@MCTFB
Spooky ! I read all of your comments in this thread and really felt what you tried to say.
My way of thinking and making a difference between whats "wrong" and "right" for me and for others is indeed very similar to yours.
Putting thoughts into words in such a rich, vivid and stylish way seems to come easy to you. You have an excellent sense of humor wich I like.
jakb said "Youve obviously spent alot of time, energy and thought on this. Seems a waste."
I felt it was the best read since I joined the Forum. If you really think about it jakb, MCTFB is/was the only guy so far who offered "real help" , shared deep thoughts and even shed light on possible consequences MOST Penis EnlargementOPLE WOULDN't EVER THINK ABOUT ! And even if they did they would ignore it.
MCTFB ! I said that we have a similar way of thinking and judging things , however I tend to be more pessimistic. I lost the energy to explain things to people I don't care about. I developed a hate for the stupid masses. For people who are blind by decision.
people who lie to themselves (because its the easy way out of everything) and then believe in this lie are lost souls to me. They can't be argued with.
Looking at the world , the way society developes , the way kids grow up now and the sure death of morals, belief , respect , modesty, moderation , family , truth, for the majority makes me unhappy, pessimistic.
How do you feel about the masses ? Does it make you said ? DO you even care ? Is it even possible to care ? I don't have enough tears to cry for every dead or abused child,women illustrated each and every day in the news. I see but I Ignore. Self-defense. The more you know about life in general , the less you want to know.
My way out is to make sure that I have contact with people who are free in their minds, have charakter, experience and respect for their own life.
I can learn from them alot.
You don't have to be highly intelligent to be my friend. I fear I ain't myself. Being good hearted and judging real right from real wrong is what counts to me. Also being happy and thankful for what you already have is very important. Some people are always unhappy because they forget to stop the endless chase or pursuit of happyness and realize there are already millions of reasons to be happy !
@MCTFB - I look forward to reading more of your wityful comments.
"just I have fun rolling with the punches" - I guess that is really why you post here. Sport for the intellect. YOu need output ? Do you feel lonely when you fail to explain something because the other person is blind, and ignorant ? What is your way out ?
@jakb - remember the time when you didn't have a girlfriend , yet wanted one really bad. Remember how beautyful the first date was. Her smile and giggle. How you enjoyed her company ?! Then the first time you kissed , the first time you 2 got intimate. Didn't you feel like the luckiest mofo.
Why do you need more than that ? Have you lost this feeling ? Have you lost respect for her ? Is this high , that I'm sure used to be THE BIGGEST THING IN THE WORLD at the given moment , less important to you now. Is there really any need to "top" it ?
You don't appriciate what you already have , neither does your girlfriend ! You already began looking for alternatives , for another "highs". This is greed ! There must be something wrong with your relationship. Something that used to be there , obviously is lost. The truth is (my truth , my real "right") there is no need whatsoever for a threesome. Talk to her , tell her what
MCTFB told you. See what happens. If she still insists - dump her greedy ass. Or be a slave to your dick , a slave to her pussy , screw morals , screw her and her friend , believe in a lie - learn the hard way that having fun and being truly happy (no matter how great the fun)are not the same.
@people who are active swingers: Please don't involve children in your sick worlds. Believe in your lies if you want so. Thats what you do ! Or why don't you give your daughter a good night kiss and tell her : " Hey mommy and daddy just came back from an orgy. Yes , daddy shares mommy with other men and allows them to treat her like the sick whore that she likes to be, because daddy is a sick pervert himself and also a slave to his dick. WHen you grow up I want you to be just as sick-minded as your stranger cock-sucking-mommy. Wait till she wipes that sperm from our new neighbour jack , she'll kiss yah good night too. ! "
Sick isn't it. No swinger would ever tell this to their children ?!?!?! But it would be the truth !!!!!! Of course its easier not to admit that you are perverted and lost respect for your wife/husband. Tell yourself another lie and life is fine again. Guess what its not , in reality its pathetic. Ifeel sad for children who have swinger parents as rolemodels ! Fuckin sick perverted world.