You mentioned worrying about pre-m.ejac. Don't worry about it. You are in the same position as every single guy in the world when it comes to the first time. I'm assuming she knows you are a virgin, so there should be no pressure to perform. Just tell her you are going to take it slow, and you if you bust a nut in first minute...just know it will get better. You'll be the man with just a bit of practice.
my soon to be wife just gave me a shocker...
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kolimuddin said:
Let me just say that I had the exact same measurement than you when starting Penis Enlargement. My LOT is 9 and I gained quite fast... now that's not my point, but I'm 19 just like you and that means you still are growing. when I hit 7,2 '' I've bottomed a girl for the first time. It's fun at first, but then if I was going to marry her, I'd have to think about not bottoming her everytime (because it hurts her), and that would suck. Lenght does not matter, but girth does. And can I say ur freakin lucky to gain girth fast because I don't and I hate being at my current size, because it looks SMALL because of my girth ( most of the time it's 5) But then again I always think my penis is small ... whatever.
What are your current stats man? And also, how old is your wife? Women tend to get her libido up as they get nearer to 30 as they start to know their own body better, and men ... well it's always high. So I would not stress on that either.
btw 6'' is bigger than average... by a good 0.5' and you're way above the 3-4 you need for point G.
Hey - I'm just reading this thread for the first time - long time lerker, very few posts so far. Just starting Penis Enlargement, 5.5 NBPenis EnlargementL x 5.5 Mid-shaft girth, a tad under six at the extreme base.
Anyhow - I can relate to this scenario. Girls have told me that they just enjoy bigger ones on their "exes", but what they really had was a fuck-buddy with a giant weiner, and the girls LIKE being treated like shit, it gets them off, making them think that they are nothing and can completely TRUST the guy to make them orgasm on command. They call it "confidence" but in reality it's just the big cock's ability to relatively easily give a pussy an orgasm - it gives the guy a lot of leverage, so to speak.
Small guys can not deliver - we can try to catch up, but frankly the big ones are BIG. It'll take a TON of Penis Enlargement to match up to the ass pounders - the only thing I can do is try to get it to a size so they dont say "Put it all the way in!" when it was fully hard and all the way in already.
BTW - I keep on hearing about these amazing GIRTHED cocks out there - like 7 inch thick "wrist thick" seems to be the consensus of what makes a women crumble. How long do you think it'll take for me to get there?
Another BTW - how are the gains?
PS: If I were you, I would put off marrying this chick - you're too young, you're heads not in the right place about her sexually, and frankly a girl that fucks around like that usually ISNT "unlucky" usually there's a huge f-in history there (abuse as a child, family termoil, drug abuse, etc); just watch out, and if she gets pregnant, insist on a DNA test before you sign anything. Individually it's not a good situation; collectively they add up to a huge red flag - the fact that you're not seeing may say a bit about your own mental state.
Best of luck - just casual advice, feel free to leave it.
Anyhow - I can relate to this scenario. Girls have told me that they just enjoy bigger ones on their "exes", but what they really had was a fuck-buddy with a giant weiner, and the girls LIKE being treated like shit, it gets them off, making them think that they are nothing and can completely TRUST the guy to make them orgasm on command. They call it "confidence" but in reality it's just the big cock's ability to relatively easily give a pussy an orgasm - it gives the guy a lot of leverage, so to speak.
Small guys can not deliver - we can try to catch up, but frankly the big ones are BIG. It'll take a TON of Penis Enlargement to match up to the ass pounders - the only thing I can do is try to get it to a size so they dont say "Put it all the way in!" when it was fully hard and all the way in already.
BTW - I keep on hearing about these amazing GIRTHED cocks out there - like 7 inch thick "wrist thick" seems to be the consensus of what makes a women crumble. How long do you think it'll take for me to get there?
Another BTW - how are the gains?
PS: If I were you, I would put off marrying this chick - you're too young, you're heads not in the right place about her sexually, and frankly a girl that fucks around like that usually ISNT "unlucky" usually there's a huge f-in history there (abuse as a child, family termoil, drug abuse, etc); just watch out, and if she gets pregnant, insist on a DNA test before you sign anything. Individually it's not a good situation; collectively they add up to a huge red flag - the fact that you're not seeing may say a bit about your own mental state.
Best of luck - just casual advice, feel free to leave it.
my dick is 8 iches and 6 around, and ill tell you this :GIRLS DONT CARE ABOUT SIZE, REally....what you got is more than enough to please a female. just be nice to her and treat her well, everything will be fine. You make it seem like 8 inches is monstrous....its big,, but not like once a girl fucks a 8 incher...forget everything, every guy after that is screwed...you smell me dog?
