stridge said:
Damn man, you're a pretty hostile guy.
The conspiracy comments were directed towards Reber, as his posts imply that he clearly believes that Ron Paul is intentionally being squeezed out of the national spotlight. Reber takes no offense at the use of the word 'conspiracy,' but you obviously have a serious problem with it, so let's just leave it out of the conversation. Funny that you chose to get all riled up about that yet ignore every other comment I've made - despite your "sick of it all" attitude, it almsot seems like you're looking for an argument.
Since you apparently don't like it when I "spew" my point of view, I'll resist commenting on most of the content of your post. I'm strongly getting the impression that you're a fairly bitter person that really can't stand it if anybody disagrees with you, so it's probably best to leave it alone. While I don't doubt that you could tear my post to shreds if you applied your intellect to the task, I wouldn't want to trouble you with the burden of formulating a response that's anything more complicated than hurling a bunch of insults at me.
So far as me liking to talk about this stuff and needing a better outlet - not really. I have worked for multiple political campaigns as well as two members of Congress, and I also worked for a political consultancy and a lobbying firm straight out of college. I continue to be active in politics in a lot of different ways. I've pretty much been on every side of the system and I actually do know what I'm talking about. I didn't choose it for a career as it's not as lucrative as the corporate path, but I greatly enjoyed working in the field.
So far as me missing the point on the value of this or any other conversation - maybe try actually reading what I wrote. My point was that democratic politics is sustained by a civic culture, of which the fundamental component is mental engagement and interest in the system of rule. That makes conversing about politics with other people a primary foundation for the larger formal framework.
I'm not really sure how my statement of why I find something worthwhile equals me 'missing the point,' but then again I don't understand a lot of things you said. Perhaps if you didn't take every comment as a challenge (yes, I am assuming that, based on the angy and acerbic tone of your post, as would any other reasonable person), you'd be able to interpret things a little more clearly.
Here you go - again; giving more personal bullshit to reply to instead of actually giving me a chance to use the time that I may choose to allocate here to actually discuss the actual topic to further extent.
stridge said:
Damn man, you're a pretty hostile guy.
Wake up. The first two times I responded to your posts I was very civil, diplomatic, tactful and whatever else you want to call it along those lines.
Of course, when you -repeatedly- don't retain the points of my posts, merely saying your same stuff all over again as if it must be mutually exclusive to what I am saying ... and you further continue to lump Reber's thoughts with mine as one and you further assume what I am thinking or what I mean to say and you further try to frame us both as "silly" conspiracy theorists ... I am going to bluntly tell you to stop ASS-U-ME-ING - especially with such verbosity - which, when done in such a combo, illustrates quite clearly that you are in fact not really trying to understand what I am saying ... you are merely enjoying the slightest opportunity to spew as much of your views as possible.
You don't take into account how what you say is in err due to your lack of retaining and or understanding what I have already posted. You don't take into account that you are wrong when you assume my words where I have not explained them for myself. Really, it's fundamental errors that you are repeatedly making and it's turning you into an ass - despite my previous praise of you. And, this last bit of your quote here, along with the rest of your post is just you passing MORE judgment by ASS-U-ME-ing and AGAIN saying your same points over and over as if I did not already take them into account (and no matter how many times I exude that I understand your point, and that it is in fact so fundamental to anybody with a hint of political intelligence that it need not even be said, yet not mutually exclusive to my point -- you still keep failing to understand, failing to retain, failing to accept or something of the sort that makes you keep acting like you do).
Who is really being hostile when I point out that you have crossed the line in some aspect, in which case a mature man interested in mutual understanding in civil discourse would accept responsibility and apologize, and yet you persist to assume, judge, and exhaust your same points that I have already addressed ... in combination with some scathing insults that are really quite hypocritical all things considered? It's obviously a rhetorical question.
Stridge said:
The conspiracy comments were directed towards Reber....
