operate without acknowledging alternatives (perhaps because surgery earns them money)Im no expert, but I do remember there were alternatives to surgery mentioned in these forums. Supra had this link in his sig: http://www.gfs.platigo.com/index.html
 
doublelongdaddy;324800 said:
Wonder what girls like more, uncut or cut?
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I think that stats are of no use on this one. It all depends on which kind of girl you happen to land.

My current gal is a pro uncut girl but she's had her share of cut. She did a lot of research on it while pregnant years ago and came to find out that in our local area only 40% of male infants were getting cut.
 
AdmiralLongDong;325072 said:
I think that stats are of no use on this one. It all depends on which kind of girl you happen to land.

My current gal is a pro uncut girl but she's had her share of cut. She did a lot of research on it while pregnant years ago and came to find out that in our local area only 40% of male infants were getting cut.
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Interesting. I gathered it would be closer to 90%...Learn something new everyday.
 
Yeah I thought it was a weird stat. I think it is influnced by the number of Mexicans here. Being from a catholic country and circumcision being considered a jewish ritual by the catholic church most Catholics around the world are not cut. Doesn't make sense since Jesus was a jew.
 
AdmiralLongDong;325109 said:
I think it is influnced by the number of Mexicans here.
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Why is this? Mexicans are largely uncut?
 
I think most immigrants from other countries are predominantly uncut. I could be wrong about mexicans.

Of course Muslims and jews are the exception to this.

Although circumcision is common in the USA today, I believe that in western culture it originated during the victorian era to keep young men from masturbating, as the foreskin is kind of like having a little pussy attached to your dick. All you gotta do is lube it and go.

The irony about the victorian era is that prostitution was at an all time high when everyone was running around pretending to be a virgin.

I don't think Britts are cut. I'm sure most continental europeans aren't either.
 
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I love my foreskin, and have never had any complaints from women. Most jusy say wow I thought it would be different, I like it, your clean, ect ect.

I would never get cut nor if I had a son would he be cut. It should be your choice not some fuckin doctors choice because it happens to be the popular thing to do among hockey moms. Whats the difference between my cock and a pit bull??? The lipstick around the head!!!
 
Thanks for all the replies, I really do appreciate it. Is there anyone here that used to be uncut and got cut as an adult? I talked to one guy, and he gave me his perspective, but I'm just trying to get some more advice on what I should do.

Like I said, the urologist i saw was entirely pro-circ, he practically scoffed when I asked about any alternatives, but I don't know if I really want that. Crazy-ed, wasn't it kinda a pain in the ass dealing with people giving you BS about your foreskin? I know that aesthetics would be a slightly vain reason to get cut, but that would be part of the reason for me. And, its a really big pain in the ass for me to stretch with.

I know that I'm the one that will have to ultimately make the choice for myself, but I still would appreciate all the advice i could get, since that will help me form a decision, and this decision seems like a pretty important one. Thank you once again.
 
Yeah I am uncut, 23 years old and have recently been wondering about circumcision. For most of my life I always thought uncut penises were like mine but I saw that they could retract the foreskin and I couldn't because it was so tight. Now I feel weird about showing my dick. I feel like my dick would be/could be bigger and longer without the tight foreskin stopping it and would be more hygienic for me but afraid of anything sharp going near my beloved penis.
 
i think getting cut, and actually having a choice in doing so, is ludacris.

the only reason someone would voluntarily do that to themselves is becuase they are uninformed and ignorant of the connotatins of their actions.

don't mean to offend, but make an informed decision.

www.circumstitions.com
 
I am pro-circumcision because I lived 26 years with a normal, uncut penis, but did not feel comfortable with it. There are many factors in my decision to undergo circumcision: cosmetics, hygiene, comfort, sexual enhancement, easier Penis Enlargementing, among other reasons.

I wish I was circumcised as a child because there are more sensitive area/skin surrounding the head and that should enhance sexual experiences. Getting cut as an adult does actually take away a section of sensitive skin (the foreskin rolled is very sensitive). But sex, I find, after circumcision is more comfortable and pleasurable as during penetration (vaginal, for instance) the penis is getting friction and stimulation directly from the vaginal walls. When uncut, the foreskin glides back and forth and if you do not hold back skin at the base, you are often getting stimulation from your foreskin gliding back and forth, and less of the vaginal walls. Best explanation of this is:

Take a long sleeve shirt and take your other hand and stroke your hand/arm. Notice how the sleeve rolls back and forth and you are not feeling the other arm as much?