Or to make their boyfriends start Penis Enlargementkolimuddin said:ROFL
REALLY
I've had too many instantces where "size mattered" that it's kind of crazy IMO to say it doesnt.
It doesnt mean that every woman all the time is going only for the biggest dick they can find (not true); but it is true that women SOMETIMES wants a bigger/different penis - usually one that they know is larger/sex is better than their current mate.
It happens. It shouldnt, we hope it doesnt, but it happens quite a bit. Not saying that size is the reason for the reason for cheating, but garunteed orgasms for some women is like a drug (literally) and they'll seek it out.
It makes sense when you look at it from an evolutionary standpoint - why else would female orgams or large penis men, or the cuckold emotions so ingrained into our brain, exist if it wasnt an evolutionary response to thousands of years of genes trying to fight it all out.
It doesnt mean that every woman all the time is going only for the biggest dick they can find (not true); but it is true that women SOMETIMES wants a bigger/different penis - usually one that they know is larger/sex is better than their current mate.
It happens. It shouldnt, we hope it doesnt, but it happens quite a bit. Not saying that size is the reason for the reason for cheating, but garunteed orgasms for some women is like a drug (literally) and they'll seek it out.
It makes sense when you look at it from an evolutionary standpoint - why else would female orgams or large penis men, or the cuckold emotions so ingrained into our brain, exist if it wasnt an evolutionary response to thousands of years of genes trying to fight it all out.
Let me add some insight into this. I hear alot that for every woman, length DOES NOT MATTER AT ALL. I hear that alot, and I can tell you from experience that is not true. It is true that for the majority of girls, penetrating too deep is only painful, but 2 of the 6 girls I've been with REALLY got off on deep penetration. They loved the feeling of it just pounding the hell out of their cervix and they would cum very hard as a result. Then if you can find the right angle in a vagina you have some experience enough to get around the cervix (cds) FORGET ABOUT IT. The cervix thing I think is a rarer group of females, but I think the cds thing is pretty universal. Granted I believe girth is better overall because of the clitoral stimulation and full feeling a girl gets, but don't count length out either. Also the look of a really long dick is a psychological turn on for many women too. If you combine that with decent girth too, well thats when they start to really get scared of it.ggogeta said:
On a more contemplative thought - isnt marriage meant to be taking the other person into your life AS THEY ARE? As in, with all the flaws and problems? No one is perfect. I think the problem comes when you believe that she has to "settle" for YOU, when in fact that's EXACTLY what she'll be doing no matter who she marries.
If she cant do that and cheats, then she could never be faithful with anyone. At least that's my opinion.
If she cant do that and cheats, then she could never be faithful with anyone. At least that's my opinion.
I don't believe marriage has to be between two people who "settled" for eachother if there is real love involved. Of course everyone will have their flaws, but you accept that as part of their personality that you are in love with. Of course I think your right in saying that this is often not the case and people get married for the wrong reasons, thus our astronomical divorce rate<needkitkats said:
.bIgjOe said:I don't believe marriage has to be between two people who "settled" for eachother if there is real love involved. Of course everyone will have their flaws, but you accept that as part of their personality that you are in love with. Of course I think your right in saying that this is often not the case and people get married for the wrong reasons, thus our astronomical divorce rate<
By "settle" I mean to accept as they are, not secretly or opening hoping for much much better (which, I think people, especially women are).
We have not only an astronomical divorce rate but also an increasing rate of out of wedlock births. Now, a lot of it has to do with economic freedom, sexual freedom and such - but I wonder if it's good for a society to have so many of them. It's a tricky issue to be sure, and you cant often generalize about the causes, solutions or even is the issues involved.
Yeah, I mean consider women's suffrage has only been around for a little under 100 years, they haven't necessarily been in the game long enough to be President if you know what I mean. I think many don't know how to handle this freedom.needkitkats said:
In the days of the old west the two things a woman needed to survive were a gun and a man. This wasn't sexism, it was the way things were. They just think things have changed more than they have.
Women nowadays don't seem to understand that YES they are equal to men, but the are NOT men. Men and women are supposed to be yin and yang to eachother, balancing out eachother's weaknesses, and relying on eachother's strengths. What the hell good is it if the woman is trying to have the same strengths as the man? That is what we call unbalance, and trouble soon follows. It seems that if you point out the things that a woman is instinctively good at, and not good at your labeled as sexist or oppressive, but in the back of their minds I bet they know it to be true.
I agree with you there BigJoe. It's a hard thing to step into because of the complex and emotional politics of it - but I dont think the current system is either fair to anyone; or WORKING for that matter - the real test of any system.