Now you're really starting to lose my respect. This is the second time you are distorting the reality of your own words - which some people call lying - clearly to try to cover your ass to an extent because you at least want to save yourself from what you perceive as a "hit" to your precious ego.
The first time - you tossed around the word conspiracy to attempt to frame Reber and I as conspiracy theorists. Then, as I was typing my reply, you edited it out. Then, when I mentioned your use of the frame in my post - you played dumb:
stridge said:
Eesh, did I say conspiracy? I don't think I did, but if that is the case it was a poor choice of words.
Even though only minutes before you made a deliberate effort to specifically edit the word out of your posts, you acted like you had no clue that you said it and that you even thought you did not. Then, knowing the negative implications of using such a word for, essentially, character assassination, you even said that is a poor choice of words. However, only one single - on topic - post later, you used the word for the same purposes again ... clearly proving that you did not really believe it was a poor choice of words ... you just know that it reveals your attempts to character assassinate/frame the other person as a "kook" .... and like said:
PenilePersist said:
1) agitates, 2) exposes some of your mindset to be more biased than you'd like people to think.
NOW ... in this case ... you are AGAIN .... trying to distort reality/lie/cover your ass by saying "oh, I was only talking about Reber" (totally denying responsibility for, and skipping over the obvious need to apologize for, lumping Reber's thoughts and mine together as one). And, AGAIN, you were audacious enough to do this when not only did you know that you were distorting the truth of your posts ... but this time ... since I had even just then QUOTED your own words ... you were staring at proof that you couldn't edit out like you did the first time.
Here's the proof:
Stridge said:
Like I mentioned to PenilePersist, you guys are assuming that the politics you like are consistent with mainstream values. Ron Paul is a fine legislator, but most people simply aren't on board with his libertarian brand of ideology. That's not a conspiracy, it's just popular opinion. I thought Peter O'Toole should have won the Oscar this year because I think he's a great actor - but the academy voted for Forrest Whitaker. I don't understand why they didn't like O'Toole better, but I wouldn't call that a conspiracy either. Get my drift?
You guys think Ron Paul is great, so you assume there's a sinister effort to marginalize his candidacy? Well, I like John Edwards, but he's a distant third, does that mean the media is trying to screw him as well? Honestly, this is just silly.
Last but not least, you would - again - be ASS-U-ME-ing that Reber has no problem with your use of the word just because he hasn't specifically said so. Just like you were ASS-U-ME-ing what I thought about Ron Paul and that I thought his views were altogether consistent with mainstream views etc ... just like you ASS-U-ME-[ump]tions that I could probably easily count in excess of 10 other times, sometimes the same assumption - repeated - for more counts, in this single thread.
stridge said:
Reber takes no offense at the use of the word 'conspiracy,
stridge said:
but you obviously have a serious problem with it,
I do not have a problem with the word at all. You have a problem with the word. You keep assuming and using it to character assassinate and frame people as kooky or silly conspiracy theorists when they haven't explain anything relevant to you. Maybe you are more accurate to use it in response to Reber's views, but you make further err when you use it as his views are mine with "you guys" shit. Plus, it is obvious that you throw around the word to frame as kooky and negative - refusing to acknowledge that almost all organized effort of any kind is conspiracy (
conspiracy - Definitions from Dictionary.com - see definition 5 - 5. any concurrence in action; combination in bringing about a given result. )
stridge said:
so let's just leave it out of the conversation.
That may be a good idea. Or you could just use it more appropriately and without abundant assumption. After all, you said yourself:
stridge said:
[the word "conspiracy", in this usage, is]... a poor choice of words.
Of course, that was after you introduced it to the thread (only to edit it out and deny saying it a second later), AND before you used it again in a more obviously negative manner, and before you denied who you were directing it contrary to the evidence I quoted for all to see.
But, no need to assume on my part - merely observe that, if you keep up with your current trend, you'll deny the reality of all of this, neglect to take responsibility and neglect to apologize, and continue to exhaust your same redundant points that have already been addressed as if they haven't due to your lack of retaining or understanding or your pure enjoyment with reading your own posts.
