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Kong, thanks for the reply, it's much appreciated! =)

To answer your first question, yes, I can roll the foreskin normally. It get's a bit irritated when masturbating though. And I assume it is because of the width, or rather lack of. So I will be stretching the scar tissue as you suggested to widen the tube. =) Could you give me any advice for on how long I should do this every day? I'm quite stubborn when it comes to my health, so I won't quit with this.

I'm 26 years old. I look much older in the pics because I haven't shaved and have a lot of fat and a double chin. My weight alone can have something to do with my ED. My head is sensitive, especially the area where the frenulum and head meet. The thing is, I need constant stimulation to keep it hard.. This has of course complicated sex tremendously, and as a result I'm still a virgin. My girlfriend is understanding though, but she has kind of gotten scared that it's her fault, and it isn't. So she's afraid of even trying because of our "failed" attempts. But hey, it's her first time too... we have tried before, but I couldn't penetrate her, the reasons being: a) she's tight as hell. ;) b) I have quite good girth. c) I went a bit too limp. :(

I have told her that we should start over, to start with light stuff just cuddling naked and doing mutual masturbation or something, and she agreed. However, we agreed to this when we didn't have so much time together anymore, as she went to study abroad as planned. And now she is doing a summer job, abroad as well. She'll be coming back this autumn though to study in a town 100 kms from my town. And there she'll live with three other students, so no privacy there either. I'm college educated, but haven't been able to get a job in this sad country for almost two years, and I don't see a change.. and no job = no place of my own = virgin forever. :(

I dunno, sometimes I feel like throwing in the towel on everything..

oh dear, this thread went out of topic. But to get back on it.. I do think my ED is because of my weight (which is coming down now thankfully), nervousness, and the scar tissue strangling my unit. I'll work on that for a while.

Thanks for your help. =)
 
You're welcome! I am a highly sexual person, and I think everyone should have and enjoy sex as much as I do, so I always like helping when I can.

First off, you say your penis gets irritated during masturbation. Unless you are being extremely rough with yourself, it is not normal for any part of your penis to be irritated by masturbation. I hate to hear that you were operated on because of phimosis, when stretching and steroid creams will fix that, usually. Then you were operated on again to fix the fix. My advice is to stay away from the knife from here on out, if possible, because all that's doing is making more scar tissue!

If you are going to stretch the scar tissue from your surgeries, you should work on it once or twice a day for at least twenty minutes, and also make a habit of stretching it for a minute whenever you have a piss. Just pull it up into a tube, hook the tips of your index fingers in it and pull outwards. Pull until it is right on the edge of being painful, without injuring yourself. You will know it is stretching when you start to feel itching in it at odd times during the day. Also, you should apply lotions to soften it and make it more pliable. I have found that a product named Udderly Smooth is good, because it contains allantoin, which is clinically proven to stimulate skin cell growth. Doing your Penis Enlargement exercises will also help, especially jelqing.

The glans of your penis does not look like it has keratinized, so that is good. It is a healthy shiny pink. You say it is sensitive, but your frenelum appears to have been removed or altered by surgery....maybe I'm wrong, though. Anyway, some foreskin restoration will definitely help get you back to a more natural state, with looser and more comfortable skin. You should never be sore from sex or masturbation, or have problems keeping it up!

You don't look fat in the pictures. I am fat, though, and I can assure you it does not have any bearing on erectile difficulties physically, so your problem is probably more mental...anxiety, most likely. The problem is, the more you worry about it, the worse it gets, and so on...Just relax and let things happen. The mutual masturbation idea is smart, and when you are good and hard, don't think about it, just get on top and put it in. Do it quickly, without worrying about it, and once you are inside, it will kind of break that mental block being anxious about penetration. Don't even think about losing it, or hurting her cause she's tight. Women like to feel a big dick stretching them out when you first put it in, so long as they are wet.

Don't even think about throwing in the towel. You definitely do not look fat. Your penis looks very large and impressive. I mean, anything over six inches is above average, and you are well into the range of "really big" so don't sweat it. Just a little more Penis Enlargement and skin expansion, and you will be one of the "huge" guys. I have found, in my own experience, that anything over 7", and you don't even really have to try very hard to make a woman cum, which is great, because you can just relax and enjoy the pleasure of lovemaking!
 
