My size depresses me

Yeah to be honest I am right now struggling with masturbation and adult entertainment. I heard that if you masturbate and actually chm within 2 to 3 hrs of pe before or after you can't make as quick gains. So hopefully that helps the OP. I just hate how adult entertainment can actually fill up my whole day and I am still a lonesome person. I have gone half a year without masturbating when I was 20 and I miss the health that I was in. I wasn't depressed and I spent more time exercising.
 
Kull69nirvana;725147 said:
Yeah to be honest I am right now struggling with masturbation and adult entertainment. I heard that if you masturbate and actually chm within 2 to 3 hrs of pe before or after you can't make as quick gains. So hopefully that helps the OP. I just hate how adult entertainment can actually fill up my whole day and I am still a lonesome person. I have gone half a year without masturbating when I was 20 and I miss the health that I was in. I wasn't depressed and I spent more time exercising.
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Masturbation and adult entertainment are a easy place to go when we are not feeling good about ourselves. In this condition we are looking for anyway to avoid ourselves and the problems we face by short lived gratification. After we are caught in this trap we come to a sad realization that adult entertainment is not going to solve the problems, it will make them far worse. Eliminate adult entertainment and refrain from masturbation, you have already proven to yourself how good this is. I want to see you out there enjoying life, exercising, socializing and most importantly, happy. Make a new commitment, keep yourself accountable, avoid people, places and things that cause temptation, use the Brotherhood to help you realize your goals. The adult entertainment and Masturbation Accountability thread has been a huge help for me, maybe it will also help you. Here is a link: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...sional-booth-keep-each-other-accountable.html
 
I still don't get how PE should work without adult entertainment or masturbation.
I can understand it with length, but even then there are erect stretches - a morning wood could help with that.

But with girth, unless someone is taking Viagra I don't really see a way there.
Then there's the whole point of "use it or lose it" - we're meant to use our penis and if one isn't having sex regulary it would be a good idea once in a while
 
GottaGetAGrip;725336 said:
I resort to audio erotica for my girth sessions when im having trouble. Still makes me use my imagination
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Interesting! Very intriguing. I am against adult entertainment in every way but I never considered this. What a great alternative to adult entertainment!
 
doublelongdaddy;725233 said:
Masturbation and adult entertainment are a easy place to go when we are not feeling good about ourselves. In this condition we are looking for anyway to avoid ourselves and the problems we face by short lived gratification. After we are caught in this trap we come to a sad realization that adult entertainment is not going to solve the problems, it will make them far worse. Eliminate adult entertainment and refrain from masturbation, you have already proven to yourself how good this is. I want to see you out there enjoying life, exercising, socializing and most importantly, happy. Make a new commitment, keep yourself accountable, avoid people, places and things that cause temptation, use the Brotherhood to help you realize your goals. The adult entertainment and Masturbation Accountability thread has been a huge help for me, maybe it will also help you. Here is a link: http://www.mattersofsize.com/forum/...sional-booth-keep-each-other-accountable.html
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The funny thing here is that some of the bros here id even include my self here,is that we all could work in adult entertainment because of our size....PE is not about getting bigger only,there are some other things we can learn from our PE experience..
 
doublelongdaddy;725388 said:
Interesting! Very intriguing. I am against adult entertainment in every way but I never considered this. What a great alternative to adult entertainment!
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Mind, imagination, i think about sex i fantasize that can be helpful...Besides women should be more interested in PE thats for their own good !!lol:cool: They can help us out to achieve the goal together;)
 
GottaGetAGrip;725336 said:
I resort to audio erotica for my girth sessions when im having trouble. Still makes me use my imagination
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any good links? (disclaimer...I tend to like huge penetration adult entertainment, so if there are any along those lines...narrated by a sexy woman, of course)
 
LONGERDICK7+;725426 said:
Mind, imagination, i think about sex i fantasize that can be helpful...Besides women should be more interested in PE thats for their own good !!lol:cool: They can help us out to achieve the goal together;)
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This is definitely a more respectful version of erotica and if done creatively it could be pretty innocent.
 
Believe it or not but I really think that adult entertainment is able to develop your emotional/sexual faculties. Doesn't have to be blamed at all times. It is not so important what you watch, the capability to interpret without too much judgement aswell as the right way to bring fantasies in what you see (some people think that while watching pictures there are no fantasies involved anymore) is very important.

Talking about depression: Some people have a strong tendency to the melancholic temper. Those people have to deal with depression more often than others. It is a bias in your personality. But please don't think that you know the root of your depression so easily. Sure, it is easy to believe the mind that it comes from size but I am pretty sure there is another reason (like DLD already explained). Your perception of the penis is superficial right now.