If you would just stop all of this nauseating non-sense, then maybe I would actually want to expound further on the actual topic AND when I actually had the time or desire to do so I wouldn't have to waste my time replying to your unnecessary bullshit negativity and misleading and asinine comments built on your fantasy land assumptions and judgments with no effort for real understanding.... just so that we could get back to square one.
Funny that you chose to get all riled up about that yet ignore every other comment I've made
I have not at all ignored every comment you've made. I've basically already covered all of them before, and in some cases multiple times, and due to your failure to retain the points and or understand- you keep saying mostly the same shit all over again and I have largely neglected to reply because I'm tired of the circuitous discussion that only seems to be serving to fulfill your zealous desire to fill your lack of other life with reading your own posts no matter how redundant they are.
stridge said:
despite your "sick of it all" attitude, it almsot seems like you're looking for an argument.
No. I explained:
1) It's not that I think political discussion is a waste - so I am not "sick of it all". AGAIN - in other words in desperate attempt for you to SHUT THE FUCK UP with this nauseous exhaustion by FINALLY understanding my point and how it is not at all in disagreement with yours, just more complex and individual - there is only so much time and so much effect. This is not my ideal choice for either time or effect because, AGAIN - no matter how fundamentally valuable ... or as you say - AGAIN - (get it? - redundant exhaustion and failure to understand and retain my points and then with the additional hypocritical assertion that I am not understanding yours?!?!?!?) no matter what is obvious without needing to say (for anyone who has a clue about politics) that such even simple discussion in any forum by any group of people (really, registered voters to political extent and everyone else only to a militia extent of sorts) is the "primary foundation" of democratic (or - more technically accurate - republic or Democratic republic, if you know anything about government) politics in "civic culture".
2) I was clearly not looking for a fight. I felt compelled to say something and explain why I would want to hold back:
PenilePersist said:
I appreciate the intellectualism you show on occasions more than this, and I understand your views as you have explained them, and I can understand where they come from so to speak. However, as cliffhanger as it may be, and humbly expressed, you do not grasp the depth or complexity of mine in this regard that leaves me with the frustration and challenge of standing for/making points for my conclusions, which may seem fringe or extreme or whatever label you want to call it, and not being able to explain the reasons clearly enough for full comprehension without damn near writing a book, or linking to hours of documentaries or annotations of various facts, documents etc.
You have proven my point. You assumed, you labeled, you failed to retain, you failed to understand. YOU then persisted with behavior that I asked you to stop, and that deep down you knew was wrong because you even edited some of your posts, said it was a poor choice of words, and you continue to deny .... and YOU, thus, have truly shown a desire to argue. Congratulations - you have convinced me to succumb to your behavior to at least a limited extent.
3) The primary thing I am "sick of" is the way you are using the word "conspiracy" and your intent behind it - character assassination and framing things you don't understand - combined with the fact that you yet want to ASS-U-ME you do understand in the absence of explanation ... and thus make your asinine judgments and further insult .... all unnecessarily.
stridge said:
Since you apparently don't like it when I "spew" my point of view, I'll resist commenting on most of the content of your post.
Bullshit.
1) You took 5 paragraphs to reply to those 3 of mine.
2) You responded to every single point, so this was just a rhetorical attempt to frame your ego.
3) I don't mind you sharing your point at all. I actually encourage you to do whatever makes you happy, and I think you're far more of a valuable citizen than most that I observe and that is because of your desire to engage in such political discussion. It's simply that the more you post, the more you give me reason to be extremely condemning of what you are posting or the manner of how you are choosing to discuss ... since it is full of character assassination, assumption, judgments based on assumption ... and vehemently redundant points ... stemming from a lack of understanding and bias combined with a zeal of wanting to be so verbose about the topic for reasons of both fact and theory that I will avoid discussing so as to not offend.