Now, remove that sleeve and do the same motion. You will notice that you are feeling the arm (now without the sleeve) much better.

During oral sex, one has to hold down the foreskin if stimulating the head is what you're after (but isn't that the point?) otherwise it just glides back and forth. The majority of girls in America (I believe) are more comfortable with a cut penis. This is a cultural thing so I think lots of minorities like myself (Asian) often go against the procedure. I think most non-old fashion are getting cut more now, but can't be too sure. In my family and relatives, many have elected not to circumcise--though I do plan on circumcising my boys should I am privileged to have children.

The cut/uncut debate is a vigorous debate everywhere, even on Youtube. The procedure is not barbaric nor is it mutilation! That argument is just stupid because there are health and hygiene benefits to the procedure. Mutilation is if the procedure involves cutting off the head, but that is not what it is aimed at. The debate should be education--educating the parent on pros/cons of the procedure and let them decide.

I've highlighted some points here from my perspective and experience. There will be disagreements, but remember, I have experienced BOTH uncut and cut. Someone dared say that I am jaded in noticing the differences and benefits of the procedure because it is only 1 year since I had it done. Like I should give it more time. He considers I am warped in feeling the way I feel! I refused to reply because it makes it is just a waste of time to argue with someone like that.
 
tyandhisrod;325195 said:
name some health and heigene issues, becuase i am confident that they are all myths.
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I thought this too. There are plenty of places on the human body that need to be cleaned that may be difficult to reach but we do it, I gather the penis, uncircumcised, is much the same. Soap, water? Not too demanding.

I like the way a uncircumcised penis looks. I think it makes it appear much larger. As a matter of fact, I was about to start a thread about this...go figure.
 
mrmr;325147 said:
Crazy-ed, wasn't it kinda a pain in the ass dealing with people giving you BS about your foreskin?

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Of course especially when I was young. I would always face towards the wall while I undressed in the locker rooms. because I did get laughed at before.

Girls were never the problem, I'd always be hard before they took my pants off, and I would help them, meanwhile I would pull my foreskin back so It almost look like I was cut, a few women did not even notice. But I do have somewhat lose foreskin, and I think that come from playing with my dick all my life. I used to stand in the shower and see how long my foreskin would stay retracted while limp, shit starting at like 5 years old when I noticed I was different than all the other guys.

I love how the foreskin slide back and forth over my head it feels sooo damn good. I could not have it any other way.
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Im uncut and I love it. Never use lube when I jelk and I feel that it is much more intense than lubed up jelk. U can get a better grip. Ive been seriously Penis Enlargementing for about 3 months now and went from 7" to 8" in length and from 5.25" girth to almost 6" in that same time period. So I dont think its held me back from gaining. As far as cleaning goes... well if your clean your clean. meaning if u take a shower everyday and have access to body wash or soap etc. then why should ur dick be dirty?? Ive never had trouble with my higene in that department and in general. pull the skin down and wash it man. I am actualy Colombian and what I can tell u is that a lot of people there are uncut. So I would assume that its probaly like that in most of Latin America as well; seeing that u were talking about Mexico. I like the way my dick looks I would never cut that bad boy up :)
 
Don_leon7;325623 said:
Im uncut and I love it. Never use lube when I jelk and I feel that it is much more intense than lubed up jelk. U can get a better grip. Ive been seriously Penis Enlargementing for about 3 months now and went from 7" to 8" in length and from 5.25" girth to almost 6" in that same time period. So I dont think its held me back from gaining. As far as cleaning goes... well if your clean your clean. meaning if u take a shower everyday and have access to body wash or soap etc. then why should ur dick be dirty?? Ive never had trouble with my higene in that department and in general. pull the skin down and wash it man. I am actualy Colombian and what I can tell u is that a lot of people there are uncut. So I would assume that its probaly like that in most of Latin America as well; seeing that u were talking about Mexico. I like the way my dick looks I would never cut that bad boy up :)
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Damn son, nice work! Great gains for 3 months! You may beat my gains of 2" in 6 months. You already crushed my initial girth gains.
 