Anyway your sexuality evolves. It is not done once you had your first cumshot. Something changes in the brain afterwards. I am in my late 20s and I know that the peak of my sexual development is yet to come. So don't talk about getting laid at an early age. It is actually not that important.
 
Chaoskampf;725807 said:
Believe it or not but I really think that adult entertainment is able to develop your emotional/sexual faculties. Doesn't have to be blamed at all times. It is not so important what you watch, the capability to interpret without too much judgement aswell as the right way to bring fantasies in what you see (some people think that while watching pictures there are no fantasies involved anymore) is very important.

Talking about depression: Some people have a strong tendency to the melancholic temper. Those people have to deal with depression more often than others. It is a bias in your personality. But please don't think that you know the root of your depression so easily. Sure, it is easy to believe the mind that it comes from size but I am pretty sure there is another reason (like DLD already explained). Your perception of the penis is superficial right now.

Anyway your sexuality evolves. It is not done once you had your first cumshot. Something changes in the brain afterwards. I am in my late 20s and I know that the peak of my sexual development is yet to come. So don't talk about getting laid at an early age. It is actually not that important.
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Well thought out reply.
 
For me, the most profound realisation that came with PE was that once I enlarged my penis and gotten used to it I came to find that my penis was not my problem at all ( not that I intend to stop PE anytime soon ).
My problem was, of course, myself and all the pain and negative emotions / thoughts that piled up inside of me over the years. I “became” those thoughts. The thing with PE was that once I realised this, I also realised that the reason PE works is because it requires WILL and FAITH. The will to change your dick so strong that you can perform the exercises day in and day out, and the faith that it works. This made me realise that PE was also the only thing I ever did in my life with true will and faith, and so I started working on myself, my TRUE self in a way that I never thought possible. My “old world” vanished to be replaced with something I can’t quite formulate with words yet, but it’s got everything to do with LOVE. There is, I believe, a far greater reason why we all call each other Brothers here. For me, PE is not about PE at all :)
 
Getting a bigger penis is always a man's first priority here and in most cases they believe that is where the problems in their life lay. Unfortunately this is not how PE works. I gained 2" in length and still could not see the gain mentally because of deeper issues, things that had nothing to do with my penis. I have always said getting a bigger penis is easy, it is getting a bigger perspective on ourselves that is more difficult. As you gain size in PE, gain size in confidence and discipline. Every man must search himself for the reasons he is here and address the root problem.
 
doublelongdaddy;726015 said:
Getting a bigger penis is always a man's first priority here and in most cases they believe that is where the problems in their life lay. Unfortunately this is not how PE works. I gained 2" in length and still could not see the gain mentally because of deeper issues, things that had nothing to do with my penis. I have always said getting a bigger penis is easy, it is getting a bigger perspective on ourselves that is more difficult. As you gain size in PE, gain size in confidence and discipline. Every man must search himself for the reasons he is here and address the root problem.
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Why we ended up here? great question,I feel the same way, deep issues are the ones that keep me away from believing im not a short guy anymore,I still got to get bigger,But i feel ok whit my gains for now.:)
 
LONGERDICK7+;726038 said:
Why we ended up here? great question,I feel the same way, deep issues are the ones that keep me away from believing im not a short guy anymore,I still got to get bigger,But i feel ok whit my gains for now.:)
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Success!
 
I guess it is just me but I think that even a 12 inch cock is still small. The numbers are more in the mind but it is not really a thing that will satisfy me. I know I am bigger than other people but to me this thing is still small - I can easily control this thing with one hand and don't have anyone to compare with - even if I see people I will think everyone is bigger even though I know that they can't be. Big for me would be 16 inch or 20 inch. But I don't hear anybody talk about it. Of course because it is not realistic. Still I don't know if people realize that a 12 inch cock is not what they would choose in the first place. They say that after they realized what the maximum on a human body is nowadays.

Now, should I become depressed because I can't reach my size of 20 inch?

If you consider this I think it is fair for people with below average cock to know that hasn't necessarily to do with the size. It is like people who never had a million dollars can only phantasize about how it would feel. Many would find out that it is completely different as they expected. If they would have known that it is not such a big deal they could have avoided dreaming about such things and maybe wasting time.

I believe the entire western people built for hundreds of years on something to create wealth because they thought it makes them happy. They find out now that it doesn't.

Funny thing is that people with big cock or with a lot of money/success never talk about that it is actually not such a big deal and they have their sorrow as well. But somehow they want you to envy them or they want to protect themselves.
 
Chaoskampf;734042 said:
I guess it is just me but I think that even a 12 inch cock is still small.
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Huh?

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doublelongdaddy;734049 said:
Huh?

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Good one DLD ! ;) Need to borrow a shoehorn to go with that 12 incher?