I don't like your exhausting of points I have already addressed, and your "crying" about me not addressing them and not, essentially, telling you "you're right!" ... when the reality is I already addressed them, in some cases multiple times in varied ways ... and you just don't get it ... AND ... I think at least particular point or two is correct and made it clear that it is not mutually exclusive of the points of mine that you erroneously believe are mutually exclusive.
Circuitous discussion is a waste in itself. Add that to the fact that I already don't prefer this avenue, and I'm wondering what the hell I am even posting for (though I know why I think I am).
stridge said:
I'm strongly getting the impression that you're a fairly bitter person that really can't stand it if anybody disagrees with you, so it's probably best to leave it alone.
Wrong. I am the opposite of bitter. I thoroughly enjoy civil discourse. The thing I really can't stand is HOW you are handling the discussion, NOT your actual points. AND, we barely actually disagree about the on topic points that have been made.... if we even disagree at all ... and due to your false assumptions, character assassination and failure to retain and or understand the points that I have made .... you don't even get that the only thing we are clearly starting to disagree with is HOW to have the conversation.
stridge said:
While I don't doubt that you could tear my post to shreds if you applied your intellect to the task,
Thanks for the compliment. Too bad you followed it with this, and thus gave reason to believe you didn't mean that....:
stridge said:
I wouldn't want to trouble you with the burden of formulating a response that's anything more complicated than hurling a bunch of insults at me.
I had already troubled myself to respond to you on TWO occasions herein - wherein I both replied to specific and on topic points very civilly, even having the patience to respond to your redundancy by re-explaining my same points in other words in hopes for you to understand. The "insults" that you speak of were not even intended to be insults - they were blunt explanations of where you had clearly crossed the lines of civil, fair, discourse and actual shown no true intent to be fair and have mutual understanding ... merely intent to assume and pass judgment on those assumptions combined with your bias that leads to your character assassination and negative framing of points that you don't even understand as "silly" and such .... and where you had unfairly lumped Reber's views and mine as one .... which I then closed with the observation that you thus clearly seem to be most interest in espousing/spewing your views rather than understanding anybody elses.
It has only been your repetition of your err that has encouraged me to point it out again ... instead of being able to use what time I choose to use this thread to "trouble" myself with for more progressive conversation that may actually explain more of my points - or at least try to repeat them AGAIN in a manner that you may better understand this time.
stridge said:
So far as me liking to talk about this stuff and needing a better outlet - not really. I have worked for multiple political campaigns as well as two members of Congress, and I also worked for a political consultancy and a lobbying firm straight out of college. I continue to be active in politics in a lot of different ways. I've pretty much been on every side of the system and I actually do know what I'm talking about. I didn't choose it for a career as it's not as lucrative as the corporate path, but I greatly enjoyed working in the field.
Good for you. We are akin here in more ways than you may want to believe and in ways that I don't care to brag about - or explain. I think, though, if you are to be truly honest on this point of mine, then you would consider that this reply of yours was about your ego of not primarily wanting to validate your credibility for such discussion, but possibly for your "fairly bitter" attitude [remember those words?

] after the post I had just written and your "[inability to] stand it if anybody disagrees with you" [remember those words?

] . The most likely reality is, the only people that may even really give two shits about what we are saying here are posting in this thread. Everybody else mostly couldn't care less - if anybody else is even viewing this thread. Is all of the energy and passion and abundant content that you put into it really worth it without a better platform .... or is it just like mental masturbation to kill time ..... or in this case, our "circle jerk" ? I think the latter - regardless of how fundamentally valuable/foundational such discussion on even such small scale is - and that we both understood prior to this thread without needing it to be said.
stridge said:
So far as me missing the point on the value of this or any other conversation - maybe try actually reading what I wrote.
Hypocrite, but not exactly. The difference between us here is not that one of us read what we wrote and the other did not. We both read each other's points, and we've both echanged the following point that you were referring to:
stridge said:
My point was that democratic politics is sustained by a civic culture, of which the fundamental component is mental engagement and interest in the system of rule. That makes conversing about politics with other people a primary foundation for the larger formal framework.
