Support from spouses

Jaytea · May 20, 2011

stillwantmore2;432785 said:
Exactly! Many people are deeply jealous when it comes to relationships and if your partner finds out you are doing Penis Enlargement whether you come to them and admit it or they discover it against your will...they may tend to think that you are "doing it for someone else".

Ya know I thought about that what you said about my wife possibly becoming jealous... but then again - I was also thinking, she should be happy as well since I'm making an improvement in my life that she will benefit from as well... but it is yet to be seen how my wife will react once I start using the Bathmate. For sure for the first few months I'm going to use the Bathmate when she is not home... I think once I start to get gains and she notices them then I will be more open with using it around her... maybe.

Crazy Doc · May 20, 2011

Jaytea;432789 said:
Ya know I thought about that what you said about my wife possibly becoming jealous... but then again - I was also thinking, she should be happy as well since I'm making an improvement in my life that she will benefit from as well... but it is yet to be seen how my wife will react once I start using the Bathmate. For sure for the first few months I'm going to use the Bathmate when she is not home... I think once I start to get gains and she notices them then I will be more open with using it around her... maybe.

That was very similar to my plan originally as well-I really wanted HER to bring it up and ask what was going on with my cock. She never did-later I found this was because she, like most of us thought that it could NOT be changed-that you were stuck with your penis as it was, so she thought she was just confused and never said anything. But it's easier if it's good and she's supportive when it's out in the open.

Jaytea · May 20, 2011

Crazy Doc;432792 said:
That was very similar to my plan originally as well-I really wanted HER to bring it up and ask what was going on with my cock. She never did-later I found this was because she, like most of us thought that it could NOT be changed-that you were stuck with your penis as it was, so she thought she was just confused and never said anything. But it's easier if it's good and she's supportive when it's out in the open.

So with what you said there, she was confused... how exactly she was confused? Don't mean to pry into your personal life but I'm interested in hearing more on that... I would think if she noticed any size difference she might question it a little bit?

Crazy Doc · May 20, 2011

Jaytea;432794 said:
So with what you said there, she was confused... how exactly she was confused? Don't mean to pry into your personal life but I'm interested in hearing more on that... I would think if she noticed any size difference she might question it a little bit?

Confused like she thought it was all in her head. Maybe she thought her pussy had shrunk, who knows. She said she just didn't say anything because she thought it wasn't possible to enlarge it. But that she had noticed it seemed bigger.

froggystyle · May 22, 2011

i think it all depends on your relationship. if you know it'll freak out your wife/gf, then don't tell her.
my wife is fine with it since she also benefits from it. we've had sex after Bathmate sessions and obviously without it. no preference either way. though she does say it is a mouthful after a session

another thing that might help, just explain why you are doing it. helps just to talk sometimes.

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