Chaoskampf;734042 said:
I guess it is just me but I think that even a 12 inch cock is still small.
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All of us here want bigger tools but 12 inches is small? I have to believe your just trying to yank our chains. Or maybe you've got a real good buzz? Just saying.... But would you really want a 12 incher? No more balls deep sex slapping her ass for sure man... Chances are 99.5+ percent of women would just put their clothes back on and hit the door when you pulled out that monster. And sure, word would travel fast and a few size queens would be hitting on you for the sport or the novelty of the beast. But these aren't the kind of gals you'd want to take home to mama or have a meaningful relationship with for sure. Pretty soon, the rush would start to wear off and you'd begin to feel used and empty inside.
 
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my goal is a 9x6 ...and well tht size is not common after all..I dont know maybe im wrong but if you only knew how hard its to get to 10"....im not there yet lol but id take u years..

I kind of understand when you say that we have dreams goals and even fantasies about money,having things having a big penis lots of beautiful women, stuff we cant afford or we cant have.

Some people desrve those rewards some other dont ,they have it because they inherited or something..
 
Randolpho;734079 said:
Good one DLD ! ;) Need to borrow a shoehorn to go with that 12 incher?




All of us here want bigger tools but 12 inches is small? I have to believe your just trying to yank our chains. Or maybe you've got a real good buzz? Just saying.... But would you really want a 12 incher? No more balls deep sex slapping her ass for sure man... Chances are 99.5+ percent of women would just put their clothes back on and hit the door when you pulled out that monster. And sure, word would travel fast and a few size queens would be hitting on you for the sport or the novelty of the beast. But these aren't the kind of gals you'd want to take home to mama or have a meaningful relationship with for sure. Pretty soon, the rush would start to wear off and you'd begin to feel used and empty inside.
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First of all I don't get in touch with girls because of my behaviour and/or lifestyle. If I would want more than 12 inch then just for myself.

I am lifting weights and now there are people who take drugs to get bigger. This was a no go for me because I already had a good outlook on life and didn't want to jeopardize my health. However, when I was younger I would have liked to have muscles like the pros. At the age of 25 this interest was gone and nowadays I wouldn't want to look like this anymore.

But there was a lesson for me: There are people who do everything for their goal AND they have this muscle fetish and don't let anybody tell them that it is not normal. Later I realized that I actually did weightlifting for sexual reasons and when I became more versed in PE it replaced the weightlifting thing. I still lift but a big cock is more important than muscles nowadays. Also I would say I am more extreme in my aim than others. It is just like those bodybuilder who go extreme ways.

There is another thing I would like to compare this with: Women breast size. They range from A cup to J cup and bigger. What I find interesting is the size difference. The spread is just huge and there seem to be no limits. The body doesn't just stop the growth at some point like it happens with the penis. Because with the penis we can say at 12 inch it is over more or less. But even then, a 12 inch penis might have twice the volume as an average penis!? The spread is much smaller than with breasts. With breasts you have an A cup and a J cup and the volume ratio is something like 20 or something.

So maybe some can understand that from a naive perspective I don't see a reason why cocks shouldn't be bigger than 12 inches. Basically I want to alert everybody that there is no good reason why it should end at 12 inch. Where are the mutants? I haven't seen any when it comes to the penis.

Another argument for my claim is the following: When people don't know their cock size and believe they are average there will come a point for some to find out they are above 7 inch for instance. How was it possible that they perceived their penis as average? Because without comparison they would see their cock as average just like that.
 
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Hey, I once was shooting for 13.5" to beat the world record but when I truly took a clear view of this, holding a 13.5" object, made me realize that although possible, I did not want that. So size desires can change over time to become more realistic for our own personal situation. If you want 12" go for it! You will be the biggest we have ever had here.
 
doublelongdaddy;734207 said:
Hey, I once was shooting for 13.5" to beat the world record but when I truly took a clear view of this, holding a 13.5" object, made me realize that although possible, I did not want that. So size desires can change over time to become more realistic for our own personal situation. If you want 12" go for it! You will be the biggest we have ever had here.
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Wonder how long will it take to get to that size??
 
LONGERDICK7+;734283 said:
He doesnt know, he basically cracked that lollipop whit his beak,maybe the world will never know...........:P
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I do not think it would be possible for me to reach that length. It would take so much time and at that size it would most likely suffer greatly with eq. I am good with where I am, as a matter of fact I would like to be even smaller at 8x6...sounds weird I know but 8.5x6 is just ascetically perfect.
 
doublelongdaddy;734294 said:
I do not think it would be possible for me to reach that length. It would take so much time and at that size it would most likely suffer greatly with eq. I am good with where I am, as a matter of fact I would like to be even smaller at 8x6...sounds weird I know but 8.5x6 is just ascetically perfect.
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9x6..:) my goal
 
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