Would you share your girl?

To get back on topic, here's a parting pic of a party that we attended some time ago...

lol this is why I tried to kind of sum things up earlier because I knew this thread was headed down the road it took. Oh, well.

Nice looking company you keep, sir.

Hahaha that couldnt have been a better pic sikdogg! Yeah dadgummit keep on topic! I havent been posting because I am too retarded to understand all of the other points that were brought up.

yeah try to keep this on topic, all this other talk is confusing the hell outta me

That pic was taken at private club. Most of the people that attend this club are hot and know how to have a great time. Safe sex is always practiced and unlike what most people think, the women don't go home with dried cum all over their face and hair. You can fuck all night with any willing woman or you can just sit and watch everyone else, your choice. No one is ever coaxed or pushed into anything. And because most attendees are couples, all the guys treat every woman with the same respect that they expect their partner to be treated. Any guy that gets out of line is quickly dealt with and thrown out pronto.

Holy shit that pic is awesome. My Penimaster just got messed up!

damn I had no idea this world existed...it's the greatest thing I've never seen. lol sorry...

The best part is that guys wear out before the women do so when a few guys are resting, there are more women available. Threesome (MFM and FMF) are very common in the course of an evening.

Here's two more pics from the same club... the last one is from a house party last year.

ha..the top pic on the right looks like the guy is tippin one back...

Sikdogg do you find you outsize the guys at the swinger parties usually? I guess I would feel more comfortable swinging with a wife if I was rather large. Thos pics are amazing. Most pics I have seen of swinger type parties are not so great.

so you would be into swinging as you are rather large lol...I'd feel like a shrew amongst all those massive things...in another year I'll be there with the bigger boys.

Regarding dick size, I think that typically i'm on the larger side of the house. I've seen some pretty big ones though, i don't ask if they Penis Enlargement or not. Typically, the guys that are a little longer aren't thick at all and the ones with more thickness aren't very long. I would estimate the average size to be around 6"NBP and close to 5" around. One time, My wife was with this guy who looked pretty big but after she was with him, she came over to me and pulled me away from the two chicks i was with and asked me to fuck her right then, she said that she really disappointed with the last guy cuz he wasn't big enough to hit the right places. Another guy i recall (cuz he had a real hot fiancee), was only about 5'4" tall and about 120lbs but when the pants dropped, he looked as big as i was. It was hard to compare cuz i didn't want to stare at his dick but also cuz his small body frame may have made it look bigger.

Regarding attractive swingers... yes there are alot of hot swingers, prolly some living close to you. It just depends on the circle you hang with, the clubs/parties you frequent, and how attractive you are. We've been to places where there were nothing but skanky and shady looking people, they were mostly older and very overweight. We looked like rock stars compared to them, they all just stared almost like they were licking their chops. They were what most people typically think swingers to look like. Needless to say, we were outta there pretty quick. On the flip side, we've been to some parties where everyone looked like supermodels which can be intimidating. We felt like we were the ugly ducklings and almost felt a little out of place.

The people you see in the pics that i posted are all in their mid-30's. Some of these women have had alot of plastic surgury done, but i'm amazed how much they all workout. We also sometimes hang out with a younger group, mostly college age to late 20's people. They are real hot and wild but can be childish at times. The 30's crowd seems to have it together the most. They are usually very fit and financially stable so they can afford to go on weekend gettaways and vacations with you.

iwant8inches said:

so you would be into swinging as you are rather large lol...I'd feel like a shrew amongst all those massive things...in another year I'll be there with the bigger boys.

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Honestly, size is more ego than anything else. We put so much stress on ourselves about our size, more than what any woman ever does. There are ALOT of guys that are only average and they get alot of play. These women have seen all sorts of dicks from black to white to yellow to big to real small. As long as you have the skills to make up for size, they won't really care much. There are actually guys that are known for their oral skills or their massage skills and women will look them up for that. There are also women who like anal and usually prefer a guy to be average size.

Interesting...you seem to have accumulated a vast knowledge on sex and relationships...a spectrum...see kids...we can learn a lot even from cyber space...I think really generally when we think about people having great sex we automatically envision a woman moaning and groaning as a huge cock does its thing...I like to take things slow and make the woman feel they are the only thing that's been on my mind for a long time. I like and am real good at oral sex. I've made women cum without ever getting them undressed. It happened like this at work once...I gave a girl a massage in between customers (we were the onyl ones working in a small shop) and for about an hour and a half I worked her up to the point where I knew she was wanting to go further...but that was back when I was a small fry and plus I was in my mid teens. So I suppose I still have that lack of confidence in my sex game because I was small my whole life. I haven't even had intercourse with a woman in almost two years. Haven't been in a relationship in slightly less time than that. Sucks, but I had a lot of baggage I have been trying to drop the last year or so. But to the point I still have that idea that women really do want a big cock they can brag to their friends about as opposed to just talking about how good I am or whatever....I'm not ready for a serious relationship though either just in case you can tell or are wondering why I'm bringing up my caring of what other women think or hear about me...lol

If I can get back my confidence this summer and I've felt pretty good lately as far as talking to women like at work for instance then I'll be back in the swing of things and hopefully getting to know someone "better" and I'd like to get to know them though as well..I have had a bad history of one nighters...In fact I'm thinking karma does exist lol.

sikdogg said:

The people you see in the pics that i posted are all in their mid-30's. Some of these women have had alot of plastic surgury done, but i'm amazed how much they all workout.

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Hey man thats the SoCal way. Thanks for taking the time to tell us all these insights into the swinging world.

Sikdogg...I am extremely curious as to how you can go fvck your wife, knowing that 5-10 minutes earlier another guy was all up in that? I think that came across a little rude perhaps, but know that I am asking this in a sincere manner and nothing derogatory is meant by it. Do you even think about it, or are you just used to it? If you are used to it, did you think about it before, her being with someone else and then coming to you right afterwards?

I would have a hard time fvcking a girl, even months after her last intercourse "session". I guess its all in how you look at it.

Bro. it's not derogatory or rude to ask that at all... I have no problem fucking my wife right after she's been fucked by someone else just like i don't have a problem fucking the next girl after she just got fucked by another guy. It's not like she's full of someone else's cum... as i mentioned in an earlier post, we always wear a condom when having sex with others. Of course, there are some that don't wear condoms but unless they're willing to wear condoms when with us, we'll pass regardless of how hot they are. We don't have any hang-ups about anyone we've had sex with, sometimes it's really good other times it's not. It doesn't bother me at all if she has sex with guys that are bigger than me, if she enjoys the experience then great. She doesn't get bothered when i fuck a younger and hotter chic.

I think that an ex-bf would be worse, cuz with an ex she had a relationship with him. In our case, she just fucks him and leaves him for me regardless of how good or how big he was. If a guy/girl was real good at something, we teach each other what they did so we can learn from it and make sex between us better down the road. And regardless of how many times we fuck others at a club/party, we always talk and have sex when we get home... and it's always great sex.