Ah, I feel a warm feeling in my heart. You have calmed my mind. :) I'm a very sexual person too, which is why my issues with my penis and erection are even more annoying.

I'm not rough at all when masturbating, so I'm assuming it is a bit tight even after two surgeries. I'll stay away from the knife. :) I will begin stretching as you have suggested. I know it will work.. after all, Penis Enlargement has worked in the past for me, so foreskin widening shoul be no problem. =D So, the two times a day that I will stretch my foreskin, is it 20 minutes each time? I already use lotion to prevent irritation, it's called Propyless (key ingredient propylene glycol). Not sure I can find Udderly Smooth here in Sweden.

Yeah, the frenulum was removed during the second surgery, but it grew back.. being even more sensitive. ^_^ I think I'll stretch the frenulum a bit too, but I think it gets a bit of a strech already when I do the Penis Enlargement stretching.

I don't look fat? I think I do, at least in the picture from the front.. (which makes my unit look enormous BTW). Yeah, I had a feeling my ED problems are more on the mental side, because at first I didn't even get a semi-chub. But it has gotten better. If I could just be able to land a job and a place of my own.. it would make things so much easier. =) I'd like to be able to do the mutual masturbation thing and just put it in when I'm really hard. The thing that ruins it all is that I have to use a condom, and it kind of ruins the spontaneous feeling. And I don't want any small versions of me running around yet. =D

I wasn't talking about throwing the towel in Penis Enlargement-wise. I know it works.. it's the thing that I look forward to everyday. I was talking about life in general. My unemployment situation, having to live at home at my age.. it tears on you emotionally, y'know? I get depressed a lot, and I just want to scream.. I'm even applying for jobs I'm way over-qualified for, but I don't even get to come for an interview. And the countless time I've edited my CV and applications.. I've kind of lost faith in everything. :-O

Thanks again, Kong. :)
 
Yes, twenty minutes each time, if you can.

Put the rubber on while you are masturbating each other. Let her play with it a while with it on you. Try colored ones or flavored ones and let her play with it and have some fun! Don't wait til the grand moment and then stop to open the package and try to roll it onto your meat stick. Friggin with that hassle can make any guy go down a little! You're a big guy, too, so make sure you get condoms that are big enough for you. It should be snug without being uncomfortable.

My frenelum was cut away from the glans during circumcision, which really sucks that the structure is no longer functional, but there are still remnants there on the underside of my penis, in a couple different spots, so I do have a lot of sensitivity there. Still, I wonder what it would have looked and felt like if they had just left me alone!

You do look like a big guy, but not fat. I bet alot of your problems finding work is in your attitude. If you are even applying for jobs you are overqualified for, you probably need to work on your confidence and body language. You have to become a salesman for yourself. There are books you can read on how to sell yourself to an employer. Just don't get discouraged or give up, EVER! You have to find the positive in everything. I know it's hard sometimes (believe me) but the most successful people in the world are optimists. Why? They always smile and they never give up.
 
I did some stretching last night, did it for about 10 minutes. I almost burst out laughing because afterwards the colour of my foreskin resembled the colour you get when you stick a small light up your nose or in your mouth. LOL Anyway, I was very sore afterwards.. kind of felt like the soreness that I had after the surgery. Really weird to explain, did I overdo it? I shall continue experimenting with these.

Thanks for the great sex advice. I can't wait for my girl to come home.. more than 6 weeks left. *gaah*

I can imagine your frustration of not knowing how it would look like intact. But it sounds good that the part of the frenulum you have left has sensitivity left. =)

Yeah, I know it's my attitude. I just don't know how to sound confident on the phone, and I have to do a lot of tongue flipping, having to introduce my Finnish name while talking Swedish. ^_^ The reason I'm applying for jobs that I'm over-qualified for is because the Swedish Government forces me to. You see, after you have been unemployed for a certain number of days, you have to start applying for basically any job you can handle. If you don't, you lose the unemployment insurance, and then you have no money. :-O I do know that I'm not alone, since about 30 percent of the unemployed in Sweden are college educated.

But you are right, I need to learn how to sell myself. I just don't know if I remember what I read at college. LOL So I really don't know what I know. Make sense? :) I have long struggled with becoming an optimist. It's hard, as you say. I do find things to smile about everyday, and as long as I do that, I'll survive. =)
 
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