I always hate when it comes to comparison discussions. Everyone has to get in and say "I like (blank choice), you should too".

I am uncut, it works for me. If I was cut then that would work for me too. It's all about what you are used to.

Your doctor is cut, he thinks cut is normal. Well for him it is. It probably isn't for you.

My biggest advice to the OP is to try stretching that foreskin out by hand without doing surgery. I noticed my Pe is limited because my foreskin is tight around the opening and when I pull it back it clamps my shaft. I have been grabbing it with my fingers and pulling my opening apart to stretch it.

Get some kind of lube and lube the inside of your foreskin and then start pulling it back. Pulling the skin back is how uncut guys jerk off. It's a natural fake pussy attached to your cock. Start using it.

If you have some infection issues. Go to a health food store. Ask the person there what they would advise you to do as far as a natural ointment. I might be tempted to try tea tree oil as it has natural antibiotic properties. It comes in an oil and oils are good for softening skin so it would help your foreskin stretches.

I would hold off on surgery. Once you do the surgery it's a done deal. Explore your options.
 
Doctor007;325707 said:
I gain about .5 inch in length a month, just been off for a few months, need to get back in the game.
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Six inches in a year:)
 
AdmiralLongDong;325716 said:
I always hate when it comes to comparison discussions. Everyone has to get in and say "I like (blank choice), you should too".

I am uncut, it works for me. If I was cut then that would work for me too. It's all about what you are used to.

Your doctor is cut, he thinks cut is normal. Well for him it is. It probably isn't for you.

My biggest advice to the OP is to try stretching that foreskin out by hand without doing surgery. I noticed my Pe is limited because my foreskin is tight around the opening and when I pull it back it clamps my shaft. I have been grabbing it with my fingers and pulling my opening apart to stretch it.

Get some kind of lube and lube the inside of your foreskin and then start pulling it back. Pulling the skin back is how uncut guys jerk off. It's a natural fake pussy attached to your cock. Start using it.

If you have some infection issues. Go to a health food store. Ask the person there what they would advise you to do as far as a natural ointment. I might be tempted to try tea tree oil as it has natural antibiotic properties. It comes in an oil and oils are good for softening skin so it would help your foreskin stretches.

I would hold off on surgery. Once you do the surgery it's a done deal. Explore your options.
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That is a damn good call.
 
You can try stretching the foreskin. Personally I had phimosis in my early teens, my doc prescribed a topical steroid cream, my foreskin was free before I got halfway down the container. Be sure to ask your doctor about non-surgical methods, they don't always work, but they are definitely worth a shot.

If you need surgery but want to keep your foreskin, ask about Preputioplasty.
 
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Cut is definitely an American & religious thing.

I'm from New Zealand & I've been playing rugby for around 15 years & in the showers I have NEVER! (When I do glance haha) seen a circumcised penis.

We actually had this discussion at work once during a lunch break manly men & a few women, After some talk about adult entertainment & hot women we were asked who was cut or uncut out of around 30 guys we were all uncut all the women said they had never touched a circumcised cock before, maybe they need to go to America.
 
Maybe we should come to New Zealand--we cut guys would be an oddity there. When the word got around that we were cut, we might land a few hotties--just out of curiosity--like having an unusually large penis. rofl

Imagine the possibilities!! A Size-Circ Queen! Whoohooohoooo!!!
 
blacksheepnz;327428 said:
Cut is definitely an American & religious thing.

I'm from New Zealand & I've been playing rugby for around 15 years & in the showers I have NEVER! (When I do glance haha) seen a circumcised penis.

We actually had this discussion at work once during a lunch break manly men & a few women, After some talk about adult entertainment & hot women we were asked who was cut or uncut out of around 30 guys we were all uncut all the women said they had never touched a circumcised cock before, maybe they need to go to America.
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I have never seen an uncircumcised penis aside from my Father.
 
I now have a foreskin after stretching and doing Penis Enlargement. Because of the Peyronies and the excessive stretching, it just grew. I had a loose circumcision anyway, so it gave some help in the growth. I am totally covered all the time flaccid. Covered partial erect.