I know. Like I've quite overtly implied before this post, and specifically said multiples of times within this post, we both understood this point before this thread even existed so it goes without saying. Me saying "marginal" effect is not mutually exclusive of what I called fundamental value and what you called foundational value.
Now, the difference between us has been that I understood this in making my points which caused you to make this point. And then after reading your point I explained to you in multiple ways that I understand it, but it is not mutually exclusive of my point. You simply failed to retain and or understand that last point of mine no mater how many times I said it nor how many ways I said it so you have been vehemently repeating it ad nauseum (which is actually also slightly condescending and thus insulting for you to imply that I don't even understand that ... though I never took it that way).
stridge said:
I'm not really sure how my statement of why I find something worthwhile equals me 'missing the point,'
Hopefully you get it now. I'm sorry I didn't explain it in a way that you would understand before and I'm sorry that you assumed that I just don't understand your point, that really goes without saying, so you should just keep repeating it.
stridge said:
but then again I don't understand a lot of things you said.
You got that right. We agree here, as I'm sure we would on many other points if the discussion was kept more fair and civil - which is the only thing I've been posting about as of late.
Again, I'm sorry you did not understand. Again, I'm sorry that your lack of understanding combined with your zeal to reply as if you did understand has been problematic. Please consider letting it go if you don't understand, rather than framing your posts with judgments of me based on things that you assume about me.
stridge said:
Perhaps if you didn't take every comment as a challenge (yes, I am assuming that, based on the angy and acerbic tone of your post, as would any other reasonable person), you'd be able to interpret things a little more clearly.
I've actually interpreted what you said very accurately. I've even backed it up with hard evidence and this forum corroborates it with your own words that you can no longer edit like you tried to the first time. I've proven that you have shown a trend of being audacious enough to deny this, though, as well ... which doesn't surprise me if you have worked close with politicians ... because their bullshit can break good men down enough to rub off on the good men after a while.
I have actually proven that you are the one who is having a difficult time interpreting what I am saying. You even admitted you do not understand - and I assure you it is not because my points are oxymoronic - it is because they are complex ... as I said from the start:
PenilePersist said:
as cliffhanger as it may be, and humbly expressed, you do not grasp the depth or complexity of mine in this regard that leaves me with the frustration and challenge of standing for/making points for my conclusions, which may seem fringe or extreme or whatever label you want to call it, and not being able to explain the reasons clearly enough for full comprehension without damn near writing a book, or linking to hours of documentaries or annotations of various facts, documents etc.
Lastly, I have clearly only shown interest in posting here very casually as I feel, and actually preferring to tend to many other responsibilities and not get wrapped up in this at all and advocating that there are much better ways to spend the time and effort on this topic ... and subtly implying better ways to spend the time and effort in complete unrelation to this topic. Therefore, I had actually consistently shown absolutely no desire to take this as a challenge. This post of mine here is the first one that could really even be interpreted as challenging ... only because your poor manner in relation to me pissed me off enough. On the contrary, you have clearly been zealously and strategically formulating verbose posts that scream : "I'm right! I have a lot to say about this! Listen to me! This discussion is very valuable! I'm so experienced with this! C'mon, c'mon, trouble yourself to reply to me! ".
Please excuse me for any parts where one single, ventingly therapeutic, string a scathing diatribe was used to make a point. It's is nothing very personal, just my chosen way of making the point in this instance for therapeutic reasons and to relish in the freedom of expression ... all in "heat of the moment" so to speak.
I also pledge to realize that it is incredibly difficult to convey complex meanings over the internet, with the impersonal setting and typos etc. I hope that realization is held by you as well.
Best. And, as I said before ... if you'll cease the unnecessary, maybe I will reply more on topic on some occasion where I may choose to "trouble" myself with this thread again. Please don't hold your breath, but please stop making it more of a challenge for both of us.