So, now I can tell you both sides. Only from a reverse experience. I honestly believe that sex is better after the skin has been restored. Don't know why but I think so. Glans is more sensitive.

There is some visual "turn on" to a covered knob. GS
 
I've had the same experience as you, G.S. Having all that loose skin left by the good doctor, (who knew what he was doing), and after five years of pulling on my dick, my glans is normally two thirds to completely covered when flaccid. When it turtles up, it looks like a completely uncircumcised penis. Best of both worlds, right G.S.?
 
doublelongdaddy;327459 said:
I have never seen an uncircumcised penis aside from my Father.
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I never saw my Dad's dick. He was very private about such things. I always wondered if he was as well endowed as I was. My guess is he wasn't.
 
blacksheepnz;327428 said:
After some talk about adult entertainment & hot women we were asked who was cut or uncut out of around 30 guys we were all uncut all the women said they had never touched a circumcised cock before, maybe they need to go to America.
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Send them on over. I would love to give them a show and tell!
 
heh, sorry, I still follow the forums, I just don't log on often. Thank you though, I really appreciate all the feedback I've recieved. Anyways, nothings really happened. I just continue to Penis Enlargement, and stretch and have been applying cortisone cream to it, but its not helping much. If anyone knows of a steroid cream that is more effective I would be very grateful if you shared that information. The docs all want to cut, and I'm a little apprehensive about that, despite the fact that it would make me "normal" here in the USA. thanks again.
 
Dont do it man, there wasnt really enough detail on WHY youre foreskin is not retracting during sex. I think there is just so much confusion out there about what its actually about. screw that doctor and do some research. When i was growing up i always thought it was a ridiculous piece of skin on my weiner and never liked it. I toyed around a for a long time about getting cut and my brother actually almost did it. As time passed I got more comfortable with it then a few years ago i got on the internet and looked up as much as i could on it.

As it turns out there was so much more than i thought. First off the original reason before medical science was to reduce sexual tendencies as not having the protective sheath around your head it will desensitize over time. From what ive seen it just gets callus and coarse. I realize that if you get it cut in your 20's its gonna be mad sensitive for a long time but honestly the feeling will diminish after many years. Its the equivilent to removing a females clit hood (i might be stretching there but it seems accurate).

Also your foreskin is an organ. Has tons of veins/arteries. Not to mention how sensitive it is. and its the lubricator for your cock also, when your aroused. I know this might sound gross or mabey even shocking (mabey not) but When i get really really aroused, not just a boner it gets wet down there. if i move the skin back a bit the mucus kinda trickles out. When i get 100% erections my foreskin is still over my head but when i have sex, ontop of hers and mine natural lube it slides painlessly over the head and its all good to go.

Anyone who says getting cut is good beacuse its easier to keep clean is insane imo. Its absurdly easy to just pull it back in the shower is just give it a good scrub with soap. though you have to be gentle cause of how senstive it is.

As far as Penis Enlargement is concerned its kinda a pain in the ass cause when i stretch my hand slides off easier since i cant get a decent grip but its never been an issues. just gotta adjust a bit.
 
Yall are driving me crazy with the whole "it enhances sex thing" for christ sakes it the skin comes all the way down with your head and pernium or whatever is expose just as if you were cut.
 
goinfor11x7;327490 said:
I've had the same experience as you, G.S. Having all that loose skin left by the good doctor, (who knew what he was doing), and after five years of pulling on my dick, my glans is normally two thirds to completely covered when flaccid. When it turtles up, it looks like a completely uncircumcised penis. Best of both worlds, right G.S.?
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That is right. It took some learning on my part to deal with foreskin, but it is not hard to deal with once you learn. GS
 
DLD,
Original Poster. I just reread and realized he did repost.

For the OP, he he he, Just keep stretching. Like all Penis Enlargement, it just takes time. regarding normal penis vs. abnormal. Most girls I've dated were pretty psyched to finally get their hands on an uncut one and would give me lots of hand and mouth attention just out of curiosity. It was something to tell their girlfriends about, "hey I got a uncut one!" I wouldn't worry about what girls think.

Some girls would grab it and blow up my foreskin like a balloon. Maybe you can get a girl to add this to your stretching routine.
 
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